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When you turn a woman on they get goosebumps. Their skin becomes super sensitive to touch. You touch them in all the right places and they get tingles. Look at a nerve map of the female body. See where those nerve clusters converge. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to see that breasts, waist, thighs all connect to the clitoris. It's not negative. It's just a fact. Women want a man who arouses them. Imo that is the spark
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:49 PM
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They are less anxious and more sexually open.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:43 PM
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Because I have thousands of generations of men who succeeded and I will not be the first one to fail and end my family line. My family goes back to 1066.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:42 PM
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Except when you actually date woman you see the cast majority expect the man to pay. In my experience women will only pay if they reciprocate interest and need to put in effort to attract a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:05 PM
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They don't have to deal with the conversation about not paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:04 PM
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Yes, and 63 percent of men aged 18 to 29 are single. The dating all data shows if you aren't in the top 20 percentile you aren't attractive enough to even be spoken to. And it's still slim pickings until you get to the top 5th percentile. So most men are starved. Because most men are single at least in the age range we care about. And most men struggle with even being able to interact with women. You said all the right things to support what I was saying, but you seem blind of the actual stats s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:01 PM
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What's wrong with calling her ugly with extra steps? Men don't even get that level of respect. They get ignored and gaslight that being unnatractive is OK and it's just their personality. At least that woman is given enough respect to be told why.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:59 PM
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My gym outlawed influencers. Made it very clear. It's a strength gym
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:27 PM
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Yes. I was a teensy bit overweight and I spent 4 years getting ghosted on dating apps. Updated my photos after hitting the gym and had 8dates scheduled in two weeks. It's like sorry I like computers and turned that hobby into a multi 6 figure career. Women's standards though 🤣🤣🤣. It's like cool you got a tight ass but you literally have done nothing with your life other than suck dick and get supported for it. That ass will fade.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:25 PM
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I dated a fiery feminist. Fem tats and all. Still got upset that I went 50/50 on the first date. It's like 🙄 your entire world is a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:20 PM
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Can't raise standards if what you can attract is nothing. Which is true for the majority of men. So they take what they can get
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:41 PM
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No, it's because men are starved for partners so take what they can get. Many reasons why it's easy for a woman to find a partner and difficult for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:40 PM
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It's not even dating apps. Studies that look at in person mate selection say the same. Women can't hide their behaviors in dating apps. They think no one will notice so behave how they feel. It's just not as pronounced irl for a variety of reasons, such as women wanting to appear virtuous and aren't very clear about the reasons they reject a man. The dating apps just show how they behave when no one is looking Men are definitely more fair in regards to what they can attract. You are so correct o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:04 AM
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Women are too emotional. They need a bit of a leash to protect themselves. A rock, someone always there to help them navigate the scary world
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:28 PM
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Exaggerate? The stats say 63 percent are single
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:19 PM
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You are so naive and ignorant omfg
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:18 PM
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You made this people first but the fact is women are more visual than men are. It's an important fact that women objectively treat looks as more important than men do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:16 PM
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You are wrong. Studies show that women treat looks as a dealbreaker. Looks are an attribute of which a standard must be cleared before any other attribute is looked at. This is straight from studies on mate selection You are right that men and women look for different things. You are wildly delusional to what those things are. YOU need to educate yourself on the attributes women value. And not just what you think you value. This is well studied in psychology and the men here are actually referen…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:44 PM
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No. I had to work on myself for 10 years to get a lot of options. Now they're infinite. I surpassed my father before I even started the journey. He would have been fucked. Like turbo incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:41 PM
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I figured. It was peak irony though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:18 PM
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"it's cover" "It is cover" "Well spoken" 🤭 Younger women also have different values. You can read the rational male to figure out what drives women in their earlier 20s. They tend to not yet know their value, so settle more easily for less.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:55 PM
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University educated, engineering. Male though. I asked two women I dated about their past relationships. Both had looked at blue collar workers. The gist of why they weren't interested in those men was that they felt they could not connect with them. They couldn't communicate well, and were more limited in their vocabulary. My thought is If a woman is educated and the man is not, she is smarter than he is in those ways. So that man does not appeal to her hypergamy. She looks down on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:26 PM
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That's what they say. But the studies show that for women in particular, there is a looks threshold that must be passed before ANY other attribute is considered. You need to be attractive to get your foot in the door. The blue pilled men and women and feminists attack this claim, but it's directly quotes from studies on mate selection. I was ghosted for 4 years on dating apps. Basically learned I wasn't attractive enough to have a convo with. I went to the gym and had 8 dates scheduled within tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:07 PM
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Those men are predators and only want sex from women . They get a feast so why would they settle for just one? The women have given them an abundance mindset. And the women are desperate for then because they have a scarcity mindset. Yet there are a ton of good natured single guys who they have left in the dust. Leading to much less good natured single guys over time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:21 PM
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Studies show that for women looks are considered a deal breaker. A looks threshold must be passed before any other attribute is considered. The studies show looks do matter more for women. Why is this always coming up as a debate topic?! Blue pilled idiots think it's personality because they don't want to admit the world is shallow. But it is. That's what the red pill teaches and the studies back it up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:18 PM
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I spent 4 years on dating apps getting ghosted. Then went to the gym updated my photos and had 8 dates scheduled within two weeks. I'm no longer single. The reason men are single is women are only dating men in the top 20 percentile. Because they got pump and dumped by a man there one or many times they think they can lock one down.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:24 PM
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Then why respond? I was responding to what you said. If you didn't want to talk about it why say it How is it political? It's common sense.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/10/23 03:14 PM
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Andrew Tate isn't red pill though. He says a few red pill things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:45 PM
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I never mentioned my political affiliation, fyi I'm apolitical. Incel? Had sex yesterday Try a little harder. You are naive if you think the left is as virtuous as you believe.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/10/23 12:44 PM
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It probably is lol, by left wing to invalidate right wing people
/r/PussyPassDenied12/10/23 10:51 PM
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I'm on the app. It says only moderators can view it. That is what the red pill is. As it is described through the matrix. See the real world by taking the red pill or live in fantasy by taking the blue pill. Why resort to ad hominem attacks or trying to insinuate what I am saying is laughable with LO-fucking-L. Why resort to manipulation in place of having a rational discussion... Also can you answer my question about studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:41 AM
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It's private. Can you quote it? There are mysogynistic red pillers but by definition the red pill is not mysogynistic. The red pill describes our world as it is. Proven through psychology and biology. The reason I asked is because women like to equate criticism to hate or call the person giving criticism a mysogynist to cancel their valid views. If I were to link you psychology studies and meta analysis that described mating preferences of men and women, or how they behaved, would you call me my…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:17 AM
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May I ask what you believe is mysogynistic about the red pill specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:12 PM
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You mistake the Tate with the red pill...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:12 PM
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Was on all apps for 4 years. Got ghosted after 1 to 3 messages repeatedly. Learned I was not attractive to be worth speaking to. Got fit and muscular, updated my photos and had 8 dates scheduled within two weeks. Two sexual experiences in the first month. Women are shallow as fuck. Engraine that into your skull and do the best you can with what you have. Or die alone 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:04 PM
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John gottman, author of the 5 love languages has another book called eight dates. Date three is sex. You don't have to follow the dates in order but the third date is sex. It's to check for sexual compatability and a host of other reasons. He is probably the defacto love expert.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:59 PM
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Because most women want a man who makes her feel safe. A short man doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:23 PM
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At 6 3 you compete against one other man. By 5 4 you are competing with over 200 men for the same woman. That's what the stats say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:19 PM
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He also spouts toxic masculinity with a hint of red pill, so he isn't really a good spokesperson for what the red pill is or represents. He is instead used to demonize trp
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:11 PM
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Lol you can spot red pillers very easily if they actually follow the red pill. Old friend, girlfriend's fiance, guy who messaged me out of the blue and within 5 sentences I asked him if he was a redpiller. After learning I look back and see the men who were sexually successful in my 20s and those guys frequented bodybuilder forums where this all started. Just men who shared their experiences with women with other men. I will ask my father red pill topics and he will give red pill answers without…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:09 PM
