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Yes, make sure to not do something you don't want to do. Your boundaries are sacred, you should be the one to respect them first so that you'd be better able to defend them. If he actually says yes and you don't want to do it, then say that he'd better find someone who wants to do that to him 'cause that won't be you. Then same step next: leave, block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:30 PM
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If a man ever suggests a weird sexual act to you, make him try it first. If he wants anal, ask if he'd be willing to be pegged. If he wants nipple clamps, say that he'd have to have them on first. If he refuses, then you know what that means. And then you leave, block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:38 PM
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Giiirl, did you meet the guy I used to know? We didn't meet through gaming but everything about this: gamer, uses Discord, likes to give pet names, very pushy with boundaries, agrees with everything then will say something different the next, doesn't like talking about deep stuff, changed after some time, connection gradually trickled until I cut it off. It's also thanks to FDS that I saw the signs and I got the courage to end it. But on another note, I'm sorry you had to experience this. You'll…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 04:52 PM
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Now that you've mentioned fake revenge porn, something clicked in my mind. Because of fake porn nowadays, we ladies should make sure that we have copies of all the pictures ever taken of us—whether by yourself, family, friends and your partner—to keep as evidence in case they become photoshopped. Yes, it's not much against deep fake porn, but can still be used against fake nudes. If your man takes pics of you, make sure that he sends it to you too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:47 AM
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Trickle down dickonomics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:12 AM
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Good for you, good for you. Phew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:35 AM
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And we're here for it! 🙌🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:26 AM
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Oh my god, I live for this! 😯 I can't wait. My god, FDS did that ETA: Oh, it's already out, shocks. I need to listen ASAP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:25 AM
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Gay and Disgusting, they say
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:23 AM
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What the fuck? You've known someone who does that? Holy shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:22 AM
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This poetry 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:22 AM
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Of course he hates you, no one who loves you will do something like that. He ain't normal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:42 AM
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I'm glad mine is dead too. I mourned for a bit, but it's a relief she's not me anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:16 AM
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This post just breaks my heart. This softened language excusing your husband because you don't want to talk bad about your man and deep down you also don't want to see entirely what's wrong because if you admit it to yourself you would have to break the spell and take action. Damn, that shit hurts, especially when it's finally over and you finally see things for what they were.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:05 AM
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#EatAllMen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:56 PM
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Pleaseeee 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:31 PM
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Lol we're all like that 😅 I envy people with quick wit and sassy vocabulary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:19 PM
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Should've turned and stared at the hygienist and asked, "Like what"? Make her say it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:14 PM
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I don't trust people who use loaded words against other people they don't agree with to influence how other people see those people. (Phew, that's a lot of people.) They specifically use those words to label people because they know those words have shock-value and negative connotations attached to them, and people will believe it if they don't bother to see the proof because people don't want to side with bad people. But I can think for myself, I'll assess if those people are really the way you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:11 PM
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Yeah, I used to follow her because of the 3-months kissing rule because I thought that's extreme and hilarious but brilliant. She does have some good takes, but then she and an FDS-aligned comedian Li Lin had some back and forth argument about 50/50 in relationships and she attacked Li Lin personally instead of just sticking to the argument. I disagreed with her stance and approach and I started to see more and more pickmeism in her advice. She's also a former stripper and encourages other women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:46 PM
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Lol I'm happy that you found my comment amusing 😁🤗 Good that you dumped him; that's just how people get when they're insecure, they can be the closest person to you but they'd still want to pull you down to their level to not bruise their ego. If they're good for you, they would've met you at your level, and you would've both been better off because there's nothing to lose and everything to gain when going up. They didn't, that's on them 🤷‍♀️ You don't have to come down; you're better off withou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:46 PM
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I don't think lowly of physically demanding jobs; I know they require strength, endurance, and skill, and these jobs are highly needed in society. You're intelligent and you chose a physically demanding job, good for you. Heck, I wouldn't even think badly of someone who isn't intellectually inclined and works in physical labour, it's an honest field and they still have their own skills and their own contribution to society and we all do what we can to survive. But that's different from someone w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:17 PM
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No one told him to get a physical job. If he had the brain, he could be working at a high-pay desk job too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:29 PM
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I love saying "Ew" too. It's short and sweet but to the point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:00 AM
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The laugh I let out when I read, "Now I'M the bad guy!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:29 AM
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You should have said, "What the fuck does my pain have to do with men?!" They really like relating everything to themselves, even stuff not having anything to do with gender whatsoever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:29 AM
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The face I made reading #2 and #3. That is sick af. I felt like I was watching porn, ew, and by that I mean disgusted and horrified
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:25 AM
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I hate how a lot of viral songs on tiktok are sexual songs. Like the content would be wholesome but then the sound is sexual just so they can be more discoverable and rack up more views? It's so fucking weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 12:47 AM
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This infuriated me more than the original post. Your cousin needed 3 offenses to leave that man? Once should have been enough. The first time he was already a danger to her sister. Choosing the one you "love" over the safety of your sister? Nah, sis. And why would she take back a man who's depraved enough to crawl on all fours to peep on someone? That's a whole another level of animal. I would've lost all respect just for that action. But good that she divorced him at the end, even though it too…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 12:38 AM
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Oh, so she broke up with her cheating boyfriend but stopped talking to you too? I'm sorry about that. Friendship breakups sometimes feel more painful than relationship breakups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:37 PM
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I don't think that reclaiming a term, such as bitch, is the way to go. I think how a word loses its power is applying it onto the other or everyone. So I don't use bitches on women as curse word, but I surely have no problem calling men bitches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:11 PM
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Yes, absolutely. I used to listen to a lot of love songs, in different genres. Now, I mostly listen to songs by female artists with feminist lyrics, kinda like the FDS playlist. And I made all-female playlists separate from my main playlists by music genre. I don't listen to my playlists with male artists on them much anymore, and I deleted some of the songs that are too vulgar and misogynistic. I also blocked some male artists that were reported to abuse women, like Chris Brown, even though I r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:06 PM
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People who cry about generalizations definitely don't know what generalization means and how it works. They most likely haven't studied or done scientific research. Just because it's generalized doesn't mean it applies to all, just generally. If it doesn't apply to you, why take it personally? You can just ignore and appreciate learning a new thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:15 AM
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Oh, I used to watch it when I was a kid, but wow, I don't remember it now. I'll have to watch it again, thanks x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:55 AM
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Men like that don't have morals. Men who don't have morals can't be HV. Did you tell her after all?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:53 AM
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Wow, I'm sorry for that. That man is not your friend. These men cheat and hide their friends' cheating but then they bitch when women cheat on them. The hypocrisy 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:52 AM
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What cartoon is this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:39 AM
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Ugh men in suits 😍😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:01 PM
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Go for it 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:09 PM
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Maybe go to a female tattoo artist if there is one in your area. Assess their portfolio first though if their style is up to your liking. I reckon finding a good tattoo artist that makes the style you like and you vibe with is hard, so good luck! ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:01 PM
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I think you can't view comments if you don't have the app. The comments were mostly from men praising the old man, saying he's a legend, that he passes the vibe check, that this is bro code, and that this is what men do for men. Tiktok's algorithm is personalized to what videos you watch, so if you watch sexual videos, you get recommended sexual videos. If you watch dances, you get recommended dances. I watch commentaries and comedies and I skip the bullshit videos, so those are what I see most …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:43 PM
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The comments from men under this video were all like: • Jim (the old man) valid 🏆 • Protect Jim at all costs • Jim passes the vibe check • He a real one • The Bro Code knows no age • This is exactly what guys would do for each other And the women and men finding an issue with it were shut down. They truly tell on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:39 PM
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Wow, big-time hypocrite that man. Why should a woman only get to have a blank canvas while they can paint their whole body with ink? I'm sure your tattoos are gorgeous, love. I'd love me some of those too in the near future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:21 PM
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Did the Tiktok video of the fat guy dissing fat women implying he wouldn't date them got posted here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:33 PM
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I didn't like The Office. I wanted to watch it for a very long time because of the memes but when I finally did, it was just meh to me. I don't see the obsession with Jim. Even before FDS, I saw him as a bully and a nice guy. He's like an adult stuck in high school. And I didn't like Pam's character either. Something about her, like dumb fox. So let's just say I didn't finish the show, I only watched some of S2 because people said it gets better from S1 and I hated S1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:50 AM
