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2	To Those Who Feel That Height is Holding You Back in Finding a Partner Definitely! You joke, but I have genuinely had men argue with me about what I want, like, and am attracted to. If that’s how you approach interactions with women, I don’t think it’s your physical features that’s turning them off!	/r/ExRedPill	25/02/25 04:25 AM
6	To Those Who Feel That Height is Holding You Back in Finding a Partner I’m 5’2”, shorter than most women in the US. I like short guys and have crushed on many of them! Tall guys and medium height guys, too! For many, physical attraction comes with/after emotional attraction. If there’s a spark and we’re having a great time you become the most attractive person ever. Legitimately, people look physically different to me when I get to know them! Anyway, the point is that there are lots of women who don’t care at all. Height is not a factor in my attraction to anyone. …	/r/ExRedPill	22/02/25 02:39 AM
19	I feel like I've done literally everything possible in my power to hedge my bets with women and dating and it's never mattered I was going to say this. Women can tell when you're looking at them like some kind of prize, and they don't appreciate it. They want you to see them as a person, someone that you like because they are who they are, not just because you're looking for someone - anyone - to fill that role for you. It feels objectifying and dehumanizing to be looked at in terms of being something to be acquired. Try having female friends first. Learn how to be around women, how to be friends with them, how to be co…	/r/ExRedPill	17/05/24 09:30 PM
7	The red pill makes me feel like I should have an arranged marriage? I think your time would be better spent trying to become the kind of person that a partner would want to be with. A lot of times, relationships fall apart because needs aren’t met. This means that both people have to work on each other, and on the relationship, continuously, for the entire duration of the relationship. Step one is trying to become someone that is a worthy partner for the type of partner you want. If you want someone who can trust you, you have to be trustworthy, and you also hav…	/r/ExRedPill	21/01/24 05:29 PM
3	I'm an actual "Nice Guy". I don't think this is a bad thing. A lot of it is arbitrary anyway. Really, what separates a boy from a man other than age? So many of those standards are flexible anyway, and many of them built on standards of toxic masculinity. You don't need to adhere to those -- lots of men exist outside of traditional standards and live much happier lives because of it. It's never too late to begin, even if it feels like it! I just turned 25 and am having a similar moment in some ways. I'm trying to join a …	/r/ExRedPill	04/04/22 03:05 AM
1	My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it. I mean, LOTS of people are advocating that. Lots. To the point where there are bumper stickers and tables for it at pride events! Lots of feminists consider this a feminist issue, too. I think you’re just focusing on the people that are on the wrong side of things instead of on the people trying to make change!	/r/ExRedPill	11/03/22 01:12 AM
1	My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it. I mean, how many women do you personally know, in real life, who you have talked to about this stuff? I’m a woman with mostly female friends, so I’d say I have a lot of experience in women’s opinions. I really think you’re projecting your own issues onto women. Yes, it’s totally unfair what you’ve been through, but you’re hurting yourself by making these assumptions about what women like/want/believe. You’re clearly already struggling within yourself, and you’re making yourself believe that the …	/r/ExRedPill	10/03/22 10:05 PM
1	My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it. Is “different” inherently bad? Ever dick is different. There is no “normal.” Hell, even micropenises are not as uncommon as you think. I don’t know a single person who would laugh at a penis, ever. Even if it were un/circumcised, big or small, curved or straight. Anyone who cares about that kind of shit is shallow, and anyone who would laugh or make fun of someone over that isn’t worth having any kind of relationship with anyway. Most people simply don’t care as much as you assume they do, and t…	/r/ExRedPill	10/03/22 09:23 PM
10	My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it. Where did you read these stories and accounts outside of incel/red pill/MRAs communities? Do you have any legitimate sources to back up your claims, or just anecdotes from extremely skewed, harmful, sources?	/r/ExRedPill	10/03/22 08:51 PM
5	is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men? Look at the celebrities that women fawn over! They are often not the same celebrities that men think women fawn over. Look at guys like Harry Styles, Tom Holland, Orlando Bloom, Robert Pattinson, Tom Hiddleston, Timothee Chalamet — these aren’t your stereotypical macho men oozing masculinity, and yet they are adored by millions of women. There is an incredibly wide range of what women like!	/r/ExRedPill	07/03/22 08:55 PM
4	Curious to know what y’all think of this statistic? I just scrolled through the first few profiles on my own okc and screenshotted the summaries.Guess which are cis men and which are women/non cis men.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/22 11:00 PM
7	Curious to know what y’all think of this statistic? I have no idea where this data came from or if there’s anything relevant about it. But, it we’re assuming this data is legit, this is what I would say (anecdotally). Men (again, this is in my personal experience) tend to put WAY less effort into their dating profiles. A lot of them have grainy pictures taken at bad angels, pictures of just their abs, or random pictures of cartoon characters or their dog. A lot of them don’t have real descriptions, either, and are more to the tune of: “If you’re …	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/22 10:53 PM
6	I’m done hating women Congrats on your progress so far!! Just remember that this is a starting point. Respect for one woman because you have feelings for her doesn’t mean that you automatically respect all women. One is absolutely a start, but you can keep going!! Regardless of what happens with this woman, good or bad, hopefully it allows you to see the potential that women hold as human beings if you truly give them a chance and treat them as equals. You could find lots of new, fulfilling, relationships! Not that s…	/r/ExRedPill	16/02/21 02:25 AM
4	I think redpill broke my brain. You can get out. Especially considering that these thoughts you’re having don’t seem to align with your morals and beliefs at all. That’s already a huge step!	/r/ExRedPill	20/08/20 08:52 PM
3	disgusted and afraid of the sexual fantasies of my girlfriend and women in general How do you know that? Did she say that to you explicitly? If so, do you still feel the same amount of insecurity as if she were sexually desiring another man?	/r/ExRedPill	16/08/20 12:36 PM
3	disgusted and afraid of the sexual fantasies of my girlfriend and women in general Like I mentioned in my previous comment, you don’t have to fulfill the fantasies in such a literal way. Her fantasies can still by healthily and respectfully incorporated into a monogamous relationship. It takes communication, trust, and respect. I think those three things really need to be worked on before you can even think about your sex life with her, honestly. If you are in a sexual relationship with her and can’t respect what her needs are and find a way to talk about sex in a healthy way,…	/r/ExRedPill	16/08/20 12:35 PM
5	disgusted and afraid of the sexual fantasies of my girlfriend and women in general That seemed like the implication to me. If that wasn’t what you were implying, why did you mention her bisexuality?	/r/ExRedPill	16/08/20 11:42 AM
18	disgusted and afraid of the sexual fantasies of my girlfriend and women in general Unless she’s literally planning to have an orgy, I don’t see a problem here. If you’re an adult, you will talk to her about her sexual fantasies, let her fantasize about what she enjoys during sex, and even engage in these fantasies. A lot of times people don’t even want to act on their fantasies in real life, the hypothetical idea just turns them on. So maybe she wants to watch the type of porn that involves her fantasy, maybe she wants to include her fantasy in dirty talk — it doesn’t mean she…	/r/ExRedPill	16/08/20 11:37 AM
10	disgusted and afraid of the sexual fantasies of my girlfriend and women in general So? Bisexual =\|= sexually promiscuous...	/r/ExRedPill	16/08/20 11:31 AM