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| 3 | The Evolution of a Low Sex Marriage Male on RedditI still do not know who gilded my post Me. It was good stuff. This one too. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/01/17 05:54 PM |
| 2 | TRP guys who say "AWALT", how'd you react if I said, as a woman, I have never acted anything like the women in posts that say AWALTTRP guys who say "AWALT", how'd you react if I said, as a woman, I have never acted anything like the women in posts that say AWALT If you don't exhibit hypergamy, emotional impulsiveness, blame shifting, victim mentality, solipsism, branch swinging etc. it means that you're a true unicorn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/16 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: How did you find out about this "Pill" stuff?Somebody on /r/deadbedrooms described the 'red pill' as literally Hitler. I got interested, looked it up and it changed my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/16 08:55 PM |
| 3 | If believing in gender equality automatically makes me a feminist, does believing in Islam automatically make me a terrorist?Too often feminists will express the idea that if you’re not a feminist then you’re not for equality. It's like saying that supporting the 8 hour workday automatically makes you a socialist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/16 07:02 AM |
| 1 | The Lean PlanIn lieu of "cardio" like running or eliptical or whatnot, am going to add a brisk morning walk for a fasting burn Do it if you like it, just don't expect this to have an effect on your weight loss. The calories you 'burn' this way will be insignificant. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/06/16 02:02 PM |
| 1 | The Lean PlanIn lieu of "cardio" like running or eliptical or whatnot, am going to add a brisk morning walk for a fasting burn That already brings you above 20g. ;) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/06/16 01:59 PM |
| 5 | An MRP experiment: Help me get leanYou're a fat fuck. Also: MyFitnessPal /r/keto /r/ketogains | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/06/16 01:09 PM |
| 12 | A lot of the difference between TRP and TBP comes down to selection bias.My bias is that I'm married. A recurring BP theme here is that the theory only matches superficial airheads (or "shitty" and "toxic" women). I could observe the behaviors that matched the model on my wife who has never been stereotypical promiscuous party girl. In my experience, this shit works whether you want to pick up college girls on spring break or fix your marriage after 20 years. For me, the biggest proof is not TRP, it's deadbedrooms (example). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/16 12:23 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Not everything is about sex.Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/16 05:42 AM |
| 2 | RP field reports and publication biasFor me, TRP field reports were never super important. The 3 things that "proved" RP concepts to me were in order of importance: Female behavior I've seen in the past suddenly made sense. Things that women did that I would discard as, "oh, she was being crazy" suddenly all fell into patterns. Changes that RP predicts would bring success did. /r/deadbedrooms posts also make complete sense now. I consider them much more "valid" for verifying RP, because the posters there are pretty much all ignoran… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/16 06:20 PM |
| 1 | What are non-alpha men supposed to do?Now you've told them they're losers whose wives are secretly not attracted to them. "Secretly". :D How much time have you spent on /r/deadbedrooms? :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/16 04:17 PM |
| 5 | What is BP and what is RP?You mean quickly moving on to a better relationship when the opportunity presents itself? (branch swinging) Or only feeling not-miserable with a higher quality mate? (hypergamy) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/16 07:17 PM |
| 3 | What is BP and what is RP?I thought more about it. The blue pill, the 'default' is what media and society tells you about sex, attraction, relationships and female behavior. Red Pill thinking states that compared to the baseline of what most men raised in Western society are lead to believe: Women have much stronger promiscuous tendencies Muscles, looks and height are more important for female attraction Money and status are more important for female attraction Arrogant, cocky, assertive, zero-fucks-given behavior is mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/16 05:48 PM |
| 11 | What is BP and what is RP?"Red Pill" - however to me means "what society tells you about how things are is bullshit, the reality is something else." I think this is a good summary. The attitudes, assumptions and expectations that 99% of us in Western society have been raised with when it comes to sexual attraction, mate selection, relationships etc. is what I consider "blue pill". The default that most people with 0 exposure to red pill ideas would agree on. I give you an example. Many of the relationship books I've read… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/16 04:15 PM |
| 2 | [Discussion] Is life-long romantic love an illusion, or is it just extremely rare?My favorite Onion article for this: Length Of Relationship Mistaken For Quality Of Relationship Those close to the Rafterys are also said to have mistakenly referred to their paralyzing fear of being alone as “true love.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/16 10:25 AM |
| 1 | If you could go back and give yourself advice right when you entered the SMP, what would you tell yourself?:) Fixed it, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/16 05:18 PM |
