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They are disciples of Saint Hamudi, the language used that you wrote about suggests this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:55 PM
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No. It's a woman's job to get me emotionally hooked so she can harness that strength for her benefit. If she can't do that she can move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:31 AM
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The mystery of women hasn't been revealed to them. When it does it's a spell that has been broken 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:18 AM
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Had to ponder about the experience to give a response. In short friend-zoned, they are deeply flawed women and I have no interest in saving them, most women want someone to listen to and empathise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:49 AM
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Nearly got involved in a threesome last night with two women. Nice women, pleasant to be around but knowing what I know about them I've come to this conclusion. They are emotionally broken women, beautiful women as people and looks but that casual sex is a crutch. I'll always be supportive of them but would never consider the romantic or sexual prospects. This applies to both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:09 PM
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I think we are looking at it the wrong way. The idea is to get in a financial position where you can work part time and still have a meaningful life that doesn't make you socially isolated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:58 AM
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Good for him. I don't know what was on his mind. A man offering commitment to a woman is like writing a blank check. A man sexual gratification isn't as prolonged as an extended list of financial, emotional and anti boredom circus acts that men have to perform. I hope he still feels you are still worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:07 PM
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Respond like a woman that will never be worthy to be protected by a man 🤷?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:50 PM
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I don't give a damn, and I will never apologies. That's on women to make men feel a certain way, that includes sexual gratification. Women want to walk late at night with a man that can intimidate other men? Women want men to lift heavy objects around the house? Want your tyre changed in heavy traffic and want men to be there in an instant. Want to feel safe in your own home with a man that is calm enough to act on protective instincts. Women have to pay an absolute premium for this, and part of…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:38 PM
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That women need to be f$"&ked by men first before we even consider them commitment worthy? Is your truth the same as mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:26 PM
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I'm ok. We just want to fuck you, if we find you attractive... And then if we like you we will commit. Is that more succinct for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:16 PM
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Men should never apologies for their sexual motives for women ever. It's not helpful to both genders. Women who ostracised men for this deserve to be single. Think about it. When a man feels attraction to a women, the arousal is sexual. This is what is draws him into her, when the feeling is mutual this term is called "chemistry". To say he just only wants sex is right, to a certain extent but to make him commit a woman has to offer a lot more. The man isn't thinking about making breakfast for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:59 PM
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It depends. The resentment is warranted if the man in question is bringing considerable resources relative to hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:35 AM
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My lived experience is she is dtf when she doesnt want to know anything about me on the date, talks about herself but let's you run your finger up her skirt and gives you a dirty look. Men have to be at least 2 higher than her looks wise. The bar is higher for a relationship because that involves more emotional and financial investment. Some of this might be a surprise to some.men but some women want a human dildo with zero emotional investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:19 PM
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Guilty of this. With differing communication styles I have said no to many women, unknowingly. It's not "hey let's smash", it's a gesture, a look or a demeanour. For most men they don't even know they say "no" to women without realising it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:49 AM
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The equivalent should be if women haven't confirmed their fertility they shouldn't date either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 09:26 PM
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Go to the hardware store, purchase the roughest sand paper, fold it in half and stroke it. I don't make the rules, neither do women. It is it what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:04 AM
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Think you missed a few email threads. It's the part where immigration will replace citizen women giving child birth, the metrics have been weighed for skilled, unskilled labour. It's not a fertility crisis, it's a cultural crisis. Importing more people who bring their own cultures to replace the dominant culture that is replacing itself. I think this is where the email thread is up to date. Gender dynamics has to move to do we or are we willing to replace our culture within two generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:11 PM
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Yes but... but they should recognise their value and refuse to entertain women who haven't work on themselves or are looking for crutch to carry them through life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:55 AM
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From observation most women have these kinks and preferences. Man young women have these kinks and preferences, they end up eventually becoming women who know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:15 PM
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In future the patriarchy will rise. Father's will underwrite their daughters financial stability. To expect a man that his daughter falls in love with who has his life sorted out at the same age is near impossible. The father will take on a deeper mentor role to his son-in-law. This cycle will perpetuate. With the cost of living increasing this has lead to age gap relationship, especially with women in their 30s pursuing older established men. Also, there is a "biological deficit" modern women e…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:26 AM
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Bingo. The last 3 women I have courted have attempted in vain to extract my anger, did I get angry, yes I did but my internal, emotional locus of control was on point, I've dealt with them with indifference after these anger simulations. I stopped dating them. I think some women subconsciously do it and it's always at the beginning stages. Attempting to get a man angry is like expecting him to pay for a 7 course meal on a weekend getaway funded by me without hesitation. Do I have the capacity to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:59 AM
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I've taken women on dates and if the vibe is right she is DTF when I've had no reservations on paying for the date. Go halves and the 😻 dries up real quick 🤷.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:56 AM
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Pack everything up and end the thread👌
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:27 PM
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Men operate more on the logical plain aka boring to women. To engage in the conversation getting more in depth about the subject matter is going to naturally occur. Women operate more on the emotional connection on subject matters. This explains why you think men are testing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:01 PM
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The wall means different things. For me at 30 she has roughly 6 years of fertility, assuming she wants kids, if not this doesn't apply to childless women. If she brings nothing or very little financially to the table and wants to settle down with a beta bux or provider she has to lower her standards. Such a man would have the burden to bring the resources that he has acquired to provide and allow her to nest. The question is "where were you when I was acquiring and toiling". Why do 30 year old, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:30 PM
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It's just a ruse. Women want masculine men to put them in their place and show them "the edge". "The edge" is that psychologically place she needs to be were she knows there will be serious consequences for her and you mean what you say. Neurotism ends after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:20 AM
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Because like any external source of validation such as steroids, the conditioning, struggle and ability has been bypassed. Sure men who take steroids do the effort but many know once they stop taking it they won't be able to maintain those muscle and strength gains. A lot of young men learn the hard way. They may have the appearance of a man but they don't have the internal fortitude to deal with life per se compared to someone who has experienced true struggle. It's a big mismatch of congruency…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:05 AM
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Sounds counter intuitive but she makes you jealous and shows you she can emotionally manipulate men in front of you in social settings. These women are above average in looks. Women go to lengths to chase men and do all sorts of simulated tricks and tests to see what sort of locus of control selected men have with their emotions. Also acting like a bitch, she'll figure away to trigger you and see how you respond to her. She'll stalk you and get her friends to stalk you. Send her friends to try f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:17 AM
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Agree. I know because fit women clock fit men all the time. I'm not saying it's better but it's just associated to a lifestyle and shared interest. I know I have no chance against a colleague of mine who looks like an emaciated middle aged emo man who pulls goth milfs. Him and I know where our niche is and stick to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:07 AM
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I'm sure it exists, what's the female equivalent when a hetro male sees a moist vagina 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:03 AM
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No. But I do have access to women that I could befriend and genuinely connect with. This would take months on end and even then after befriending them I'd probably or may not get involved with them romantically, after understanding them. I think dating is changing to a slower pace, informal interactions over a period of time. So no in it's popular format but evolving into something different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:04 AM
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Get a rotation of hookers and pay extra them when they are ovulating. The sex would be wild and you'd never be subject to a dead bedroom for a woman that settled for you, in exchange for your resources and skills you've acquired over the years. This is probably the best deal you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:56 AM
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It's called de-centring men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:37 AM
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It depends. If the man is attractive and socially calibrated it's yes. For this variety of men women can get stalkerish. If it's a basic man with no social reference, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:02 AM
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Red to purple. Red helps for self development, which is good. I went on a few dates with a girl, she offered to pay on one occasion. I got the "ick" and felt emasculated and we stopped dating. Would that be simp behaviour? Probably but I'm more than capable and if there was no sexual outcome after the date it wouldn't phase me the slightest. My money is good and there are other options out there. She reached out last week but I didn't reply back to her. From this experience simp behaviour for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:13 AM
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Young guys are usually broke 🫢
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:34 AM
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Break the touch barrier. If she backs off stop, if she likes it, that's your green light to GRADUALLY escalate. Touch should be subtle. I have had instances where I've payed for a dinner date, my date commented on the fabric I was wearing and touched my shoulder, then she commented on hers and touched her inner thigh to signal to me I should feel the texture which I obliged. Also women that I have dated and escalated get off on being cornered. The caveat to this is if you're pursuing her and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:32 AM
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Camilla Parker-Bowles was married to a brigadier and upgraded to a prince at the time. She didn't end up with Hugh from Tesco 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:14 AM
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Modern men either conservative or liberal shouldn't do love. Well they can but there is one critical element that you should consider. She is either your financial equivalent or not. In the event of a separation family courts don't divide the "deep love" that women claim they have for someone special. The court divide assets. Also you should be building a financial base in a committee relationship. Last thing you want is a woman who's not your financial equivalent and gets knocked up 1 or 2 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:34 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:45 AM
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Playing hard to get is the worst advice. There is a balance to it but from experience women aren't good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:15 AM
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Oh man, love this comment 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:03 AM
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This. Or a Cheryl Sandberg, I just roll my eyes when this is brought up. How about Linda the 30 year sandwich maker with no savings and no 401k.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:59 AM
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You are right, but they are highly likely settling. I'd loath to be a man in such a situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:57 AM
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Gen Z men will figuratively make the beta bux extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:25 PM
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All women are different but when it comes to showing interest in me one thing is common. Simulating the chase. Once you experience or see it you can't un-see it. Women do this when I am grocery shopping, in the gym or at some other social event. The women that do this are above average, it's never the case with mid women. I'll be going about your day, they'll drop a few body language ques, when I am about to leave they too are about to leave. I know it's my cue to initiate and ask for a number b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:43 PM
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If you meet in real life around a consistent community or social setting you by-pass a lot of the above. Women's attraction is contextual, how you socially calibrate with others, how other people interact with you. Putting a woman on the spot by asking her out without any contextual frame for her to gauge is going to be difficult. Texting online and facetiming is an option before meeting in real life but meeting organically is easier. People can catfish, facetune, body tune photo shop and get th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:13 AM
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Got outta mine ok. When that realisation you have been objectified as a resource - a wallet and a sperm donor always hits hard in a lonely room by yourself. Stay strong you are good for it, for life that is 💪
/r/MensRights06/02/24 06:29 AM
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This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:28 AM
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No. Not in my experience. I have been asked out by women multiple times in real life, for the main part when women ask a man out it's different, they say subtle prompts where the man has to make the initiative. Men and women differ how they pursue one another. In every case, social proof was always established. You can do this online to some degree but in real life it's more bona-fide. My advice to men is to have genuine platonic relationships with multiple women from different social circles. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:49 AM