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Data is beautiful. Data tells facts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:22 AM
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Ouch, sister! I hope your clit is okay now. I can't imagine that pain, and I don't want to experience that pain, no thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:15 PM
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Back when I still thought of having children, this was the one thing that saved me from having relationships with men that weren't right for me. I would think to myself, "Is this the man I want to be the father of my children?" If the answer is no, I cut it off. I remember telling myself that it doesn't matter if it hurts me to cut things off, just as long as my future children won't suffer for having these men be their father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:31 PM
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Lol as if it doesn't hurt when we hit our nether regions on places such as table edges sometimes. That fucking hurts 'cause it's pubic bone, I hate when that happens 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:17 PM
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I've seen this scene before but I watched it now again; watching that hurts ew 😣 And I didn't know this was where "Pick me, choose me, love me" came from. But idk if this is where the term Pickme came from too though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:55 PM
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More and more evidence that Japan is a highly misogynistic country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 07:44 PM
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Since seeing the Pickme term in the wild, I've always wondered: did the Pickme term originate from FDS or a term made up by American women before FDS? EDIT: After looking it up, I could see that the term pickme was already in use before FDS. FDS started in 2019 (afaik) and I saw a 2018 article about the term and it being mentioned in 💄Alley in 2017. 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:59 PM
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Porn addict
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:44 PM
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Ooh I'm glad for Australia doing this. I think I've read a Scandinavian country (someone commented it's Sweden) does this too even before. When it comes to rape cases, instead of having the woman prove she was raped, they ask the man how they got consent to have sex. I hope more and more countries implement this because the innocent until proven guilty way is not effective with sexual assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:01 PM
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I'll second cutting contact with him when you finally move out. Having an LVM— and an antifeminist at that—for a father is hell for daughters.You grow up not having a healthy male model to compare dating prospects with so you end up falling for shit men, you're not equipped with tips on how to best protect yourself from men who'd want to take advantage of you, and you're robbed of the support that you need to advance in life. I'm guessing that if you're considering cutting contact, this is not t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:06 PM
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Yes, an HVM will tell you that the relationship is not working for them or they're not interested. They'll tell you the reason in an honest and respectful way. And even after the breakup, they still would treat you with respect and kindness and be civil with you. An HVM will never do shit tests.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:57 PM
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I'm willing to bet that most guys who want to be called Daddy have daddy issues. They're resentful of the fathers who abused them, ignored them, left them. So they either internalize this and decide they want to be better than their father, but then they try to accomplish this with a Daddy/sub dynamic to get that feeling; or they either absorb their father's abusive behavior and become sadists but now they're the Daddy who gets to indulge in the power imbalance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:52 PM
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Ooh, we should have this. Like an archive of FDS-approved movies and shows? And we can add to it after asking for approval? I'd support that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:55 PM
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And even if they look exactly like you, if you're drop-dead model gorgeous, why does he have to look at other women when he already has you? So really, it's not about you as the woman, it's about him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:10 PM
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Oops, good catch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:46 PM
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Yes, we should have a day for this! I know so many accounts of women on Tiktok that do this kind of content and I live for them. Doing this would expose more women to red flags to watch out for on OLD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:45 PM
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Men are a burden, and now it's even backed by science
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:25 AM
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His name is Jerry. Immediate red flag 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:39 AM
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This is sad, wow..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:18 AM
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Ooh I love this thread! I'd love to share and hope to see other ladies with the same type. • 5'10 - 6 ft tall. Just tall enough to be considered tall (at least in my country), but not too tall that he towers over me. • Manly, strong build with good posture. You know when they're tall and wide but fit? And they get even better-looking when they go to the gym? That 😍 I don't like lanky, fat, or bulky; so this is really a specific body type. • Fair-skinned. Doesn't mean white men. Ranging from tan …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:10 PM
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LMAO this reads like a 12-year old child 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:56 PM
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Yep! No man who ever loves you would ever call you a bitch, never to your face and never when you're not around. If a man calls other women bitches, he likely will call you a bitch to other people and to your face. If bitch is in his vocabulary? Red flag 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:30 PM
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Divorce him, that's what you should do. I don't get women being so blinded by love for the man they're with they're willing to tolerate horrible treatment and physical pain just for the man's sexual satisfaction. You think hurting the woman you love is normal? You think liking being hurt is normal? If he's willing to hurt you, he doesn't love you, he loves himself! Thank fucking God for FDS I'm not fucking blind anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:27 PM
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I've thought about it but it's just so hard to say, doesn't roll off the tongue smoothly like girls, women, sis; you know? Plus it's just a version of girls, not really another word. This is frustrating me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:20 PM
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It's never too late. We need more women in psychology, law, crime and politics. I wish to join you both too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:01 PM
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People who use the term ephebophile are sick. It's still pedophilia, just a category of it for a specific age range!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:26 PM
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Wow, that post upset me. I'm sickened that there are people who are trying to normalize pedophilic behavior (you can't even say someone is a pedophile on that sub??) and minor-adult age-gap relationships. And there's even a sub for it?! Some people are truly sick. And they justify it as 100 years ago interracial couples and gay couples were illegal. Well, in those cases, there's nothing wrong with those, weirdos! Child marriages were permissible long ago, and even today in some places, and that'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:23 PM
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I would never swallow. If a man hasn't ever tasted his cum to know what his cum tastes like, why would he expect me to swallow globfuls of it? Some men don't even like kissing women after blowjobs, weirdos. If he's cumming, he can cum on himself, not on me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:59 PM
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Hahaha I love it and at the same time hurts seeing other women live your dreams 😂 I just want a man who'll give me multiple orgasms without him asking for anything in return, is that too much to ask? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:53 PM
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He should be an ex-boyfriend. If he doesn't care enough to give you pleasure, does he truly love you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:48 PM
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I haven't watched the movie but it's on my list. Lol, I would love to be able to just stop sex after I orgasm, leaving the guy hanging 'cause that's what men do to women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:32 PM
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Yeah, it's so disgusting. And now something just clicked in my brain: porn ladies being forced to moan and giggle and pander to guys in porn gives an insight into how men really want women to act towards them. That's what they like? Men are fucking weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:28 PM
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Men not picking up on body language during sex is because they're just there for the sex and not for the woman. When you care for someone, you notice everything about them and you want to make them feel good. With most men's already low emotional intelligence, porn makes them even more unskilled in bed because they're imitating things that aren't real. They shouldn't have been mad at you, you should have been mad at them for not being able to make you orgasm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:21 PM
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Ladies, if he can't make you cum on your first time, don't even bother. He won't be able to make you cum for a very long time after that. If he's had sex before and can't make you cum, that shows that he didn't care for the pleasure of those women to learn skills that would pleasure you. He should be learning from experience and resources, not from porn where the ladies fake orgasm from absolutely nothing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:00 PM
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I don't know how men can watch porn and see the lady moaning and giggling and think it's real. Back when I still watch porn, I would look at the lady in porn and it would disgust me 'cause I know she's not really enjoying it, she's just moaning for the audience. Like I would literally turn it off if the lady is making too much noise every 2 seconds and giggling and smiling at the camera when the sex doesn't even look that good 'cause I know it's fake af and it's annoying. And men believe that's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 06:49 PM
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Nooope, you're not wrong. I looked when I saw your comment and I'd have to agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:54 PM
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Ugh I almost vomit 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:47 PM
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I thought this too. I had an antifeminist phase being indoctrinated by alt-right youtube because I hate how the issues liberal feminists raise are so miniscule I actually thought feminism is not needed anymore. I called myself egalitarian because liberal feminism didn't make any sense to me. Turns out, I'm very much a feminist—always has been—just not the liberal kind. I love discovering radical feminism; here we do have something to fight for and be proud of, like the feminists and suffragettes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:06 PM
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This is the reason women like tall men. If we didn't opt for tall men, we'd all be short people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 10:00 AM
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Oh my, I was meaning to post him on here, I didn't think somebody else will. Such a beautiful Asian man ♥️ /#SaveMyanmar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:35 AM
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This made me crack up. WHY ARE WE LIKE THIIIIIIISSSSSS????!!!! The yt comments too, oh my god 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:06 PM
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Yes, Taecyeon is fine fine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:00 PM
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Yes, I love HTGWM. It feels very POC-inclusive, feminist and LGBT-friendly and they do it in such a way that it's normal (that it feels like another world) that you don't see much from other shows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:55 PM