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I had everything, good career, well mannered, good socially. Got ghosted on dating apps for 4 years. Got pilled during that time, hard. Learned everything about female behavior from hundreds of psychology papers. Went to the gym, got fit, got muscular. Updated my photos and had 8 dates scheduled in two weeks after changing my photos. Two sexual experiences in a month. Women I dated were a caricature of female behavior I learned. I have never been so sure of anything in my entire life until I dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:41 PM
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Feel better hun 😘😘
/r/PussyPassDenied10/10/23 01:21 PM
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Why are you so mad honey
/r/PussyPassDenied10/10/23 01:19 PM
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You must be fat
/r/PussyPassDenied10/10/23 01:15 PM
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Women are like children, they're too naive to understand the world around them
/r/PussyPassDenied10/10/23 01:04 PM
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Well women in health care get passed around like village whores. They see a cute successful doctor and spread their legs.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/10/23 06:39 PM
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The pay gap is actually in favor of women, did you know that? Read the book of Boys and men. Most feminist arguments are invalid these days but it's still the common rhetoric due to social programming
/r/PussyPassDenied04/10/23 06:47 PM
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The entire red pill is study based. Are you confusing toxic masculinity (a la le Tate) with the red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:27 PM
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Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:44 PM
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Shameless aren't they. They feel a certain way and that's how it is in their world
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:16 PM
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Ouch dude. They ask you to be vulnerable so that they can get information to weaponize in arguments and disagreements. To use as ammunition to justify their poor behavior When I talked about my dead mother, I made sure to do so strongly and set the frame that it made me stronger. It was a source of my strength and how I became such a strong and competent man. Much different framing, rather than being a source of insecurity it was a source of security and confidence. I think it's important to not…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:15 PM
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In particular I like the gifts of imperfection, for anyone who struggles with not feeling good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:09 PM
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Brene brown, a very well respected author studied vulnerability and in particular how women are repulsed by it. It's not even remotely negotiable. Insinuating it's my experience and not the norm is just false
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:36 PM
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It's just a double standard. In my experience women will emotionally dump their entire psyche and expect support. Then, when a man requires support from them they withdraw. It's my lived experience interacting with women and actively testing this red pill theory with my own long time friends. What are you trying to say? Yes both have emotions but women have more of them so require emotional support more often. It's one of the reasons the red pill teaches men to treat women like children, because…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:34 PM
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Except most red pill concepts are proven in studies... Google studies on male and female mate selection and you will see hypergamy is a verifiable fact of female behavior. Just one example
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:25 PM
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We also get punished by women for showing those emotions. When men are not emotionally stable women don't feel safe in the relationship. They become irritable and emotional. They distance themselves, withhold intimacy. After the third of fourth woman broke things off after opening up, friendships of two decades disappearing as soon as I'm a little bit vulnerable, I learned that it is not OK for me to be vulnerable. Two of these women even worked in mental health. I got called insecure, after the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:22 PM
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I had a girl say I don't want to teach you and promptly ghost me when she heard I didn't have relationship experience. Jokes on her, I had watched hundreds of hours of sex coaching content, read books like she comes first, practiced thrusting technique, did Kegels and reverse Kegels for 2 years. My first two sexual partners I left absolutely breathless. My current so now benefits from my knowledge of how to get a woman off. The fact is that your sexual experience matters. A lot. The first girl I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:04 PM
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Women don't understand that men have hormonal cycles as well, however this is tied to semen production. After 5 days of retention male testosterone doubles. This is good to promote a man to drive, grind, keep going, but it also makes them irritable, aggressive, and horny. Plus the aches and general "I need a release" that gnaws at you from the inside. If you want your man to relax, have sex with him. He needs it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:59 PM
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Women compete indirectly. If their partner isn't someone then they feel like they are losing the status competition. It's all how women compete jntrasexually
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:56 PM
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Social proof
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:55 PM
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This is the red pill. Women are like boats and men are like islands. If your island sucks, women aren't going to dock their boat. Your social life is part of your island. Your friends, family, and all the accoutrements including your castle and the things in it. I love it when women come on here trying to debate and actually defend the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:54 PM
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It's because they never went through the hardship needed to realize men are valued for what they provide. Those men provided the feelings of lust and desire which was enough for a short period. They never understood that, they just had women clawing after them. Until they get older
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:17 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:15 PM
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My gf agrees with a lot of red pill views. She's a teacher and knows men and women are wired differently because her experience with each gender teaches her that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:33 PM
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Women compete in indirect ways. It's well documented. It's why they dress up, wear makeup, gossip.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:32 PM
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Express insinuates that men hold it in. When in fact women are just more emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:31 PM
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Call that out for what it is, exception does not make the rule. An argumentative fallacy. The issue about arguing blue pillers is that a lot of them are women. Who are very skilled socially and use manipulation. So learn manipulation and call them out when it is used. Do so to facilitate a rational discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:20 AM
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You read body language after taking risks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:16 AM
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Because women won't even consider having a conversation with men under an attractiveness threshold they deem is suitable for them. It's also estimated that over 20 percent of women aged 18 to 35 are in polygamous relationships In North America there is also 107 men to every 100 women in the age range we care about (it evens out with olde ages because men's outcomes are worse and they don't live as long)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:13 PM
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Yup. This is the definition of pussy pass. Her sentence is a joke
/r/PussyPassDenied29/09/23 11:24 PM
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How ridiculous. I spent 4 years on dating apps getting ghosted after 3 messages or so. Learned I was not attractive enough to have a conversation with Went to the gym, updated my photos and had 8 dates scheduled in two weeks Women are so shallow they are ruining their chance at happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:18 PM
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Read what you said. A text said to use protection, that means sure sex happened. That doesn't mean it wasn't consensual. You are assuming it wasn't
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:11 PM
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Or that women are manipulative and use sex as a weapon
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:10 PM
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Women confuse direct language with emotion. Men speak directly, for women this comes across strong and filled with emotion. They infer anger I would wager most people here aren't angry at women. Also being critical of female behavior is not anger Women like to read the criticism, set the frame as that person is angry to manipulate, a subtle attempt to invalidate what is being said. Or they play the victim and say you are being mysogynistic. When really you are just spitting facts proven in psych…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:18 PM
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My point is that despite having high standards for their partners, they had low standards for themselves and their own behaviors. I figured with high standards they would be high quality themselves. Instead it was like interacting with children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:24 PM
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Actually studies show that women put looks above all other attributes. So much so that a minimum bar of attractiveness must be passed before the woman will consider the man. This effect is actually larger when the woman is seeking long term partnership. Looks are a dealbreaker and no other attribute matters until the looks bar is passed. So although you feel it's not about looks, studies say otherwise and you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:20 PM
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What are you trying to insinuate?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:37 PM
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Your very right about the how to make a woman feel. Though you mistake two critical emotions which are lust and desire. They are big for creating that spark. Imo, that is the spark. Also making women feel safe and like the only person in the room. You are right, men do not know how to do that because our parents were shitty at teaching us. It's not our fault, it's inherited family trauma. The red pill teaches men how to act to do that. I think you are confusing toxic masculinity with the red pil…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:15 PM
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Real experience actually. Don't have anything to prove. Just looking to share my experience so that other men can understand what is expected of them in today's dating landscape. With 63 percent of men single aged 18 to 30, a lot of people can benefit from my experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:06 PM
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Absolutely. Once you become chad you get giggly, feminine, touchy, receptive. When you aren't chad you can't even get a girl to make eye contact let alone have a conversation with yoh. Nothing to do with personality at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:22 PM
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I got ghosted for 4 years on dating apps. Then spent a year getting fit and muscular through climbing and then later power lifting as it became a limiter to my climbing ability. Updated my photos and within a week had 8 dates scheduled. Two sexual experiences within a month. Women throwing themselves at me. Don't listen to women or body positivity. If you are overweight or scrawny you have to go to the gym. I did starting strength. Women just have high standards. You can either become good enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:40 PM
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My dad took care of me and had to pay my mom. Quite a lot actually, it made us broke and I didn't get to eat breakfast or lunch. Alimony is a bitch
/r/PussyPassDenied29/08/23 02:35 AM
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Some people only understand when they are told how it is. You just have a fear of conflict, which is avoidance.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 08:05 PM
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This is kinda wild. A kiss is not a big deal, and it sounds consensual even if misguided. How about don't kiss people you hardly know for starters?!