| 4 | Labour MP admits that feminism may have contributed to the collapse of the family unit…thoughts of pill poopers?Feminism didn't help, but it was the sweeping change in attitudes after the introduction of the birth control pill that caused the "breakdown of the traditional family". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/16 04:17 PM |
| 14 | Labour MP admits that feminism may have contributed to the collapse of the family unit…thoughts of pill poopers?We're getting there. "Two out of five births in the OECD club of rich countries—and two out of three in Latin America—are now outside marriage." http://www.economist.com/news/leaders/21688395-family-law-has-not-kept-up-changes-families-when-unmarried-parents-split?frsc=dg%7Cd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/16 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 02, 2016I find it extremely hard to calorie restrict to the point where I reliably lose weight at a decent rate. Have you tried /r/keto yet? Once I realized that insulin was the most likely culprit for my constant hunger and dropped sugar and most carbs from my diet, controlling my weight has become much easier. Also: bacon. :D | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/02/16 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Why does TRP believe in the double-standard of the "master key" and "broken lock"This. Male sexuality (modulo the Ryan Goslings of the world) has no value compared to female sexuality. I highly recommend: Sexual Economics: A Model of Heterosexual Behavior by Dr. Kathleen Vohs Sex is a female resource and men are ready to trade other resources (money, preferential treatment etc.) for it. The opposite is not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/16 02:11 PM |
| 9 | If you could go back and give yourself advice right when you entered the SMP, what would you tell yourself?"Life is not a movie. Everyone lies. Good guys lose. And love… does not conquer all." Never allow a woman to be in control of birth charge of birth control. Don't be needy. Avoid Oneitis. Start lifting today. No, it's not only for dumb people. It'll give you self confidence and self discipline. A man with options is 100x more attractive than one who declares his undying love. You can't negotiate desire. Women won't tell you the truth. Women are not men. Don't try to argue with them rationally, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/16 09:33 AM |
| 2 | I'm having a rough patch and need some insight.This counts as negotiating desire. You're basically doing a "spreadsheet guy". Trying to use facts or rational arguments to negotiate attraction. It won't work. Guaranteed. Choreplay also won't work. It is known. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/02/16 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Does testosterone affect political views.I don't know if it's testosterone specifically, but in several European countries the anti-immigration right is supported by mostly male voters. During the past decades anti-immigrant parties (in the literature also referred to as populist, extreme right/ right winged or radical extreme parties) have won electoral successes in several West European countries. A striking common feature of these successes is that they in large have been confined to male voters. In most countries men have been much… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/16 08:03 AM |
| 1 | 90% of mammal species are polygynous (few males get the lion's share in mating). why would anyone think that the homo sapiens species could be any different?Genetical data indicates that: "In more recent history, as a global average, about four or five women reproduced for every one man." source There were "bottlenecks" when the ratio between reproducing males vs females dropped to 1:17. source | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/16 04:34 PM |
| 7 | Where on TBP does it say that women are better than men, ,that "just be yourself" is the only dating advice you need or that male self-improvement is bad?"Necessary" is strong. There are many ways to compensate for a lack of physical fitness (e.g. being tall, rich, charismatic etc.) But all things being equal a physically fit guy will generate more attraction. Longer term if you really let yourself go (very common in marriages for example) you significantly increase the risk of her leaving or deadbedrooming you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/16 03:44 PM |
| 13 | Where on TBP does it say that women are better than men, ,that "just be yourself" is the only dating advice you need or that male self-improvement is bad?The ones who demonise male self-improvement like "don't go to the gym for women" or things like that. My piece of anecdata. Every time I started lifting, my own wife tried to discourage me from doing it. Big muscles are meh, they only help if you want to pick up girls in a bar etc. I ignored her and when it came up again I showed her my workout book I'm using and for about 5 seconds the facade dropped, she forgot about herself giggled and mired the abs of the ripped dude on the cover. That prove… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/16 03:37 PM |
| 8 | Where on TBP does it say that women are better than men, ,that "just be yourself" is the only dating advice you need or that male self-improvement is bad?They aren't necessary to have relationships, though. To quote a great man, personality goes a long way "Looks-money-status-game" If you are disadvantaged in one department you can make it up elsewhere. You don't have to be super fit if you're a rockstar or some other high status person. But while getting physically fit is a lot of effort, for many men, it's still easier to reach than high status or lots of money. Hence the advice on being fit if you want to maximize your chances of success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/16 02:54 PM |
