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Never have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:51 PM
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We’re not talking about history. We’re talking about the dating market for young people in 2026.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:06 AM
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You can still get an erection if you’re paralyzed from the waist down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 03:39 PM
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To show that men don’t value women as friends or as companions without sex being involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 03:37 PM
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I’m not saying he wanted to marry anyone. There’s a difference between having a goal of getting married and only dating to pursue that goal, and wanting to marry anyone individual person. Based on his post he’s not dating for marriage at all. He’s barely even dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:32 PM
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I’m not talking about “what if” I’m talking about what OP said in the post. Based on everything he said you can conclude that he’s casually dating at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:26 PM
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People have always dropped and spilled things. This isn’t a modern issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:58 PM
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People have always misplaced things or had trouble with technology. You’re just more aware of it now since you work in customer service.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:57 PM
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It seems like this man isn’t looking for marriage in general, that was my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:46 PM
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Of course you can change your mind, but you can always tell the truth about how you feel in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:59 AM
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It’s not crazy for people to only want to invest in relationships that they think could potentially lead to marriage if that’s their goal. Also, did you try asking any of those women out on a date while you were in high school and college? A lot (probably a majority) of women would usually only feel comfortable having sex with someone that they’re in a romantic relationship with. “Liking” the person or finding them attractive usually isn’t enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:43 AM
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A lot of those people you see in the restaurant probably shouldn’t be parents then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:30 AM
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I disagree with OP’s take but I don’t think the human body is ONLY interested in getting horny and making it happen. Human babies are totally dependent and super fragile. If the human body wasn’t also interested in keeping babies alive once they get here, then we wouldn’t be here either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:41 AM
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If you work at a restaurant you probably see a lot of parents hand their kid an iPad and not interact with them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:36 AM
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Many more women are indifferent, undecided, not ready, or just don’t have a strong pull to be a mother than there are women who are “vehemently against” motherhood, which is also valid. It’s not all black and white. For me personally, I think in the end having a child would be more “fulfilling” but I’d rather not take on the lifetime burden, stress, and responsibility of being a mother. Last year the US Surgeon General came out with a “Parents Under Pressure” advisory talking about the increased…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:30 AM
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It sounds like you’re blaming the people that are getting abused. They may be stuck or manipulated in many situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:39 PM
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None of these lies are acceptable in general nor should they have to be accepted by men specifically. If you’re either just having a casual relationship or looking to build a future with someone, lying about these things is just wrong and doesn’t give the other person the choice to consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:20 PM
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None of these lies are acceptable nor should they have to be accepted by men specifically. If you’re either just having a casual relationship or looking to build a future with someone, lying about these things is just wrong and doesn’t give the other person the choice to consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:19 PM
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It’s key that you recognize that it’s only “some women.” Wouldn’t it be ideal for most men to be in a mutually loving relationship instead of an abusive relationship? I feel like the only people who would be upset at this are abusers. “Why would she tolerate his abuse and not mine?”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:21 PM
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I totally disagree. Single, never-married women in their 40s-50s are more likely to be seen as “failures” than single, never-married men at the same age. Being married and having kids is still seen as a bigger part of a woman’s purpose and identity by society than it is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:12 PM
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I think the examples you gave are wealthy men, not average men. They also tend to attract women who aren’t that great either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:19 AM
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Look up the average for men aged 18-39. It’s 5’10”. You’re the one trying to die on the hill that 5’10” is tall, which is laughable. I also didn’t say that’s a minimum height, I said that’s the EXACT IDEAL. This Cleveland Clinic article says that the average for non-Hispanic white men aged 18-39 in the U.S. is 5 feet and 9.8 inches. Is 0.2 inches above average “tall?” No, it’s not. https://health.clevelandclinic.org/what-is-the-average-height-for-a-man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:33 AM
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Not all women base their lives around not being “stuck alone.” Many women have their own goals that don’t involve men. It sounds like you’re projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:06 PM
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I disagree. The primary goal was to help women. If it just so happened that there was a trickle-down effect that benefitted children, then that’s a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:59 PM
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The average adult male height in the U.S. (where I live) is 5’9”. ONE inch taller than average isn’t tall. And like I said in my original reply, that’s the MOST ideal, but a couple inches shorter than that isn’t a big difference to me. Edit: upon further research, the average height of American men aged 18-39 is 5’10”-5’11”. You stand corrected. It’s not tall, it’s average.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:54 PM
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Are most people IN GENERAL happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:10 PM
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You’re right. In straight culture there’s basically no such thing as lingerie for men. There are speedos, but those are mostly seen as a joke. Women are over sexualized and men are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:41 PM
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It’s definitely not that many women who want to see men in crop tops.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:40 PM
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Why do women wear less clothing than men in track and field and a lot of other sports?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:39 PM
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I definitely don’t care about whether a man is “tall” or not. I’m 5’3”, and an ideal height for a guy for me is about 5’10”. I’d date men taller or shorter than that. I’d just want a guy who’s at least taller than me. As for penis size… I’m a virgin but I wouldn’t particularly want someone with a big penis. Who doesn’t want to be with someone who’s handsome or beautiful??? When it comes to fantasies I definitely don’t want anything “deranged.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:29 PM
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Then why get married in the first place if you don’t actually mean the vows? More people should start using alternative vows. “I’ll stay with you as long as I feel like it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:38 AM
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So practically, what do you mean by “putting the relationship before the kids?”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:38 AM
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Hormones fluctuate, extra stress gets added with kids, the spark dies. A person’s libido isn’t set in stone. Do you think sex drives are the same at 55?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:37 AM
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Chores still have to get done and the kids have to be looked after. You can’t neglect the kids (legally).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:35 AM
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I don’t think it’s how they “view” sex consciously or mentally, it’s how sex physically makes them feel. Sex is a lot more emotionally draining for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:34 AM
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What about “in sickness and in health?”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:30 AM
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You can definitely criticize and/or mock both. It’s not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:28 AM
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It’s definitely not everyone. Some people date intentionally for marriage from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:24 AM
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*a woman, also, when you say you “left a few names out” does that mean you lied about your body count??? Or she already knew and just didn’t want to know the names?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:23 AM
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Autism isn’t an intellectual disability, it’s a developmental disability.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:09 AM
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THIS!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:03 AM
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I’m a 23-year-old virgin woman, so this definitely isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:02 AM
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If it’s not bad then there’s no shame in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:20 PM
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I agree. Men who want a virgin wife but fooled around are hypocrites and shouldn’t be taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:50 PM
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And it’s still bad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:34 PM
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Both are bad. I don’t want a whore man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:33 PM
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