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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Being in shape is truly the key I'm a guy, and I hate to say it since it's pretty shallow, but it's true.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/02/25 07:28 PM
9	One of the main reasons why single men disdain single women They pretty much are for the most part, ig women don't really have this issue since they have more social connections, but men, including myself, have a ton of insecurities and resentment because of the way society looks at us. Imagine going out to a unisex gym or in public and feeling like you're the evil one since that's the message society sends you. It's why the bodycount thing matters a lot to a lot of different men, it's like you waited all your life for that special somebody, only to find…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/25 12:14 AM
1	Women's high standards are mostly talk I typically go for intellect too when dating, apparently the zodiac curse runs amongst all of the female population, retarded or not... also I don't really approach tbh, I either get approached or I use dating apps, im not the most confident apple on the tree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/24 03:19 PM
2	Women's high standards are mostly talk I noticed this too, when watching clips online I get depressed because I just don't meet any of those standards, then in real life they're pretty chill, until they start talking about zodiac signs, shopping or some other boring bs lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/24 03:01 PM
8	Do I still have potential? Well, your first question is very dependant on the man. My friend Damian for example, loves promiscuous girls, but there's a very common type of personality that's associated with promiscuity for both men and women. You can tell if a woman was promiscuous in the past if she's going out clubbing, has a bunch of male friends, drinks alcohol, etc. And yeah I personally would think I'm her "next best option" if she's been living it up and settled for me, and it would be an issue of worthiness. Hones…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/10/23 02:31 PM
10	Do I still have potential? I'm a man Men, including myself, typically don't go for promiscuous women because it just eats on every layer of insecurity for us in our partners in regards to: loyalty, self control, the feeling you found better in the past, etc. I can tell you right now that if you managed to be such a good partner to the point where I can look you in the eye and feel completely secured in your past in regards to those aspects, then mission accomplished. If you communicated this exact post to me where you put…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/10/23 05:09 AM
1	Discussion : Whats the bigger problem, obviously unattractive guys struggling or above average guys now struggling as much as below average guys? I get told by a lot of people that im attractive, but I just suck with women tbh lmfao. Can befriend any dude though	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 10:16 PM
1	Discussion : Whats the bigger problem, obviously unattractive guys struggling or above average guys now struggling as much as below average guys? <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 10:15 PM
3	Discussion : Whats the bigger problem, obviously unattractive guys struggling or above average guys now struggling as much as below average guys? I'm above average, and it's still tough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 11:37 AM
1	I’m overweight need to be skinny to be allowed to travel and get married. Dude here- please take it easy. I lost 60lbs Ina span of 2 years. What I will say is buying protein products, learning to be comfortable in a state of hunger (don't overdo it obviously), and also finding a cardio activity that's both fun and challenging will be all you need to see progress.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/08/23 05:21 AM
1	"You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse" My brother got an arranged marriage at bangladesh. Intelligent women in Eastern countries care more about finances Western women do, (with exception to the not so intelligent women in the Western countries lol) I just think the attraction just stems from Eastern girls being more loyal and kind towards you usually, but I personally relate more to girls in the US. I personally wouldn't be a passport bro but I can understand why people would do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 11:36 PM
5	How do men pay for sex if partners split the costs and/or have similar spending levels? Personal opinion- any man that makes you pay the majority in a relationship shouldn't be considered.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/23 06:21 PM
7	How do men pay for sex if partners split the costs and/or have similar spending levels? I did, but I also don't like being taken advantage of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/23 06:05 PM
7	How do men pay for sex if partners split the costs and/or have similar spending levels? I was dating a girl for awhile, she wanted to wait to have sex, alright cool, then I found out she also used to hookup like crazy. If I'm paying the majority for a relationship, can overlook your past, and then also spend time with you, then I'm also going to expect sex, otherwise im in a losing situation. Plain and simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/23 05:51 PM
3	what do men really think of female virgins? Shooting for the stars mate	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/23 10:40 AM
3	what do men really think of female virgins? There's a ton of things more important than sexual compatibility imo. I feel like I have a high drive, but I would rather have a partner I could intellectually connect with for life. People tend to lose their sex drives pretty fast anyway, so it's just not as important as other qualities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/23 10:38 AM
1	Men struggle because they treat women as equals I'm a high earner, and a wife that makes as much as I do, if not more, would make me happy since I'm doubling that high earning status. Idk I haven't had a single friend who thought this way about women with high earning jobs personally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/23 03:09 AM
2	what do men really think of female virgins? I'm responding in regards to the fetish comment. It's not a fetish for me, it's just attractive to know that my wife has the same values as I do and sees sex the same way. Btw I'm not expecting a virgin, I'm just expecting a wife who never had a hoe phase and has a sense of delayed gratification, other then that, if we connect well enough I believe that's enough to make a relationship work without sex being relied upon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/23 03:04 AM
1	Men struggle because they treat women as equals Ik I don't. Shit I'll like a girl even more if she's making more tbh, it shows she's passionate about her aspirations in life. But women tend to care WAY more about the other's finances because it ensures security.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/23 01:31 AM
3	Does body count really matter? FACTS	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/23 12:23 AM
9	what do men really think of female virgins? I'm waiting til marriage, you call it a fetish, I call it having traditional values.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/23 12:11 AM
2	Does the past matter? Talking about sexual history Based asf. I'm happy you told your husband and that he's comfortable with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/23 03:13 AM
5	Shaming men for being virgins or not getting women is cruel, mentally damaging and by far way worst than slut shaming is for women, in fact it severly affects women more than slut shaming does Exactly my point, women do not give a f about if your a virgin or not. They care about every other quality about you before they even think sexually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 07:58 PM