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Agree. The amount of face tune and body tune people use is warping their sense of reality. This is why I think meeting organically or in real life is becoming a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:14 AM
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I dated a woman that was 99lb and 5'5 and she admitted that the gym was her personality. Definitely a committed woman toward her hobby and that attitude carried with her in other parts of her life. She was pleasant to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:30 PM
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Yes, women are far less horny than men. But if she is on her second week of her menstrual cycle and the right guy gives her the vibe she is feeling - it's on. When women say the "feels" they really do mean it. For women it's, contextual/circumstantial.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:19 PM
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From experience, the female mind is too volatile the emotions you feel are unpredictable. I've taken women in dates, been intimate but something happens where it gets too overwhelming and the behaviour is so unpredictable I lose interest. I think it could be a low confidence thing. I may not be doing enough to make her feel good enough but if a woman can't love herself more than I could, she isn't the one for me. I don't want to be the man that distracts her from her low confidence, I think I'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:55 AM
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Crazy. It's her energy and her deep love that is valuable. I think women do this to validate their value ie if my love can transform him than what I feel is valuable, it's her emotion of love that can overcome and conquer. Men don't get it because we don't operate that way. It's not that we are emotionally shallow or misogynistic, it's absurd. Eventually these type of women will go on social media rants and complain. It's probably a very frustrating experience once she has given her all to a dea…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:40 PM
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I experienced this. We are not mind readers. If you are "feeling it" at that moment tell him, and tell him there will be days when you are not. When you are ready and feeling it reach out to him. When women behave inconsistently the consistent message men interpret is "she isn't interested".
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/24 11:08 AM
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You write like this. "Tell me you are a peasant without telling me you are a peasant". You've stated an opinion now explain it, otherwise don't wipe the Cheetos crumb off your fingers if you are going to reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 12:38 AM
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A differing perspective. I have an above average male physique. I have very visible ques of upper body strength by the way I dress. It takes great effort and dedication to get my physique over a period of time. I don't take steroids, supplements or creatine. Yes, I do get approached and hit on by women regularly. The type of women are above average, looks-wise. But I'm not impressed, well I could be but it'll take alot more than looks for me. Getting a physique that women find conventionally att…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:40 PM
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Telling your woman you can't afford that big house because you know interest rate cycle could turn. So you get something more affordable. She gets the shits because her peers have overspent and she "feels" lacking. As interest rates rise, her peers are struggling. We aren't. Women have to pay a premium for this type of Masculinity but unfortunately they wouldn't know what it is. True masculinity is foresight and discipline despite how she feels knowing the outcome that she can't see or feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:20 PM
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The "chase" is essentially gas lighting men who have a lot going for themselves for mediocre women who are average at best. Three months max, if she is still trying to get you to commitment your resources and time, in exchange for her "deep emotions" about you, leave as soon as you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:56 PM
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You win, perfect!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:36 AM
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Unless she is consistently in your line of sight, if she gradually gets closer to you over a period of time in a social setting, don't approach women. Women want to be desired by men they find attractive and they make it easier for men who make them feel desired.to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:17 AM
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How else are women supposed to harness that strength of a man relative to her that could potentially brutalise her or brutalise others protecting her potential children ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:01 AM
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I actually concede to the view that women do this because there is a perceived lack of intimacy on the man's part of the relationship. I get it. They test men to deepen the emotional bond with a man. Men interpret it as emotional manipulation. Women want to be wanted from the men they select but I think there is a deep sense of emotional insecurity in some women so the testing is required to pull that man she wants emotionally deeper to where she is at.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:14 PM
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I have plenty of opportunities to meet women but mentally swipe left on them. I think there will be a trend amongst men while build themselves up alone and reach a stage in their lives where the struggle was a lonely one and are not willing to share any spoils of that to a women that wants to be apart of that when all the hard work is done. Those days are slowly going to end soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:47 PM
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You are partially right. It's your energy - you could be that muscular guy but you probably give off that vibe that you wouldnt be able to use that strength to brutalize others. Thats the difference, you are harmless. A man that can brutalize other men is very attractive to women. Criminals have proven they can cause harm to society and others. Now she is hell-bent on harnessing that physical, mental strength and the ability to brutalise men for her benefit. If a woman had to choose an attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:35 AM
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I don't approached but women make themselves available to me with proximity and consistently in my line of sight. I'm not interested. What I find is many women want to emotionally engage with a man they find desirable and will do all sorts of ridiculous stuff to seek this. Women like the chase because it's an emotional rollercoaster, women have to feel emotion or else their minds start falling apart. Doesn't matter if it's a negative or positive emotion so long as there is variance and intensity…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:00 AM
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Food and energy security is blind to gender.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 12:31 AM
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For modern women, I think these men have good d game. Women can't snuggle up to a magic wand or a shower head after getting off. Yeah has to be the d game 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:57 AM
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Great comment. You've just confirmed to me this detachment of reality that woman carry with their psyche. A man spending resources on a woman requires effort, exertion and yet a woman can just be and exert some metaphysical emotion on a man or not. It's an emotion that is void of physical toil and costs her nothing yet she wants resources given to her based on her emotions that is in her head. A woman can conjure an emotion up on a man yet a man has to exert himself physically and for long durat…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:55 AM
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Women should disclose they are multi dating if so she pays her own way always, until the man is exclusive. Absurd that women multi date and expect men to pay, absolute entitlement and fuckery. Men please do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:43 AM
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And that's where it becomes undone. It's how a woman "feels" it's in the metaphysical realm. Feel, feelings, emotions that dominate a woman's consciousness. Of course you had to pull the feeling card and then spin it to say I'm not serious about equality. I do care about equality but the subterfuge in this thread is proof that, feminism isn't about equality at all. It's about how a woman "feels" in the metaphysical realm. Granted it's great that women have progressed but still that "feeling" tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:18 AM
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No, it's applying equality and opportunity to ensure women are active participants in society. It's holding women accountable to their belief systems. Yeah we know feminism is a luxury, in advanced progressive societies where men pay a high price for and get contempt for it by some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:38 AM
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No employment quotas. Why? Because feminism thrives when there is a centralised, progressive order, feminists have a vested interest to maintain that central order, once it's gone, things get different. Or do feminist expect men to maintain this order unequally?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:13 AM
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I'll take feminism seriously when equal quotas for combat roles in the Army are made into law. Before that happens, I'll never take feminism seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:34 PM
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Man writing for men 😆 Have a strong posterior chain or have strong back muscles from top to bottom. If you have a strong posterior chain your posture "naturally" improves, you'll end up carrying your body with ease and it will become effortless. You are not faking anything because it's true, you are strong and you know it. Having a thick, muscular back means you can pick shit up with ease and throw things around, including her onto a bed 😆 From experience, if I walk around with slumped posture I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:45 PM
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I think it happens alot. I hear women in committed relationships with my friends will slut shame an ex to discredit her. I've dated women that say to me "I just stay at home all day and never leave the house". From experience women know well how sensitive some men and will use it for their personal benefit real or perceived. Bro code is what some men live and die by, I've blocked a close friends GF because somehow she got my number.and was blowing my phone up at 4am in the morning. I'm still fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:49 AM
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Everyone knows what the deal is when they are in public together.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:48 AM
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It's ok. Men just have to have a low tolerance for fuckery. Many men put up with shit behaviour from women, likewise women shouldn't put up with crap behaviour from men. But I may add that women want attention, something about modern life has made many of them depressed where they would rather rot in their beds and self loathe than face the world. That bit of unearned male attention gets them going until they self rot in their beds for a few hours and then rinse and repeat. Once you see it you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:19 PM
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You've written enough and showed your hand, good post though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:03 PM
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Is this cold approach for cold approach sake or actually building a connection with a woman to build familiarity and an opportunity for her to gauge your behavioural traits, in a relaxed, laid back manner? You might call it paranoia, I'd call you out and say you are a bit naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:55 PM
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Needs to change to - meet women in real life but in consistent, reoccurring social situations. Actually pick up a genuine hobby or interest, don't do this with the sole intention of meeting someone. Cold approach is dead. Stranger danger is a real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:14 PM
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Women objectify men by leading men on, when men make them feel desirable women benefit immensely. When women get triggered about "transactional relationships" I can't help but wonder if it's hive-mind subterfuge. The want something for nothing, in this instance the feeling of being desired. Through experience I am of the opinion if she hasn't offered me anything sexually she is not entitled to my attention. She may as well be invisible to me, I don't care how hot she is. I've withdrawn my attent…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:04 PM
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Take a one year sabbatical where you have to depend on yourself and travel. Deal with the unexpected, make decisions when hungry, tired or scared of the unknown.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:54 PM
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Frame it like this. When you see a natural disaster in the news, which gender is going about getting stuff done when there is no central power, no police, nothing to stop people looting or killing each other. It's men. Compare that to a corporate controlled environment, plush offices, great aesthetics, gourmet coffee machines. There is no chaos. True leadership is composure under chaos.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:44 PM
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Bullshit! Women are so gassed up it's insane. A leader takes full-responsibility when shit hits the fan and such person has the demeanor and composure to make the right decision for his sub-ordinates. Most women don't have this capacity due to mensural cycles and most men under the age of 40 don't have it. It's the corporation that have gassed women up in controlled work environments, women get wet when they see men have a calm composure in absolute chaos.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:09 PM
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I liken myself to a "sharpening blade" for women to see "if they still have it" when it comes to attracting men. For me, it's a deeply narcistic endeavor for a woman to flirt with a man to give her some semblance of self-worth or a crutch to stabilize her confidence because she lacks it from within. This is how men get objectified "by giving women attention and an ego bost", without any regard for the man that gives her attention or acknowledges her attraction. I will never apologies as a man an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:46 PM
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The sperm donor and wallet trick 😆.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:31 AM
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Let her be. Don't make her issues your issues, you deserve better than to get involved with her preferences and she'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:22 AM
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Marilyn Monroe 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:14 AM
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Disagree. Women don't respect men who they can manipulate. If she can manipulate him, imagine what the world would do to him, and should she want to breed with him that would be a disaster - a man has to know when he is being manipulated and then call her bluff.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:26 PM
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From experience, women say the hate the toxicity but from my observation they absolutely love it. It's better that you make her feel frustrated, angry, happy, aroused, appalled, annoyed, feeling like she is inadequate, feeling like she is safe with you, feeling like she can depend on you no matter what ect. If you are predictable and consistent you will become like an emotional void to her and that's when women lose attraction. It's all about the "feels", if anything you'd want some semblance of…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:08 PM
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He is your man, try an stranger or someone who is courting you. You got him on easy mode
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:32 AM
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Haha, you do but what about her 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:18 AM
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Here it is women. High body count in your community = bad High body count outside of your community = ok N counts are real only when you've fucked his peers, colleagues, relatives ect. So don't be fucking around too much within a social circle you want to be part of and belong to. You can lie about it and get away with it if it's not within your community.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:25 AM
