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DATING ADVICEissadsometimes/r/RedPillWomen03/06/18 05:23 PM
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how do I find/attract RP women friends?
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 09:21 PM
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I'm very happy for your relationship. Having similar values is so important. It's reassuring to hear about a man who fully appreciates you. I think I have the opposite problem you did, I accept too much about a man. I fail to realize when an action he takes or doesn't take affects me or us in a negative way. I tend to blame myself. I assume that is because of the second thing you said, I don't accept myself as I am now. I will work on this, fully embrace nun mode (I think that's what it's called…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/18 02:45 AM
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I hesitate to fully agree with your post - I wouldn't want to write off my failings or the end of the relationship as entirely his fault. He was always kind to me, even when telling me the truth that he didn't like me enough. But you're right, he wasn't honest with me or himself till the end, I had to tell him the truth myself in order for him to understand it. There was always a small part of me that felt like there was something he wasn't telling me. It might have been several things or not, a…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/18 02:27 AM
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I wouldn't say he was demanding that I change. It seemed more like support and excitement. He might say "I can tell you have lost weight. You're doing a great job. How's your diet?" or "Your hair seems thicker. It's looking better." Sometimes he would give suggestions on how to improve and things like that. I do understand what you are saying and I appreciate the perspective, but I never got the feeling that I would never be good enough. Just that I wasn't, yet. It's something I haven't consider…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/18 01:51 AM
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So what you are saying is we both had our faults and they weren't compatible? It is hard for me to come to terms with this - that he wasn't supportive in the way I needed him to be, if that's what you're saying. It seems obvious to me that I simply wasn't good enough for him, so the desire to support me wasn't there.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/18 01:43 AM
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I told him that in order to offer him some clarity as to where his head was at. He seemed very lost. I will keep in mind the demands I make in the future, thank you. He brought up self improvement every time. It wasn't something I planned on discussing with him or anyone else. I think it was a way for him to cope with me not being the best that I could be. I am very religious, as was he.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/18 10:01 PM
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I understand your advice but I am not sure what bullet I dodged. If I had met him a year or two down the road, I assume we would be a good match. Do you think this isn't true?
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/18 09:58 PM
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I am trying to "fix it and file it away" as you said. I will focus on the present, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/18 09:56 PM
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How's that?
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/18 05:56 PM
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