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It really depends on the person. Ive been this scenario, I have a good friend from a country from Africa. He is like a mangnet to women, sometimes banging 3 ladies a day. Ive never been envious of that, though it could have to do with whenever I meet a lady he is trying to engage with they are normally more interested in me. I think casual sex is overhyped. Been there, done her(s), and Ive not felt much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:05 AM
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It's not fair and the sooner guys come to that acceptance the better off they will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:21 PM
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When you do realize that you've been lied to all this time you can either become bitter, or you can start adapting to the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:59 AM
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I mean in general. If the 20% does really exist (ive known about this prior to posting here), I dont think Im in it but I would be slightly below. Hence why I mentioned 75%.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:38 PM
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I have had my issues dating though when I read some posts I realized probably at least 75% of males are struggling worse. It's sad out there for many and many feel hapless and helpless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:11 PM
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If you live in a city I think you would be able to get at least a half dozen dates in a year. Curious story.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:46 AM
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Arm muscles and abs will get you laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:54 PM
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You are definitely paranoid. Other than at work, does sexual harassment even exist? You are at a bar and you approach a woman she doesnt like your advances, a call to the cops will just be laughed at. Regardless, be respectful. rejections happen, if they do move.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:58 AM
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I read an article during the pandemic from BBC that the world by 2100 was going to face a population crisis. Japan and Spain were going to have their populations cut in half by then. That would make more sense now. The US however was projected to still be growing by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:32 AM
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Im doing just fine, thank you for asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:37 AM
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Of course it is. You have ladies only taking selfies of their face and adding filters and then when guys ask for full body pictures they get insulted. They are the ones deceiving and many do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:22 PM
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I dont agree with this. Just sheer probability tells you the more people there are the more of the chance you have. Austin for example, whenever I go there, there are countless of attractive women who want my penis. Though what Im learning from PPD is im above average. i dont see myself as such though for the most part in this current juncture in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:43 AM
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This short 12 second clip is crap. Yes some ladies should be afraid of males. Though in my social circle, my male friends have had more stalkers than female friends have. Luckily have never had one but just act calm first and foremost. Though with me that is my natural behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:33 AM
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I've never venmo'd anyone $200 if it wasn't for something I actually owed. This seems bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:37 PM
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This is good advice. Even just salsa or bachata classes. I've been on dates to those such classes and there were alot of women there without male partners. Granted maybe they were in a relationship but it is a start to meet others.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:26 PM
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There can be a variety of reasons for not getting into a relationship with other women he is screwing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:43 PM
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What will happen is the guy most likely will be having sex with other women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:11 PM
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Ever try taking some type of dance classes? Ive gone on dates to those places and those were always more women there. I have never done any meetups.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:29 AM
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Rofl, the complete opposite 🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:16 AM
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my beard comes in really well, and Im a redhead so have that fire look. So yes I look good with it. I grow it cause if I dont I look like Im in mid 20's, as Im in my mid 30's currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:13 AM
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I used to struggle with this alot and sometimes i still do but what really helped me was something I heard Charles Barkley say. he said it's ok to say no, you cant make everyone happy. People will take advantage of you if you dont. Being polite and friendly is wonderful, but you have to know when to say no. Think about your own needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:41 PM
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If you spend your time with someone that is not "free". Time is one of the things you can never get back.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:01 AM
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So they see you as average and you think they're lying to not hurt your feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:11 PM
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she is flirting with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:55 PM
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Well this just proves you aren't a vouyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:23 PM
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I do agree that one should work to maximize the best of their abilities before moaning about not getting any sexual intercourse or being alone. If you do everything to improve that is under your control and still fail, at least you can say you tried. I will type this though, confidence goes along way though even if you arent the best looking guy. Or at least giving the sense you are does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:43 PM
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A dog never says no to a bone, even if it's a well fed dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:01 AM
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For those complaining about spending money, just go get coffee. If the lady isnt up for that, you should tell her to gtfo in a kind way. The first date should be very casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:58 AM
