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| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Nah, don't ever get down on yourself for anything. Life is hard and we are all here just trying to figure it out. I mean, honestly, I would never recommend someone I care about stay with an addict of any kind. However, it seems you have an otherwise good life together and the addiction is not threatening your wellbeing...yet. And things are being done about it and there seems to be an intrinsic desire to change (ie he knows it;s a problem, not just doing it for you). So girl, I don't know. I dum… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020This is something I really think about. I am almost 40 myself. Life is hard and we are all fucked up in some way. It is possible for people to develop addictions after marriage, it is possible for otherwise great partners to develop addictions. Humans are complicated. Isn't love supposed to be about getting through the difficulty of life together? Would I want someone who claimed to love me but threatened to dump me if my childhood started causing me difficulty? Then I think back on my Pickme wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 202010/10 hvm Can you give us details? Or are you hindered because he has invaded your privacy by stalking you on Reddit? How long have you been together? What is your purpose for being in a relationship? What are your goals as far as marriage, kids, etc? My experience is that addiction does not just strike like lightning. There are serious underlying issues that cause it and if they are not addressed, the addiction shifts from one thing to another. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020lol 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 09:16 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/hfowt5/got_sent_a_rage_text_over_sex_and_not_sure_how_to/ I kind of laughed at this. This girl isn't really mad at him, she's mad at herself for having sex with some goon she doesn't even know. God I've been there and I regret it so, so, so, so, much. Warning, this is gross, don't read if you're easily grossed out I remember getting naked with one guy and realized he had a TON of skin from when he used to be morbidly obese (he was very fit now).… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 09:07 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Actually lol'ed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 02:20 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020I have also made the mistake of expecting decent human behavior from an LVM. It's like showing up to a pizza place and being mad that they don't serve steaks. It's just not on the menu. Best to block his ass, he's shown you who he is. I know it sucks. I'm sorry. Post here, we care about you :) How are you doing with all the craziness going on around you? Is there a curfew? Are grocery stores okay? Are you stocked up on TP? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 02:12 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Aw! Love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:59 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020It felt so off and forced. A manipulation. Trust your gut. Let this guy go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Staying Friends with Ex'sYeah, you're a giant soy boy. Probably an SJW too. You'd be better off with the crowd over at the dating over thirty subreddit who like to believe in fairy tales as well lol. Good luck! | /r/askFDS | 01/06/20 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Staying Friends with Ex'sI'm not sure what you mean by that. Could you clarify what this point is? Do you not think a man and a woman can be friends, or by interchangeable, do you just not Men and women cannot be "just friends". It's also naive to assume that just because you feel completely platonic towards someone else, that they also feel that way towards you. This guy is a red pill clown, but this article is very accurate: https://therationalmale.com/2011/11/30/intergender-friendship/ | /r/askFDS | 01/06/20 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Staying Friends with Ex'sBut, I'm not sure what your criticism is of me talking so highly about an ex is. If you break up on good terms, should I NOT talk highly about ex's when it becomes relevant, in your eyes? I would have thought needing to devalue good women and talking less accurately about them, would be incredibly low value. Black and white thinking. I'm not saying trash your ex to me so I know you're over her. I'm saying, you talk about her like you still have a thing for her. Also, a good man is hard to find, … | /r/askFDS | 01/06/20 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Staying Friends with Ex'sex is completely out of the question for this particular friend, because we'd be on different continents LOL look at the reasoning here! I see, so if she moved back, it would be different. You are not over her and lying to yourself. Congrats that you (think) you can close the chapter on romance and just move into friendship so that's why you're fine with it. Have you thought about the other person? Have you put any consideration in this "friend" of yours? Maybe they still have feelings? Maybe th… | /r/askFDS | 30/05/20 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Staying Friends with Ex'sthis is a woman who is established as a medical professional, very active in helping out charities, has a very good social life, knows her own worth and is all-around a very high-value person. Yeah, no. If I'm with someone who talks about his ex he's still in contact with like this, I'm going to be thinking "HM! She sounds like a really smart woman and she ...chose not to be with him. I wonder what she knows that I don't! I trust another woman's judgement." Also, how would YOU feel if your girl … | /r/askFDS | 30/05/20 12:27 AM |
| 13 | Whats with men feigning weird eye health issues to excuse their bad behaviour?LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!! 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 03:33 AM |
| 4 | Whats with men feigning weird eye health issues to excuse their bad behaviour?XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 03:22 AM |
| 16 | Dudes posing like they are the prize 🤣🤣🤣*NSFW and also *NSFL (not safe for life)They are so dumb that they look at pictures of us, think we look hot, and try to imitate "looking hot". They forget WE ARE BEAUTIFUL and meant to be shown off, not them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 03:38 AM |
| 67 | Dudes posing like they are the prize 🤣🤣🤣*NSFW and also *NSFL (not safe for life)Honestly, what in the hell is up with these dudes? When I first saw men posing like women, taking selfies with duck lips with blue steel faces, I thought surely they were trying to be funny. No ladies, they are dead serious. They are trying to copy us now, forgetting that WE are the fairer sex, not them. They think they are so hot, they should stick their booty out on a motorcycle and take a picture of it. Is this pic turning you on? Personally, I am just thinking how unhygienic it is to have hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 11:54 PM |
