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Personally i blame the fact that more and more the MALE run goverment is continually taking away womens rights which really shouldn’t have been possible BUT NOPE IT IS I GUESS. More and more males these days are either assholes, or realize they’re not men but trapped in mens bodies. honestly it’s kinda pushed women into this social corner where it’s fight or flight and flight usually winds up with her in the arms of a woman or someone who’s not a man at all. Very few genuine dudes remain, and a …
/r/seduction30/10/22 12:33 PM
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a big part of this mindset is a male's attachment to porn, women are people too. you stop watching porn it suddenly becomes easy to view women as people and not just sexual objects
/r/seduction28/09/22 08:26 AM
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ill be honest. yes. you should tell your gf, to not is to hold a potentially relationship damning secret. break it to her gently, but that nothing beyond this scenario had happened, but you ought to share the suspicions but reassure your girl you're there for her, no one else because in terms of a relationship, your girl ought to be your first priority, not any other girl.
/r/seduction03/09/22 10:05 AM
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Nah, a lot of toxic women can manipulate weak men into spending all their paycheck on said woman. How do i know? I was a weak man and got manipulated into spending all my money on her. She had me buy gifts for her, she volunteered my car to give her friends rides without asking for gas money to replace MY gas SHE burned. Anytime i’d ask for some gas money she’d get upset and gaslight me into not taking any because she’d never ask her friends for gas. Even tho all of them had money to fucking spe…
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:23 AM
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These comments haven’t mentioned, but stop your porn useage it’ll comflict with thoughts and emotions in your brain during actual sex compared to virtual closet jerking
/r/seduction17/08/22 10:44 PM
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I realized a lot of it had to do with my porn addictions. Now i can talk to women no problem
/r/seduction16/06/22 12:08 AM
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I mean that’s a very black and white way of looking at it. I’ve spent endless time and wasted endless time on dating apps and got sick and fucking tired of it, so i stopped. But hey you do you bro, do nothing and see what happens
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:11 AM
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Idk man, i’ve come to realize that love happens when it happens and dating apps are the biggest waste of time and energy you could be putting into you.
/r/seduction12/06/22 04:49 AM
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If i have a connection with the girl i wouldn’t mind talking and hooking up again. I could never be heartless to bang n ditch
/r/seduction12/05/22 08:32 AM
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Ah i killed my libido and ability to talk to women.
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:58 PM
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Good. Then you’re already on your way! But also unlearning what you know will help because if you watch too much tv that’ll affect your social cues too
/r/seduction29/04/22 07:31 PM
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Healthy to an extent i won’t deny, but it can become just as addicting as heroin, minus heorin’s drawbacks, but it releases the same happy brain chemicals
/r/seduction29/04/22 07:07 PM
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I have a suggestion, cut watching porn, it’ll boost your confidence when you unlearn toxic mindsets, not saying you’re toxic in particular, but that porn can be detrimental to your ability to talk to women
/r/seduction29/04/22 05:20 PM
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not anymore, first it was intense horniness. now my hormones act like they're not there.
/r/seduction01/04/22 01:49 PM
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I legit need to get in this mindset, i keep letting my monkey brain get into “need partner. Will be happy with attractive partner.” Lmfao i need to just let it happen and i cannot force it
/r/seduction28/03/22 03:32 PM
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Tbh just be upfront with what you’re looking for man. The sly games people try to play are old n done, you wanna not involve certain feelings make sure you’re upfront and honest. Women don’t wanna be led on and you become an incredibly big douche to them if you do lead them on. And that’s low key kinda toxic
/r/seduction12/03/22 11:23 AM
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in my experience it makes talking with girls hard because i'd say the wrong thing and not realize just how wrong it was. i was disconnected 10/10 did not feel very cash money of me
/r/seduction09/03/22 01:54 PM
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I don’t do so often. Mostly because ingrown hairs cause zits and i hate having huge honker zits on my pubes thanks
/r/seduction09/03/22 10:32 AM
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Oh, not a girl. But 26
/r/seduction03/03/22 11:21 AM
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I do, but only of she is okay with it, because the girl i was talking with was into it but i think she used it to see if we had any sparks between us. I thought yes, but apparently it was no
/r/seduction26/02/22 10:01 PM
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I mean, hey if it works for you then hey it works for you! I’ve often found fast and hard leaves no room to actually develop any friendship and solid dating relationship base, then the relation will only fizzle out from there
