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I would hope someone trying to give a struggling person advice would explain what 'treat this person like a person' means.
/r/seduction26/09/16 08:54 PM
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Exactly. Most guys who struggle with women already respect them, its easy to respect someone, but the bigger challenge is to develop confidence and social skills. What % of struggling guys struggle because they dont respect women yet are confident/social? What % of struggling guys respect women, yet are not confident/social? Let me know your estimates. Check out r/niceguys and r/creepypms Because you have experience with relationships that involve both genders. Most struggling guys only have exp…
/r/seduction26/09/16 08:34 PM
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Like I explained if that was what you intended to convey, you didn't do very well. If a guy thinks treating women like people means treating them like men, that says more about his view of women than his social skills. Flirting =/= not treating people like people.
/r/seduction26/09/16 07:54 PM
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You're literally trying to defend someone who openly discourages treating women as people. Not for the reasons you think. Its detrimental because the advice seekers gain no value from that phrase. Please review the algebra analogy I typed up in another response of mine. Reviewed it. That doesn't negate my point. It can be difficult to develop confidence and social skills, it's not difficult to learn the value of respect. He said this because to shy/awkward men, the only people they know how to i…
/r/seduction26/09/16 07:43 PM
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See, in fishing, typically the fisherman is harming the fish in some way. Anything from hooking them and dragging them out of the water, to hooking them, dragging them out of the water, and then killing and eating them. We're not fish, and you're not a fisherman. If you're casting yourself as a fisherman and us as fish, that means that in your view, success involves the man profiting while the woman loses out. I'm not trying to keep you from having sex, dude. I am on your side. "Fisherman should…
/r/seduction26/09/16 07:06 PM
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"treat girls like people" is detrimental to pickup. And there you have it. It implies that we should talk to women as if they're men. So, you don't view women as people? Just men? This might be news for you, but men aren't the only ones who deserve respect. It implies that we should talk to women as if they're men. People =/= just men. People = people/ If you weren't having sex before you came into pick-up, there's a reason for that, and it's probably you. I promise, if you actually treat women …
/r/seduction26/09/16 06:55 PM
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Have you ever been outside? I have, in fact, been outside. You think this is manipulative because you got a glimpse into this guy's thought process. The vast majority of chicks are going to recognize this for what it is: flirting. I think this is manipulative because it is. You might be interested to know that I'm actually familiar with the concept of flirting. I do a lot of it, in fact. I know people who are good at flirting, people who are not so good at flirting; and people who view women lik…
/r/seduction26/09/16 06:42 PM
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Which is exactly why there's a subreddit. A place where we can share personal experiences, what works and doesn't. Existence does not necessitate accuracy. There's a subreddit, but it's full of tips like this post. In my experience, women tend to not know what they want (or rather, know what they want, but what attracts them is completely different). This seems to be the case here. As a real, live woman, with real, live women friends... what kind of women are you hanging around? We're real peopl…
/r/seduction26/09/16 06:31 PM
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There are all sorts of relationship forums and columns, although not all of them actually include healthy advice- sometimes it's just unfortunately popular advice that people like, so it gets repeated. There are books and videos and commentary by experts and therapists/psychiatrists/psychologists/counselors/what-have-you. As with anything, you have to sift through the information. You have to look for it and be shrewd, and make sure you're not just adhering to the thing that validates a narrativ…
/r/seduction26/09/16 03:51 PM
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Don't treat her like a 'lady' or a problem case or try to 'tame' her. Ew. Just treat her like a person. It's really honestly not that difficult.
/r/seduction26/09/16 01:01 PM
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