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Exactly. She was foolish to tell him about the savings. If she wanted to show him savings, she should have opened a fake account and put $100 in there so he could see what she has "saved". Never tell men about your secret stashes of money elsewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:32 PM
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The only mistake she made was telling him about the money. Doesn't matter how much you may love him, every smart woman should already know to keep a piece of her money in a place where her husband couldn't get to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:29 PM
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He's always wanted from have sex with her sister. This is just the way to that goal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:24 PM
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I don't date men who call themselves feminists. In my experience, they have ALWAYS used that label to try to go 50/50 on dates or to get to try to get sex on first dates. They try to forego the entire vetting process by saying "I'm a feminist!". 🙄🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:22 PM
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...and then everyone clapped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 08:39 PM
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If a man can't protect you from other men then what is the point in dating him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 04:43 PM
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So far, the only benefit I've gotten out of relationships is the ability to cuddle with another person. Other than that it's been headache after headache. I'll welcome an HVM if or when he comes around but being single childfree just allows me so much more freedom. I refuse to feel ashamed for enjoying that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 04:00 PM
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I used to know a pickmeisha who was doing just that for a guy. She found a guy with no money, no job, no car, no goals, baby-mama drama, and nothing to offer other than good looks and "nice conversation". She would encourage him to live a non-bummy lifestyle. To get a job, to get back in school, to find a career. I asked her why she was doing all of this instead of just finding a man who already had those things. She said "So he can have a good foundation for when we're dating. Even if he doesn'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 03:52 PM
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Right? That escalated quick...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 06:58 PM
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And be careful for the "nice guy" as well. From my experience, these types of men will always bring up how "nice" they are in an effort to guilt you into dating or even sleeping with them. When you try to set boundaries or flat out tell him he does not meet your dating preferences, it will always be met with "but I'm a nice guy!". It's quite manipulative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 06:56 PM
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Pick-mes are always ready to show how desperate they are online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 09:52 PM
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Fuck-boys always try to pick the conversation back up a few months later and are actually surprised that they will not be entertained.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 09:47 PM
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He's scared she'll leave his little-dick ass and bang one of the guys she told him about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 09:43 PM
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I wish I could like this a hundred times. My older girlfriends have taught me so much not just about dating but about life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 05:04 AM
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Yeah I was out of breath reading that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 04:05 PM
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I loved this story. Congratulations on your level up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 02:35 PM
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Thank you. Men can simply call themselves a feminist to manipulate you into dating and sleeping with them. They can still be a misogynist, disrespectful and LVM despite saying "I'm a feminist".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 02:12 PM
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I will never date a man who calls himself a feminist. I am seeing guys hide behind the term "feminist" to get you to do the role reversal stuff with him like paying for his meals, taking him on dates, and all kinds of shit that a man should be doing when courting a woman. Say no to "feminist" men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 02:09 PM
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She's gonna a pay off his debt for him and then leave her for. This is a pick-me tale.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 03:17 AM
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He can't even see his penis and he has these kinds of requests.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 03:10 AM
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But who's trying to seduce a neckbeard?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 02:57 AM
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Omg I went on a date a date with a fool like this. He said he's a "feminist man"...meaning he's broke, wants a woman paying for dates and wants sex on the first date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 02:53 AM
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I met a guy who did this too. He said he works for the government. He just worked at the post office. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 06:42 AM
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This happened to me once. I met a guy on a college campus and he said he was studying kinesiology. A few weeks later admits that he never even finished high school, that at 30 years old he was still studying to get a GED while he struggled working 2 jobs to make ends meet. I asked him "what happened to you studying kinesiology?" and he says "I AM studying kinesiology after I get my GED!". Needless to say, it was over after that. LVM love using word games to trick women into dating them. They hop…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 06:40 AM
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No problem. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/19 12:39 AM
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You are entitled to your opinion. But yes, I am in an LTR and no one has balked at it. My SO knows exactly what I expect from him in our relationship (lead and provide). He is okay and it works for us.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/19 07:31 PM
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Exactly. I went on some dates with a man who seemed to believe that he is the prize, that I needed to take him on dates, buy him dinner, buy him drinks, and basically court him, not the other way around. He threw a tantrum when I disagreed with that dynamic and I had to break that off immediately. If that was how the courting stage was going to be then just imagine how the relationship would have been. I would have been taking care of and completely supporting a total bum. This is the extreme of…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/19 05:26 PM
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Stop offering to pay. Do not even take out your wallet. You are the prize here and he should be paying for all your meals and all your dates.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/19 05:15 PM
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Never take a man seriously who approaches you with just the offer of sex and then "maybe" a relationship in the future. He's going to take the sex and ghost you. He's a clown. Men who you feel you need to "persuade" to be in a relationship don't want a relationship, just sex. You need to have him properly court you before sex. He needs to take you on dates, buy you gifts, maybe even give you money. After that, he needs to offer a relationship. Then sex is on the table. If he can't do either of t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/19 05:20 AM
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Me too! I thought that being the tomboy that's cool with all the guys would make me seem edgy and different, even more dateable! Lol. It couldn't be further from the truth.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/19 04:22 AM
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Stay off the feminist bandwagon. Being "strong and independent" actually masculinizes women. Arguing, shouting down, and emasculating men also doesn't make you "strong", just masculine. It's okay to express a desire to look, feel, and be feminine. It's okay to have gender roles and have a desire to see them preserved. Social media is a toxic place where women are encouraged to be men to be "strong". It's okay to unplug from social media altogether if all the content I see is encouraging masculin…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/19 04:19 AM
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Try to jump right into it. When I was growing up, I was a huge tomboy. All wore were jeans, t-shirts, and Van's skate shoes every single day. By the time college came around I wanted a more feminine look but was terrified of wearing a dress or a skirt. So I jumped right into it. I bought ton of different dresses, skirts, and nice blouses and decided that's what I would be wearing every single day until I felt more confident wearing these things. And it WORKED. To this day I almost primarily wear…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/19 10:16 AM
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Michelle Obama. I like how she seems embraces her femininity.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/19 08:17 PM
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He doesn't want to marry you. Give him an ultimatum. He's getting married to you or you're walking. If he says no then cut your losses and leave. In the future, dont get with guys for their potential because once you support him on his way up, he will dump you for having low standards and then he will choose a woman who dates successful men with money. Choose a man who already had his life together by the time he met you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/19 02:15 AM
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You're a doormat. Throw the man away.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/19 04:30 PM
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I swallowed the red pill 3 years ago and had an anger phase. I didn't understand the nature of men and how they work. I didn't understand that men will sweet talk and sleep with anything but still not have any feelings for you whatsoever no matter how much you try to change their mind. I started to feel better and more empowered once I learned to see through the sweet talk and manipulation and started setting boundaries and rules for the men that I talk to. It's how I learned to be selective ins…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/19 01:56 PM
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