/r/seduction25/02/22 03:37 PM
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and even then, treating dating like a program will result in unhappiness because it's honestly somethin you just learn to feel out over time. plus communications
/r/seduction25/02/22 02:50 PM
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Idk. I thought she liked the cologne but after she 180’d on me i’m not so sure
/r/seduction24/02/22 11:03 AM
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Tbh i’m dull as a rock so it takes me “i’m not interested in you” told to me straight forward to get ot because my brain will misread everything and tbh, listen to your brain and gut. I convinced myself this queen was into me. Then she 180’s on me and says she feels like she’s leading me on for one reason or another. Which may have been partially true but she should have said flat out she wasn’t into me. Now? I’m not into her anymore. If all she wants is finished product ripped adonis me that i …
/r/seduction24/02/22 11:03 AM
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I’ll be honest man, it’s hard, it’s really hard 😩 i’ve not gotten totally over the physical aspect but i feel no burning need to watch porn anymore
/r/seduction13/02/22 05:14 PM
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For me it was a result of improper sexual education, porn addiction, and emotionally immature parents who weren’t ever planning on educating me on how to approach women. It was making me objectify women and it made it hard to act like a normal person around them because monkey brain only had images of online sex and plap plap plap
/r/seduction13/02/22 10:28 AM
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Simple answer: don’t compare, you’ll find plenty of 9s and 10s Complicated answer: focus on yourself first man. Love yourself before you love others and if you put THAT much stock into seeking to date 9s and 10s you’ll never find love or be happy. Patience, it’ll come to you
/r/seduction11/02/22 11:22 AM
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Haha. NO
/r/seduction10/02/22 11:09 AM
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to be honest man, i feel you there. its the hormone monster screeching loudly after the dry spell. you want a girlfriend? hey fantastic! you can work on that! my method was calm and steady, but its also a pain to balance the want for casual sex with the need to build an intimate relationship. love will happen you just gotta let it happen. forcing it will push it back further. i made my attempts thru, of all places, on Plenty of Fish. i got lucky sure, but that's how i did it. also you need PATIE…
/r/seduction07/02/22 02:34 PM
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Duuuuuuude. Noice
/r/seduction22/01/22 11:09 AM
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Tbh this is how i stopped panicking. Also i realized i’m hot too so that greatly helped lmao
/r/seduction22/01/22 11:04 AM
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All this but also give porn a break. It’s easy to become addicted when you have nothing going and you need that happy brain chemical release. But it’ll shit on self image and that can be the WORST thing
/r/seduction18/01/22 12:58 PM
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Ooof, i think i know the issue. Is her self confidence okay? I used to have similar issues where i could mess with but never penetrate because my brain’d start racing one way or another. For me it was porn that killed my libido, have you talked to her about it and reassured her? Is she willing to talk, if you can listen it’ll be of great help to her my brudda
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:40 AM
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Maybe she just needs some gatorade and a day to recharge. Maybe ask if she’d be willing to sit on your face and eat her like a professional, focus on the bell above, not the hole, nor the hole below, tonguing hole is good, but you want electricity go for the bell between her legs
/r/seduction11/01/22 03:52 AM
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I wouldn’t exactly say i’ve over come it but when i put my brain to it, it’s just an addiction and if i will myself hard enough to not watch porn, i find it kinda easy. My hormones build back up, i get this loud voice in my head telling me to spray my cum everywhere. Tbh it sounds a lot like Maurice Beverly
/r/seduction29/12/21 01:57 PM
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Porn addiction caused me to not be able to keep it up when i was with my girlfriends. They’d assumed the worst because i diverted all sexual needs towards the internet as i’d had this issue for about a decade and i didn’t assume only masturbating once or twice a day was bad. It was. It gave me confidence issues. Made me a creep to women, and i COULDN’T KEEP IT UP. It was like i was into the foreplay but when it came time to skin on skin something in my brain would shut down. I’d lose my boner an…
/r/seduction29/12/21 01:08 AM
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Lol warts are one thing try having type 1 diabetes and accepting you’ll have it for the rest of your life
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:43 PM
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Honestly i feel you buddy. Paranoia is one thing but let me ask, do you watch porn? That surprisingly has a huge cause in social anxiety when it comes to sex. Immediately you just need to breathe and ground yourself. It’s a night of fun so meditation and talking with the girl (or guy) will help you. If your partner’s not interested in getting to know you, then idk, i use comedy as a deflecting method. But maybe some weed might help?