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You do you. You are an outlier. If every woman did what you did, the cultural affiliations that you have would be wiped out in a generation by new migrants who have to keep the system perpetuating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:54 PM
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The wall doesn't exist if your standards are low. This can skew perception and data. The wall exists when you can't attract and retain partners closest to your ideal. The wall is a social construct, so is "women not settling" but if applied to someone's life diligently, of course a woman is going to hit "the wall" if she was undecided in her youth and can't attract and retain men she wants. Women create the wall one brick and one mortar at a time when the "don't want to settle". Women create the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:46 PM
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Congrats on this post. Well thought of, thorough and relevant. I've thought about this too. My conclusion is the father underates the financial security of his daughters not their husband or partners. By making her partially not fully financially independent it's makes a woman incentived but also emotionally and potentially financially safe with a man she wants to commit to. Your approach is flawed because of the time factor involved in education, career development and biological clock demands …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:08 PM
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You wanted a response. You got it. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:12 AM
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So do I. We did away with cultural and religious norms, guard rails but they've been removed. Maybe there were make believe but they could give some assurance to the man. Sad, sad world we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:56 AM
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Because no sensible man who wants to commit to a woman wants to ambushed by a woman she she is 33 years and then subject himself to 20 years of a dead bedroom when she used hand the pussy out for free. There I said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:22 AM
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Loving fathers knowing that one day they'll die, so they instituted norms, customs to facilitate that hand over to another suitable man. You know that gender that isn't too swayed with hormonal changes. It's not perfect but we've dismantled that as a modern society with nothing to replace it, no wonder women are weary and men don't want to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:44 AM
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In the process of ending it with a woman I'm dating. I eventually saw one of her plates, it looked like she called it off with him and wanted something with me. When I saw him, I wasn't triggered, he was more triggered than I was. But when I saw the quality of men she entertained I realised this woman is trashy. So for women out there, choosing better is fine, but make sure your plates don't find out about each other because it may reflect on you as a person. Your time is precious be careful who…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:06 PM
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No. Compared to the average male peasant that knew his lot in life and got on with it. The average male worker who has to deal with life and not be given anything. The average modern women doesn't know her place in society and and neither do modern men know how to deal with it. I'm not saying go back to the kitchen bare foot. But the level of delusion and lack of self awareness from many modern women sets them up for failure. The smart modern women will endear themselves to men who truly care ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:24 PM
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Maybe the women you stated above had positions of extreme privilege and power. That's not normal. It's like telling women to be like Cheryl Sandberg from Facebook who encouraged women to "date them all"...that's really applicable to her, someone with privilege, secure housing, income and wealth. Apply that to most women and that's not practical and it's setting up average women for failure. The right answer is somewhere in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:33 PM
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Full of shit. Getting a woman aroused and in the mood with them and where the man is taking the lead is like starting an old, cold diesel engine in winter. The women commenting were probably experiencing their second week during their menstrual cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:16 AM
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Depends on the woman. Currently dating, she likes the attention I give her. Between us it's subtle intimate interactions, albeit she likes non sexual intimacy. I know we are playing a game, and the game is emotional attachment and the longer we play it the more emotionally attached we'll get towards each other. Yes, I give her attention, am I a simp - no. Why do I know this because she puts a very high premium on the attention I give her. One day I'll look at her in such an intimate way, her eye…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 08:32 PM
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I think for women who have a tendency to fear strange, physically stronger men it's an issue. Heck he could be a normal man. But if he can build rapport with her, make her feel safe and she gets to observe his behavior in an unscripted way. That "creep" could be someone she is keenly interested in. I think the issue comes from a deep seated fear of unfamiliar men, female social media influences exploit this insecurity and amplify a culture of distrust. In general men shouldn't approach or ogle t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:35 PM
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Depends, if there is mutual attraction. Women find it addictive and deeply arousing when they get the glance from men they have a thing for. At times they will unashamedly put on a show.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:06 PM
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Attract don't pursue. As a man that takes years or even decades of failure, reflecting, developing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:12 PM
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Great post. This reinforces that men should spin plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:49 PM
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3 in real life without the use of social media apps or getting involved in a "talking stage", I take the organic approach. 1 said yes, another said "no" but wanted me to ask her out again - I refuse to, 3rd said yes but dropped hints that I should ask her out. How many "soft approaches" from women in real life - very often. These women aren't my type so I don't convert their "soft approaches" to me introducing myself, starting a conversation, building rapport over time or getting their number. "…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:18 PM
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Dread game is practiced ethically if a man or woman makes themselves so desirable that people openly show interest in them and their partners are aware. It's passive. Where dread is horrible and it applies to both genders is where someone deliberate and overtly flirts, makes a partner jealous, they are initiating these interactions, it's not random people with their own volition. To trigger a negative emotional response from their partner. This aspect is how dread game becomes manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 10:28 AM
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Women wait for unscripted chaos and observe men "that have got it". Most don't. Don't try and be a tough guy when you are ready, be a tough guy when everyone is losing their shit around you and you have the composure to get through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:27 PM
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Because they are boys. Men appreciate differences and nuances that make a person unique as individuals. A man would ask how that interest in her developed or what she likes about it. I think OP needs to cast her net wider or be open minded to the men she is exposed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:27 PM
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From experience, most women are invisible to me. I will never apologies for this. I have to make my attention scarce because if I am offering it to any women it becomes worthless. By making a woman feel invisible, she'll do what she can to get that attention BUT you have to have some noteworthy characteristics and physical traits that make you desirable to women. Women take male attention from undesirable men for granted. Women do not take for granted desirable men's attention for granted. I can…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:39 PM
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That man is cooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:57 PM
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Women have n-counts, men have V-age expiry date ! Never tell a woman BUT she'll know anyway because the sex will be underwhelming.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:18 PM
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I think before personality is broached, compatibility and where I want to be in life take priority. So I will gauge how her life adds or compliments my life initially with facts about her life, from there I will let personality and traits also reveal themselves about her. Personally, compatibility is more of a priority than her personality. A manipulative, cheating bitch is instant dismissal for me. On matters of single mothers, I would entertain such an idea, if there is no expectation that I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:11 PM
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My comment is relevant. For a man to commit to a woman in a mindful loving way, which seems to be what women are pinning for, men need to have some semblance of reciprocity. Childrearing is emotionally and financially intense. Men should not commit to a women unless they've been in a loving and faithful relationship for at least 4 years before nurturing and growing children. My view on men being potential sperm donors and wallets remain, regardless of how toxic modern women think it is. If you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:30 AM
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Can you provide at least some attempt to add to the discussion why it's a preference men shouldn't take? Think of the scenario: 33 year old woman wants to settle down, meets a man and wants a child for a healthy child with minimal risks, he'd have to be ready to commit a lot of his time and resources which is ok but within a small time frame for a massive commitment. Why is this bullshit? Sounds reasonable to any sound man. If men choose to exercise their preferences why have you framed it as a …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:18 AM
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This is it. So modern men need to be weary if women in their thirties who want commitment before any deep emotional connection. Men should accept dead bedrooms provided some emotional bond has been developed over an extended period of time. Otherwise, the greatest fear of modern men is being a sperm donor and a wallet for a woman who is deciding to settle ON HER TIME, not his, not a joint decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:31 AM
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Inaccurate. Men have standards. I've turned down many women due to a lack of emotional connection, despite some element of attraction. I think it depends, if your initial experiences with sex as youth/young adult was based on a deep emotional connection, that's going to be your benchmark. If it's mindless and disposable, that's your benchmark. As a man, I find it unfulfilling emotionally to have sex with a stranger. I might as well just use a flesh light and a woman should just use a vibrator, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:39 PM
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Out of three pick 2: 1) high earning career 2) children (and where applicable ordinary job) 3) emotionally present male partner, minimal chance of separation You can have all three but you'd have to balance it out where you don't overcompensate one over the other. Women need to very, self-aware and know what they want early in their lives, there is a whole generation of women that have been promised a lot but due to modern pressures find themselves in places they never thought they would have im…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:17 PM
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Arousal non concordance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:28 AM
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I'd rather just work out an amazing physique and have an average income. Anything beyond that is just silly and the effort required only increases marginally for the quality of women you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:42 AM
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70:30 - a man leads 70% and a woman reciprocates 30%, if she can't do that I'm out. Either she doesn't like me OR she needs to work on her inner-self. I get the impression some women need to do a lot of inner work before they start dating. It's a waste of time for everyone involved.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/23 03:33 PM
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No there isn't. There is a lack of self awareness and narcissism with modern women. Women prefer the chase than actually want to be in a relationship until their SMV drops. It's as if women are so damn self centred and consumed by their emotions they don't have the capacity or decency to appreciate the men who pursue with a portion of reciprocity, keep doing this until you are in your Thirties and see how that works out for you. A modern moderns idea of effort is: I stood in his line of sight fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:04 AM
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This. This right here. Women can't physically overwhelm men, but psychological weak men are fair game to manipulative women. Control the mind, control the body.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:08 AM
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This. It's like a world champion boxing that gets the adoration from many and then once that reigns ends the adjustment leads to depression. Of course this isn't for all women just some. I don't know the quote well but it goes like this "everyone (attractive women) remembers the day when men stop looking at them". The wall is internal for women, but men have their take on it and it's mostly the distaste for men who work a decade or more on themselves and their refusal to entertain with 36 year o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:12 AM
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Dead bedrooms after children are a real thing openly discussed by men in closed doors. At 30 to 32, it is from a man's perspective, can you not blame men for being sceptical for a woman that has 3 to 4 years to conceive? What does she bring financially and emotionally to relationship that can withstand future dead bedrooms in that period of time. Gas lighting men is a ruse women often play their thirties to downplay men's achievements, resources, soical networks and skills to low ball them into …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:23 PM
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How about dating casually, consulting older women, consulting their fathers and uncles and grandparents. How about vetting men and making firm commitments around 27 to 28 years build a life with a man and lay financial and emotionally foundations to have a family, be present with him and emotionally bond with him for 4 to 5 years. Wow the sump who gets emotionally manipulated and gaslight, questioning his value to a woman in her mid 30s. Asking where are all the good men? We are hiding from you.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:31 AM
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The good men are hiding in plain sight, we are financially stable accomplished but we ain't advertising it. We are weary if broke modern women in their 30s looking for a sperm donor, wallet and retirement plan. If women would just build a life with men and stop being delusional about living your best life and expect prince charming to sweep you off your feet at 35 and knock you up, only for him to be subject to a dead bedroom because of kids. Women please listen to us. Fucking stop it, just fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:18 AM
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Haha, yeah that means cruising on juice for life,.and when men stop taking juice I've seen first hand that can lead to deep depression, body dysmorphia. Men have internal strength and resolve independent of external influences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:03 AM
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Don't. You will be the same person internally. Naturally lift but work on other aspects of your life where you set targets and reach goals, socialise more, fail with interacting with women and dust yourself off. Please if you only do a cycle and don't develop other aspects of your life, if you can't keep and attract women it's going to obliterate your ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:45 AM
