itizwhatitizlmao Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	How do you stop yourself from getting friendzoned Accept some people don’t want you like that and move on	/r/seduction	04/07/24 12:16 AM
1	How to reconnect with ex gf Good job though! You let those feelings out. Keep going! Maybe the future will allow a reunion with her. But give her space so she also can miss you and analyze. If you meet again, you will both be better people. Worst thing to do is go back when you’re hurt and spoil it with negative emotions from the past. You’ll become 10x more attractive by focusing on you and becoming the best version of you. And next time… you’ll know what to avoid and what to continue.	/r/seduction	19/06/24 09:35 PM
1	Overcoming Breakup and Starting Again You did that because of inexperience. It’s okay. Forgive yourself. Now you’ve learned a bit more about yourself and what you’re okay with and also what you want in your next girl.	/r/seduction	19/06/24 08:59 PM
2	Overcoming Breakup and Starting Again I think it’s normal to become insecure sometimes. We all do. It comes out in relationships because our partners trigger us or just life itself. The answer always begins and ends with ourselves. We must become resilient and move on with life. Let those who are not a good fit go. They’re not for us to keep. And the more we fight those signs the universe will punish us further… What’s meant for you will never leave you	/r/seduction	19/06/24 06:05 PM
2	How to reconnect with ex gf Because I’ve been in your shoes… and have held on to hope only for the circumstances to simply not get any better. It becomes messy, all the emotions, the sadness and anger of not being able to do anything about it. The judgement from them when they see you so low and hurt. I failed by allowing him back into my life multiple times for over a year just for the relationship to never grow and stay exactly the same. Cause we didn’t change. And he kept me around “hoping” and waiting until he felt rea…	/r/seduction	19/06/24 01:46 PM
1	She’s “busy” am I 100% cooked? You have a crush - she doesn’t care much about you. Do with that what you will	/r/seduction	18/06/24 06:36 PM
1	Overcoming Breakup and Starting Again You can do it! I believe in you! I’m sure you’re great :) When I go through stuff like this I like YouTube podcasts about mindset and how to deal with these things they’re very inspiring and unfortunately infidelity is extremely common and most people have cheated/been cheated on	/r/seduction	17/06/24 03:15 PM
6	Overcoming Breakup and Starting Again Take time to get over this breakup. If you try to start anything with another girl your insecurities and past pain will show in that relationship and ruin it because you didn’t allow yourself to be sad and go through the motions of betrayal, pain, having to get over someone. Then do anything that makes you happy and start putting you first. By doing this, you naturally will attract women I hope. Also, don’t ever tell anybody the details of your past. It’s none of their business and they will jud…	/r/seduction	17/06/24 12:05 PM
8	How to reconnect with ex gf Let her go and allow yourself to feel like shit because ultimately there’s no compatibility/no future of something nice and healthy. The cycle you wanna start will just end up making you both miserable and hate each other	/r/seduction	15/06/24 05:19 PM
7	We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl. They treat that woman very well. That’s how.	/r/seduction	11/06/24 01:58 PM
1	Why do i pull only fat girls? Get your money up	/r/seduction	17/05/24 11:10 PM
6	Curious about Female Perspective: Do Women Find Virgin Men Attractive or Desire Them Sexually? This is a “your friends preference” and not a generalized woman preference.	/r/seduction	09/04/24 10:03 PM
5	Curious about Female Perspective: Do Women Find Virgin Men Attractive or Desire Them Sexually? This is a “your friends preference” and not a generalized woman preference.	/r/seduction	09/04/24 10:03 PM
17	Asking Women Out Has to Make Sense Idk … I’m a woman and most men that approach me I assume they’re trying to get my number. I’m right 99% of the time. And because it happens so frequently, it becomes a nuisance so I prefer and respect some directness. Stop wasting my time and get to it.	/r/seduction	22/02/24 04:33 PM
2	She replies only once a day, what to do now? It’s such a waste to spend days texting strangers. It goes nowhere. It gets boring. I’ve had so many random men message me that I never respond to or I’m super dry because it’s such a huge waste of my time and I could be doing literally anything more fun and exciting than being glued to my phone going back and forth on DMs with a random person. People, you can’t “gain” interest back. If she wanted to talk to you that bad, she would. You can’t regain interest caus you’re long distance. There’s no…	/r/seduction	18/02/24 12:40 PM
-3	Cold approach is not seduction. Just because she gives you her number doesn’t mean she likes you or wants to see you again. By asking her questions about herself. Talking. Consistently showing interest.	/r/seduction	18/02/24 08:30 AM
1	How do I attract the girls I want? Bro idk. Just try to glow up in whichever way that applies to you individually.	/r/seduction	28/01/24 08:51 PM
2	How do I attract the girls I want? Accept failure and move on. There’s always another woman.	/r/seduction	28/01/24 05:25 PM
1	How do I attract the girls I want? Id need to see what you look like and what the woman you want looks like to advise	/r/seduction	28/01/24 05:24 PM
13	How do I attract the girls I want? You look at the men they date.	/r/seduction	28/01/24 01:28 PM