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I'm not entertaining online dating and long-distance relationships anymore. I'll only date people I know in real life that I've known for a long time. Not foolproof, but increases your chances of actually having a good relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:39 PM
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I grew up Catholic, too, in a Catholic, conservative country. I hate all the fearmongering, the obvious patriarchal ruling, the villainization and subjugation of women, the purity culture, the blatant homophobia, the hate against other religions and denominations in the Christian community, and many more. The lack of almighty women in Christianity drove me to be interested in Greek Mythology when I was younger because at least they have powerful Goddesses that I can admire, and they have human-l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:34 PM
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There's nothing I hate more than Christian alt-right women who are also antifeminists. How can you be that brainwashed that you even actively participate in your own subjugation and come at women who are trying to fight for your own rights? How can a person be so hateful and stupid that they're racist, homophobic, sexist, bigoted all at the same time? They're so backwards. And I'm not even an alt-left and libfem as they like to label women who criticize them, so that means that there's really so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:10 PM
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Oh my, I didn't even think about that. They're sex workers but they're slut-shaming other women. Like what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:44 PM
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The police are a very dangerous gang I've never seen it put like that. Just like gangs, but government-backed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:23 PM
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Someone should invent this to make the scrotes mad. Youthful beautiful guys, diverse looks, rock hard abs, with customizable dick lengths. Easy cleanup by just detaching the dick and washing it. See how they like that when some women start preferring those over dating men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:14 AM
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That disturbed me too. Sex dolls is barbie dolls for men. Sounds kinda sus to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:10 AM
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I'm already 100% childfree, sister. I've always wanted to have children growing up, but over time, I've realized childfree is a better option for me. I personally have physical illnesses and mental trauma I don't want to pass down to my kids. I want to marry at 30 years old minimum. And what if my marriage ends in a divorce? I don't want my kids to end up in a broken family. If I have children, I'll have to give up on my career. I love children, but I love my freedom too damn much. Pregnancy and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:04 AM
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It's so scary for women to birth children in this world nowadays, what with pornography advocating for violence, rape, incest and pedophilia. If you have a son, he may turn into a degenerate. If you have a daughter, she's in danger because of these degenerates. We can't win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:24 AM
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Yes. They want to do the bare minimum of hygiene because not caring is manly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:39 AM
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Women should really start asking men to wash their dicks before oral or sex. Why would you want to stick a dirty, pee-shit-sweat-covered dick in your mouth or vagina?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:34 AM
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I won't date a man with beard. Men rarely grow beards where I live, so knowing men intentionally grow beards in other countries is bizarre to me. It screams of poor hygiene. Why would a woman wanna kiss a man with beard or mustache? And now knowing that they grow beards to hide their weak jaws solidifies my position.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:31 AM
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Lol, I used to think I might be demisexual/demiromantic. But then, I thought to myself, "Isn't that just the standard in my country"? I pity people in the West—they had to create another sexuality that doesn't exist to validate their standards because sex before a relationship is expected there when really they're just normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:23 AM
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I don't understand dating in the West. Here in my country, men court women they want to be in a relationship with. Men pay for dates in the courting stage, unless the woman insists on splitting or alternately paying bills. Courting can even last for years and years, and the man doesn't complain if he really wants the woman as his girlfriend and future wife. Men usually go to the woman's parents to ask for permission to court her. And at courting stage, men don't expect sex because they're not in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:39 AM
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Good idea. Take care always. Have self-defense weapons with you! ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:54 AM
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From now on, when someone mentions another person without mentioning the person's gender, I'm just going to imagine a blank, ghost-like silhouette. And I'm conditioning myself to think of a woman first before a man in everything. And I'm using she/her pronouns unless stated otherwise. And I'm agnostic, but God is a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:52 AM
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Hot take but I think they're not mutually exclusive. As much as I am a radical feminist as most of the ladies on this sub, I think that liberal feminists are also doing good for feminism by fighting for sexual liberation and dismantling purity culture. I don't think that we as women should shame other women for being "sexually promiscuous". There are women who just love sex, who don't get attached through sex, who orgasm easily so hookups are mutually beneficial for them, who are confident in be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:04 PM
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Videos like this, men passing by when they can see what's happening, and men's comments on this Tiktok defending this guy peak me about men's depravity more and more everyday. I'm proud of these women for confronting him. We should do more of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:26 PM
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Just a question: Has there ever been a phenomenon of men on MGTOW, TRP, MRA,PUA, etc. being banned from commenting on other subs just for being part of the manosphere, or is it just FDS users getting banned from other subs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:16 PM
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Thank you for bringing this up, you're doing good work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:06 AM
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🤮🤮🤮 Why'd you have to add that? Ick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:28 AM
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"Nope in the same way that looking at awesome food on the internet does not ruin the meals that I make." "Oh I feel dumb now. Thanks for point that out. I guess it's ok" Are you a meal, Ma'am?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:05 PM
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Oh, I know that, yeah. Don't worry. That's just my preference based on self-knowledge. I'm a validating conflict style so I'd like another person with a validating conflict style, yes. But if I were to pick between volatile and conflict-avoidant, I'd choose volatile. I'm not afraid of conflict, and I quite like to argue so I'd rather someone who airs their complaints truthfully and tries to make up immediately after, than someone who runs away from conflict and nothing gets solved and resentment…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:26 PM
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I don't argue with stupid. Someone should have just asked her what she thinks oppression means, I don't think she knows based on her answers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:35 PM
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I do. After reading up on attachment and conflict styles, and knowing what I am and what doesn't work for me, I now include secure attachment and validating conflict style in my vetting standards. I'll give leeway for anxious attachment and volatile conflict style. But if I smell avoidant attachment and avoidant conflict style, I'm out the door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:24 PM
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You shouldn't pander to anyone. You should treat people the way they treat you. If they're kind to you, be kind back. If they're toxic, block and delete them from your life. If they're petty, don't let them step on you, give the same energy back. I don't see all men as bad, and I don't see all women as good. I know that there are good men out there. Might not be a lot of good men, but they're there. And there are bad women out there. I know more good women than good men, but bad women do exist. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:52 AM
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I'm a woman that doesn't care about the tradition of giving a ring for an engagement, it makes no sense to me. BUT I'm sentimental and a minimalist and I love quality in things, and I wouldn't want to be wearing fake jewelry. No jewelry on is better than fake jewelry on. And he doesn't want to admit that it's fake or real, so it means he knows that real jewelry is important. So yes, she should be mad. And he got his first wife a real engagement ring but not her? Says to me that he's like, "This …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:39 AM
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Everything is relative.... No, everything you said was stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:37 AM
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It doesn't even make sense. She's not in a desert, and you can't drink fake emerald either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:37 AM
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This should be law everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:57 AM
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Ooooh I didn't know that. That's so good. Instead of having an average man's sperm, you get to have sperm of the best men out there and you don't even have to date them. Sweet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:32 AM
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Proud of women in Tel Aviv
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:27 AM
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Terrible statistics that single parent households are a part of? Why do you think single parent households are a thing anyways? Whose fault is that most of the time statistically? The thing is fathers are not needed, unless the mother is the deadbeat. Women cook, clean, care for kids and go to work nowadays. What do men offer? Men don't want to pay, don't want to take care of children, don't want to clean and cook, don't want to give women orgasms, don't want to take care of themselves and make …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:20 AM
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We should start doing this as women. Refer to women as women, girls as girls, but males of all ages as boys. See how they like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:15 AM
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Yup, that's what men who love their women say. This man doesn't love his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:07 AM
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Yep, if she takes care of the kids, cleans the house, cooks food, AND also works, what will he be for? He never cleaned, never cooked, never took care of the kids (notice how he distances himself from the children), and all he does is bring home a paycheck, then what else is he good for? The nanny and maid are gone. She does everything with the house and kids now. While he works and brings money to make this possible. That's the equality of their work. If he wants her to work, he should start pu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:06 AM
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Maybe but normal, but can't doubt it's optimal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:28 PM
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Ahh really? I didn't read it, just skimmed it and the keywords are there so I thought it got it right enough. I'll read it and see, then I'll edit it for a more truthful article. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:18 AM
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"Correctile dysfunction" 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:05 PM
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It's acronym for "The Red Pill". They have a subreddit--you can look them up--although they're quarantined. I don't know how to explain it all but here's an article.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:45 PM