| 3 | This sub keeps failing, here is whyThere is very little that is actually verifiable. Looking and keeping fit to attract the opposite sex and not taking what people say at face value is commonsense and not exclusive to the red pill. When I was struggling with my dead bedroom I got a HUGE stack of by Willard F. Harley, Michele Weiner-Davis and many other 'mainstream' sources. The most recommended (as per Amazon) relationship fixing books. Watched all the TED talks and YouTube videos that I could get my hands on. I desperately wante… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/16 02:15 PM |
| 3 | This sub keeps failing, here is whyIt is laughable to think that the red pill uses "heuristics". Not sure if serious. [heuristic]: is any approach to problem solving, learning, or discovery that employs a practical method not guaranteed to be optimal or perfect, but sufficient for the immediate goals. "You'll be more successful when you lift" or "don't take what she says at face value" are heuristics. There are dozens, maybe hundreds of others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/16 12:01 PM |
| 1 | You can't wreck a happy home. True or false?It's more an in between "you've changed - why are you being such a selfish, insensitive asshole?" during an argument. A constant challenge for new MRP members is not to go "full Rambo" overboard and apply the advice in a nuanced way. E.g. once they understand the concept of shit tests they're prone to turning everything into a fight where they absolutely can't and won't back down. However. After they discover MRP there is a power shift in the relationship. They stop placating and appeasing their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/16 11:52 AM |
| 18 | This sub keeps failing, here is whyI'm a lurker and actually find worthwhile stuff on this sub, because TRP can and does fall victim to groupthink. Having your viewpoints challenged is healthy. I'd like to add to the reasons while arguments here seem to be hopeless: 1 - It's very rare to see that TRP openly rejects it's most radical elements. Maybe they get some downvotes, but it's rarely visible. This makes them look crazier than I think most of them really are, because for an outsider who is already dislikes them these posts / … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/16 03:45 PM |
| 5 | Does red pill recognize the relationship between porn and promiscuity?Despite "slut shaming" and the like, a lot of women still can't shake the idea that deep down, what men really want is a whore who fucks like a champ and gets around. What many men want is a good girl who is only bad for them. While typically women want a bad boy, who is only good with them. Men do want a girl who fucks them like a pornstar, but not one who gets fucked by as many men as a pornstar would be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/16 12:27 PM |
| 2 | What was the biggest change in your life after you "took the red/blue pill"?More sex. Way more. Also: much better at understanding and predicting female behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/16 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Does this woman's article finally reconcile the debate?Of course it won't reconcile the debate. Pretty much no internet debate or argument changes anyone's opinions ever. ;) The article reads as if it was written by a red piller. Bookmarked. Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/15 01:07 PM |
| 3 | TRP doesn't give men what they want. It just convinces them that they don't want it.I don't think that what men want is impossible, because I know that women do actually love men. We do care about men. We can empathize with their problems and we want men to be happy. This is as much as a part of AWALT as occasionally being a piece of shit. When you say men here it assumes a certain quality and for the most part won't apply to the bottom X%. At least not the way most men are conditioned to believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/15 11:48 AM |
| 2 | Wife found MRPMy wife also discovered MRP and it really does make things harder. She read a lot of stuff and now uses RP terminology in shit tests. It doesn't mean that it doesn't still work. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/12/15 09:01 AM |
| 3 | TRP is unlikely to be true.The Red Pill is a model. It doesn't have to be "true" for it to be successful, just a better predictor of female behavior than the next best available model. I highly recommend Isaac Asimov's essay, "The Relativity of Wrong" on this subject. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/15 10:17 AM |
| 2 | The real MRP and youGreat comment. Thanks. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/11/15 10:13 AM |
| 0 | [PSA] She Will SnoopCan confirm. My wife read all my reddit posts after getting a glance of a browser window with askmrp open. She probably still does. (Hi, Sugarbuns! o/ ) She also started looking into TRP/MRP reading some books (NMMNG, MMSLP) etc. Freaked out quite a bit initially. She tried to use RP lingo in arguments to throw me off balance (dread, hamster, shit test, relinquishing leadership), but it didn't work. It can make things much harder. In my case it's because she convinced herself that this is some s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/11/15 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Wife depressed, MRP Okey?Just FYI anti-depressant medication (SSRIs in particular) can strongly affect her libido and the effects can linger for months. | /r/askMRP | 05/11/15 02:41 PM |
| 0 | CMV:Women will never want casual sex as much as men.Obligatory YouTube link: Are women as horny as men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/15 09:44 AM |
