isitatossup Archive

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1	When does porn become an issue? I see two issues being presented here. The first is that you are making his porn use about you. And it's not. It's really, really not. I can definitely understand how this hit you right in the ego, though, especially since he's looking at porn that features women who have characteristics you may be insecure about. But the fact that he's looking at women with big boobs is not about you having small ones (not even if you confront him and he tries to turn it around on you by saying it is). It is no…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/20 02:01 AM
3	Oops, I did it again Girl, sorry, but he's playing you like a fiddle. Classic push-pull. He's manipulating your hormones and your ego (does he not want me? why doesn't he want me?). The rollercoaster of emotions makes it exciting. That's why the other men aren't interesting -- they're not making you feel big surges of emotion (positive and negative, doesn't matter, it's big and interesting) or presenting mysteries for you to sleuth out (why is he doing this? what's his deal? what will happen next?). Player, player, …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/20 06:40 AM