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He's on TRP, most probably. Everytime I read about a man being stingy down to the last coin, I just know he's on TRP. This is one of their tactics: never spend money on a woman. Always 50/50. Get out of there fast. No one deserves to be in a relationship with a selfish person. ETA: For people who are not familiar with TRP, it's the acronym for The Red Pill. You can look up articles, and there's a subreddit but it's now quarantined.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:00 AM
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She doesn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:51 AM
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I don't like Roma. I already knew about her (came to know her from a tiktok posted on here) but then she popped up on my FYP and I was so disgusted. I blocked her after that. I don't put down women for their appearance, but paired with her attitude... I don't want to see her ugly neck tattoo, see her poor fashion choices, hear her shouty voice, and hear her misogynistic opinions. I get that she's fighting for men's rights, but does she really have to be hateful towards women to achieve that? Too…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:48 AM
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First thing I'm going to tell you is that your feelings are valid; if you're afraid, then it's okay to be afraid. But second thing I'm going to tell you is that you shouldn't be afraid. If we're going to be afraid of men getting violent after we reject them, they're going to take that as a sign that if a women rejects them, they can resort to violence. Train yourself to not let men see that you're afraid, train yourself to not be afraid. Feel free to ice them out, 'cause if a man ever tries anyt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:08 AM
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Yeah, don't believe a guy who says flowery and politically correct things, especially when they seem in line with FDS. Trust your intuition and take note of first impressions, don't be fooled by the bare minimum, set your standards and don't waver, that's something they wouldn't know unless you tell them. Consistent actions is key, if he trips, you leave. Men lurk here to learn about what women want, either for good or bad purposes. You know they do; women do it too by lurking at PUA, TRP, etc.,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:31 AM
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These are the men driving the porn industry. These types of men are warping men's minds by associating violence with sexual pleasure, and encourages men to objectify, hate and incite violence towards women. They're destroying men's bodies so as to get them addicted and make them unproductive and incapable of love and intimacy. Enlightened men don't support the porn industry because they know it's damaging towards men, and good men don't watch porn because they've seen how it's violent and degrad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:51 AM
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One word: Homosociality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:18 AM
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Thank you for the lesson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:17 AM
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Yes. Kind people don't say they're kind, they just are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:03 AM
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Lol the annoying vegans, not the normal ones
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:01 AM
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I think for your age, 5 years up and 2 years down is fine. I don't go past 5 years, too much of a generation gap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:53 PM
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Lol this is to the point that it's hurtful. But Cameron Geller (the owner of the sound) is a real good Tiktok creator. He roasts pick-me boys, pick-me girls, Chads, vegans, etc in his videos. He's real funny, check him out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:15 AM
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Your daughter is a clever lady.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:15 AM
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It's okay, you're not the only one who got interested in BDSM because of past trauma. I was the same. That's how I got to this conclusion; after engaging in BDSM and learning that it's just because of my childhood trauma and I was just using BDSM--specifically D/s--as a coping mechanism. (I wasn't into S/M though, but I understand that people who are into masochism are just engaging in self-harm and self-destruction, and I empathize with that.) Once I realized this, I woke up and as I did, my re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:46 AM
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"Keepmes" I love it! 🤣 I've always rolled my eyes at the pickme comeback: "I've already been picked 😊" Like okay, sis? That's literally it; you're a pickme 'cause you wanted to be picked and be kept by a man, so you threw your fellow women under the bus. But do something a lil spicy: test the waters, assert independence and autonomy, and suddenly he's angry 'cause you don't listen to and obey him anymore and he starts devaluing and punishing you. Keep it up a lil bit, and then he cheats on you a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:39 AM
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You gotta walk with purpose. If a car is coming at you while you're walking on the road, show them your open palm to get them to stop. If the car doesn't show signs of stopping, look at the driver behind the windshield. If a car almost hits you, wave them the middle finger, don't be scared to bang on the hood. Sometimes, I take note of the plate number to report to the authorities. If you're on the pedestrian lane, you can sue them if they hit you and have them pay for hospitalization. Be a bitc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:50 AM
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More people should know this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:34 AM
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Men who talk about misandry are weak and ignorant men. Weak because by nature, men are prideful beings; a man would feel insulted and emasculated if anyone, or himself, ever points out that women could ever have power over them, so only a weak man with victim mentality would ever believe it. Ignorant because they clearly don't know anything about misogyny—or don't want to acknowledge it to even learn about it—to ever dare compare it to misandry. Never debate men about misandry. If a man ever tal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:30 AM
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Aww Fleeksie 🥰♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:38 AM
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They're toxic to everyone who gets close to them. They can only handle surface relationships. I was anxious-preoccupied attachment and I had experience with an avoidant. All these listed were true of them. Never again; would not recommend. And yes, two avoidants will just end up not forming a connection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:29 AM
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"You owe me money" 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:00 AM
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This sounds a lot like avoidant attachment which a lot of men are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 12:41 AM
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Yeah. That's why I don't trust just "therapists". Don't have Dr. in your name? Nope, next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:44 PM
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Therapists are not an authority. I don't know much about countries such as America, but I think you can be a therapist there without a Ph.D or something similar like Psy.D. I wouldn't listen to a "therapist". I'm very sure she didn't read up on what sex and porn addiction are based on what she says. I wouldn't trust a person who doesn't read up on things first before giving out advice, especially a therapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:36 AM
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Oh, I wouldn't go that way either. Christians are very patriarchal and traditional. You can reject extreme liberalism without going the other way of extreme conservatism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:32 AM
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😑🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:29 AM
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This. Since learning about the effects of patriarchy on women and learning about radical feminism, I've grown tired of listening to male sources and creators of media, academics and dating advice. No, I want to hear women's voices. I want to see female art, music, books and films. I want to read up on researches done by women. I want to learn about women's inventions. If I listen to a man before I listen to a woman, then that's shame on me. Women and men all over the world already prioritize men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:20 AM
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Salesmen 🤡 Men who become salesmen don't like hearing no, they push boundaries and know how to use words to make you do something. Very manipulative. I've never liked salespeople since I'm an introvert, but a salesman as a romantic partner is something else 🤧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:08 AM
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Engage in things where you can let out your anger safely. Try boxing, gun range, smashing things at a junk yard (lol). Sit with yourself and imagine telling him off and then calming down and treating yourself to something good. Use your anger to drive you to do things you're passionate about, like taking revenge by being successful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:59 AM
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This is true for me. When I was younger, when I get angry I get violent. I became afraid of myself and so I started suppressing my anger. But by suppressing my anger, it manifested as sadness and I developed depression and anxiety as a result. I didn't know how to use it because I saw anger as only this ugly, hurtful thing when it's so much more than that and can actually be a good thing. By suppressing my anger, I wasn't able to defend myself, set boundaries, and I forgave people easily and bot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:54 AM
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I've seen an article once about scientists (of course it's male scientists 😒) asking why the female orgasm exists when it's not needed for reproduction. Like, cmon? Of course, so that women have incentive to be having sex with men. If sex wasn't pleasurable for females by producing hormones and orgasms, we'd fucking die out. If women didn't have the ability to orgasm, men wouldn't either because the penis developed from the same genital structure that is phenotypically female in the womb. And th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:05 AM
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Sadly, I think only the reddit admins can see IP addresses. But maybe a report to the authorities can do something, then they can ask for the IP. But IP addresses aren't that reliable for tracking. Maybe user history can help to dig up clues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:02 PM
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Most likely he's the landlord. He talks about signing, and watching garage cameras. He has keys. This is disgusting and terrifying af. Note for ladies: Install security cameras. CCTV that can be easily seen and hidden cameras that can't be seen. Put double door locks that even the landlord doesn't have keys to. Get a dog as another said here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:44 PM
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He hates her. Most likely he got that from redpill or something related. I've seen those arguments before asking why women need to orgasm; he definitely read those somewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:14 PM
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There are men, yes. 'Cause for them everyone can be witches: women, men and others. Makes sense, but yeah, I actually thought they were all women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:29 PM
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And WGTOW is actually a real subreddit, and it's nothing like MGTOW. Women there are just minding their own business and don't want anything to do with men anymore. Unlike MGTOW who say they went their own way but still focus on women's business
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:10 PM
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And additionally, men who fetishize bisexual women. If you point out that a woman is beautiful or say you've got a girl crush and they get too excited and ask, "Oh you're bi? You like women?" Yeah, he probably has girl-on-girl fetish. And if you're actually bi, he's going to offer a threesome down the road.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:44 PM
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Then they should start asking for ID before hooking up with a stranger. Don't like it when sex has consequences? Worried about being accused of rape or statutory rape? Then maybe stop having sex. Fixed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:59 PM
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Stay mad 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:50 PM
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Higher-ups cry that the birth rate is declining, but don't want to fix factors of why it is so. Women are the ones who control evolution and creation, even subconsciously. Women don't want to birth children in a world of climate change, overpopulation, poverty, corporate slavery, and the nuclear family being a flawed system. What people in power should do is give women in the workforce ample paid maternity leave, include pregnancy and childbirth in health insurance, and give non-working women wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:06 PM