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I think it's kind of hard to qualify what the top 20% really is. So there in itself is a problem with this. Just because you show someone a picture of their face doesnt account for everything else. Like height and muscles along with how much they make.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:56 AM
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Damn, I remember reading into this over a decade ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 08:09 PM
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Yes, case in point my brother. He's like 5'10. Though he has rippling muscles though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:35 PM
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It's more than being a smooth talker. It's how you portray yourself with confidence. I am really witty and a good talker when needed. Many consider myself attractive though I think Im decent. My downfall is Im so calm and relaxed is that I come off unconfident. Like they think im in a comatose state calm. At least faking confidence is the key.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 02:53 AM
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I was dating a lady a few years ago and she was about 5'9. She told me that should would rather date a guy without a penis than dating one shorter than her. Like WTF 🤣. That has stuck with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:21 PM
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You run into a jackass in the morning, you run into a jackass in the afternoon, you run into the jackass at night, guess what? You're the jackass. We tend to attract certain potential partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:39 AM
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Do you live in city or more rural area?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:21 PM
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Unless you are a height of a tree I doubt you are "ugly". Height does factor into so much though. Ive tried this before on dating apps. Im quite tall and put myself at 5'9 (height of the average American male) and it was a stark difference from my actual height (6'1).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:35 PM
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To me responses like that can be know seen as red flags. Both parties are culpable in a failed relationship. If this is her response, did she try to work on herself in the meantime?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:38 AM
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They only want to be approached if the guy is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:37 PM
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I think both genders personalities are problematic and alot of it comes from the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:55 PM
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I mean if they only want to have sex with the lights off, that should tell you that they aren't sexually attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:05 PM
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They don't want to bang with the lights off is a good start.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:02 PM
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If a lady ever calls you too nice or anything like that, just reply you arent a nice guy whenever I'm behind you or on top of you. That will really get them going from my experience. Never fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:34 PM
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Great generalization. As women offer so much more!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:17 AM
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Dating is a game. Part of that is a numbers game. Women will have more matches there the probability of them finding a potential partner is greater. This isnt difficult to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:20 PM
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They dont, it's only if you let them have it they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:40 AM
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Do you live a rural area? Granted a live in a major city but it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:12 PM
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Trying to meet people in in real life negates online dating. No one is going to call the cops on you if you are at a bar/restaurant and approach a woman. I think this a reasonable point of view, the other is for males to start having higher standards and start accepting the fact that you dont need to have a relationship just to be in one (like women are doing). Go find hobbies and other interests and in doing so you could potentially meet someone that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 08:31 PM
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Here's an idea, why dont the XX and XY chromosomes both do better in regards to this quandary?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 08:11 PM
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Doing your "research" on someone isnt creepy. Wish I would have done this before dating my last girlfriend. A couple of domestic abuse charges and DUI's prior. Would told me to run away much sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:24 PM
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Everyone has their own story and their own pace. Im not sure what you went to jail for but a lady telling you that you should be at X point in your life is disrespectful. Dont take any crap from those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:20 AM
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When it comes to online dating, it is about 95% of looks or not. I always argue this with ladies who claim looks dont matter much. I always ask them when you are looking at a profile, what is the first thing you see? It's a picture of their face. Then they make a determination from that point. Best approach is to try to meet the XX chromosomes in real life *shudders*.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:08 AM
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It's not the same as it was decades ago due to women in the workforce but I still think it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:29 PM
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OP, how long have you been dating for? The more you get out there the more you should be able to read signs of whether they are interested are not. Non verbal cues as well as if she seems engaged in the conversation. Whether she is asking questions or not. Once you have been able to figure this out it will save you alot of time on women who are not interested. Though what you described just seems like dating these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:31 PM
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I really think it depends on age. The older you get the more a male would have control. There is no biological clock there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:22 PM
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60% of females is still a large portion of the population. So the porn thing is just mega crap to quote to the editor from Spider-Man. Please define eligible men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:03 AM
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How do we define average?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:57 PM
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