| 3 | Wife complains about loud neighbors, I try to confront them, she drags her feetIt's not about the nail. | /r/askMRP | 02/10/15 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Source of the "rock" and "oak" metaphors?Do you happen to know which was the originating 'oak' post? | /r/askMRP | 09/09/15 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 08, 2015Owning my shit. I feel like I'm making ok progress with shit tests and reading and workouts. BUT. My insomnia is not under control yet. I dropped my caffeine intake by 75% and I'm going to zero in 3 days. My sleep cycles are all fucked up though and it's affecting... My performance at work. I have trouble focusing. I get to the office very early and I'm productive in the morning but after a few hours I get tired and easily distracted. Early afternoon I'm ready to crash. I started using the Pomod… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/09/15 05:17 PM |
| 2 | She insists to know exactly what I'm doing and exactly what I'm hoping to achieveThanks, this is very useful input. I see how it might be productive for some people. I thought about this in the past couple of days and I think I'm not going to play with open cards just yet. Both MAP and MMSLP have a roadmap in which Phase VII (?) is divorce and the husband is slowly escalating towards it over time. I'm not sure if she wouldn't just freak out learning about this and just give up or do more duty sex. Since she's currently still low libido I can imagine that she can't picture he… | /r/askMRP | 08/09/15 02:50 PM |
| 1 | She insists to know exactly what I'm doing and exactly what I'm hoping to achieveHow early did you do this though? I just skimmed through MAP and the author doesn't advise to do this in Phase 1-2. I only started the actual MRP stuff a few weeks ago but I dropped a lot of weight and started working out about 8 months back. | /r/askMRP | 07/09/15 10:25 AM |
| 1 | She insists to know exactly what I'm doing and exactly what I'm hoping to achieveThanks! MAP is the next book on my list. (Currently finishing WISNIFG.) | /r/askMRP | 07/09/15 05:55 AM |
| 1 | She insists to know exactly what I'm doing and exactly what I'm hoping to achieveThanks! I'll keep it in my back pocket. Many years ago I begged her to read a couple of books and she never did. Pissed me off really bad. I guess that made me biased against giving her reading materials. | /r/askMRP | 07/09/15 05:06 AM |
| 1 | She insists to know exactly what I'm doing and exactly what I'm hoping to achieveWhy? Why are you cold and aloof when your wife is crying? That is when you take her into your arms to reassure her. I'm not cold when she's crying. I'm pretty sure she says that because I just smile at her shit tests now. She just cries a lot. That's her thing. This was always like this. We go out for coffee and talk about her plans of re-enrolling in college and she just starts crying. It took me a while to get used to it. Now that I know about comfort tests I alway pull her on my chest and kis… | /r/askMRP | 07/09/15 05:04 AM |
| 2 | She insists to know exactly what I'm doing and exactly what I'm hoping to achieveTake this with a big grain of salt but with an irate wife worried like that why not just hand her the book No More Mr. Nice Guy or MAP or MMSL and tell her to read it. Especially MMSL- it explains everything. Then get her "The Surrendered Wife" if she seems receptive after learning "what you are up too." Err. Is this known to work? I'll keep this as a last resort. I'm concerned that she'd just cherry pick the books to justify getting upset about the parts she decides she doesn't like or the part… | /r/askMRP | 06/09/15 08:04 PM |
| 1 | [Noob] shit tests in the kitchenHaha. I like that. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/09/15 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Setting a 1 year deadline: is it a covert contract?If 12 months from now, you're still a fucking mess and your wife doesn't respect you, how is that her fault? I think while this was hard to swallow at first, by now I realized the truth that it's not really her fault that she's not attracted to me. I don't blame her any more. As Louis CK said "she took like 500 for the team, you gotta respect that!". | /r/askMRP | 03/09/15 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Setting a 1 year deadline: is it a covert contract?I'm afraid that (historically) things only improved because I threatened with leaving, not because anything else I did otherwise. (To clarify: this happened several times, but all pre-RP.) | /r/askMRP | 03/09/15 03:18 PM |
| 2 | [Noob] shit tests in the kitchenI've heard of bj week before, but I always assumed that it was just a myth. Is that a real thing that actually happens to real people? :) Maybe further down the line. When we moved past the duty starfish. To me all this sounds like you just rewarded the "hard no". In your mind it might be because of sex over the last month, but that is a covert contract. I gaurentee she didn't put 2 and 2 together. You might be right. For the rest of the no-sex period I plan to keep my distance. I actually have … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/09/15 12:38 PM |
| 1 | [Noob] shit tests in the kitchenYeah, the breakfast was pretty awesome. She did in fact compliment it. Her cycles are very irregular, she's not on the pill. I try to track with a normal calendar. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/09/15 12:33 PM |
| 3 | [Noob] shit tests in the kitchenThat's actually a good point and you might be right. I almost never cook nowadays, I don't know if that's the cause or the effect of her behavior. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/09/15 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Wife has past sexual issues that impacts the results of MRPSSRI is a huge libido killer. Note that the effects can stick around even 6 months after your wife stops taking them. | /r/askMRP | 30/08/15 08:36 AM |
| 3 | So whats our endgame?I'm new here. What's A&A? Is there a glossary where all these terms are listed? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/08/15 08:21 AM |
| 1 | [Early phase] Negotiating sex?What about quality? Will that also improve without communication just because of all the other steps I'm taking? | /r/askMRP | 21/08/15 07:49 AM |
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