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I don't want to be choked, slapped, spanked, have my hair pulled, spat on, jizzed on, beaten up, tied, knifed. I don't want to have sex and be called a slut, whore, little girl, baby girl, slave. I don't want to call a man sir, master, daddy; no one is above me. I don't want to do anal. I don't want a man demanding a blowjob from me unless I want to do so. I don't want to be contorted every 30 seconds, 20 different positions and not orgasm once. What I want is to have sex with a man who adores m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:36 PM
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After my last experience, I've decided that I will no longer identify with the traits I used to be proud of that make me a good partner. I've realized that having these traits isn't a guarantee that you'll be appreciated and loved, and sometimes they open you up for people to take advantage of you. I am not honest. I am not loyal. I am not empathetic. I no longer identify with these and give them away just because it's who I am. These traits are expensive and I'm not giving them away for free. F…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:48 PM
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but you'll never find someone who loves you as much as I do. I surely can. It's me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:55 PM
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Yup. I'm a highly sexual woman, and I've always wanted to experience having sex. I've always been sex-positive with women not being shamed for having sex with men the way men aren't shamed for having sex. But this sexual liberation normalizing hookup culture, porn, sex work, kinks isn't what we were going for. This doesn't liberate us nor empower us, it just puts us in the control of patriarchy—and capitalism—in another way. And so now my beliefs of sex-positivity are now considered sex-negative…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:42 AM
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If men like rating women with the 10-point scale, women thinking they're hot regardless renders this scale invalid. I think I'm hot, and I love taking care of my body, looks and style, but I don't take opinions from people about my appearance, whether good or bad. I have experienced being called ugly, I've experienced being called attractive. I've been picked on because of my features that society now considers as attractive. Because of this, I've realized it's all bullshit and it doesn't matter…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:29 AM
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Yeah, I wouldn't trust someone with no close friends, but a man with just male friends? Red flag. It means he only gets informed about the male perspective, and there are no women who wants to interact with him. He should have female friends, but there should be a distinction between how he treats his female friends vs his girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:44 AM
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Lol it's Girnar! He has a lot of feminist tiktoks like getting the bag by quoting artists like Nicki Minaj, Cardi B, Megan thee Stallion, Lana Del Ray, etc. I love him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:54 AM
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Absolute goddess! I shall get on my knees and ask for your ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:32 AM
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She should just say she's having sex with men who don't make her cum and she rationalized to herself that she doesn't need orgasms anyway and go. Thank you, next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:29 AM
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"Seeing him in swim trunks or getting a sense of his package during a make out/ heavy petting session." That made me laugh 😂 Agreed, agreed. And I agree to all you've stated. I read threads here on reddit that even men find a difference between hookup sex and sex with a woman they love, and they mostly say that sex with a woman they love is 100x better. And kinky men in love with women who are not kinky can endure vanilla sex because they love the woman. So that further solidified my stance rega…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:56 PM
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Oops, I caught that too. Like if the sex is good, then you're compatible. If the sex is bad, then you're sexually incompatible. But bad sex can be improved over time and experience, and it can eventually be good. If he's talking about libido by bringing up sexual compatibility, I don't think that's a question here 'cause they were able to wait that long so they must not both have high libidos, at least. So by sexual compatibility, I'm sure he's thinking of kinks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:42 PM
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Yeah, I was refuting it while watching the whole video. I'm not one to wait for marriage before sex either; I wouldn't get married with a man I don't know in all levels, including sexually. But sexual compatibility shouldn't come before other kinds of compatibility, and that's why couples wait. Sex is so much better with a person you're physically attracted to, emotionally and intellectually compatible with, and are securely attached and committed to. Sex before all those things are established …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:36 PM
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Remembering an anniversary is the bare minimum. He should remember when the month of your anniversary comes around. A man can set a reminder on his phone if he's really forgetful. If a man forgets your anniversary, it's either you also don't care or he doesn't care about you being his partner and the relationship. It happens once a year! He should be taking you out on that special day, or you should be planning it together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:13 PM
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Notice how the boyfriend who waited for 6 years before sex is a handsome lad, but this scrote who advocates for sex before marriage for compatibility is old, bald and scruffy 🤪 Bet he's porn-sick too, ew 🤮 People can have sex before marriage, and sexual compatibility is important, but it shouldn't come before emotional, intellectual, personality compatibility, etc. if you're looking for a genuine relationship. People can wait for marriage before sex because sexual compatibility can be learned ov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:56 PM
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Why didn't anyone try to stop him? They're afraid he's gonna stab them too? You don't need to be near the man to stop him, you can get a long heavy object or a stone to hit him on the back. All these people who only recorded without stepping in are enablers. Men are dangerous to women even in 1st world countries, and women's situation in 3rd world countries is just insane and horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 01:06 PM
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If you're a woman with two male partners and the relationship isn't working for you, you're stupid. You're better off single, or with just one man. One man should be making you feel like a queen, two men and you should be feeling like a goddess. This is like having a threesome and you're the one being used by two men. No! You should be being serviced by two men, not you servicing them both. If you have two male partners and you want a house built, they should be working to build that house and t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 12:53 PM
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Aww thank you 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 10:14 PM
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Yes! Since I've realized this, I noticed almost all songs are about love, sex, heartbreak or whatever. It honestly irritated me. My curated most played playlist right now is all by female artists and about being a baddie. I love that confidence boost
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:27 PM
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This type of male fashion, I hate it a lot. Hoodie, sweatpants and shopping bag?? This what you liked, sis?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 11:55 AM
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After realizing how men are, I woke up from the romance delusion too. I've always liked the romance genre but I'm picky about romance stories and hate clichés, but now I hate the concept of romance as a whole, especially how they show it in books and movies. Whirlwind romance is where money is at, because healthy romance is so undramatic, thus boring and unsellable. No, thank you. I cringe everytime I remember how I've idealized romance and relationships, and blame society for deluding girls sta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 11:46 AM
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Definitely all of this. And strip metadata from your photos before uploading them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 11:24 AM
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There is this thing they call your "threat model". Basically assess how much privacy, security, anonymity you need weighed against usability, necessity, and searchability. If you need a LinkedIn and Twitter for your profession, include only necessary information. Have a professional email where you get work emails and your LinkedIn and Twitter connected to; other things like government, banking, personal, junk should have their separate emails. Have separate phone number for work but don't inclu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 11:20 AM
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There's a high relationship between sexual promiscuity, porn use and relationship infidelity. I don't understand why it's only women who are shamed for having sex with multiple men, and men who have sex with lots of women are deemed desirable. For me, that's the result of the male narrative and patriarchy. When women are not shamed for having sex with men, women realize that men are easy; they'll have sex with just about any woman if given the opportunity because they associate their worth with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 10:48 AM
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Yup. Why should you choose what to give and take when you can have it all? If you prefer one or two love languages over the others, that's because you lacked that love language growing up and you should heal that. Realize that you deserve eEeeverything and then you'll never settle for less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 10:03 AM
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My rule of thumb is if I have to chase a man or a man has to chase me, then we're not just compatible. No one should be chasing anyone, I prefer to meet in the middle. If I have to chase a man, then that's embarrassing as a woman 'cause he must not like me and opens me up to being used and chasing him for the entirety of the relationship. Women offer a lot more in a relationship, especially now: love, sex, kids, financial contribution, housekeeping, so it doesn't really make sense if you know yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:44 AM
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This is a thing of concern for everyone in this digital age, but a good thing for women to be extra wary. Head over to the cybersecurity and data privacy subs on reddit to learn how to protect your privacy from stalkers, hackers, big tech and the government. Some basic tips: Lock down your social medias, make them as private and secure as you need to (strong password and 2-factor authentication for account security). Don't put your information (age, address, phone number, email, other social med…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:34 PM
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One thing I learned joining FDS is to never listen to men giving women dating advice. Neither take advice from a woman who panders to males, aka pickmes. If it's not from a mature man who is in a loving, long-term relationship with a happy woman as a partner giving mature, healthy relationship advice, that advice is going to be shit. Because of course, the opposite sex will aim for advice that benefits them. Straight men don't date other men, how do they know how it is to date a man? So I only t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:27 PM
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After this, men will be contacting her to both have sex AND have their house cleaned. And as other women here pointed out, she's wearing a collar AND a leash, this definitely is her kink. This woman just set us back 100 years 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 01:09 PM
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Hope for humanity. I love how non-FDS, non-radfem women have the same stances on things as us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:25 PM
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This is one reason I don't deal with Christians (the ignorant ones), they jump through hoops to justify their beliefs. How are you Christian when you commit "sins"? You commit sins and just pray it away or find loopholes 😒 How are you married in the eyes of the Christian God but get married through a pagan ceremony? How is it marriage when it isn't recognized by Church or state? This is multiple levels of stupidity and sinning. I hope he really marries her, or this will just make him drag his fe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:10 PM
5

