islandParadize Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
637	I FINALLY did it! Created chemistry with a girl and set up a date. The Insights I learned:	Fundamentals	islandParadize	/r/seduction	08/08/21 05:07 PM
6	I did it! I overcame approach anxiety for the first time!		islandParadize	/r/seduction	20/06/21 11:28 PM
1	Daygame: Tried to do my 2nd approach. Failed. Feeling hopeless. Advice?		islandParadize	/r/seduction	27/06/21 08:47 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	The biggest problem here is... Finally some dating advice worth following	/r/seduction	03/06/24 02:11 AM
1	Experts what are your best tips and tricks I'm no expert, but: Stop endless mental masturbation and just go out there and approach. Take massive action but do baby-step it or you're gonna get overwhelmed. You will be doing this for years so don't try to solve everything in one week. Be fucking patient. The less you think, the better. Go out there with the intention of facing every single one of your fears. Forget about results. Just keep going. Eventually, slowly, the process corrects by itself. You don't need to overcomplicate it with f…	/r/seduction	16/05/24 04:08 PM
20	A woman that you built rapport with, is attracted to you, but messed it up will always give you a second chance Yeah, I don't think it's wise to spread this "she'll be back" hollywood crap. Girls have lots of option. You're just a drop in the ocean. They move on quick. They don't care.	/r/seduction	22/04/24 12:20 AM
109	A woman that you built rapport with, is attracted to you, but messed it up will always give you a second chance Not my experience. Most women, even those I had crazy rapport with, moved on pretty quickly even after little fuck ups.	/r/seduction	21/04/24 10:24 PM
3	I FINALLY did it! Created chemistry with a girl and set up a date. The Insights I learned: I'm not sure I fully understand the question, but with this girl, it went something like: I approached, looked at her while smiling, and said something like 'Hey, I like your haircut' and that's it. Depending on what she answers the conversation can go one way or another.	/r/seduction	08/08/21 09:47 PM
5	I FINALLY did it! Created chemistry with a girl and set up a date. The Insights I learned: LOL you're inflating my ego, thanks man!	/r/seduction	08/08/21 09:43 PM
1	I FINALLY did it! Created chemistry with a girl and set up a date. The Insights I learned: This. Exactly this. Very well put!	/r/seduction	08/08/21 09:42 PM
4	I FINALLY did it! Created chemistry with a girl and set up a date. The Insights I learned: That's exactly what I realized as well, this also applies to basically everything in life. Thanks to you for reading!	/r/seduction	08/08/21 09:40 PM
3	I FINALLY did it! Created chemistry with a girl and set up a date. The Insights I learned: Yeah, the moment you allow yourself to start 'thinking', it's over. Your mind is just concerned about keeping inside your comfort zone. Maybe just have one or two openers prepared but don't rely on anything else.	/r/seduction	08/08/21 07:40 PM
6	I FINALLY did it! Created chemistry with a girl and set up a date. The Insights I learned: Get out of your head. Get interested in her and let you be 'guided' by the moment. It's kind of hard to describe but I realized it's not a matter to 'think' about what to do, but just doing it. And the more you do it the more the process corrects itself.	/r/seduction	08/08/21 07:38 PM
21	I FINALLY did it! Created chemistry with a girl and set up a date. The Insights I learned: That's right. That phrase goes a lot deeper than I initially thought. Thanks!	/r/seduction	08/08/21 06:56 PM
13	I FINALLY did it! Created chemistry with a girl and set up a date. The Insights I learned: Exactly.	/r/seduction	08/08/21 06:48 PM
10	I FINALLY did it! Created chemistry with a girl and set up a date. The Insights I learned: I realized reading a bunch of stuff it's a dangerous trap since it keeps you believing you're making progress when you're actually not.	/r/seduction	08/08/21 06:47 PM
