itchysouth Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	CMV: Women should stop having casual sex unless it's a sugar daddy/sugar babe relationship I just edited my last comment to say that yes, the actual mean encounters per straight man and per straight woman have to be the same. But you were talking about wanting casual sex, which women do less.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 11:58 PM
7	Discuss: when do men hit The Wall? For real. As a 22yo woman, why would I be with a man in his 30s or 40s? Boys my age are fun. I’m doing okay financially so wealth doesn’t impress me unless it’s like, a LOT. My partner is my best friend. I’m not even sure I could be close friends with a 40yo man due to generational differences alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 10:45 PM
0	Where does this obsession with women’s sex lives come from? I wouldn’t date a man who I knew used prostitutes because I think it’s unethical. Nothing to do with body count. Same as if, as a vegetarian, I wouldn’t want to date a meat eater. It means our values are maligned.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 08:51 PM
1	Q4M: How would you feel if a man rejected/broke off a friendship with you because you weren't interested in a sexual relationship with him despite having actual chemistry? I would feel really shitty about it. It tells me that a sexual relationship with me is the only relationship they think is worth having. I’ve developed multiple potential-friendships with boys who then suddenly stop speaking to me when I talk about the relationship I’m already in. It sucks. I think for a second they’re making a big effort to, say, wait for me after a uni lecture so we can go do homework together because they enjoy spending time with me as a person. Lol nope I expect men to carry…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 08:43 PM
4	The Hypocrisy of FDS What are all their discussions on not being a Pickmeisha about then? About not being clingy, being financially independent? If you read their FAQ, they don’t discuss how to be more physically attractive because there are so many places online for that advice anyway. Needing to work on yourself physically is something most women (most people, really) have heard since they were a child, it’s a given. It won’t add any value to the subreddit, it will just dilute its core messages.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 08:22 PM
7	The Hypocrisy of FDS FDS as a subreddit doesn’t discuss much outside of dating strategies, self-respect, and the idea that it’s better to risk being on your own than be stuck in a shitty relationship. But IT DOESN’T HAVE TO. It’s specifically a subreddit for dating strategy, it’s in the name. Different feminist issues tend to get their own online spaces, especially if they’re at all controversial. This isn’t a bad thing. For example, a regular user of FDS might frequent /r/GenderCritical (whose ideas I often disagre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 07:07 PM
1	The Hypocrisy of FDS I’d really like a source on more women consuming violent porn than men. I’m not saying you’re wrong, it just conflicts with my lived experience so don’t want to just accept it as a fact without evidence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 06:43 PM
1	Should I dump a man who hasn't proposed to me in almost 2 years? It’s been a day, what did he say?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/20 03:49 PM
3	this porn sicko wants everyone to know he controls her, she's worried he will leave her if she doesn't obey. Next he’ll make her shave her head, lock her in the house and sleep in a dog cage. Or use those boards between her legs so she can’t shut them. It happens. Makes me feel sick.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/20 03:45 PM
2	Watch how he ‘play fights’ with you, I just saw this tweet where the guy is extremely violent while ‘playing’ I find it fun. My husband is very ticklish, so sometimes for fun I will try to pin him on the bed and tickle him and he will try to defend himself. I will wrestle with him and try to hold him still, which I find difficult (he’s 6’2’’ and strong) so it feels really nice when I manage to. I can’t rely on physical strength, so have to be clever and use speed/agility/leverage/the martial arts I learnt as a teenager. Difference is that he could physically stop me whenever he actually feels like it (b…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/20 03:24 PM
155	Remember, ladies, YOU are the prize. Still would be nice if Chris Brown actually faced legal consequences though	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/20 02:39 PM
3	Why SHOULDN’T we kink shame? When did we all decide people’s sexual preferences were separate from their actual values? I don’t understand what’s wrong with being trans as long as they’re not hurting anyone. A female childhood friend of mine has changed their name to a masculine one, and presents themselves as a man, and I can’t say I think they’re doing anything harmful. They only use unisex public bathrooms, for example, and steer clear of public changing rooms to avoid making either men or women uncomfortable. BDSM and porn are never okay in my book though.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/20 02:23 PM
1	Horrible Neglectful Father refuses to look for 8yo Son's lost dog or change his 6mo old daughter's diaper because he's too busy playing vidya. Pissed off wife, who is a COVID nurse, throws Vidya in the trash. He cops an attitude and has their mutual friend call and say she's being "childish". My dad used to neglect my brother when my mum was at work (without her knowledge, of course) and had emotional and behavioural issues for years. I cannot imagine leaving a 6 month old by themselves to cry for 20 minutes, let alone 7 hours.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/20 02:07 AM
6	Horrible Neglectful Father refuses to look for 8yo Son's lost dog or change his 6mo old daughter's diaper because he's too busy playing vidya. Pissed off wife, who is a COVID nurse, throws Vidya in the trash. He cops an attitude and has their mutual friend call and say she's being "childish". My dad told me a few years ago that when my siblings and I were babies and my mother was at work/out the house, he would just leave us to cry all day. We wouldn’t have remembered anything or told our mother, so it apparently didn’t matter. He would pick us up out of our cots and change us just before she was due home. When I told my mum she said she had no idea, and started crying because it explained our horrible separation anxiety from her, and lack of affection for our dad, as babies/toddlers…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/20 02:01 AM
3	I’ve Been Married 25 Years and Have NEVER had sex with my husband, not once. I keep finding random prescriptions for Viagra around the house and in his car. Stoya: "Have you tried writing him a letter?" He might legit have a physical issue, but that’s no excuse not to mention it in 25 years. He can still eat her out/ use his hands/ help her masturbate/ try a prosthetic. Lesbians manage fine. Even with the anxiety and shame it must cause to not have a working dick, not discussing it in 25 years is just... wild.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/20 01:45 AM
23	Porn Makes Men Terrible in Bed From what I gather, it does feel good for them, but so does the more careful, tender sex that feels good for the other person. They just don’t consider the latter as an option. Instead, they’ve been conditioned to think the jackhammering is the default, and, due to porn’s chronic fake orgasm issue, they assume women actually like it. Pulling their penis nearly all the way out every time they pump is especially anxiety inducing, let alone uncomfortable, because both parties could get injured if h…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/20 01:19 AM
15	This is why I’ll never marry a man who doesn’t cook or clean. Not only do they need to be taken care of like a child, they will actively undermine your efforts to raise your sons to be better. When I met my now-husband, he couldn’t boil pasta, work a washing machine, dryer, dishwasher or vacuum cleaner, or go grocery shopping. He literally did not know how to do those things. He would also leave dirty laundry and literal garbage, like food wrappers or cum tissues, on his bedroom floor, and his mum would come pick everything up and deal with it for him, daily. I taught him how to wash dishes, do laundry, cook basic meals, bag groceries, scrub a toilet, you name it. DON’T DO THAT. IT SE…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/20 12:56 AM
90	The average advice that all failed Low-value men on Reddit love to give out. 😂 A couple of days ago, some bellend on /r/relationship_advice was saying how his religious girlfriend wanted to get married, so he left her that evening. Despite saying he loved her and was, in all other ways, really committed to her. They’d been together for six years and she thought it was conflicting with her Christianity to have sex with him if marriage wasn’t endgame, so she said that she didn’t want to have sex with him anymore if he didn’t want to marry her. Even without the religious aspe…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/20 12:30 AM