He said I've neutered every man in my life, feline or human alike. I don't think you did, have you neutered him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:39 AM
29

You know what argument I keep hearing from uneducated boys when women bring up women's achievements or joke about men being useless and we can live without them? They say, "Your phone is created by a man. Your computer is created by a man. Wifi is created by a man." So on and so forth. Uneducated men really think they created everything when if you're educated in just about anything, you'll see women's contributions in everything. Like man, read a damn book or sumn 🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:35 AM
83

HAHAHAHA "God is good". You're bad bad 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:27 AM
79

Oh so when it's the side of the woman they welcome 50-50 even when the woman earns less than the man, but when it's them being asked to pay 50-50, suddenly they have concern for men who earn less than the woman? Hmm, yep, audacity. EDIT: And if a man has sex and orgasms inside a woman, then he should accept the responsibility of impregnating her. If you don't want 50-50 child responsibility, then don't fucking have sex. Or use a condom and get male birth control. Have a vasectomy if you're feeli…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:13 AM
20

If I were you I wouldn't panic. I don't really like the concept of LinkedIn, but for professionals it's necessary to get a job. What's he going to do with your LinkedIn tho? Set your LinkedIn so it's private enough that people not in your network can't see your resume and posts, idk about if they can see mutual friends though. And what is he going to tell your mutual friends on your network? He doesn't even know you so it's all going to be lies. And that would reflect worse on him if he's proven…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:05 AM
11

HAHAHAHA the delusion 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:39 PM
10

LMAO that's so sus of them, embarrassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:28 PM
8

Yup, I totally didn't feel like an adult at 18, but I felt it when I turned 21. So these men going for women at 18-21 are really targeting children just 'cause it's legal. And 18-21 year olds fall for the manipulation of these sociopathic men because they're not taught how to be wary and they believe that they're already adults 'cause society told them so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:26 PM
4

Oof, I didn't even catch that they're 18. And so he's having sex corpse-like at a younger age than that? Way fucked up 💀 And I agree, 18 is not an adult, that's still a kid. I even have the belief that legal age should be raised to 21 years old. That's the time that you can really say that someone is a young adult and not a kid anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:53 PM
7

Oof yup, if it's an unattractive woman by his standards who's sexually harassing him, he'd act all creeped-out and maybe even call the police on her. The fucking cognitive bias.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:49 PM
11

I don't like talking to scrotes too, especially when they're obviously stupid, so I select when I reply and when I ignore; but sometimes a thing needs to be addressed and in my mind, I'm not talking to these scrotes, but I'm letting other people who have open minds see my comments so they can see that another person has the same belief as them or that there is another way to look at things. But in 1-on-1 private convo with stupid scrotes, nah, it's always better to just leave. These dumbasses ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:45 PM
27

He says he wants to be sexually harassed like how men harass women, but would he still keep the same energy when it's men sexually harassing him? No, they would throw hands and scream GAY 'cause they're not just misogynystic, they're also homophobic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:37 PM
10

Never let men use feminists' fight for equality against us. I often see this thing, wherein a very important women's issue against men is being discussed but then they bring out the "equality" card. Equality is about great issues that affect women, not men excusing their shitty behavior in the name of equality. We don't care to be equal with garbage male characteristics, Chad, that's all yours. We're not trying to be men when men are the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:34 PM
7

Sorry about that. Forgive yourself for your experience, you didn't know better at that age, especially when they don't even teach us this. You were at an age that you haven't established your self yet and that's why it's easy to fall into a relationship you didn't deserve. (That's why evil men go for teens to early 20s women, they're easier to manipulate because they don't know themselves and the world yet, compared to late 20s-30+ women. Not this "it's men's biology to go for younger, more attr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:23 AM
14

Say he's not allowed to have children, he can't afford them. Having children when you're poor and irresponsible is selfish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:57 AM
20