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Most of the comments came from Berkeley ..thank good Musk ejected this scum out of Twitter
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:16 AM
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Some times the chase is all that she cares about. I will chase but general rule is if there are 3 cycles of push and pull, tension created and released I will assume she doesnt really want sex and just likes to be desired. Men need to wake up, women prefer to be chased than have sex, their libido doesnt allow them to have sex often, that said, if I build her up sexually and she continues to play games, I'm not an idiot and will move on. Modern women really have no fucking idea. Keep doing that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:09 AM
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Damn this comment rocks 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:03 AM
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Nothing wrong with committing to a woman but if she wants children she has to be worthy and actual prove to men that she is. Too many (capable) men give up the commitment for child rearing too damn easy it is a disgrace. IF she isn't fully devoted to you prior to children, that's a red flag. It's 2023 women need to woo men to get them to commit to have children with them, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:44 PM
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Women, this is the right answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:47 AM
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Some women, the smart ones are going out in real life, frequently attending events, activities, hobbies ect and patiently observing behavioural traits of men over a period of time. How he behaves amongst others and traits that can't be easily faked or determine by a curated online picture. There are men out there but we are hiding and we are also watching women to, we are mentally swiping left on women we interact with all the time. Us men are playing the long game because we can, it's time for …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:45 AM
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Yes, what a grand post. More men need to wise-the-f#$k up and stop simiping, providing husband benefits with nothing but the promise of sex. These men are gross. Differing story if she provides value such as networking, job or a sincere platonic relationship where the man isn't pinning for sex! Beta men/orbiters are the scum of the earth in the eyes of the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:29 PM
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"it's over buddy girlo" 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:39 AM
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JDBF is not easy and it depends on what a persons starting point is. Someone with obesity is still going to have loose skin after all that fat is shed so I dont think it's a panacea. Unless you also undertook surgery to remove the excess skin. I disagree. You'll need to still develop interests and cultivate experiences that give a person depth that makes them interesting and fun to be around with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:23 PM
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I asked her to come and see me during lunch breaks, she declined.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:08 PM
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Disagree. Nice guy is a nice guy without any gumption both literally and figuratively. He is nice but too nice where she doesn't feel either physically secure with him ie his inability to inflict harm on other men mentally and emotionally but grounded where she doesn't feel safe with him physically or emotionally. A man's interaction with her and others, especially other men gives her the nuances she needs to make an opinion about him. Women are analysing potential male mates ALL THE TIME. The d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:10 AM
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Women need to realise a man's libido probably consistently stays at a level of 25% of when a woman is ovulating. It's not accurate but it's a ball park idea. Delusional and thirsty men need to realise this too. Any other time a woman's libido is single digits exclusive of her ovulating time. For a woman to get a level of physical and emotional intimacy to have sex there is going to be a massive mismatch of libido between both sexes. Non thirsty guys and creative guys are always, always going to …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:28 AM
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Yep, jail bait at the gym. I nearly spewed in my mouth when I saw this gym orbiter wearing her senior school uniform shopping with her parents at the grocery store. Teenage girls are creep asf 🤷 and boys their age don't have a chance 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:35 AM
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If you satisfy her looks threshold and then emotionally connect with her in a genuine way, it becomes very difficult for most men to compete with you. You become a 9 in her eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:41 PM
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For all the men here, please commit to women. If she has given you at least 4 to 5 years of getting to know each other and are loving and loyal commit to her future. For the women in this sub, please commit to a man before you are thirty. No man deserves to knock you up by the time you are 36 years old and you are currently 34 years old. Don't pressure men into commitment and children when you barely even know him. The time to nurture and develop healthy sustainable emotional bond with men prior…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:42 PM
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Reality is most men are invisible and most women are invisible to men. The most visible men attract the most visible women per se. If you want to solve this become more visible. You'll be found by your looks match. Otherwise stay in your lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:36 AM
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fuck that was a good comment !
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:53 PM
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I have been in numerous loving relationships and to get woman, a man has to sincerely convey commitment. It's that simple. It's how you articulate and project emotions involved within her. It could be a simple gesture, the way you look at her, mindfulness of her because you know her for who she is and accept her for who she is. Yes, I have done this sincerely and the women I have been have been so loving. But before all of this you have to reach her attraction threshold based on behavioral and p…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:38 AM
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Hahaha....if something is for free you are the product 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:05 AM
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In my recent experience yes. Went for a swim at the beach to watch the sunset, when I got out to shower the salt water off I had two young women at least 10 years my junior stalk me, follow me to the showers, stand less than 2 meters from me and watched me rinse off. Yes it does happen but you need the right physique to trigger some biological psychosis in a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:55 AM
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Muscle is damn expensive. Doing consistent compound lifts at 75% 1 repetition max over years is only for the dedicated. Having a lean posterior, muscular posterior chain, broad shoulders and sizable glutes make a big difference. The attraction is to some women is manifold. In a gym setting the women who have no chance with you don't orbit, the ones that think they have a chance orbit and the ones that approach you are physically your equivalent and in some cases culturally and intellectually > t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:11 PM
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Gym>than dating apps. Both genders don't have to deal with catfishing issues and can observe both genders for behaviour over a period of months. Introduce yourself to each other and build rapport.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:26 PM
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The first date with her happened to be her ovulation day. Yes, women behave very similar on ovulation day 😆.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:08 PM
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Oooffff...gotcha !!! Men understand women more than they understand themselves 👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:58 AM
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Comment of the day!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:21 AM
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Somewhat disagree. I don't want to fuck everyone woman that shows interest in me. You become objectified and it's shit. I've had experiences where women don't want to know anything about me but are direct in wanting to fuck. Just because I can doesn't mean I would. That's when I had 'a ha' moment, 'so this is what it means to be objectified for your body like a woman's. So if I were to pursue a relationship with a woman now, I'd really want to take it slow, like real slow and if she isn't up for…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:48 AM
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Reduce carbon emissions, like a benign breeding reduction programe. Essentially targeting the demand side of emissions but reducing population . Deluding women into career and making them barren before they realise what is up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:53 AM
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Because the development of resource capability, retaining and competing against others man is fucking relentless. Please women let this sink in your heads. Most women aren't deserving of these men. But indulge in weaponising their sexuality and emotionally manipulating men. To drive their value up whilst diminishing a man's to the extent that he feels privileged with a mediocre woman with a vagina. Stop talking yourself up and stay in your lanes. Men are angry because they are coming out of a de…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:06 AM
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Nice guys are guys that don't have a spine. It's like they are oblivious to an invisible sign around their neck that says "I am both physically and mentally weak". Men that women swoon over have that have invisible sign around their neck that says the opposite. Granted women can end up with poses and many do, especially the misjudging the emotional resilience and mastery of a man and his emotions, but that genuine presence of a man is like kryptonite to women. It's take many years for men to dev…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:58 AM
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Nah, modern women are too damn entitled and too delusional to warrant any more than basic level courtesy. Men don't owe modern women shit. Let's keep it like that and yes please do reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:30 PM
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Stop the whole delusion around equality it's contradictory to our biological impulses, genders are not equal they are different. If modern women would just listen to themselves without the pressures of society they'd be better off, this goes for men too. Men and women are different..both genders compliment. When both women and men project to society something they are not and can never be things get complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:28 PM
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Chemistry is really does he make me feel wet physically and emotionally connected. Can he trigger those emotional and biological urges in a woman. Pack this shit up boys and let's go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:27 AM
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Women will always want to be chased. That said if they are interested they will pull out every trick in the book to get you to approach and initiate and once you do the chase begins. Modern women are woeful at keeping a man interested, I'm surprised they keep on doing the same stuff even in their thirties when they are the least desirable. The modern western women have a collective psychological, inability to be self-aware, hence the need to avoid accountability ability. Deep down women know the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:05 AM
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A reduction in emissions
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:50 PM
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Ask this question one generation of men from now and you may get a differing answer. The memo has been sent out and it's just filter through all strata of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:55 PM
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Most of these physiques are hard to attain. Even on steroids. Some of the men rocking these physique would demand a woman his equal and no less. Even dad bod.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:20 PM
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had this discussion with a friend. she can be a ex hoe just not in this town. i agree. men went to secure their offspring and thst hoeness in the same town inflames this insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:44 PM
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M het 7/10 Average job, average height, above average physique - top 20% at least. Based on the type of women who initiate/approach via plausible deniability, proximity, loitering in my line of sight. It's a daily experience. These women I'd rate a 7/10. It's never done by women less than a 7. Based on the gym subculture I am a part of, an extra point ie "he is my type".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:18 PM
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This. I was at the gym the other day and a very fit woman asked me "If I had a choice between her and her friend, who would I choose as a gym buddy between them". Bold move, I later introduced myself to them. If you the men in this sub don't have women orbiting them, loitering around them or introducing themselves to them, they don't pass a women's looks threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:27 PM
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Luring! I get lured alot but my interest levels dwindles after 2 months, if a woman isn't reciprocate at least 50% of what I'm initiating and escalating I'll move on. I find women get too self center in the initial stages, it's as if I get objectified by the way I make her feel with minimal reciprocity. If I make a woman feel desired and special but she can't give any of that vibe or energy back in a respectable, proportional a mount that is my biggest ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:10 PM
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Had two women approach me today at the gym and one of the ask, "if you had a choice between both of us who would you choose as gym buddy". Also there is no chance of catfishing, so I know what women to focus on. She may satisfying my looks threshold but if she can't match my energy and enthusiasm in a face to face conversation, I'm swiping left in real life, easy. I thought women only played text messaging games, but what I find with some is they continue to do so in real life, it's cute and all…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:38 PM
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Advanced economies have gotten so expensive its not worth it any more, it's probably better to live in a rural or tribe setting with multiple children. Having children in advanced economies is for mugs. The cost of living ensures families don't really have a chance to prosper.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:08 AM
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High rise gym leggings, because those gym baddies aren't as bad when the gym leggings come off !
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:42 PM
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Destroyers of culture when the economy has to import people of different races and cultural backgrounds to keep the circus going.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:35 PM
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Only broke, naive women ask men to buy them a drink. Australian men don't owe women anything , even attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:57 AM
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If such is the case, men have to culturally penalise women who get desperate when their biological clock is waning. I think outright contempt is appropriate. Thinking about the entitled state of modern women who solicit attention because it arouses them or feeds their internally crippling ego by a man who is simping. Modern. Women objectify men on how they make them feel with zero consideration about how that simp feels. Men are within their rights to feel contempt for women in their 30s hustlin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:13 AM
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Post needs it's own url, it would be number 1 on search phrase "women manipulating men". Whoever is the OP could.make a good passive income from website ads.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:23 AM
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Ok for the men that don't know what to look for, a woman approaches a man with plausible deniability. She has a valid reason for standing next to you or being your orbit. It's up to you to introduce yourself, build rapport and get her number.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:23 AM