/r/seduction28/12/21 02:05 PM
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Give em the old razzle dazzle finger guns
/r/seduction17/12/21 01:16 AM
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Yeah i’ve been livin in that shit since 95 so i needa make some money and move tf out hopefully to enjoy some time being alive and not hating it
/r/seduction08/12/21 03:19 PM
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Ok that’s also entirely fair as to why other countries hate us, tbh i’m kinda ashamed so much of america is like this when i’ve been saying anerican capitalism isn’t actually capitalism but some evil version of it
/r/seduction08/12/21 01:36 PM
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Haha yeah, if you wanna call almost every sensible country hating us for lacking in progressiveness
/r/seduction08/12/21 08:35 AM
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Completely fair assessment given we’re faceless accounts on a website such as this, i only speak from multiple experiences and i have 0 reason to lie about it 🤷‍♂️ especially on my own post’s comment thread
/r/seduction06/12/21 03:47 AM
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It’s ironic too because in the gay community i’m a 20/10
/r/seduction05/12/21 09:44 PM
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I agree i need to but damn, i miss pussy man 😩
/r/seduction05/12/21 08:12 AM
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Oh not at all my friend, the women in my area, specifically on sites like pof and okc literally 90% of the profiles that aren’t false are asking for money upfront, or they’ll say “add my snap” and when i do it’s “money for companionship in whatever forme it takes”
/r/seduction05/12/21 07:27 AM
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It ain’t some, in my area on POF, literally 90% of the profiles on there, if not fake, are selling themselves for money, usually the nerdy type i’m looking for too, then the other are just well, other folks i’m equally uninterested in for other reasons
/r/seduction05/12/21 07:10 AM
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I’m vocal af if it’s better that the sex doesn’t contine and we remain just friends, sure it might bruse the ego a little but i’m not gonna be a little shitbag douche canoe
/r/seduction05/12/21 03:24 AM
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Tbh i’d be more than happy to discuss an actual relationship if that’s what she wants but any messages i send out are either left unreplied or they want money for spending more than an hour of their time with me
/r/seduction04/12/21 08:57 PM
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Lol as i said you’re fine man i’m not mad about it 🤷‍♂️ to me the comment woulda been arseholey if you included some line from a copy of the bible followed by mindless religious ranting on a topic that’s clearly not based on anything religious lol
/r/seduction04/12/21 08:49 PM
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Tbh i was more so thinking about all the ways i and many others would weird women out, thankfully i was never the unsolicited pic kinda person but i have weirded women out like douches did then it kinda evolved into this
/r/seduction04/12/21 08:47 PM
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Lol initially i was like squints intensely at it, but i wasn’t bothered, so you’re good my g you’re good
/r/seduction04/12/21 08:38 PM
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Yeah that part i wouldn’t be into 😂 sorryyyyyuh
/r/seduction04/12/21 08:37 PM
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I have morals, i lnow my good from evil and the ethics involved
/r/seduction04/12/21 08:28 PM
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Lol ironically i’m not into people with kids, 30’s i can understand kids, but people 26 and younger? Oof too many which makes it harder for me 😂😩😂
/r/seduction04/12/21 08:28 PM
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Tbh that’s all i’m tryna find 😩
/r/seduction04/12/21 08:25 PM
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I stopped watching porn you’d be suprised but it really does help a LOT of things improve when it comes to talking with people
/r/seduction04/12/21 08:17 PM
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Oh yeah wholly agreed. Begging is neckbeardy as FUCK
/r/seduction19/10/21 03:14 PM
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Money yes but also being an honestly decent person. Not “i’m a nice guy gimme a chance please”
/r/seduction19/10/21 12:11 PM
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See? I would agree to disagree. Some people genuonely don’t and that’s on them. Their loss. But when you talk like this. It still puts me in mind of a child wanting his cake and eating it too. If you’re playing the game AND being “mature” you’re really just screaming how much of an insecure baby you are. Because fun fact, some women do care, and if you properly talk to them and they show interest then wow! Fantastic! You want abundance? You oughtta expect it to end fairly soon. But if you seriou…
/r/seduction16/10/21 03:09 AM
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Apologies but that sounds incredibly neckbeardy. Dude made the decision to cut it off and it’s incredibly mature of him. True a partner COULD break it off but in this case it’s the mature thing that OP did it first.
/r/seduction15/10/21 11:39 AM
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So this is gonna sound high af tho sadly i’m sober rn. The voice of self doubt, really, is a lot smaller than you think. You cannot go looking for women to complete you because that ain’t happenin. The self doubt voice is like a snall bug with a HUGE microphone. Or that one small guy on spongebob who yells “HOOPLA!” When you hear that voice tell you lies, it’s easy to give in because you have no other anchor to go off from, but in those cases you kinda gotta shrug it off and repeat mantras that …
/r/seduction11/10/21 10:48 AM
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Idk man, i’m all about consent before touching, or reading bidy language but if you’re just doing this when you first meet somebody and don’t even know each other it’s kiiiiinda neckbeard advice. Not any i’d take, then again, i’m already courting someone and whooo boy she has ass for dayyyys
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:23 AM
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Bruh this sounds neckbeardy as heck, also, what the heck is this?