| 3 | Red flag: Men on their phones while in the bathroomdisgusting!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 11:14 AM |
| 14 | Red flag: Men on their phones while in the bathroomLOL glad you got a laugh XD especially in the mornings before school. Everyone had to arrange his sleep schedule around him. Little selfish things like that can often point to bigger problems in how he views others. Another example would be if he's the type to eat all the food in the fridge without thinking about anyone else in the house. Huh, wouldn't you know it, my brother did the same shit. It could just be quiet time for him Really, the only time you can take quiet time is when you are in a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 10:47 AM |
| 46 | Porn needs to start being shamed again. Don’t call it natural. Don’t accept it. Make a contemptuous and disgusted face when you see a guy talk about it, or a woman support her SO’s porn habits.Girl, dump his ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 06:00 PM |
| 8 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.It's in their nature to lie, cheat, steal and even kill for..........MUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH DICKKKKKKKKKKKKKK | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 04:57 PM |
| 15 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.Hehe thanks! It always took those scrotes a minute when I responded that way. They'd say "Umm.......no...I like sex, you know when two people are feeling each other etc etc" and I say "OH!! So you mean you are looking for casual sex with no commitment?? Why don't you put that on your profile?" And they go no no no that's not what I meant! LOL, yeah it's exactly what they meant. They just don't want to say it.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 04:59 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020They think of sex with a normal woman now as "bad porn" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 05:49 PM |
| 4 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.THIS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 02:26 PM |
| 20 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.I used to love responding to these dudes with "OH IT'S SO refreshing to see someone who wants to keep things casual!!! So many guys want sex, but just keeping things casual, that's great!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 02:22 PM |
| 32 | I literally can’t stop laughing. Scrote pressures wife into “open marriage” doesn’t go the way he thought it would...😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 10:10 PM |
| 15 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered April 12 2020“do you need anything” or “let me know if you need anything” Sometimes I feel this is virtue signalling because it's kind of empty but makes them look really good. I would put him on the spot and reply back "Thank you. I am wondering though, what do you mean by that? People are always in need of something." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 05:24 PM |
| 71 | Don't Date Much Older Men!!! My Story of Dating my ProfessorI am so sorry for you. I am disgusted by him from reading this and I am very glad for you that you sorted yourself out. Another lesson, you say he reacted badly when you criticized his behavior or complained in any way. Ladies, when you feel the need to critsize or complain, write down what he did. Then read it back to yourself and put "I am choosing to be with a man who...." in front of each point, to drive the point home to yourself. There is no point in criticizing a man or complaining. Do yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 05:19 PM |
| 11 | Not wanting a guy that has InstagramI've recently started deleting these dudes. If a guy I don't know likes my pic and then I go see he's following MissXxX thicccc titties (and twenty other different versions of her), he's blocked. I'm thinking of keeping my Instagram private and only adding women from now on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 05:06 PM |
| 12 | Incels/Mgtows in a nutshellCurvy translates to a stick with big boobs 😆😆😆😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 03:13 AM |
| 18 | Incels/Mgtows in a nutshellmust be a size 0, earn 6 figures, be 20 years old and willing to have sex 24/7 and not demand anything in return Yeah, you forgot virgin 😆😆😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 03:12 AM |
| 20 | Do Porn-Free Men Even Exist?Stay single, only 3-5 out of every 100 men are high value anyway so 95% chance stay single or end up abused. ^ THIS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 09:54 PM |
| 30 | Do Porn-Free Men Even Exist?Don’t ask “Do you watch porn?”, instead ask, “What kind of porn do you like to watch?”. The latter question will provide you with a more honest answer. Omg this is smart. So smart. However, every dude lies about this or downplays how much he watches. Best to just secretly check their phone and computer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 09:53 PM |
| 7 | What the actual...Delusionalsameeeee!!!!! XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 03:38 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/4/2020You're a clown. Do I want to buy your Iphone???? Fuck right off. Oh god these "men" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 01:23 AM |
| 9 | What’s with the obsession with splitting everything 50/50?LOL! You forgot one: 👴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 07:07 PM |
| 20 | What’s with the obsession with splitting everything 50/50?“youth digger” " many of them are literal youth diggers and should be shamed." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 07:03 PM |
| 7 | Could you call him if you were in the hospital? If not, DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM.OH my fucking god. I have no words. I am proud of you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 06:05 PM |
| 9 | Old classmate from college messaged me after 5 years asking how I was because of the pandemic. Suddenly sends these pictures. Why do men do this?UGH Oh my fucking god I hate these goddamn men and their fucking selfies trying to get validation or..........like what they fuck WHYYYYYYYYYYY do they do this shit??? I was talking to a guy I gave a chance to even though he looked kind of unattractive facially (I never give chances now, but anyway) because he was smart, funny, successful. We made plans to meet up so I gave him my number. BIG MISTAKE. This dude starts sending me random selfies to go with our conversation. "Oh I'm just eating bre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 09:26 PM |
| 67 | anybody else unable to tolerate normal relationship subs anymore?20 pickmeishas crawl out of the bushes to talk about how much they love porn 😂 😂 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 09:00 PM |
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