/r/PussyPassDenied20/08/23 08:11 AM
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Truth hurts, get over it. We live in a society with expectations. It's not my fault some autistic father doesn't realize that. So I told him bluntly in the way he would understand
/r/MensRights17/08/23 09:22 PM
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I don't care to avoid low IQ people insulting my IQ. They insult IQ because they themselves are insecure about their lack of intelligence
/r/MensRights12/08/23 04:29 AM
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It's more that they regain their masculinity and authenticity. I think it comes with emotional maturity and not giving a fuck. Be yourself, share your thoughts openly with others, if that rubs people the wrong way so be it
/r/MensRights31/07/23 04:06 PM
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It's because black people know adversity and have less privilege. They've been humbled and that makes them more receptive to how they influence others.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 01:52 PM
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This comes down to how women view equal effort. They view equal effort as the time it takes to complete something. If she is doing dishes, making dinner, doing laundry, and you are sitting on the couch she will feel that you are not putting in the same amount of effort. She will discount the fact that you just spent 10 hours going to and from a challenging job and don't have the fortitude to do anything but relax. Women also won't see the effort you put in whole performing a task, by virtue of b…
/r/MensRights31/07/23 01:50 PM
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They haven't learned the consequences for speaking out so are in the best position to be authentic. I love that about young people, they have no filter.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 01:41 PM
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I disagree with the commenters here. You need to become intimately familiar with argumentative fallacies and social manipulation. You need to be able to spot manipulation You need to be able to spot argumentative fallacies You need to be able to dissect fallicious arguments When you can do these things feminists see themselves out the door very quickly. They learn that they cannot gaslight you, either getting angry and blowing themselves up out of the conversation or quietly seeing themselves ou…
/r/MensRights31/07/23 01:31 PM
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Every woman I dated who said some variation of men are shit has been a deeply insecure trainwreck who needed years of therapy and a decade of self improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:37 PM
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My point is that society likes to say that men are looks based and insinuates women are more virtuous, but the data shows that in fact women are far more looks based then men are. In evolutionary psychology this is rooted in how women compete. Which is in indirect ways. The status of their partner, their partners appearance, their wealth, her beauty. It's why women wear makeup and like to pretty themselves up. Feminists blame the patriarchy and men for forcing it on them but the science of psych…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:58 PM
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Studies show that women treat looks as a deal breaker before any other trait is considered. The blue pill for looks is not valid. It's been proven false. Those who spout blue pill concepts on looks are just naive and ignorant or virtue signalling
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:41 AM
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This. My lived experience as a former fatty. Nothing else matters, just be fit and muscular
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:38 AM
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Well I spent 4 years on dating apps getting ghosted after 1 to 3 messages back and forth. I hit the gym and got muscular, had 8 dates scheduled within two weeks of updating my photos. After 4 years. I then had sexual experiences with two women within a month. The fact is you are wrong even though you feel differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:56 PM
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Yep and find a forever partner
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:54 PM
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He is a redpill YouTuber. He comes at it from a generally research backed view as it relates to evolutionary psychology. Does lots of interviews with women. I find most of the criticism of red pill content creators is actually rooted in the fact that they're touting toxic masculinity and not the red pill. He is more fact based. I owe that guy my life for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:28 PM
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In my lived experience, women will only date men who hit the gym and get muscular. So I have to conclude that women are simply seeking their own predators. When I finally gave in, I had women throwing themselves at me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:25 PM
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Get fit, muscular, successful in your career, watch all of Alexander graces videos, wingmams videos, read she comes first, no more mr nice guy, models, and the way if the superior man Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:48 AM
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So this comes down to psychology where attractive people are viewed as more virtuous and more trustworthy. Don't you think that the men who learned to game female psychology ( a la get fit and muscular ) and became Chad are more dangerous? Women lack the self awareness to realize they are dating their own predators. That top 10 percent knows how to game women to get sex, and women seek them out. Then they complain about all men being shit on twoxchromosomes, refusing all accountability for their…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:46 AM
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The irony. You're insulting my IQ but are hilariously ignorant of the psychology that goes into looks and how people perceive you. There are significant long term implications to children's development as well if they are not socially desirable.
/r/MensRights17/07/23 12:14 AM
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Because the data shows that those women still get interest, meanwhile men do not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:01 PM
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And once you learn what manipulation is, things like flipping the script, gaslighting, argumentative fallacies you will begin to see that women almost default to that when they get upset. Even turning on the water works is a way they manipulate to get what they want. Men eat it up and they dry up like a fish out of the water.
