iswearthisisntafake Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	"Just be confident" Luckily one random quote reflects all known reality.	/r/AllPillDebate	17/09/23 03:58 AM
0	How do you explain all the looksmatched couples on the street? Despite what people on this hellscape sub will tell you, chemistry and emotional connection is a wayy more reliable predictor of the people who enter relationships.	/r/AllPillDebate	31/08/23 01:22 AM
0	To whoever who created the word misoginy, I hope you are roting in h*ll. Misoginy is not real. If you're gonna be a reprehensible chode, at least be one who spells properly.	/r/AllPillDebate	22/07/23 08:50 PM
0	When women say they want a man to show more emotion, what they are really asking for is healthier emotional communication I'm not talking about "women" or "society", I'm talking about healthy ways to work through your emotions and you just want to change the subject because emotional introspection is hard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 09:15 PM
1	When women say they want a man to show more emotion, what they are really asking for is healthier emotional communication I'm not telling you "man up" or to not feel your emotions, quite the opposite actually. I'm merely suggesting to use mindfulness as a tool to observe your emotions and work through the knots; then in the future you won't be as hasty to act upon them and get offended by virtue signal-y commercials. Again, you can still show vulnerability and emotion from a state of regulation and internal stillness. It's only when you express these emotions from a state of hyper or hypo-arousal can it become not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 11:10 PM
0	When women say they want a man to show more emotion, what they are really asking for is healthier emotional communication Counterpoint: The fact that you felt attacked by a commercial shows you haven't worked through your emotional knots or learned to express vulnerability in a healthy. Otherwise the commercial wouldn't bother you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 08:59 PM
1	When women say they want a man to show more emotion, what they are really asking for is healthier emotional communication But this is a good thing though, why the hell would you want to be with someone you're incompatible with? Cause at the end of the day her being off put by your insecurities means you are fundamentally, incompatible. OP's point still stands. There's a difference between vulnerability that comes from a place of emotional regulation vs emotional dysregulation. When you feel regulated you can more easily express your vulnerabilities without them bothering you, while dysregulation tends to not be the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 08:42 PM
6	My confidence is based on how many girls have checked me out recently, how can I develop a stable self confidence? Remember that self-worth and self-esteem are not the same thing. Self-worth is with you at all times, good or bad. While self-esteem is more of a Fairweather friend; with you during good times but absent during bad ones. The key is to remind yourself that you're doing your best at any given moment. Sure it's not ideal to base your self-esteem on how many girls give you a second look. But if that feeling comes up; make sure to forgive yourself and recognize that for the fleeting moment that it is…	/r/seduction	16/09/22 12:49 AM
1	Is medication the answer? Jacked but incredibly shy and awkward Damn, I relate to this post for two reasons. 1.) I'm also 5'8 with a similarly strong, built, endomorphic frame (although I'm 190 lbs and have higher fat percentage) 2.) The part about l running away when it came time to show interest. I remember being in school and liking a girl and she liked me back. She asked me to do the spotlight dance with others watching and I literally ran out of the school and avoided her after. The way I overcame this was to stop worrying about being perfect. Contrary …	/r/seduction	14/09/22 07:49 PM
1	What is the justification for wishy washy girls Look at it from this perspective: You occupy an incredibly tiny portion of her brain space and spends little time thinking of you (relative to everything else in her life). Occams Razor says the simplest explanation is likely the correct one, which in this case whatever excuse she gave was likely her being honest. You may feel like it happens specifically to you, but that's only because you're stuck to your limited perspective.	/r/seduction	13/08/22 01:04 AM