2	[deleted by user] Yeah I just moved on	/r/seduction	16/07/21 01:39 PM
1	[deleted by user] Alright, I'll just proceed to tell her how my Saturday will look and see how that goes. Not sure what she's going for but I'll find out I guess.	/r/seduction	16/07/21 03:43 AM
1	[deleted by user] Yeah, might be case. After that, I asked her "And what are your plans for Saturday" and she answered (she's responding quite immediately) "I'll be working. Then I've got a waxing session and then I'll go home". This is also confusing to me. Does this mean she's busy and saying no? Or does this mean she's saying she's free? I swear sometimes I feel women are a living puzzle to solve.	/r/seduction	16/07/21 03:17 AM
1	[deleted by user] Thanks. Haven't thought of that. Let's see how that goes.	/r/seduction	16/07/21 02:25 AM
1	[deleted by user] Outstanding feedback and information. Thanks a bunch, will apply!	/r/seduction	12/07/21 07:34 PM
1	[deleted by user] Will do as soon as I get more comfortable with approaching in general. I found cold showers get me used to embracing uncomfortable situations and tolerate more pain. And semen retention boosts your testosterone level and kind of makes you feel like a beast. You know, it fills you with energy and you feel like you can do anything. They aren't magic pills by any means. I still got pretty anxious but not nearly as much as when I just started this. (It was truly unbearable at first).	/r/seduction	11/07/21 10:10 PM
4	[deleted by user] The thing is, I don't want to have longer conversations yet, I just want to be able to approach, and the time is just an excuse to get used to the feeling. But after I feel confident enough doing that, I will jump to the next and I'll try using that line for sure. Thanx for the feedback!	/r/seduction	11/07/21 08:12 PM
1	Daygame: Tried to do my 2nd approach. Failed. Feeling hopeless. Advice? Thanks! yea I changed my plan and I'm actually going to start doing that. This weekend I'll just try asking for the time and build my way up from there.	/r/seduction	07/07/21 07:16 PM
1	Daygame: Tried to do my 2nd approach. Failed. Feeling hopeless. Advice? Can't go to any dance places or clubs because of covid restrictions, sadly. But I'll try to keep pushing with daygame. Thanks!	/r/seduction	28/06/21 10:37 PM
1	Daygame: Tried to do my 2nd approach. Failed. Feeling hopeless. Advice? Thanks, man. I'll try my best to embrace the fear and do it anyway. Let's see how that goes.	/r/seduction	28/06/21 10:36 PM
1	Daygame: Tried to do my 2nd approach. Failed. Feeling hopeless. Advice? Unfortunately, I can't go to any social events because of COVID restrictions. So I'll have to just stick to daygame for now. Thanks for the advice.	/r/seduction	28/06/21 10:34 PM
2	Daygame: Tried to do my 2nd approach. Failed. Feeling hopeless. Advice? Thanks a lot man. I won't give up.	/r/seduction	28/06/21 05:04 AM
2	I did it! I overcame approach anxiety for the first time! Exactly. Even though it might be a bit awkward, I feel that the right girl (and If you do it in the right way) would appreciate it since it's refreshing and it'll differentiate you from all the other guys she's met. Great, wish you luck! Let me know how that goes. I'll also try to do two more approaches this Sunday and hopefully write another field report :)	/r/seduction	26/06/21 02:38 PM
2	I did it! I overcame approach anxiety for the first time! Thanx! It was more or less like this: She was walking around the park, so I walked towards her in a way in which we would eventually cross (and I would end up approaching her from the front, not from behind). I really didn't want to stop her but I realized there was no other way (I realized it's incredibly hard to find a girl alone that's not moving). BUT luckily for me, she stopped and took out her phone, looks like she was arranging to meet someone else. I realized that was my chance. (My goal…	/r/seduction	21/06/21 05:58 PM
1	I did it! I overcame approach anxiety for the first time! I will! Thanks a bunch!	/r/seduction	21/06/21 03:30 AM