/r/MensRights15/07/23 05:50 PM
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Filter through women based off insecurities and their behavior. It didn't take me long to find someone amazing personality and compatability wise. My point is that these women are missing opportunities with people that would make them happy because they are unwilling to lower their physical standards below chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:34 PM
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Look at the data they aren't nearly the same. men are much more fair
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:10 PM
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I agree. My issue is that men are not taught this. And thus we have the red pill teaching men all the things they need to know, like how women's attraction works
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:41 AM
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And women won't event have a conversation with men https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/ryosk5/messages_per_week_to_attractiveness_percentile/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:36 PM
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https://images.app.goo.gl/6XqQq7DySXhQvwhaA Published in dataclysm who we are when no one is looking. This shows messages received per week according to attractiveness percentile. Men show interest linearly according to a woman's attractiveness. Which makes sense. Women will not consider speaking to a man unless he is in the top 20th percentile. More realistically the top 5th percentile, since the numbers are still quite small. The exception is that men also shoot their shot with women who are o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:29 PM
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Actually even the fat women wouldn't match. I think it's because they're insecure so find validation for their poor self image by getting fucked by Chad. Of course I am bitter. I spent 12 years grinding my ass off, then realized that women are just shallow. Men are much less shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:26 PM
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This is why the red pill teaches men to be better than she is. More fit, stronger, better career, better emotional maturity, better listener, better socially. All of those things contribute to attraction, and leave the woman with the feeling that she isn't good enough. It keeps her chasing behind you trying to cling on for dear life. If you as a man let yourself go in any way, your ass gets left in the dust as she follows another man's wake who gets it Stay on your mission. Hit the gym. Improve …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:43 PM
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From personal experience that's not really fair to the male experience I was just a bit overweight, having built a successful career in tech. I had a lot of friends, that I had kept for a long time. I went from spending 4 years on all dating apps getting ghosted after 1-3 messages. So I lost weight and got muscular and had 8 dates scheduled within a two week period immediately after updating my photos. These women then proceeded to throw themselves at me so I had to wade through the trash Women …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:26 PM
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Because you have no boundaries. If someone makes this argument, call them out. It's an argumentative fallacy. Men need to get better at spotting social manipulation. That's it.
/r/MensRights14/07/23 01:47 PM
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Every woman cares about height. They need to be smaller than you to feel safe. It's part of how they get aroused and love you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:44 PM
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Women withholding sex or intimacy when they get mad at you Women being emotionally manipulative
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:10 PM
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40 percent of relationships start on apps, so it is actually men who do not use apps that are fucking themselves. They cut out 40 percent of their opportunities and rising. Also if you red pill yourself and follow through apps are good for you, because you will get into that top echelon and be desirable. I had 8 dates scheduled in two weeks after updating my photos post working out and getting muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:09 PM
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This is what being good at seduction, getting successful, and taking lead and bringing her on a rollercoaster of activities accomplishes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:52 AM
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Yes. They are bat shit crazy. His tone was respectful. They just didn't like what he had to say, and proceeded to attack his character for having standards
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:22 AM
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Men and women have different interests. The important bit is compatible interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:25 AM
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Are you trying to assume I fit this stereotype or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:23 AM
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Because there is a very big distinction between the red pill and toxic masculinity. People are misguided and attribute the mysogynistic nature of people like Andrew Tate with the red pill, which just describes how the world works. The red pill teaches male and female psychology. What is attractive to each gender. What turns women on. What turns men on. What good qualities are in men and women. How women manipulate in arguments. What emotional abuse is. How to handle abuse and manipulation. What …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:12 PM
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These women have been gaslight by society and those around them. Sorry Hun, but having a child is a dealbreaker for most without a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:58 PM
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Not if you become chad
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:31 AM
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Having been oxytocin deprived I can tell you that oxytocin is the single most regulating human produced drug. It fixes so many issues from digestive issues to anxiety. I feel really bad for men who are touch starved
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:31 AM
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Agreed. Sometimes girls are reserved and don't make a ton of moves but there are those times where she cannot contain herself. She rips your pants off. Hops on-top of you. Fucks the shit out of you. Leaves a puddle on you. Gets so horny that just the sound of you moaning makes her contract and get more and more horny and even wetter. That's #winning. When a woman really really loves you, you feel it if you know what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:28 AM
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I said when communicating has failed. When women get really upset and really irrational continuing the conversation is a mistake. It's better to want to talk later about it when she's less angry. She stews in her emotions while you ignore her. She realizes she is in the wrong and acting out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:43 AM
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No. It shows messages received. Men received 0 messages a week unless you were a man in the top 20th percentile in attractiveness rating Women received messages linearly in regards to how attractive they were, with the exception of really pretty women whom every man shoot their shot in the hopes they would get a chance. The fact is as a man you are completely ignored on dating apps until you break that barrier. And the men in the top 5 percent have infinite options.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:39 AM
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And what makes you think the contents of the movie has any relevance? The terms red and blue pill are from the movie, and are defined in the movie. Nothing else is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:11 AM
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He made her wet by being the most powerful being in the universe. He just didn't know it yet. She could see his potential and raised him up because she was a high quality woman. good banter but I'm not really interested in meming about the movie itself. The red and blue pill means what it meant in the movie. Red is for truth and based in fact and blue is for delusion and based on feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:00 AM
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He was also "the one", the person who she idolized like some country music star or hunky drama show star. It didn't matter that he was an insecure, emotional wreck. He made her wet by virtue of being fucking Neo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:43 AM
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men are much more reasonable and far less picky https://images.app.goo.gl/6EAW1BbZsWEUxx7H8 Published in the book dataclysm: who we are when no one is looking The dating apps show how women behave when they aren't scared of being judged Its not even 20 percent, it's more like 5 percent
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:37 AM
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It was a good movie
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:32 AM
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It's an easy answer, you can read more about it in the book attached Over time the dating market fills up with people who have avoidant attachment styles. Women typically have an anxious attachment style, but develop avoidance through trauma. Resulting in many women having anxious avoidant attachment styles. This is also called disorganized attachment. Combine this with be yourself, your the prize, a real man will see you for you, lack of accountability among women and you get a lot of damaged w…
/r/MensRights11/07/23 03:43 AM
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Yes I agree they are picky too. Just not nearly as picky. This is shown heavily on the dating app data. Men and women are not even close. Men more appropriately go for women in their league. They're less picky because women choose. Men do not have options like women do, unless they make it to the top. Women only try to date the men at the top so they get the perception that men are picky. Those men are picky because they earned the right to be. But they are the minority. Most men don't care how …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:32 AM
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Red pill doesn't really care for gender roles. That's toxic masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:29 AM
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That's toxic masculinity. You don't know what the red pill is Red pill is more how the world works, how women and men behave from the lens of evolutionary psychology. It's quite literally the red pill from the matrix. Open your eyes to how the world actually is, rather than the guise that society has gaslight men and women into believing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:27 AM
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The dating app stats show that men show interest linearly according to attractiveness percentile, and women will not consider a man below a certain threshold (the 80 20 rule). So this is just not true. Women choose, men decide if they want to commit. This leaves women unhappy because they think a guy is into them but in reality they picked a shitty man or they aren't self aware enough to identify why men keep leaving them in the dust
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:23 AM