I reckon he's got a mental or personality problem besides not having money and a career because of the way he replies to the comments. Saying "life stage, not age", "don't want to be a corporate slave", "no dating experience at 27". May or may not be the case, still would not be a good idea to get into a relationship with him considering all 3 factors (money and career, personality problem, wants "carefree teenage relationship" at 27). The comments section says the same, so I guess there's hope …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:55 AM
15

When I first encountered the words, I was disgusted by it. But then after seeing it lots of times, I started to rationalize that it's not that deep, when it actually is. Now, I know better and I will be extinguishing foodgasm and foodporn from my vocabulary, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:30 AM
19

Woah 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:17 AM
27

Right? And I doubt that his ex-girlfriends even really complied with his sick request, he just said that to her to normalize it and make her doubt her judgment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:08 AM
37

Ladies, this is why we don't date men who don't have their life together—have stable finances or aiming for it, and have stable career or job they love and are committed to—because they also won't want a committed relationship and will choose for a casual relationship that don't add anything to your life whatsoever. These are relative to each other. If he doesn't put effort into his life and himself, what makes you think he'll put effort into you? Heck, some men with put-together lives don't eve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:44 AM
107

Someone in the comments said he should date women with anxious-preoccupied attachment. Wow, way to exploit someone who needs a healthy, secure person to attach themselves to in order to have a good relationship. These men know that there are anxious attachment women out there, and now they're exploiting it 🤮 This goes to show that if you're an anxious attachment person, you should be very wary of people you date 'cause there are dismissive avoidant, narcissistic, dominant, and sociopathic men ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:24 AM
16

"They aren't bothered, they don't care, they don't love." Wow, this was something that I've had to realize about most men. It's not that they don't have emotions, it's that they don't exercise it. They shame emotion from their fellow men, and the only way they can fit in with their male peers is to suppress their emotions and be dominating instead. So then they get this illusion that men are unemotional because emotions = weakness, and they think emotions ≠ logic, so unemotional = logical. What …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:47 PM
17

Maybe men should stop sticking their dick into every woman. Men complain about pregnancy, but they be having sex and cumming into a woman like where's the logic? That's your fault, bro. Get a vasectomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:59 PM
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I got the exact same DM! 😂 I just laughed and closed my dms again, forgot I opened it. Just giving the same energy back, bros 😘 I doubt these men message other men in women-hating subs saying their comments are vile, or other women message men who say vile comments against women. So until they do and we're equal, I'll just continue doing what I do ♥️✨ EDIT: also he's a man with a foot fetish, unsurprisingly 🤮😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:09 PM
7

TMI but personally, I prefer big dicks because I feel like that gives the most sensation during PIV and they look good performing handjobs with. The first time I've seen an image of a micropenis, I was shocked 'cause it awfully resembles an outtie bellybutton 💀 I have this hypothesis that aversion to micropenis by men and women is a natural thing. 1) Women can't get much pleasure from a micropenis; doesn't fill vagina during PIV, awkward with handjobs, and I imagine doesn't feel good with blowjo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:46 PM
14

Someone should make it. Girls beating up boys. I know that would be taken down fast. The hipocrisy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:11 PM
3

Aww Kurtis Conner being posted on FDS 🥰 I love Kurtis, he's funny, an educated King and also cute. And I love all his videos roasting all sorts of men, definitely check him out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:13 PM
21

Pickme is a popular term now, like "simp". See it all the time on Tiktok. But a lot of kids found the word pickme and ran away with it, they don't know what it means and say everyone is a pickme when they aren't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 07:09 PM
7

Hahaha I don't know her but I think I saw her comment wondering why she's blocked even when she never watched him or commented on his vids. Now I know why 🤣 I gotta check her out for the lols. I love this side of Tiktok 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:27 PM
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I'm a cat-lover too, I don't have pet cats right now — but I used to when I was a kid — but I take care of the stray cats around our house who ask for food. Cats have different personalities, most just mind their own business, and some are friendly, but some are also nasty and will attack you, or eat your food when they are able to sneak into the house, so sometimes you have to shoo them away or fight back. A cat biting you or scratching you when they're a stray and likely not vaccinated is very…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:03 PM
6

He's dangling the carrot in her face and getting laughs out of it. She should dump him. She's better off with a younger, loving, good-lucking guy when she finishes college. Since I woke up from my slumber, I never get people being worried that they'll be seen as materialistic. I used to be afraid of that too because I thought liking things is shallow. But I'm a sentimental person and I like having quality stuff, but I'm also a minimalist. So I wanna get myself the best of the best. If a man is i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 12:28 PM
31

The comments are roasting him, I've been laughing for a solid 10 minutes. And he blocked her and deleted the video. Awww boss baby daddy is so fragile 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 12:11 PM
3

My biggest issue here is a man wanting his girlfriend to go to therapy for being attached to a cat. Like sir, there's nothing wrong with her, that's what having a pet is all about. Pets are like children; so you'd be like this too if you and her ever have children together? Oh hell no. And what therapist would take on a woman for caring for her pet? You must be crazy. EDIT: Looked at the post to see if they roasted him, as I think they would've. He editted his post and it's the most sadboi edit …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 11:24 AM
2

I think you're being too much? Pets need discipline when they misbehave. You can adore them and take good care of them and at the same time not tolerate bad behavior from them. You can hit them to discipline them, but don't hurt them, just enough to let them know who's the master between the two of you. And I think the OP have weighed his hitting of her cat and his overall treatment of them, and his overall behavior and character. Have some little faith on her, she's on FDS after all. Not everyt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 11:12 AM
58

Wow, pickme's have always existed. What a headache.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:35 AM
62

Never believe the "I don't like drama" bit from anyone. People who say they don't like drama are being dramatic themselves by bringing it up, while people who genuinely don't like drama would just stay out of it without making a fuss out of it. Usually, people who say that are the ones who are familiar with it and maybe secretly thrive on it even if they think they don't like it. One wouldn't say they don't like drama if they weren't surrounded by drama in the first place. And sometimes they're …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:40 PM
1

Fosho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:31 AM
5

Wtf did I just read? Is he not embarrassed of himself? Like a grown, healthy adult would be embarrassed of themselves for doing this, even when you absolutely have to; but for another person, your partner and her fucking friend to see this? That's so embarrassing and disgusting. No one would do this unless they have a mental health problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:32 PM
4

Oooh nice, this should be a rule I enforce too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:07 PM
10

No taking responsibility for being cheated on, no gaslighting yourself for another person's mistake. If they cheat on you, they don't love you nor respect you. If they did, they would never think of cheating. If you keep this in mind, and you love and respect yourself, you would never tolerate cheating. When they cheat, you walk. No relationship is worth it over you losing your self-love and worse, self-respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:44 AM
18

Incels with a fetish.. What fetish? I thought it's not good to kinkshame? Why are they kinkshaming us? 🥺 And how can incels have fetish when incels don't have sex? 🤔 How come FDSers incels when actually volcels?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:33 AM
16

Yeah, I used to be a hopeless romantic too. I've been single for most of my life and I've always wanted to enter into a relationship and have always been good when it comes to love but things happened that opened my eyes and changed that (leading me to find FDS, which is a large contributing factor to this change). Now, I realized wanting a relationship and craving love was working against me and that I should just focus on myself instead and let love find me if it will. I've realized that the t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:17 AM
11

Lol they don't have anything else going for them solely as men, so they either use it in the most despicable ways possible, or to pose themselves as protectors and providers which we wouldn't even need them for if they didn't exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:53 PM
17

Ooof, a boss comeback. Like "Okay, if misandry exists, how?" They would be having a hard time replying to that one, or their replies would be the lamest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:46 PM
19