1	Shaming men for being virgins or not getting women is cruel, mentally damaging and by far way worst than slut shaming is for women, in fact it severly affects women more than slut shaming does I don't have a black belt? I said I do boxing, they don't use belts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 12:26 AM
1	Shaming men for being virgins or not getting women is cruel, mentally damaging and by far way worst than slut shaming is for women, in fact it severly affects women more than slut shaming does Just been grinding man. I have my current physique somewhere in the bald page on reddit to prove that part, otherwise you'll just have to take my word on the rest of it. As a 23 year old, I'm grateful for my dad for teaching me Real Estate, and my professors and coaches for giving me the tools I need in life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/23 11:56 AM
2	Shaming men for being virgins or not getting women is cruel, mentally damaging and by far way worst than slut shaming is for women, in fact it severly affects women more than slut shaming does He/she's reddit avatar had long hair and looked like a chick. I just kinda assumed, so it might be my b.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/23 11:26 AM
3	Shaming men for being virgins or not getting women is cruel, mentally damaging and by far way worst than slut shaming is for women, in fact it severly affects women more than slut shaming does Bullshit,(respectfully saying). Then how do marriages in Bangladesh work so well as compared to marriages here? My parents, my brother, and millions of Desi Asains all got into a relationship as virgins, and haven't had any problems in life yet. I'm surrounded by winners as far as I see it. Btw as a man who takes care of himself, I have a huge sex drive, if she does, cool, if she doesn't, cool. I'm not going to make sex the driving force as to why I stay with a woman or not because times will ch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/23 11:23 AM
1	Shaming men for being virgins or not getting women is cruel, mentally damaging and by far way worst than slut shaming is for women, in fact it severly affects women more than slut shaming does From the girls I dated, especially since im in America, it is DUMB RARE, but ik my wife is somewhere out there and only deserves the best. Til then ima keep grinding it out and avoiding this toxic society we built. Much love 💯	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/23 01:51 AM
9	Shaming men for being virgins or not getting women is cruel, mentally damaging and by far way worst than slut shaming is for women, in fact it severly affects women more than slut shaming does I mean the commenter isnt completely wrong in the sense that men whp has slept around tend to be more desirable then the average virgin, however im not the average virgin and i hope every other virgin who reads this can take this into their own lives. To answer your question, women avoid this subject because it doesn't matter to them. I can be everything a partner wants and desires, because I haven't wasted my time hooking up and doing drugs. The men who has hooked up can be wealthy, but probabl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/23 12:08 AM
26	Shaming men for being virgins or not getting women is cruel, mentally damaging and by far way worst than slut shaming is for women, in fact it severly affects women more than slut shaming does Ah you're one of those, im just redefining your definition of what a woman wants, because from my experience it is quite the opposite from your take😄. You seem to be spewing with wisdom though, can you please lmk what type of woman would match that energy for me? I would definitely prefer a partner who actually gives an intellectual argument rather than those 0 braincelled attempts at avoiding further discussion because communication seems to be something most people lack nowadays.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/23 11:25 PM
37	Shaming men for being virgins or not getting women is cruel, mentally damaging and by far way worst than slut shaming is for women, in fact it severly affects women more than slut shaming does I'm the guy who rejected many offers to hooking up, and I had one girlfriend who was waiting til marriage. I'm technically a virgin, (unless you count foreplay), and the traditional Asain household built that belief into my head. Ik I'm coming across as biased off of my own life, but I believe the man who can decline sex despite having offers to, while still managing to be: in great shape, have wealth, and being able to fight is considered a man worth pursuing. I just haven't found a partner who…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/23 10:37 PM
2	Most women's gendered expectations of men are toxic, and it helped to form the manosphere into what it is today. Sorry, but wealth is not an issue for men at all. We only really care about stupid shit like loyalty, respect, and less baggage. Women are way more realistic about their idea of love and tend to go for wealth, status, and protection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 08:48 PM
–	If expecting a woman to cook/clean because she’s a woman is misogyny, then wouldn’t expecting chivalry from a man because he’s the man be misandry? I actually don't care about if she cooks or cleans honestly, but don't expect a gentleman if you're not upholding your traditional role.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/23 10:17 PM
1	What are common ways to shame men and women for their preferences? I misunderstood the context of the original post, lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/23 06:32 PM
4	What are common ways to shame men and women for their preferences? It goes beyond STDS imo. Don't you think if a man or woman has a high count they don't value monogamy as much as someone with a lower count, they also probably go out clubbing and drinking. Also, I grew up with traditional values, why would I be a gentleman and put in any effort for a girl after a bunch of dates with 0 sex, if the girl would just bang a dude she barely knows the same night with the minimum amount of work? A girl with traditional values seems lost in this time and it's quite sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/23 06:29 PM
1	The way the manosphere express their preferences is far more problematic than the preferences themselves Listen, I believe what they say about single mothers is honestly considered dehumanizing, and they are worthy of respect for raising a kid. But women with high body counts? Nah fam, don't expect me to be a gentleman to a hoe if she's not keeping her traditional values.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/23 06:01 PM
1	Dating is just a waste of time and money these days. Not into feminists personally, and i dont want to stop approaching women for dates. I had plenty of chances to hookup but im saving myself for someone i can grow a connection with and take care of. Growing in a traditional asain household does that to you, and since i live in the US, where everyone just thinks about hooking up and taking advantage of the other person, its genuinely difficult to find a girl i can connect with while also giving the best first impressions i can give. Idk about you,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 03:04 AM
6	Dating is just a waste of time and money these days. Imagine a world where women actually split the bill with the man so the man doesnt end up getting taken advantage of 90% of first dates. Equality right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 05:28 AM
1	Which privileges aren’t women able to see? If Mary was instead named Mario, no one would even bat an eye at him and be less interested in helping him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 04:12 AM