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It's was at that moment he knew he was fucked 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:45 PM
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Some modern women are narcissistic, she likes the chase and feeling of being desired if she is an active participant in courtship which isn't a problem BUT women are so inadequately self-aware about the attractive man that is pursuing. Some women get caught up in the chase so much they objectify men on HOW THEY MAKE THEM FEEL and reduce him to that. So when a man withdraws that the mind of a women start breaking down. Men objectify women for their bodies, Women objectify select men on how they m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:43 PM
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Hypothetically, being present with your romantic partner during a catastrophic event, passionately kissing and holding her/him while our house burns, feeling both of us are going to be emotionally and physically safe no matter what happens. Feeling something like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:54 PM
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Dude I'm so close to Venmo you some money for a hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:14 AM
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They fucked around in their own communities and have a reputation..smart women know to fuck around out of town or on vacation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:05 AM
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I don't mind flying down to meet you in Melbourne, in fact I'll be there in late November.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:36 PM
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You live in Australia, so do I let's make this simple let's meet up and talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:33 PM
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Your cute. I'd snap you in real life. DM me for more details.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:29 PM
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RP man here. Men need to grow a spine and ask women out in real life. Develop social skills, listening skills and relating to women emotionally. I asked a woman out recently and got rejected but she was willing to have a FWB arrangement, I declined. A man interacting with a woman in real life is way ahead of the men blowing up her DMs. You can't understand how much women put so much thought in real life to seduce a man, it preoccupies her time and I wouldn't be surprised if aspects of her life l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 09:51 PM
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A male equivalent of an Instagram baddy, with that much time spent in front of the camera, you couldn't have a discussion about how AI and robotics is the equivalent of the invention of the combustion engine and talk about how that could potentially reorder society and power structures.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:06 AM
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Maybe the men are investing a good portion of their disposable income during a tightening credit cycle to make serious capital gains once the interest rate cycle changes 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:44 PM
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Haha this is like a rear guard action post from women who feel threatened by red pill culture being ubiquitous amongst men. One of my friends who is 22 years old is with a 37 year old that wants kids. She is trying to pull that shit on him but I already told him he does deserve to be a sperm donor and a wallet for a woman at that age. I suspect there is a hoard of 30+ year old women gunning for younger naive men to do their bidding 😆. If women in their 20s weren't so delusional they wouldnt have…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:23 AM
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I think the myth is enduring. The female equivalent to this is all men are dogs. Modern society has ripped off the guard rails that religion enforced in previous times and doesn't have an over riding belief system to replace it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:10 AM
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This is what happens when women are responsible for controlling their fertility. That's fine. It's taken many decades for men to realise they dont want to be a sperm donor and wallet for a woman at the end of her fertility. Modern women AND men need to cultivate, protect and nurture committed relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:56 AM
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I'm guilty of this.. Went out drinking and got a bit drunk. I'm very sociable but especially sociable to jacked men because we share the same interest and can connect very efficiently without initially knowing each other. So I'm just socializing always with big, strong men. People notice. I started to get more drunk. There was one woman who was with another man and I didn't even acknowledge the man. Looked at a woman's tattoo that was covering her dress strap and lifted it and inspected it. I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:18 PM
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A woman that is actually listening to men 🤷 Holy.Shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:59 PM
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Had this discussion. It's love bombing and future faking many women can't help themselves. They are addicted to a replacement for their daily affirmations from a man and then fall for that stuff. It's 2023, women need to wake up and realise if he isnt love bombing or future faking you in the early stages it's because he is unsure about you and how about YOU start reciprocating a bit more without the entitlement, do a little bit of work in the early stages of a relationship. Women who expect the …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:44 AM
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You obviously haven't met pokie and ray ray.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:52 PM
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Mindfulness and being present with a woman before, during and after sex. As RP man a woman has to pay an absolute premium if she wants this. Daily affirmations won't do, get out and do some work...too many low self esteem women with an entitlement attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:01 AM
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Pack everything up PPD, we got the right answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:48 AM
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They do. Plausible deniability, some women I've interacted with are smooth. You can find yourself just interacting with them but it's so subtle. Once you reflect on it more, she'd planned the interaction like clockwork. That takes effort. THAT is the biggest compliment a woman can give a man. Monitoring his movements, his habits to "organically" create a smooth interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:59 PM
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Nothing against it but women entering the workforce amongst other things inflated the cost of housing. So, it is kinda nostalgic in a way where SAHM could be present with their families without the rigorous demands from corporate life. Both men and women would be stupid to have kids with the high cost of living and associated demands of child rearing. There is no excess capacity to have meaningful nuclear family relationships. It's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:24 PM
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Wrong title "If she doesn't swallow she is just not into the guy".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 11:43 PM
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I'll choose Man A - you probably will be more healthier and physically and mentally balanced. Successful career is closely related to poor health outcomes, stress and premature ageing, in isn't always the case but someone somewhere will always want their pound of flesh from a careerist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:32 AM
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I can't be of any assistance for you. In my mind you will cease to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:23 PM
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If a man doesn't have a deep emotional connection he doesn't feel obliged to commit to a woman. Practical example of this is some women make men wait for sex, to develop an emotional bond, vet potential suitors. In doing so she cultivates exclusivity for his fidelity, and resources. Now, I admit women too also have drive and strength but when viewed with a child rearing lens, they ability for a man to stay the course requires the strength and drive to make her feel secure. To support this view s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:30 PM
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Based on my experience with women. Protection from physical harm for her and her kids. A woman will open her legs for any man that has the capacity to protect her kids. She will open them even wider when the possibility of that protection could be revoked. From this what I've understood is a woman has to pay AN ABSOLUTE PREMIUM to me to make myself emotionally vulnerable with her. A man who makes himself emotionally vulnerable to women allows women to harness his strength, drive and commitment. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:57 PM
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Yep, telling her you only wanna see her once a month at peak fertility so you can raw dog her and struggle to pull out because she is so hot always works. Stay toxic 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:29 AM
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I think women are hive minded in not revealing the extent of resource extraction a man has to undergo when having children, plus living in an advanced economy with break neck cost of living pressures. It's a raw deal for men. Men are voting with their feet in droves. Women demand so much but offer so little when it comes to preparing to have a family in advanced economies from a financial perspective. Most women are financial and emotional burdens.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:51 AM
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A woman's declining fertility window + established, financially secure men = more options for men. It's about emotional connection, not a transactional relationship 🤮🤷😆
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:56 PM
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Must be a lot of RP to change cultural attitudes where simping is frowned upon, or booming fertility clinics. I think men have exchange notes over how they experience women en mass, men are starting to understand women and can't love them anymore. So of course a woman has to discredit RP men and call then autistic for some semblance of control.ti cajole then into BP.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:44 AM
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Depends. If she can't be present with me due to work stress, that would be a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:51 AM
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Women don't owe men sex, men don't owe women emotionally or physical safety. Men who offer that to women for nothing are simps , deep down a women WANTS to offer an absolute premium for a man who genuinely can offer emotional and physical safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:15 AM
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Situationships with no commitment AND maybe if the vibe is right with a worthwhile woman. Too expensive to have children for the average couple. Walking away from relationships is so much easier without kids, in these modern times with so many work husbands and men sending sick pics, sliding in DMs it's risky. No, monogamy and marriage is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:02 AM
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A middle age man that isn't orbited by 20 something year old, attractive women. A 7 - 9/10 middle aged man feels like a paedophile or dirty uncle around 20 something year old, attractive women when they approach him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:46 AM
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It's taken many decades for men to figure out that, yes women may have control over their fertility but do not expect us to breed you at 35 years old within 6 months of courting. Simping days you could get away with that but those men who got a shit deal are warning men to avoid women in their 30s+ who are broke. Nothing wrong with a broke 20 something year old who stood by a man and planned for a future emotionally and financially, prior to kids. Women like this bring immense value to the table…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:50 AM
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Women need to manage their sexual history very carefully, fuck guys that are tourist, out of town or completely removed from your social circle. Or if you do ruin your reputation leave to another city. Be a hoe but when you want to get serious revert to nun mode and tighten up. Hell think he's paying full price for fair maiden 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:13 AM
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This is the correct answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:52 AM
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We got a winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:45 PM
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To provide the next generation of tax payers so the Elite can extract more. Rinse and repeat, while families and house hold disintegrate. Feminism is one of Capitalism hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:21 AM
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This is the correct answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:06 AM
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Good one. ..you busted her ha ha 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:29 AM
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A woman has to earn my vibe of feeling safe with her. She isn't entitled to it. Men shouldn't be entitled to women bodies and men are not obliged to make women feel safe. This is the next battle in the gender war. You wanted to destroy the Patriarchy now fend for yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:50 AM
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She seems childless and THAT makes all the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 02:31 PM
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I lived it. Woe the blue pill man who knocks a women up without 3 to 5 years of being together.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:14 PM
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Hypergamy wouldn't be an issue if hetero sexual relationships weren't transactional. Doesn't have a car, ick, doesn't have his own place, ick. Still living with his parents ick. Can't support me during my childbearing years equivalent to a dual income household, ICK. If women don't think relationships are transactional, more of them would be going it alone and going to sperm banks, I wonder why is that. Probably because when we strip it all down yes, relationships are transactional. Any male tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:52 AM
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Men are designed emotionally shallow, no amount of modern criticism or lame attempt for a man to be mindful will satisfy a women. Men shouldnt be coerced to be mindful like a dog learning a new trick. When women complain about the relentless pressure at work, the endurance and the stamina to perform this takes a degree of emotional shallowness that gets things done. I think naive and inexperienced women harp on about mindfulness in men and want them to be equal in temperament, a woman looking fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:50 AM
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It's appropriate for a man to care for his kids. My view is RP awareness for men who in the past have ended up in dismal situations. Men don't mind being relegated for their kids but with the appropriate situations. With the rise of single, women in their 30s both modern men and women have to be more self-aware about entering relationships and being honest with themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:54 PM
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They are a priority. In more traditional times this would have been acceptable to men, but in the modern age not so. A woman who is 33, wants two kids by the time she is 35 from a beta bux is a shit deal. 2 forced years of getting to know a woman and on the hook for decades of extraction. Of course this is just an example but the gist is there. That's where the issues is. How is that fair on men? Sound like really, really shit deal. If a man is with a committed relationship with a woman for at l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:14 PM
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The YouTuber "mynonleatherlife" who is a woman made an insightful video on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:49 PM
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It's about 'emotion and connection' and isn't 'transactional' doesn't work anymore even though women deny it. That's one of the biggest lies men are told. If women just come out clean and say that it is transactional would be ok but because it shifts the power balance to the man it doesn't make her feel secure. I'm not talking about a woman having a job, I'm talking about the capacity of a man to provide and protect during child bearing years which is a big deal. Men become 2nd or 3rd priority o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:36 PM