/r/seduction09/10/21 06:30 AM
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Don’t think with your dick.
/r/seduction08/10/21 04:03 AM
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I kinda have a similar issue but i’m literally jjst tryna get out of my comfort zone. I’m gonna start going to the gym more, oh! And also i’m gonna start going out nightly more go open mic nights at bars
/r/seduction06/10/21 11:30 AM
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Booooom Phrasing
/r/seduction06/10/21 11:29 AM
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Sameeeee
/r/seduction05/10/21 08:45 PM
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Ok that point is fair. That’s money i’m WILLING to spend, but a lot i come across are literally just looking for money for sex and i’m like hey do you but not me
/r/seduction05/10/21 05:22 PM
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Tbh i used to think the same way, but after watching doctor who and reading some things between the lines i kinda learned there’s really no difference when it comes to who i sleep with so long as they fill my preferences. Sure it’s a slight difference compared to pnis and vgina but after everything else there’s really none. Soft Big booty guys exist, and effeminate ones KNOW how to use it. Smoke some weed and watch doctor who, you’ll realize quickly
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:36 AM
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Wholly agreed mate, idk the range of people you’d be willing to date or touch, but effeminate guys are like 10x better, true i could never date or sleep with a muscle head or anyone bigger than i, but effeminate guys are 😍😍😍😍
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:31 AM
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Yes it is difficult. Dating is NEVER as glamourous as tv makes it out to be, or as easy. Also dating’s evolved over they years and tbh i’d still never EVER consider paying for sex, from anyone, prostitute or escort.
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:27 AM
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Therapy. Letting go of things is hard thanks to abandonment, it’s taken me a long time to learn that it wasn’t my mom’s fault yet my brain instinctively made it her fault because of how young i was when i was abandoned for the short period i was. I was a fucking newborn with gaundice and the doctors kept me away from my mom and it kinda prevented that bonding that newborn infant and parent hold. I used to blame her for it a lot but therapy helped me otherwise. And yes i do believe this’s influen…
/r/seduction04/10/21 07:20 AM
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Tbh my overthinking used to come from my porn addictions because brain wanted fictional sex from girl i’m spending time with. You focus on her and nothing else and the fog in your brain should clear.You carry an imposter syndrome from the fear your confidence is actually false and just something you project? Tell your girlfriend that, be open and vulnerable so when you DO meet her friends, you can be an honest legitimate person about it. Because her friends will sniff your bs from a MILE away
/r/seduction04/10/21 05:30 AM
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Like others have said a lot of guys are average so you’re not alone, i’m average and i got a fupa with ED, so i got good with my other things, hands and tongue
/r/seduction14/09/21 08:00 PM
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There ya go, learnin is always cash money
/r/seduction06/09/21 10:57 AM
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It’s a bit of both, for women looking, they have to fish and hope that the next guy they talk to isn’t immediately tryna see nudes. Or isn’t a compmete douche. For guys if genuinely interested in not being a tool, they deal with catfishes and people simply looking for money in exchange for their time. Dating’s become incredibly muddled compared to yesteryear but with many reasons, some good some otherwise
/r/seduction06/09/21 10:54 AM
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Then you might have needed to reword because it’s never cash money to FORCE a girl into a decision
/r/seduction06/09/21 10:48 AM
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The fear of missing out? It’s exactly what that describes, trying to get someone to see what they’d be missing out if they don’t take initial interest in you is kinda creepy, if you don’t have chemistry you don’t have chemistry, maybe op could try being friends firstly which might help, but trying to puff your chest out like “oh you turned down my initial attempt lemme try HARDER” has never worked for me and i’ve learned how creepy that kinda thing is in this day n age. Speaking and trying to pa…
/r/seduction06/09/21 10:13 AM
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The girl’s either interested or, more likely, not, it’s shallow of the op to be a try hard and use the FOMO tactic, it comes off as creepy and douchey. I speak from experience
/r/seduction06/09/21 10:09 AM
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Ehhhhh that’s a middle school tactic of someone incredibly shallow. Not the best advice if you wanna aim for not looking like a douche nozzle or creep
/r/seduction06/09/21 09:33 AM
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Oh no, being interested isn’t fuckboy behavior. Ask me what fuckboy behavior truly is and i’ll dm you
/r/seduction01/09/21 10:52 PM
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Unfortunately this is also true. Many MANY dudes think with their lower head. Many dudes are fuckboys. You CANNOT do that. You cannot be a fuckboy
/r/seduction01/09/21 10:41 PM
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Also also, bear in mind that you have the capacity to learn around your autism, but you likely knew this as walking on coals, metaphorically, is a great way to learn
/r/seduction01/09/21 07:50 PM
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Not a problem man not a problem!