0	How do I attract the girls I want? By being the type of man those women want.	/r/seduction	28/01/24 01:27 PM
1	If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it? Because women know men will have sex w anything that has a vag.	/r/seduction	31/10/22 03:39 PM
2	Is a woman calling a guy "pretty" really a compliment? The perfect man duh	/r/seduction	05/10/22 03:02 AM
4	Is a woman calling a guy "pretty" really a compliment? Yes. It means your face is pretty. That’s it. It’s a good thing. A guy with a hot body or tall isn’t necessarily pretty. Opposite of a butterface.	/r/seduction	04/10/22 09:37 PM
0	Girl who used to like me way back in highschool She’s obsessed with you…	/r/seduction	13/09/22 04:36 PM
3	Had a night out with a girl and things were perfect but.. I disagree. He wasn’t overly clingy .. just sweet. I don’t see the point in playing hard to get after you have sex with someone/kiss/get intimate WHEN you’d genuinely like to explore more with that person. I rather be rejected sooner than have this hot and cold game drag out for months, when one person is most likely NOT interested and the other is pretending not to be as well. If somebody likes you, I prefer knowing and going with it or rejecting.	/r/seduction	13/09/22 11:30 AM
41	Had a night out with a girl and things were perfect but.. I’m sorry dude, this happens to us girls as well. There’s literally no point in over-analyzing or wondering what you did wrong. This girl enjoyed your company for the night and the next day she decided she wanted nothing more with you. It hurts, but most likely she wasn’t even in that frame of mind from the beginning to do anything other than just “enjoy this small moment and that’s it”. You might feel used, confused… I didn’t see anything bad in your texts… you were just sweet and if she liked …	/r/seduction	13/09/22 11:25 AM
3	The instant you show a girl too much interest, she plays hard I think it is frustrating for everyone but playing the long game does work. I’ve lost interest in people who pursued me too aggressively, too quickly. Giving each other space and letting them come to you (and you matching the energy) seems to work well.	/r/seduction	14/08/22 04:46 PM
14	The instant you show a girl too much interest, she plays hard It’s literally the same for men. I have to “wait” for him to approach me. To text me. To plan dates. I can’t text him or double text him first. I can’t call him. Can’t show too much enthusiasm. Can’t ask to be taken on dates. Can’t be too available. Women are not all the same and men are not all the same but this is just the current reality of dating for EVERYBODY…	/r/seduction	14/08/22 02:02 PM
8	Why do some women tend to post IG stories of them at a fancy place or restaurant but don’t show the guy they’re with? Just something I was curious about. For the same reason men post when they’re out and about. A simple “Hey, I’m having fun and I look good” Not sure why y’all hating lmao. Also she could be by herself or with a girlfriend too. And no girl is gonna take pics with a guy she just started talking to and could possibly be on a first date with. Just like none of you men would post pics of your date with a random girl you just met. It’s weird. Let people be. Mind ya own business	/r/seduction	05/08/22 12:04 AM
3	If you could go back and tell your newbie dating self anything, what would it be? Run away if he treats you like a side chick 😭	/r/seduction	31/07/22 06:07 PM
1	Women, do you like getting approached in public? I tend to hide my attraction until the man makes it clear he is also interested in me. During the initial interaction I will hold eye contact the whole time. Usually I start looking away because I’m either not interested anymore or I’m actually feeling nervous because I am. This is why I need personal space and for the man to back off but hover nearby doing his own thing. I am thinking and observing him. If I liked him, I will keep glancing at him for a few seconds (can’t help it) and if our eye…	/r/seduction	18/06/22 02:08 PM
1	Women, do you like getting approached in public? Your second thought is correct. I already know (subconsciously) that I am attracted to you or not from the moment our eyes meet. Now let’s see what comes out of your mouth.	/r/seduction	18/06/22 12:14 PM
138	Women, do you like getting approached in public? I do like it. It happens often. I want you to be quick, direct and to the point. Just ask. Because I don’t know you so I’m going off purely physical attraction just like you are. It’s when the man takes forever with the small talk that I get annoyed. Don’t try to talk to me for a very long time when we are both outside obviously busy. There’s no need. I already made a decision the second I saw you walking up to me. Also men who make it awkward, or ask me why not. Or try to keep pushing. It’s so …	/r/seduction	18/06/22 02:00 AM
2	Are we as men working too hard to get women? Yes. Most healthy women do get attached and catch feelings after sex. Men do not. Too much risk to give it up so soon unless you have some trauma that makes you act hyper sexual. It’s in a woman’s best interest to limit her partners and only give themselves to a man who will value them for more than just sex.	/r/seduction	15/06/22 06:19 PM
1	Are we as men working too hard to get women? Exactly :) . And if they are looking for something else, cool. Move on.	/r/seduction	15/06/22 06:17 PM
13	Are we as men working too hard to get women? Context. It depends. Some ARE manipulative. Some act aloof. Tactics need to be personalized and it is all deep down a strategy. We all have to develop our own strategy to attract.	/r/seduction	15/06/22 04:48 PM