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People are paid to tolerate the "boss babe" no man would put up with that for free or voluntarily 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:18 PM
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It's bad in Australia. I live with two single hetero sexual men and next door are three single hetero sexual women the same age, apart from the cursory greetings the households don't really interact. It's over in Oz 🤷.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:51 PM
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Disagree. Well that used to be the case but not anymore, especially with RP ideas becoming ubiquitous. If a woman is broke and in her thirties it's pretty much over. Men are scrutinizing, questioning what she did for the last decade to financially prepare for the possibility of settling down. That whole "I won't settle" is a trope for financially challenged women to grasp at whatever semblance of hope they have left. Please don't talk about wanting a provider when in fact you are a bum. It's tac…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:49 AM
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Awesome read, as I like to say a man always pays for the opinion of a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:14 AM
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Disagree. Your gym bro is competing with other gym bros with differing aspects, like better jobs, more socially calibrated, much more intelligent, well spoken. If you think it's just getting fit and spending time in the gym that's leading men down the wrong path...you need to be a balanced man that has multiple facets about their lives that is interesting and meaningful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 11:24 AM
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Haha the good 'ol looking for a "sperm donor and a wallet" whilst feigning a relationship is based on emotion and not transactional 🫢
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 11:09 AM
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Recurring safe space where you interact with women, work gym, uni, sports club, mixed teams sports competitions. A lot of it is behavioural, aesthetic, social interaction over a consistent period of time. Her idea of you becomes contextualized based on your behaviour. Simply being attractive as a man isn't sufficient. Women are highly nuanced relative to men. After observing your behaviour women will make it easy for you to approach them and this is based on proximity to you and making herself v…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 11:07 AM
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Unlike your dad, your boyfriend probably didn't wipe your ass when you were 7 days old or teach you how to walk across a street safely. Of course he is going to treat you differently 🤡🤡. This woke stuff is getting out of hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:42 PM
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I live in a safe country and still see women scrambling away once it gets dark in the presence of men. I don't know what it's like to be alone in the dark at night as a woman but judging by their behaviour many are mortified by the idea. Your emotional response to the fear in the dark as a woman is an exception. It isn't the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:04 PM
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It's positive actually, I only socialise with capable, consistent, physically strong men who can regulate their emotions. I don't have to worry about them and they don't have to worry about me. Men who don't live up to a certain standard don't fit in. They're weeded out. When you write "unhealthy" I would agree, it's unhealthy for low value men and women who are very entitled and aren't useful to their family or friends. My idea of masculinity is unhealthy for those women who feel entitled about…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:55 PM
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You are still young, it's not your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:15 PM
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You seem like you've never been in a relationship or walked at night alone. Walking alone at night as a woman is an experience men can't relate to. A man physically brutalising another man is an experience women can't relate to. My ability to brutalise other men or communicate to other men that it's going to be difficult to subdue me comes at a very, very high premium. A woman has to submit to my control and has to endear herself to me or she can go away and find someone else. If you want an equ…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:08 PM
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Broke and in their 30s, masquerading as high value, low body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 09:42 PM
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Modern man is the type to hide behind his wife during a home invasion because he got used to being emasculated by his wife. His mind can't relate to his natural masculine traits because he let a hormonal, whimsical woman lead the relationship. Women be very, very careful what you wish for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 09:40 PM
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I am a redpill man but I think we may differ on the spectrum. I go to the gym regularly, so I understand the nuances of fitness culture. People that go to the gym regularly, stay healthy and have great physiques are a small minority of people. Amongst my friends and professional colleagues I'm a loner in this regard. If going to the gym and developing a great physique is so easy, a lot of people would be doing it. Majority of people are not because it is difficult to be consistent. I'd consider …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:24 PM
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Disagree. She may not have the time to commit to the gym regimen. I think they know what it takes and understand that they don't want that sort of lifestyle which is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:54 PM
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Feel like a paedophile when 20 something year old women want to know what's up. It's flattering but they remind me of my nieces, so I start vibing like an uncle. Not all older men want younger women. I suspect young women recognise men compared to boys their age 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:51 PM
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Agree. The origins of female attraction for men at the initial stages of a relationship is based on whimsical, emotional foundations that taking women seriously becomes more and more difficult. It's like some grand, expensive fairy tale scenario of sweeping her off her feet but she doesn't realize that this is unsustainable in the long run and when the honey moon phases out she'll resent you for your lack of effort. 🤡🤡🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:31 AM
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How about the local men, any sympathy for them. With geomaxxing you become gigachad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:55 PM
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GOAT. A man of his time. He climbed the heights of the pyramid without all the trappings of being part of the Western political system, the corrupt modern Estates of the Corporation, the Media and Parliament. He isn't one of them. His means of ascension maybe questionable but how clean is the alternative. He is influential and hasn't sold out. When he says the feminisation of men is a means of control by the State, I believe him. We live in a time of deep wealth inequality and when feminist rage…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:13 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:47 AM
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At least 5 years older then her, committed by 27 years old, children by no later than 32 years old. None of this 35 year old woman ready to settle down and expecting kids from a mug of man by the time she is 37 or 38. Risk a geriatric pregnancy and potentially pay for IVF. Men shouldn't take women seriously who want a man to commit and expect kids less than 5 years of being with a man. Why? Because once the kids come he will barely know the woman because all the attention will be in the kids. Pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:50 AM
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Quotas gotta be filled regardless of outcome 🤷
/r/MensRights06/06/23 07:36 AM
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I've been used as a human dildo, women kicked me out of the house after sex and never hear from them again. Yeah I have an idea about what it could be like 🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:02 PM
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I agree. I'd have to say that "entry points" is another way of saying pre selection. Women in repeated social settings will monitor a man's behaviour to determine if she would consider him a potential partner. Once qualified after observing a man in different scenarios, how he carries himself, how he deals with others, most women would say yes to a man asking her out if he looked her meaningfully in the eyes as a human being/person with her nuances, unique traits and faults. But he has do this f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:25 PM
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This confirms it. Never move in with a woman if she hasn't got half the down payment on the property. Her lack of funds/equity doesn't make me feel secure 🤷 /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:30 PM
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I think it's putting severe psychological stress on women and anxiety on their biological clocks. Men don't want anything to do with 30+ year old women who want kids due to the possibility of geriatric pregnancies or outright love bombing, desperation, deceitfulness to make a man commit in a short period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:45 PM
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Same question can be asked of a man, why would a man commit to his mortal life for a woman. She SHOULD be impressive. What is your point exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:40 PM
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You are young and that's no fault of yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:03 AM
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It's all fun and games until a woman reaches 30 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:02 AM
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"Women are made to love, not understood" - Oscar Wilde BP is the love part of this quote, RP is the other half attempting to understand women. I think BP men are very attractive to women because that's where a woman's power is projected, much like a host and parasite. Women aren't stupid. They don't have the physical strength and endurance nor the hormonal stability to navigate a threatening and unpredictable world. For that she needs a (red pill) beast that she can emotionally tame for her secu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:06 AM
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As a male, the question is absurd, how do you know what a woman is like with just a glance. I have to give it time and circumstance to figure this out. I've spoken to women and initial attraction is there but after getting to know them more, I realize I don't want to be part of their lives in such an intimate way and just stay friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:47 PM
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No. Cold approach is dead. Women signal a warm approach when they are within earshot proximity, body open towards you, eaves dropping on your conversations and waiting for you to initiate a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:14 PM
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When assets are divided, a man never says I want a portion of "how she made her feel" or the pictures in the album where we had "a moment" together. Be careful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:33 AM
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No. I think some western women project their poor financial decisions onto average men, especially in the their 30+. I've seen so many "boss babes", spending half their income on high end rent, profligate spending with nothing to show for financially. She has no choice to not settle with Mr. Average because she is financially broke with no assets. Her demands get higher but her value in the eyes of men that she wants diminishes. Modern women have to be more masculine and plan 10 to 20 years ahea…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:00 AM
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It's 2022, men should be more concerned about impressing themselves with self development, than pine for a woman's approval. GTFO!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:41 PM
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Open the flood gates. Bombing Libya and bankrupting Greece were good ways to open the flood gates to Europe for he next generation off tax payers while native Europeans look on in disgust not realising these refugee migrant kids will be emptying their bins and assisting them live a dignified life in old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:19 AM
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Men that won't do manual labour when required or necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:09 PM
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I can partially agree, but maturing at ones own expense is fine. At the expense of others and I'll have to disagree that includes the mental health of young men treated with contempt. But if course this should be gendered neutral and I don't modern men and women have low tolerance of each other now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:35 PM
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That's great, but when these guys get to their 30s can you understand why most men are perceived to be "low-effort" after a decade men just couldn't be bothered anymore. When women get to 30s and want something serious men are just not interested anymore. Women should be sympathetic to men after all this, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:24 AM
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Come on, get together, document it and emotionally wreck yourselves with the ensuing drama, then go halves in selling your story to Netflix.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:30 AM
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Go to the grocery store and if you find women loitering around you while casually browsing for food after an unusual prolong time frame, start a conversation. This is a woman's cold approach. Women want to be approached but by the right men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:37 AM
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RP inclined, scolded my friend who was dating a 27 year old woman, if he wasn't serious with her he should not waste her time. He ended the relationship. I do wonder sometimes if women scold other women for wasting men's time often.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:36 PM
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More men need to do this and value their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:56 AM
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She moves in your field of vision and she moves closer you. That's a woman's swipe right IRL but because the amount of hoops a man has to jump through most men like this stop giving a fuck. More interesting things to focus on than women with low-self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:54 AM
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Depends. A woman at 30 is highly likely to want to have kids within around 6 years or less. Like the 19-year old male thirst for sex, the 30 year woman is the equivalent but is thirsty for commitment . IF you are entering a relationship without your life sorted out ie with large consumer debt, no assets that would be a red flag because that would suggest you want a man to "provide" and make you feel secure to "nest" in this time where women are so called "equals". I think it's absurd to think me…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:45 AM
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What idiocy is this? Not very well-read. RESOURCE SCARCITY and the fear of it is the real reason wars occur throughout history. Everything else is a distraction to mobilise the masses.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:40 AM
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One of my close best friends who is a heir to a large fortune fucked around for a good decade before he settled down. It might be your experience but it isn't mine and that's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:26 AM
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Because the implication for females high standards is going to destroy the culture you grew up with (in your lifetime) due to low female fertility rates so that means importing more labour to pay for social services in your old age. If the migration rate doesn't surpass the drop in fertility rate nation-states that were once stable descend in chaos. Trust me you don't want to be an old woman with no deep family links when a centralised power ceases to exist. SO progressive childless, progressive…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:05 PM
1