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Sex usually happens by date 3. It can happen later. If you want to lock down the woman of your dreams you want to be the best you can be in every facet of you. Life is like a role playing game. Your fitness, looks, education, financials, career, proficiency at seduction sex and intimacy, etc, are all skills you need to master to be successful. Most men don't learn this, or if they do they don't have the balls to level themselves up. They are weak men, and weak men are not attractive to women. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:18 AM
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Well it's a fact so your feelings on the matter are not important. Good men raise other men up. They help the worst player on the football team improve. They mentor friends at school. I am highly intelligent, highly skilled, very perceptive. I can look at someone for a second and read them like a book. What their insecurities are. Just from body language. I am very good at communicating and teaching, it gives me joy to share what I have learned with others. She was timid, anxious, but deeply car…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:12 AM
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When a woman likes you, you know. She becomes an anxious and nervous and needy wreck. You don't have to do anything I feel abusing girls anxiety is abusive, but important to learn. Because if she acts out or does something to hurt you - playing her anxiety is often the best way to correct her poor behavior when communication has failed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:03 AM
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Just note that though Andrew Tate spews a few red pill concepts, he is not a red piller. He spews toxic masculinity. It's an important distinction
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:01 AM
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I was unsuccessful dating as an otherwise very successful person. Tech career. Engineer. Prior women would never interact with me. I just let them think whatever they wanted. I was focused on my career. Well Iearned the red pill, and started interacting with women. I went out of my way to validate the red pill with my female friends and women I was dating. Every single thing I learned was factual. Do not confuse toxic masculinity, incels, with the red pill. The red pill means what it means in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:57 AM
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If she says she's okay with it, it's a test and she's not okay with it. Women lie. She just doesn't want to fight you over it or make you do something you don't want to do so she appears virtuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:45 AM
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And urine is sterile, and the fluids barely have a taste. If anything it's just more iron in your diet. You also don't have to swallow. Put her on a towel and let it drip down her anus. You have a preference against it because you think it is unclean. Except it's not. I have never met a woman who didn't have a clean coochie. They are wayyyy too self conscious about it. In my experience going a step further and eating her out after giving her a creampie is sure to get her off. I don't expect you …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:44 AM
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They never grow up lol
/r/MensRights11/07/23 02:38 AM
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Studies show women have a higher libido then men. So even if you tried I wouldn't believe you. The stigma is that men are the horny ones who just want sex. The reality is that it's only men that are being authentic. I am her world, and she loves me dearly for providing her with a life full of excitement. For raising her up. For giving her the tingles each and every day. For leaving her absolutely breathless in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:31 AM
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Women have been alpha widowed. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:48 AM
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Personal anecdote. I found the most feminine woman I could. Low body count. Very emotional. Anxious. No friends because of anxiety. Taught grade school so very motherly. She was a ittle overweight so insecure. But actually georgeous, which came out when she glowed up with me because I knew how to cook and cook healthy. She was elegant and classy. Wouldn't dare dressing like a prostitute like women do these days. She loves sex and physical intimacy. Can't keep her hands off me. I'm looking for tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:15 AM
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Go looking. Do you know where the gspot is? Frenulum? Perineum? Clitoral bulbs? All of these areas are important to know so that you can arouse a woman and get her ready for penetration. So that penetration feels good for her. This is a win win. She will want more dick, so you get more sex. All it takes is effort to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:09 AM
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Yes you should. Why? Because how good you are at giving her sexual satisfaction is important. It's important for how she feels about you. Which has implications to her for instance, divorcing you and leaving you with a child support bill and children that hate you. You can make a woman out of breath after a breathtaking orgasm every single day. Even multiple orgasms. All it takes is knowledge and understanding of female anatomy and what feels good Read the book she comes first. It's a book on fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:07 AM
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You are denying her something that gives her the most pleasure because you have a weird aversion. You know you stick your penis in her right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:41 PM
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Going down on a woman is the best way to pleasure her. As a man you are expected to be stronger and more able to do dirty jobs. So your decision to get over being grossed out is selfish, immature, and makes you look weak. Get over it, man up, and eat her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:10 PM
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You mistake being weak with sharing something vulnerable. You can deliver something vulnerable about yourself in a confident way that makes her feel safer with you There is a book models which is very much red pill that details it better
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:07 PM
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I don't like women who wear revealing clothes on public. They're clearly seeking validation from others and that means they are insecure or love attention. It gives them the idea that they are a prize. Which inflates their ego. They lack the self awareness to realize how it changes the way they respond to the world and those around them. Not sorry either. Highly successful tech worker for reference. These ladies ask where the good guys have gone and unfortunately those guys aren't interested in …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:40 PM
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Most women are deeply insecure, but society has gaslight them into thinking they are the queen and they are the prize. Every woman I have dated has had the emotional maturity of a toddler, and I've had to work from 0 teaching them boundaries. The good news is that when I have they have gotten upset. Then apologized. Then got really horny for me. If you learn how women manipulate, argue, get emotional, and how to as a man deal with all of this (red pill) then it's easy to work with these women. T…
/r/MensRights10/07/23 03:29 PM
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Have you tried talking to your mom? She has him by the balls
/r/MensRights09/07/23 11:23 PM
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I never said I game psychology to get laid. That is an assumption you are making and is not true. It's quite simple. For one, I'm not a bad person. So I saw it as an opportunity to save one woman from this atrocious dating market. Women are getting taken advantage of by hot men who read books like the game. They are getting bitter and disappointed. They don't realize that these men are using their psychology against them. Thus they just get pumped and dumped and then end up here or on twoxcheomo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:35 PM
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Set boundaries with your father. Tell him if he calls your work one more time or during work hours that you will end your relationship with him. Your work is important to you and you are not OK with him putting your career in jeapordy. It's deeply unprofessional to bring domestic issues into the workplace
/r/MensRights09/07/23 05:24 PM
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I've asked dozens of women if they would fight and only one said yes. The rest were a resounding hell no. Privilege
/r/MensRights09/07/23 05:19 PM
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Women will lie and manipulate social groups after break ups to receive more validation. They will behave poorly, not tell the whole truth, or outright lie to make them seem righteous. It's why sometimes girls will become irrational and angry searching for an argument before they break up with you. So they can justify acting like a cunt to their family and friends
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:10 PM
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It's 5 percent for women 60 percent for men. This is published in dataclysm who we are when no one is looking
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:40 PM
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Or overweight men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:34 AM
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I had been through a lot of shit in my life. It was not easy. So this was just another challenge for me to overcome. It has an otherwise happy ending. I found a beautiful, caring and compassionate person who is very loving and awesome to be around. We are inseparable and just love our time together. I was able to really help her and her me. Anyway my experience as something who feels he is strong, capable, driven, confident, supportive, funny, etc, it didn't matter at all. Since I did not go to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:56 AM
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It's biological though. Men feel that way innately as a defense mechanism against becoming a cuckold. We have evolved to feel this way. It's not our fault. Just like women get the ick around nice guys, we get the ick around promiscuous women. From a more logical based perspective, men don't want to risk having to pay child support to a low quality woman for the rest of their life. If a woman has experienced many men then the bar is very high. And as a man I don't want to be judged based off how …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:45 AM
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The irony is she is the one manipulating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 12:19 AM
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Because men cannot speak about male problems in real life. Feminism has made it taboo for men to have male issues. The only outlet is online. Honestly the best place as a man to get real advice is 4 chan. 4chan.org/adv It's the only place men get to be authentic with themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:34 PM
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I was a otherwise successful person. Engineering degree. Got a job in tech, mid six figures. I spent 4 years across all major dating apps - hinge, tinder, bumble, ok Cupid. I never even got a conversation with a woman lasting more than 3 to 4 messages. This is in one of the larger Canadian cities with pop in the 1m plus. I lost 30 lb and gained muscle at the gym (again, tech worker) and had 8 dates scheduled within 2 weeks of updating my photos. My experience dating was that I had to be perfect.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:29 PM