/r/seduction01/09/21 07:48 PM
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Yeah i had the opposite problem when i realized in High school that i had a baby face and grew some hair, people mistook me for older! The height also helped that as well lmao but still, grow a beard, you can pick what style you want because it’s you. Any one tells you to grow it one way or the other is how it’d work for them, not you. But also you gotta keep it undercontrol and not grow into a wild mane
/r/seduction01/09/21 07:47 PM
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Also if you have a baby face, grow some hair, trust me beard’s are a pain in the ass to keep moisturized but SO many find it attractive so hey 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction01/09/21 07:45 PM
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So firstly, research social cues, aspergers/autism is the absolute fucking biggest pain when it comes to social cues, BUT luckily for you i’ve experience in rejection and learning social cues, when talking to women you just kinda gotta be light on details at forst, they wanna ask what you do? Tell them a coulle sentances then ask what they do. Or if they ask your interests offer a few of them up, but maybe keep a list of interests and look up if they’re extreme or not if you don’t know. Because …
/r/seduction01/09/21 07:42 PM
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Embarassing for some, sure, but if you learn to git gud with your tongue you can make her cum too, also it’s probably an over abundance of porn that made him cum quickly and once dudes realize that’s not good, you last for a LOT longer and the cumshakes are that much better for it
/r/seduction30/08/21 05:12 PM
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I learned to be HUGELY sex positive in a good way, and tbh it’s a bandaid to be torn off but so WORTH it if your partner’s willing to try
/r/seduction28/08/21 08:17 AM
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Sooooooo depending on HOW much a bottom is, well, tbh, these ideas are good for any verse of a person. One, dudes love being rimjobbed, they’d never admit to it but getting their hole eaten out is 😍😍🤪🤪. Second, ask him his kinks? It’s good when you can have extra fun in the bedroom that’s not your typical plap plap plap. Maybe he wants to get pegged? Maybe he wabts to get milked? Maybe he wants a gag in his mouth and treated like a little whore. Who knows? That’s the fun of exploring kinks with …
/r/seduction28/08/21 07:09 AM
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Personally as neanderthal me self. Me have few suggestions. Maybe it because they claim they cannot control themselves when dudes just wanna be creepy. I kinda got called out on this recently and it really made me take inventory of my brain because some allow their blood to flow away from their brain resulting in their ability to think less. This is no excuse of course, it’s things i’ve learned about myself recently. These men need help in learning to take a hint
/r/seduction23/08/21 01:54 AM
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Agreed, that’s on them, not your problem or fault. Sure rejection is hard, but getting confident in yourself first will win over attatchment everytime
/r/seduction28/06/21 10:25 AM
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Gbizzle2 was correct in that reddit’s not the best place for counseling, but i do have SOME experience as a lot of rejection happened to me in highschool back to back, it’s probably why i got so attatched to those who DID accept me. The thing is. You’re gonna be hella tempted to become angry, jaded, and masturbate your feelings away. Surely you’d know as well as i that it’ll lead to addiction if you’re depressed enough. And i was. Still kinda am. You’ll feel like it’s your fault but really that’…
/r/seduction28/06/21 10:15 AM
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Tbh i don’t know about the latter question, but for the former half, i can tell you, it’s a domination thing. Like an almost animal type domination thing. Regardless of how straight you claim to be, you see someone that fits your list of likes, happens to be naked, AND there’s a hole to stick your incredibly enlarging bulge in, well, the idea of a penis doesn’t occur as “gay.” it occurs as a male just absolutely dominating (ya know, hopefully without abusing the bottom because being a douchey to…
/r/seduction03/05/21 03:09 PM
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I needed this education. Where the fuck was this when i was im highschool and i found myself to be a monster? Right now my confidence could be better because i’ve had such a stigma against my fat rolls. Then i learned i’m actually a pretty beefy guy under the rolls. Like a tall Wario with better facial hair and nose, like Star Lord. I can improve! But also dang i can give some PHENOM massages. And i’m fully confident in that ability of mine.
/r/seduction01/05/21 09:33 PM
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