2	Are we as men working too hard to get women? Love - you are correct. Love has got to grow and be built up together. Not everyone is willing to build up to it. That is what I mean by it is either there or it is not. Either both people work together for it or let it go. The game- The fact that men do have to be the ones to chase the woman. Men do not respect women that have to chase them. Women do not respect themselves if they need to chase a man. A woman that has to chase a man does so because he is running away. The game of a man becoming…	/r/seduction	15/06/22 04:45 PM
1	Are we as men working too hard to get women? Of course. And you’re not going to be the guy for many girls. Know what you want and go for people who want what you want. Let go of everyone else.	/r/seduction	15/06/22 04:38 PM
8	Are we as men working too hard to get women? Because they are manipulative and manipulation works. Even though the intent behind it is always bad.	/r/seduction	15/06/22 04:34 PM
2	Are we as men working too hard to get women? Of course!!! Match the energy! If you are not being respected - walk away! Trust me when a woman likes you and appreciates you she will make it known. Sex is fun and all but it is not and never will be the glue that holds a healthy relationship together. Be kind, be firm with your boundaries and communicate well. Continue working on yourself to being the best of you. This is the only way. Deep down nobody NEEDS anybody else. But life is very enjoyable with a like-minded person who loves you enti…	/r/seduction	15/06/22 04:31 PM
-10	Are we as men working too hard to get women? See… men like this end up alone. That’s what they really want. And that is okay! A woman should not ever chase a man. If you can’t be bothered to work hard for the woman you really want (because you genuinely feel a connection with her and see a future with her) you do not have what it takes to have a relationship. Rules as old as time. Love is very simple. It’s either there or it is not. If it is too difficult, that is the sign that you are on the wrong path. Difficulty means pay attention and …	/r/seduction	15/06/22 03:53 PM
22	Confusion No. Her. We are not all the same, just like men are not all the same.	/r/seduction	14/06/22 04:20 PM
2	Why do women think that it's totally normal and acceptable to completely ignore texts from a guy? Because I don’t even speak to my own mother daily like that. Once you get to a certain age, back and forth texting with multiple people is exhausting. Not even married couples text constantly. I think u need to take the hint and find some hobbies. Everybody is busy with their lives and so should u.	/r/seduction	03/06/22 10:49 PM
1	Is a woman's romantic interest much less stable than a man's romantic interest? Did I? Did I really say that tho? What kind of stupid ass question is this captain obvious?	/r/seduction	22/05/22 01:09 AM
2	Is a woman's romantic interest much less stable than a man's romantic interest? Yeahhhh, rub the salt on the wound. Thanks buddy	/r/seduction	21/05/22 11:08 PM
14	Is a woman's romantic interest much less stable than a man's romantic interest? Women choose who to have sex with. Men choose who to marry.	/r/seduction	21/05/22 06:09 PM
7	Is a woman's romantic interest much less stable than a man's romantic interest? This is true. I’m the girl in this case. I had a short fling for a few weeks with a guy that approached me. He was cute, but nothing specially attracted me to him at the beginning. We ended up hanging out and spending time 1 on 1 made me notice I did like him physically more than I thought. We talked for a while and we ended up hooking up multiple times. The way he looked at me and touched me felt amazing. Long story short I started catching feelings and decided to end it all. I knew he wasn’t g…	/r/seduction	21/05/22 06:08 PM
1	For men who feel lied to by society about women, can you give examples of things in popular culture you feel mislead you? Yeah you’re right	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/21 02:15 AM
1	For men who feel lied to by society about women, can you give examples of things in popular culture you feel mislead you? I see where you’re coming from. I generalized men because not all men are that way. Thanks for sharing your point of view	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/21 04:49 PM
2	For men who feel lied to by society about women, can you give examples of things in popular culture you feel mislead you? Well.. aren’t you charming?You figured it all out sweetheart ❤️. You’re right 😙	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 10:11 AM
2	For men who feel lied to by society about women, can you give examples of things in popular culture you feel mislead you? Women at a certain age can very well recognize how beautiful and desired they are. And as adults, can dress however it pleases their personal fashion sense. Women’s fashion is complex and ever changing, and not all women prefer to dress in outfits that show a lot of skin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/21 10:43 AM
10	For men who feel lied to by society about women, can you give examples of things in popular culture you feel mislead you? I would like to throw out some information as a woman out there. From what I’ve seen, and of course it’s my opinion and not 100% certain... Women have different dispositions towards relationships. On one side, you have the woman who experienced hardship in childhood, came from an unstable family or unstable life in general and grew up cautious, anxious and looking for stability. Stability for women can be a huge benefit and it allows for the inner release of conflict, allowing the woman to bloss…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/21 12:07 PM