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A girl wearing revealing clothing that you are dating can totally cross your boundaries. Sorry sister, but flaunting your appearance so that other men can Ogle and validate you is not attractive to men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:32 PM
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Being vulnerable and opening up shows confidence. If you can deliver it confidently and not overrun with emotion. Opening up also makes people trust you more, because you share things about yourself that you can only trust with people you trust. So because you are trusting them they trust you more. It's important to open up to women to test them. The insecure and entitled women will show their hand and lose attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:31 PM
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The thing is when you get red pilled and meet women, you just validate the red pill. Fresh and fit and ethots isn't the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:28 PM
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Women do keep tabs. And they do so by the time it takes to complete something. If you do a physically or mentally demanding task for 30 minutes and she does a physically / mentally simple task for an hour, and she catches you on your phone or not being productive, she will get upset. Women lack the critical thinking ability to take into account the effort required to complete a task Slow it down or do a few extra tasks. It really counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:32 PM
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I am open and up front with sex being important for me. The result is sex happens early and often. If it doesn't the women get anxious that I will leave them, so they're always on-top of me. Set a boundary that you expect sex. Call her out for withholding intimacy if she gets angry at you and tries to manipulate you by restricting sex and intimacy. When you are horny be horny. Be authentic with who you are and your desires. The women I have been with just want sex to happen. They're ignorant to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:28 PM
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Difficult times in my childhood that I had worked through that made me who I am. My mom dying in highschool. She said I talk about my issues too much. After I listened to all of her issues in earlier dates, I opened up. She had abandonment wounds from her family leaving her and going back to Poland. She ended up getting preggers with a male friend she never mentioned and decided to keep it after he was out of the picture. And I quote "I'm not codependent, I'm dependent". Very entitled, very self…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:24 PM
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Cut his fucking hair you moron He's going to be ostracized in school It's going to affect his social development It is your fucking job to make your children socially desirable by the age of 4 or they become more and more behind. It's the reason men and boys are so fucked, because morons like you give your kids he man cuts.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 04:14 AM
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I got red pilled and started testing it's theories with women in my life. opened up to female friends I had for 15 years. I no longer had those female friends. With my first girl I dated, I opened up and she immediately went cold and ghosted me within a date Being emotional makes a woman feel less secure and safe. She cannot relax and it turns on her motherly instinct. I opened up in my first LTR and we didn't have sex for a week
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:25 PM
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They are deprived of oxytocin and masturbate too much and that has turned them into depressed and anxious slugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:59 AM
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Women have a higher libido then men though...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:57 AM
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Women aren't attracted to equals. They settle for equals
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:51 AM
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They need to learn that men will never consider them a long term option. Sex work disgusts men. They get off on it because it is taboo, like some women get off by being dominated a la 50 shades of gray.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:22 AM
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Read the art of conversation, you're not listening, attached, models, the way of the superior man, what everybody is saying, it didn't start with you Watch wingmam, Marnie the wing girl, Courtney Ryan, Alexander grace, wheat waffles on YouTube. All of their content. Start with the first 5 or 10 most watched if you like. Learn mirroring, eye contact. Took me a year, congrats you just un autisted yourself. Imo most people aren't autistic they just had shitty role models who didn't teach them how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:19 AM
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Women have a higher libido then men... They just gas light society into thinking they are more virtuous by not wanting sex. It gives them power over sex and let's them choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:12 AM
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All women like bad boys because dangerous men can protect them and that makes them feel safe. It also turns them on. Bad boys do things nice guys don't
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:10 AM
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Emotion integration. Breathing exercises.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:04 AM
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Which is a fact. And is published in dataclysm who we are when no one is looking. You are being sarcastic but the data proves the 80 20 rule and shows that it's more 95 5 rule if we are being realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:03 AM
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Probably because religious women are naive and unaware of their value. They have no idea how the world works because they still believe in Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:01 AM
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I have asked all of my dating prospects if they would pick up a gun and fight and they all said hell no. War is to kill men to leave more women for smarter and more successful men.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 12:57 AM
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Men got turned into simps. The gospel got spoken and it works. The red pill and black pill are facts and work. Because it works toxic masculinity has taken hold. The fact is women are not attracted to the men feminism raised.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 12:56 AM
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If I open it you close it, that is equality by definition. Men have a preference to leave it up because we piss many more times than we shit. So it is time effective to leave it up. It saves us days of our lives closing toilet seats over the course of our lifetime. Insignificant obviously, but still measurable. Men are logical like this. With this said, put the lid down anyway. It's more hygienic...
/r/MensRights07/07/23 12:54 AM
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I had my pants ripped off by girls. No reprucussions.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 12:51 AM
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The young generation of men who is struggling and getting crushed under misguided feminism will fight back. The women will struggle.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 12:48 AM
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The men are simps and insecure, they try to be nice to women to try to get laid. They also don't want to offend their gfs or partners. Since they're so fucking beta and lack a modicum of critical thinking they virtue signal like women do.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 12:47 AM
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Women feel more safe with men who other women have been safe with. If they see another woman happy and enjoying a man's company it puts them at ease around them. They can relax and go into their feminine element
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:40 AM
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Women need to feel safe and secure. If you cannot sufficiently provide resources to make her feel secure and capable of raising children then you are not a good enough provider. If you are not working towards being a provider (improving your situation by grinding) then she cannot have confidence that you will become a provider. Note that this is for younger women who have the displeasure of sorting through the sea of lost men to find men with potential. Older women won't ever settle for a man wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:33 PM
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Looks is virtue signalling. Something women do in a pot of ways. In evolutionary psychology the reason is women are scared and anxious, and they avoid offending anyone to protect themselves. Because they are physically weaker they have a strong desire to not rock the boat. Thus they virtue signal as a way to protect themselves and appear virtuous to their peers. Because women are status driven and compete with other women indirectly. This is the true red pill answer as to why women lie about loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:21 PM
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You can't really comment on the truths of the red pill until you have learned it. Once you go red you can never go back, because you find it's truths everywhere you look. It's not copium, it's enlightenment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:09 PM
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Their behaviors sure do rhyme though. Every woman I have dated tested me. Every woman I have dated tried to socially manipulate during arguments. When you learn evolutionary psychology (red pill) female behavior becomes a laughable joke. You can't help but see them as children. Men are from Mars and women are from Venus is just facts. I laugh at feminists these days. They don't know what they want and are just lost and confused. They say they want equality but they are still attracted to a mascu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:57 PM
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Actually money is how women seek partners. Female hypergamy is well studied in psychology so please do not speak through your ass. You are 20 and very naive. It takes a single Google to find dozens of studies on female and male mate selection. This is irrefutable. Women test men with social manipulation. Women use social manipulation to defend themselves because they lack the physical strength to do so. Men also are less socially aware and are unable to spot manipulation. Look up how women manip…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:48 PM
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The red pill teaches you that becoming a man is seeing how fake the world is. Part of the red pill is learning how the world works. What manipulation is. How to set boundaries. Those things work together to spot how society is gaslight. How people manipulate, especially women. Women find a man who can spot this manipulation incredibly attractive, because you will be the only one to have called her out on her bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:44 PM
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Alexander grace. The Tate is toxic masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:32 PM