Like you want a man to be with you when you go out but your just friends because it helps a woman cope to walk around safely at night. That feeling of security shouldn't be given freely to women, women haveto earn it through a committed relationship or sex. Any man that gives that shit away for free is trashing the value of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:51 PM
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Better than leading a woman on just for sex, these type of men should be celebrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:35 PM
-2

Yes. It's a thing, as a male after running 7km running on a treadmill effortlessly at the gym, women like to get in my face a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:34 PM
2

I agree. I'll add that due to some aspect of this internalised misogyny modern western women have lost a lot of credibility. This dating behaviour has caused men deep suspicion if a woman is genuinely interested. Is she interested or does she have deep psychological issues and craves attention at the male's expense? It's 2022, no man has got time for that anymore. It's 2022 only simps with a lot of time slide in DMS. I was at the gym today and women were making themselves available and approacha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:53 PM
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I don't but when they hit the wall and haven't adjusted expectations the cognitive dissonance is pathetic, modern men aren't respecting women in their 30s anymore, especially the financially broke ones who aren't boss bitches anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:38 AM
1

Key phrase "market place" and "accessibility" ...if he is hotter, wealthier and has the networks..remember the key phrases.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:53 AM
0

That's what skilled immigration is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:29 AM
3

Probably applicable before DMS were so prevalent, but now women's access to men is so broad you'd get priced out of the dating market, easily. That male uni student has got nothing on the man she is chatting to in the industry she wants to break into that pays for everything on dates. Young men don't need to set themselves up for disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:26 AM
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Work on yourself is great advice in your 20s, you don't want to be that 30 year old, dumb as dog shit and broke man because you spent a decade "being in the moment with women" and of course, what that means is indirectly financing it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:37 AM
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Women don't want to be where power is wrestled in War, that's the hypocrisy of it. During times of peace and stability there is a lot of posturing with women in locus of power and control. Let's see a whole squad of women in trenches risking their facial flesh being detached from their skulls due to the shockwave of an artillery strike. Modern would be a lot more bearable if they stop pretending to be something they are not. It's cringe and real men can sense it from a mile away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:25 AM
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Wait until shit hits the fan, a feminine man would be useless in such a situation. These men aren't fit for breeding with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:39 AM
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Ha ha, how about the local supermarket, plenty of stalkerish women looking for a man to sweep them off their feet. Her idea of approaching is proximity, she times her shop perfectly to coincide when you get to the self checkout section and are standing side by side. Waiting for a man to start the conversation. Once you see it, you can't usee it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:06 AM
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Any women in Ukraine who'd like to give their perspective on OP comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:23 PM
1

As a male, the cost of commitment in time and resources is not worth it anymore. I'd much rather a close knit circle of loyal male friends that I can see anytime than exchange that with a committed relationship with a woman and sitting on a sofa bored out of my brains. Been there done that, don't recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:10 AM
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Sperm donor with benefits. Sometimes I feel women hide their true motivations for being with a man and dehumanise men to get what they want. Women complain about men objectifying them for their bodies, men need to start being wary about women objectifying them for their resources and sperm. It works both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:18 AM
1

We have a winner, with this comment!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:46 PM
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At a certain stage redpill becomes like the defensive instinct women have when they feel unsafe around unfamiliar men. The flipside is men are becoming deeply sceptical of women to the extent that some avoid romantic relationships as a coping mechanism. I think this a positive outcome for men, much they same way I think women get sceptical and weary of unfamiliar men. I have no issues attracting women and engaging with women but have no intentions of developing anything romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:38 AM
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Sorry but if you really wanna know which men are legitimate you need to see HOW OTHER MEN behave around him and how he behaves around other men. Women have tendency to look at what glitters and most times it ain't gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:36 AM
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This sentiment has to be mass communicated by men, especially to the younger generation of men. Its the ruin of many men who wife up women in their 30s way too quick. Been there done that do not recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:58 PM
2

This is a tough one. If she has her finances sorted out, no massive consumer debt and assets to go halves in a downpayment for a house to purchase with me that would be the minimum. Without the above it would be too burdensome for a man to take on a women without assets in her 30s. It's too much, even if she started working towards sorting out her finances the time delay, should she want to have children increases the risk of costly IVF treatments. What concerns me is MANY women in their 20s are…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:28 AM
2