Very true. They don't want to acknowledge women's strength because if they start acknowledging it, they would have to start thinking of us as equals, or worse, better than them and other women will develop the belief that they can be as strong as men and start becoming it. No, they have to discredit women because if women become as "strong, smart, and successful" as men (not that we aren't and can't be these, but they really believe they're superior based on just gender), then what would be men'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:26 PM
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Oooh I like this more than the lame "Not all men, but enough men". And another argument I keep seeing is men saying, "Misandry exists" and women saying "Misandry exists because of misogyny". No, the right argument is, "Misandry doesn't exist" because it doesn't exist in a systemic, oppressive level the same way misogyny exists that lead men into silencing, harassing, assaulting, raping and murdering women. These men are really hurt by women calling out men for their evil actions and posting meme…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:16 PM
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My jaw is agape the whole time while reading your post. I can't believe that some women, not just men, actually believe that men can't control their sexuality because of hormones because "boys will be boys" and excuse them for it, while policing girls to wear modest clothing. These type of women shouldn't be moms because they're raising hateful males and traumatized females. Let me just say I hate the stepmom and hate your daughter's dad, and I commend you for fighting for your daughter and your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:05 PM
5

Wow, thank you. Another knowledge of how men tell stories based on their perspective that shapes how society sees things. I've never actually got this though, "she slept her way to the top"? These men are using these women, but somehow the men are not at fault and it's only the woman who is evil. Nah, doesn't seem logical and fair to me. And if these men are so easily seduced, what are they doing at the top then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:04 PM
5

She's so close to figuring it out. It's almost like incels are the problem, no? P.S. I also don't agree when others say incels should just see sex workers, because these women shouldn't shoulder the abuse and hate these men harbor for women. But isn't it that the female journalist who works for Vice was the one who advocates for sex work in that it's necessary in quenching the thirst men have for sex so that they don't go around raping women like they "used to"? Idk if my memory serves me right …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:43 PM
104

The bar is gone. Hahahaha this is so funny for how ominous it sounds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:39 PM
11

He's trying to steal the spotlight on her birthday by being upset at her because he forgot her birthday? I really don't get people who make a scene on someone's birthday, like how can someone have so little empathy? Dude is just mad that he was shown as incompetent against a 4-year-old. He should just really get out the door at this point, he's embarrassing. Not most for forgetting her birthday, but for this childish shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:55 PM
2

I would've filmed him too, sis. Took a picture of his license plate as I drive away and then call the police.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:53 PM
3

Um, sis... Wanting affection after sex is TOTALLY normal. Don't let these motherfuckers with no emotional intelligence and healthy attachment and sense of love tell you otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:39 PM
5

Housework, doing dishes, taking care of the kids, taking out the trash, fixing things around the house is the bare minimum of living together in a home and being in a relationship and having a family. You know what's really attractive on top of all those? Men taking you out once in a while regularly, treating you with your favorite foods and gifts you actually like, giving you a massage, showering you with compliments, helping you with your own responsibilities, listening to you when you've had …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:06 AM
5

I say, "Me too".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:58 AM
28

Only the scummiest of men would accept that. That shit degrading. Men don't even like paying for dates, they want free sex from strangers. Then this woman paying for "good dick" comes along. Next thing you know, men demand women pay them for sex, too. You know what that would make them? Yes, sex workers. Like I got nothing against actual male sex workers. But I don't think a man who isn't in sex work would like being treated like one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:55 AM
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HAHAHAHAHA why would anyone do this? 😂😂😂 You had sex, girl, this ain't charity. "Had good dick, so I paid him as a reward" Like wtf? 😂 Ma'am, the bar is so low if good sex from men is rare; he SHOULD be giving good sex if he's having sex with strangers 'cause that means he's more experienced 'cause people who do hookups have higher body count than average. You mean to tell me these people are having sex with strangers and don't even bother to be good at it? Oof. And he sent back $50 more 😂 That …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:42 AM
25

This is very true. A lot of sleazy men and crazy women are drawn to Psychology, because it's a study of the pathology of humans. Only a few people really promote and study healthy, humane psychology. It's divided between people with good intentions who really want to help others, and people who are evil and in it just for the money and prestige. The thing is evil people are drawn to this field because they can work to manipulate people and their lives at their lowest points. It draws people with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:19 AM
48

Oof this right here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:08 AM
33

Let me just say that some aspects of Psychology and Psychiatry and the mental health industry is fucked. They don't update knowledge based solely on facts (they do try) because researching people is hard to do, so they work based on known tidbits that don't capture the whole truth because it would be better than not doing anything at all, and based on what society believes at a certain point of time to appease the most number of people. If one studies the history of Psychology, you would know th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:03 AM
10

I remember reading this and I still love it. That woman is a badass for standing her ground. She could've aborted it without caring about his opinion, but she didn't because he wanted the child. She even pays more than the required child custody, she didn't have to if she wasn't forced to birth a child but she still does. How is that a deadbeat? Deadbeats are people who leave their families and don't contribute child support. She's far from that. This man is just angry he didn't get the family h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:02 AM
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This is the same person? Sigh... Yeah I know this. Just because it's good in your head as sexual fantasies doesn't mean it's good enacted in reality. Just because you think you want that, doesn't mean you'd really like that to happen to you. Fantasies exist on their own in isolated events. But in reality, if you do something, it bleeds into every part of your relationship and life. And next thing you know, the fantasy you've always thought you wanted leads to things you don't want to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:32 PM
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Lol, worried. Must be a porn-sick scrote. Well he can go on and think you're vanilla like that's a bad thing (when the truth is kinky sex is all they can do because they can't allow themselves to be vulnerable with another person 'cause they're scared, or they engage in self-harm through dangerous sex instead of going to therapy, or they're one of those people who collect notches on their belts and can't get into a proper relationship, or also one of those predators who like using sex as means o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:21 PM
14

Apparently, yes. The comments immediately knew who she was talking about so yeah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:13 PM
14

Wow, I checked it out and the titles of their episodes.. 😳 Yeah, I'm not gonna be listening to that anytime soon. Don't want to pollute my mind with that. I have more important things to learn about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:02 PM
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People who claim to be sex-positive shame other people for not being kinky and being vanilla, and that's ironic. Some people prefer to have sex within established relationships and see sex as an expression of love and intimacy and like it consensual and safe and fun, instead of having countless hookups that never lead anywhere and have sex be mixed with violence and none of the intimacy and vulnerability wherein it's degrading and abusive almost always towards women thanks to porn. So you mean t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:39 PM
66

It's satire, she's referring to a podcast called "CallHerDaddy".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:05 PM
38

I really suggest women to take up self-defense lessons and earn muscles by going to the gym and instill in their daughters that they can also be physically strong and defend themselves. I don't even care that it's not feminine for women to be jacked and it will stop us from getting picked, it's not fair that we're physically smaller and weaker than men that they can abuse us if they choose to. Maybe after a few generations of letting women look strong and be strong, we would actually be able to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:55 AM
122

Girls under these types of videos defending men and telling other women who find these offensive to take a joke scream, "Tell me you're a pickme without telling me you're a pickme."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:47 AM
64

This what I've been thinking about. I used to be into the Twin Flames shit (ew) and Soulmates, but it's just really people romanticizing someone, believing in fate, and assessing someone based on potential and who you want them to be instead of reality. It's a person being codependent and naive which makes them easy prey for these narcissists, and psychopaths. And I don't like Twin Flames promoting struggle love 🤡🤡🤡 Shit toxic, but ehhh, it's love, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:52 AM
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☝️☝️☝️This is what you should you do, ladies. After a while, if they don't stop, go to a place that is illuminated and full of people, or brake your step and look them in the face (so you know what he looks like if you have to identify him later) and ask him what's up, and dial the cops. And if he tries to frighten you and advance towards you, if self-defense is legal in your country (unlike Canada as I've read from some ladies here before), do what you have to do. Always carry a weapon with you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:03 AM
1

What is your theory of men who love The Batman Trilogy? I would love to hear more about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:09 PM
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