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She is still young and naive. You need to be very careful if she is heading to be more successful than you. You may find yourself a starter husband Nothing about the red pill is manipulative or abusive. In fact if anything it teaches you how to protect yourself from manipulation as women manipulate and emotionally abuse men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:28 PM
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I had already learned that career success is important. So I was making multiple six figures prior to my journey. I was just overweight and didn't know seduction, how women argue, what women need out of a relationship, how women test men, everything for how to contain a woman. After being pilled and then interacting with a lot of women I have never been so sure and validated of something in my life. The red pill describes female behavior to a T and teaches you the skills to be very attractive to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:10 PM
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Good job. Younger women haven't yet figured out their SMV. It's a good time to lock them down. The red pill will teach you how to keep her though. Younger women are taking a risk by settling down with a man so young. The man hasn't found success. Meaning there is a chance you will be a dead beat or not meet the standards she develops as she learns more about the world and wants children. This is where you may find she gets bitter and resentful over time. If you have a keeper, keep her chasing af…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:59 PM
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3+ times a week bby 😙😙
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:55 PM
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Women tend to be bad at taking criticism. They also try to manipulate because they are more socially aware. So no one feels comfortable providing criticism to women. imo men either deep down know feminism is bs and don't stir the pot or they're trying to keep getting laid. I think this comes down to women being deeply insecure about their image and their lack of success dating. If you criticise something about her it hits at her insecurity about not being good enough. She gets defensive. She get…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:25 AM
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The red pill isn't a mysogynistic sausage fest. That's toxic masculinity. The red pill describes female behavior through evolutionary psychology. Facts of female behavior that cannot by definition be mysogynistic. They are facts. In short, we are wired differently. And in a lot of cases we have the data to show it now. Any piece of information which describes a truth of the worth we live in is the red pill. For instance female hypergamy is well studied. Just look at a study that analysed female …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:13 AM
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Starfish, not because 10 but because I like control in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:57 AM
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Every time I went on a date with a feminist and asked if we should split she got mad. And I got nagged about it until she ghosted me. You are expected to pay. If she genuinely likes you then she will offer later on to split things. If she doesn't offer down the road then 🚩🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:56 AM
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Oh I love it. You just gave red pill advice without knowing it 😂 Yes I grew up. Grew up into a highly intelligent, successful, fit, muscular, confident, assertive man. It took 12 years. If you look up women's mating choices they tend to date older men who have grown up. This is because older men have already competed and found success. They have resources, life experience, and likely struggled attracting a partner so are humble. You basically just restated the analogy that men are like islands a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:42 AM
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If you are a virgin you have to lie because if you do not her anxiety will cause her to think all you want is sex from her. It disgusts her. Don't lie and tell me how it goes. I had several woman reject me and 180 after they found out. When I lied I had my first LTR. Learn how a ratchet straps works and learn how to pleas
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:40 PM
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Agreed, no women should date. However in my experience they are the only men they will date. I was 20, broke, a little overweight. I got an engineering degree through extreme hardship and poverty. Women refused to interact with me. I got looks of disgust when walking down the super market aisle. I spent 4 years on dating apps not getting a single conversation with a woman. I got ghosted after 1-3 messages. I learned the hard way that I was not attractive enough to be worth speaking to. I was not…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:15 AM
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Oh please, having a hoe phase is a colloquial household term at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:31 PM
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It's basic economics. I understand. Sex is easy to get for women so it has less value. Sex is incredibly difficult to get as a man so it has a lot of value. When is it going to sink in that men value sex. I completely understand that women care more about perceived status. They compete with other women in indirect ways. It's why they wear makeup, it's why they dress up and try to look pretty. It's because they won't directly compete but do so indirectly. To attract a high value mate so that she …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:28 PM
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But you can go on tinder and get sex at a drop of a hat
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:53 PM
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You are doing great friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:17 PM
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It already goes in his inbox whether or not it gets deleted by automod
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:46 PM
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You need to learn how women manipulate in arguments. They are social wizards. They gaslight, flip the script, turn on the water works, make it about them, use fallacies. To a woman its not about logic or reason it's about how she feels. If she feels you are wrong you are wasting your time arguing because she will attempt every trick in the book in order to manipulate you in an effort to save face. Because women care about status, and she cares more about being perceived as winning an argument th…
/r/MensRights02/07/23 05:38 PM
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If you are able to contain her, it will go great. If you can't, it will go poorly. In my experience the hardcore feminists were just as feminine as conservative women. Don't listen to them. Call them out on their double standards. If you show you will not be gaslight into their bullshit they will be attracted to you.
/r/MensRights02/07/23 04:43 PM
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Women take pleasure in gaslighting weak men, a la most of society who simps Women are more socially skilled and calibrated. Men are easily manipulated
/r/MensRights02/07/23 04:40 PM
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I truly don't care. He needs to know the real answer and fortunately it still hits his inbox. You only succeed in hiding the facts from other men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:28 PM
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Easy. A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock A key that can open many locks is a master key. Studies have shown that a woman can walk down the street and openly ask men to have sex with her and she will be successful 80 percent of the time. A man does the same and asks a woman and it's 0 percent. Obtaining sex for women is easy. Thus the quality of partners a woman chooses matters. If she can have sex with anyone and chooses to do so, she has low standards and is low quality. Ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:20 PM
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And worse we gaslight men into believing they just need to be themselves and love will come. No dipshit, you gotta claw your way as far up the ladder as you can, work on yourself in all areas (looks, fitness, social skills, sexual competency, success), until you get to a point where a woman takes one look at you and goes oh fuck I gotta pick this guy down he is the best chance of me having a good life. You need to set off her anxiety that she will never find someone better than you, and that is …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:16 PM
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60 percent of males never reproduced and over 80 percent of women did. Intimacy is not a human right for men. It is for women. As a man you have to earn your right to intimacy. By getting fit, attractive, and succesful. You need to earn your right to procreate. This is controversial but 100 percent facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:12 PM
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The women here are virtue signalling. I became Chad as a former fatty and women started throwing themselves at me. I went from literally never having an intimate conversation with a woman my entire life over 30 years to getting straddled on first / second dates. The only thing that changed was my appearance. I went from being the invisible creepy guy to playboy manwhore. The fact is if you are fit, muscular, attractive, succesful, etc, women are so desperate to lock you down and they know that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:06 PM
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Yes they can. They set the expectation for what a real man is. Women don't want a side character. They want the fit, sexy, manly, confident, successful main character. So you must become the main character yourself. Most of these movies actually teach you red pill concepts if you are experienced enough in female nature to spot them. But yes the way intimacy is portrayed is wrong. She doesn't want you to treat her like a princess she wants to be ravaged. Taken from behind. Held down. She wants yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:01 PM
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Studies show that a looks threshold must be exceeded for you to be considered as a partner. However that is for the general case Exceptions for the fuck you money case are expected
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:03 PM
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Red pill accepts the black pill as a fact of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:02 PM
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The irony is women have a higher libido then men. They've just gaslight society into thinking men only want sex. This makes weak men hesitant to set boundaries in regards to how much sex is acceptable in a relationship. (The answer - the more the merrier) Ultimately this causes women to have deep rooted insecurities around sex and intimacy. The fact is men have needs. Simps let their needs go, which causes the woman to resent them. They want a stud to take them on an epic romance and simps just …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:06 PM
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I found a needle in a haystack. Low partner count. Caring. Deeply feminine, she's a chaos of emotions. Well it turns out she's also understanding and supportive of male issues. Initially she turned the discussion to be about her (a way women manipulate) but I called her out on that (me being assertive and calling out the manipulation), and told her that it's not a zero sum game. We can be compassionate and understanding about men's issues and still care about women's issues. After that she was m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:58 PM
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You are arguing something different. You have changed the discussion to be about what constitutes being a red piller. You are trying to say that one can label themselves as something without actually conforming to that label. I would argue that self defined Christians who do not practice Christianity are not Christians. Just like I would argue self defined red pillers who do not practice the red pill are not red pillers. Your issue is not with the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:08 PM
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I don't understand how finding the right guy is an issue. I have many single friends who just want someone to love, but they aren't fit and muscular. They don't make 6 figures. I achieved all of those things and women throw themselves at me. While my friends who do not want to accept female nature stay single. Really great guys and better than me in so many ways. They get ignored, like I was before I accepted the black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:04 PM
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Then they aren't redpillers. Stoicism is the foundation of the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:59 PM
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Women are feeling based, so if they feel you hurt them then they can easily rationalize hurting you through promiscuity. They justify it through emotion. All women cheat. This is why having strong boundaries and bring better than any other man she can attract is important. The only thing keeping women loyal is to be better then her in every conceivable way and being so good that she has no option but to follow in the trail you make blazing ahead of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:58 PM
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Female nature is to never take accountability. They will always use manipulative tactics to make them feel better about their choices. They are conditioned from a young age to act helpless and receive support. Men and simps enable this behaviour though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:55 PM
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90 percent of men get on average 0 messages per week. The 80 20 rule is more like the 95 5 rule according to data published in dataclysm: who we are when no one is looking. Which looks at macro data trends and is irrefutable. Women are only seeking chad. They've all either hooked up with Chad and think they can attract chad so are unwilling to lower their standards. They've all been alpha widowed by Chad. Their expectation is you know pick up artist tactics to make them feel the spark, which for…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:53 PM
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It takes a lot of knowledge of human behaviour to spot this dynamic. Otherwise his uncle just looks like an asshole. Rather he is displaying containment of multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:46 PM
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It doesn't rationalize it. It's a stoic response. That is the way it is and you can choose to get upset or choose to accept it. It's the power of choice. You can still be critical and accept the differences. They're not mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:44 PM
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I was one of those glow up people. I was overweight for most of my life. Starting from puberty. I was interested in computers. Got a computer engineering degree. Worked in tech as a software engineer. Some 30 to 40 lb overweight. Never had a woman ever message me on Facebook, or go out of her way to contact me to give me any signals. In fact I got ignored, never had any conversations with women. I was in 3 friend groups that I maintained for two decades. Well I lost weight and got fit and muscul…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:41 PM
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Easy - stop dating chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:34 PM
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The reason dumbasses think the reader is triggered is women and men communicate differently. Men are very direct in their communication and tend to exaggerate and use evocative words. For women this comes across as strong language. Due to projection and the relative emotional immaturity of modern women, women interpret what is being said and make indirect assumptions. They project their own anger against men onto the words they read and get upset. Women are blind to the fact that men have to cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:31 PM
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You are confusing the red pill with toxic masculinity. The red pill is all about stoicism...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:28 PM
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The issue had is women like to virtue signal and downplay the importance of looks. They will openly state that it's about personality and they don't care about looks. However studies on female mare selection show looks is the ONLY consideration especially when considering long term partners. It's seen as a hurdle that just be overcome for a male to be considered. This phenomenon isn't seen among men's choices, whom are more fair and reasonable in regards to female attractiveness. This leads a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:26 PM
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The dating app data shows the opposite and my experience shows the opposite. I was what you would call the fat kid until I hit 30. Roughly 40 lb overweight. Big build so it hid well, but still overweight. I got an engineering degree, job in tech. I spent 4 years across all major dating apps and tinder without getting a single conversation with a woman. Any matches I did get resulted in me getting ghosted after one or two messages. I learned that I was not attractive enough to be worth speaking t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:03 PM
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If you are eating keto or carnivore you actually need to get B1 from somewhere. You aren't eating whole grain rice or bread... Also if you drink tea or coffee, or anything with tannins (wine) or alcohol you also need to be taking B1. Give it a shot. Or don't. It's your life. B1 is water soluble so you can't OD on it. It's harmless in excess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:38 AM
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Men are forced to play the numbers game because women have such high standards. If a woman chooses to pursue 5 percent of the men who show interest (which is what the apps show) then every man must on average pursue 20 women for every 1 opportunity. That's not quite how statistics works but it's a simplified model. Now take into account a bell curve of attractiveness, or career success. Most men need to pursue hundreds of women to even get a shot. They don't check every box. The fact is women ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:57 PM
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Hinge is 60-40 so I'm not entirely sure your date is correct. Women have likely moved off hookup apps because they have wisened up to getting pumped and dumped by Chad. Which leaves all the other men the pleasure of dealing with their insecurities around sex and intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:27 PM
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Start taking b1, you can take nutritional yeast 1tsp a day. Thank me later. I just cured your bipolarness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:24 PM
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Women tell men to be themselves when they need to tell men to get fit and muscular so that they are attractive to them. Women actively ruin the potential pool of candidates with their virtue signslling. If society wasn't so white night we would tell all the fat overweight and slob fucks to put down the ice cream and big macs and lift weights. But we dont because that's not PC. Thus these men are gaslight into thinking the way they are now is OK. As a former fatty people and especially women trea…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:20 PM
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Sex and having lots of it is important to me in a healthy relationship. So I'd find a new partner. I've worked tirelessly on myself and my career l, and I know what I can get. So I take what I earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:17 PM
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Very few women would have partners because most women have the emotional maturity of a toddler Once you start treating women like children you never go back
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:15 PM
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It's always number 1. Lack of attraction will cause resentment and lead to unfulfilled sex and intimacy needs. Any relationship will rot. Any fight or disagreement will be amplified and compound with the lack of attraction. Lack of attraction will result in a lack of respect. It's human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:15 PM
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Facts man. Engineer, tech worker. Very successful. Was a little overweight (computer nerd, computer engineering) and got ignored my entire 20s. Once I got into tech I had money, status. I lost weight, got fit, for muscular, and women throw themselves at me. They're desperate, insecure, and broken. Finding my someone was finding a needle in a haystack.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:09 PM
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Facts man. Be fit and muscular and good looking and get laid. When I did I went from getting ghosted for 4 years on online dating to being straddled and having sex with two women within two dates. When you are prince charming women jump on you as quick as they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:03 PM
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Women choose, unless you are in the top percentile. Men then choose to commit later down the line. Which leaves a lot of women perplexed or upset and hurt. Because they chose someone who had no real interest in commiting to her, because they only accept advances from men who can choose. They then refuse to see their own inadequacies and instead blame the men when it is their choices and awful personalities and life skills thst causes high value men to leave them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:59 PM
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Because looks are the only thing that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:49 PM
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Men who make them squeal is the problem. Those women have been alpha widowed. That then puts the burden of performance on the future men she has sexual encounters with. For me personally, I spent many hours watching sex coach content to nail down technique. It was a lot of effort I had to put in for something which wasn't an issue before the sexual revolution. My parents never taught me how to pleasure a woman, but now I'm expected to know how and be really really good at it from day one. I welc…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:42 PM
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Hypergamy is well studied in psychology. It is a fact of life. You insinuate it's not been proven, did you even look?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:06 PM
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The thing is women choose. Younger women like older men who have resources. Men's choices come into play when deciding to commit. The discourse is women jealous of other women who used their youthful beauty to secure a high value partner. And men who were ignored in their 20s because they had no resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:04 PM
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