Paying for the opinion of a woman because he is too gutless to lead the relationship. It usually ends in disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:38 PM
1

The workplace kitchen or vending machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:06 AM
1

These are the men that don't have female colleagues initiating conversation with them at the workplace kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 02:58 PM
1

This happens more than women like to admit, men have exchanged notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:05 AM
3

I'd be more adventurous too but being convicted or rape or sexual assault can ruin your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:07 AM
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It's already happened. The interesting view points regardless of how incidinary they were opened up debate that are filtering out to society, the same reason why the sub grew it'll get watered down and become a male hating sub eventually or many attempts for men to go back to the plantation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:07 PM
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Perhaps the Establishment want women perpetually in the workforce to pay more income tax and consumption tax, god forbid they fall in love with their young children and stay at home, that would exacerbate the labour market and reduce tax receipts, the State can always import new skilled people via immigration . It's designed and fit for purpose.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 08:39 PM
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Wasting my time with a women who wants validation isn't boring, it's an absolutely necessary tool, particularly for young men to stay away from low-self esteem toxic women that are going to ruin your mental health. Nothing boring about that, that's not hate or anger that's avoiding losers in life that have the potential to pull you down. Take gender out of it and its sound advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:26 AM
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The dynamics are different. It's RELATIVE. The drop in attention and entitlement between young women (and this is a very narrow band of attractive woman) relative to young men is where the cultural issue is. Not in absolute terms but in relative terms. Framed like this the Wall becomes formidable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:48 AM
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The amount of fuckery women get up to in the work place is insane. Some of them carry on, and if given the chance would fuck a guy in the disabled toilets. Best to ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:27 AM
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Western civilisation is in decline. Its demographic is changing where it needs to import SKILLED workers to ensure income tax and consumption tax levels pay for the system. China and India can simply put restrictions on English language education and a transfer of global power would occur in ONE GENERATION. That's how dire the situation is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:01 AM
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This, a woman moving in proximity to you IRL is better than 1000 matches online.
/r/MensRights28/08/22 12:52 AM
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You must be the sort if women I am referring to. Don't act stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:22 AM
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No. It's partly men of all ages exchanging notes and putting certain women, not all women to account. Something like this isn't a random occurrence, part of it is genuine lived experienced by men. Banning Tate isn't going to change anything. I think there are certain women who know we are talking about them. Not all some. Unfortunately, going forward women have to prove to men they aren't sluts or settling for a beta. Women going forward are guilty until proven innocent. I'm sure there are genui…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:12 AM
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Leadership attributes for men, it's not necessarily formal titles but when a man peers have a high opinion of him, it's the ultimate social proof. Women notice men social proofing men and this is very hard to discern with online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 12:12 AM
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Real men prepare for winter, plague and pestilence before it even happens. They keep their families far removed from adversity, without the need to be swayed by their emotions. Staying at home is emasculating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:49 PM
4

No need to prove anything, time will reveal all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:10 PM
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"Big dick energy" is a real thing, when you have female superiors at work following you around like a puppy dog during your work break, it's a very hard to unsee.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:35 AM
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Because she has so much love to give, in exchange for a clicking biological clock and massive consumer debt. What's yours is hers and the way you make her feel with your resources and earning potential gives her the confidence that her unaccountable decisions of her past decisions don't ruin her life. After all, in her mind she is worth it and she won't settle. It can't be any other way she and her friends have been telling themselves this all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:50 PM
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Once you see it you can't unsee it. If a woman is loitering around you in a public place and her body position is facing you, there is a good possibility she wants you to approach her. If you work or socialise with her, she'll do all the work to approach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:38 PM
1

Never buy a woman a drink until she has proven herself to you.
/r/seduction25/07/22 05:08 PM
0

That's a sad as fish out of water flipping around and gasping for water until the very end.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:15 PM
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You are barking up the wrong tree. Why entertain women, you just give out your attention for nothing. In that time you could have deepen your relationship with other men by bonding over shared interest. If you want a 20+ and under 30 years old that's what brothels are for without the emotional or financial blackmail to commit. It's 2022 the men have packed their shit up and left.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:13 PM
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Leisure time with family is difficult tax, compared to two partners working overtime and paying for child minding fees on their high end lifestyles. The State nor the corporation benefit from leisure time with the family compared to creating a population addicted to consumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:25 AM
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I agree. But when the system creates a situation where the productive labour of both male and female partners are extracted over 30 years to pay for a dwelling and all the associated relationships pitfalls during this period. It's not the genders that are indifferent but rather how the State and the Corporation work together to enslave people. Both genders need to start asking how the State and the Corporations are impacting their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:14 AM
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Oooofff..that was raw and real.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:16 PM
2

You sound like you have never been thoroughly fucked by a man that you have an emotional connection with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:32 AM
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I think the archetype is misplaced. Chad isn't fit for breeding in the modern world and smart women know this. HMV has the capacity to ensure the prosperity of her kids and grandkids, I think RP gets it wrong here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:23 AM
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You can't not with modern women. After so much damage has been done to their lives they are more receptive to being salvaged than protection. The State is their protector, emotional needs from simps. Women don't need men until the simps stop simping and the State can't provide. Men should just walk away from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:36 PM
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Higher the better, if she can give great blowjobs only an idiot would leave her, amirite men 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 11:49 PM
0

Nothing, men should never apologies for being men. A woman can either take the benefits of a dominating or subjugating man by making him happy or go away. Oh wait that's the sort of traits women respond to on a primal level, to ensure her offspring propsper.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:30 AM
1

Simply watch what types of tv/video advertisement are pitched to men and women and realise the subtext, it's an open secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:22 AM
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There is. Women need to realise how abhorrent it is for women to show up in an established man's life in her 30+ saddled with consumer debt, emotionally manipulating a man into thinking she is his "dream woman" while manoeuvring to pull the "what's mine is yours" card in the hope of settling down in specific time frame based on her biological clock. Men that have the ability and resources to "nest" aren't putting up with that deception anymore. All that "organic connection" trope spilled during …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:38 AM
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To protect himself at all times in a gynocentric world, where men provide the overwhelming resilience and unemotional drone like behaviour to keep the world moving. The treatment of men is absolutely an abomination and men need to start withholding that value and to those who deserve it in their lives. Men have to start valuing themselves more and recognise how the media and society bluepills men at their peril. In many cases there will be lame ass women wanting what he has for little effort bes…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:21 AM
1

That maybe the case, before feminism made things into a zero-sum game for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:38 PM
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Deep down everyone knows, when law and order cease to exists horrible things happen, let's not lie to ourselves who the worthless sex is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:55 AM
1

Fuark, this sub is so volatile and incendiary 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:46 AM
1

This is sad. If men can't get laid just go to a brothel. If women can't get laid, use a vibrator. Build deeper, non-sexual relations with anyone you like and live a meaningful life. Life is unfair, it's better to embrace it than beg the State to intervene. People need to take responsibility of their own lives and strive for things that they can change and stop giving a fuck about things they can't. Life tends to get better after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:53 PM
1

Indifference a chance burnt, she can repeat the process with someone else, just not me. After a month I get "Hey, how are you", I just tell her she is an option. Haven't heard from her since.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:43 PM
1

These women are lying to you and your suspicions are right. Women use messaging to manipulate and test, they want to see you emotionally displaced and how long that can go on for, if you act needy, violent, creepy. It's over. I got this one women digitally stalking me after pulling that messaging trick on me and I refuse to send her a message. She can respond to simps that keep her 🐱 dry. Women don't know how to "calibrate" that's their downfall. It's ok to test a guy but if the guy is confident…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:00 PM
1

If you don't command respect from your male peers, how can you expect that from women. Men can't bullshit other men, it doesn't work. Be the man that men respect and everything goes from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:23 PM
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Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:49 PM
1

You must be real triggered for such a comment like this. I think you need need take some drugs and have a lie down. Cool shaming tactic, but please stay out of son and mother relationships. You are after all a nobody to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:05 AM
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Thanks for commenting. So from this the 666 man is kinda debunked, from your notes behavioural traits of a man are critical.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:51 AM
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Because there is an adage in the RP community, don't take serious what women say, but look at how the respond. I know you may not like it, that's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:46 AM
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This is what I suspected. That deep, close up look, deep in the eye, that subconscious urge to be very proximate with a man, akin to stalking. That's it. But for that to happen, some deep emotional connection might have been nurtured for a women to behave like that, I don't think a women would behave like that if she didn't feel emotionally or physically safe near that man. When that moment occurs I think men should formally ask for consent. I suspect that wome in this state of mind have been de…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:28 AM
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This is too funny but seriously it's not sustainable. Women are good at weeding out fakers, once you've branded you are pretty much fucked, if you've been given a tick of approval around exertion circles it gets too easy tonget approach by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:50 AM
2

Wow, the next iteration of TRP, men upgrading.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:40 AM
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I'm going to be outright evil and say it. You do know how dangerous that is for woman if the wrong men know how to apply this. I've seen it done before from men who now how to trigger the right emotional responses from women who become like crack addicts begging for an interaction or just a moment if he checks her out or not. Men like that live rent free in many women's mind for a long time. I'm sure the women on the sub know what I'm referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:55 PM
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Do you know how that sounds? Your built environment from powerlines, plumbing, drainage engineering is based not on emotion but logic. How self unaware are women about this matter and their behaviour towards men, is borderline delusional. Women would probably be more successful with men if they thought a bit more like me. "Yeah maybe he is bit logical but he's a man, how about I as a woman take a bit of ownership and tease and emotional response out of him". I'm not asking women to throw their e…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:45 PM
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Friend of mine was seeing very attractive divorcee, it was short and was not going to go anywhere but the divorcee confided in my friend that all she ever felt like in her marriage was a trophy. Of course her ex husband was an extremely wealthy man but... Absolutely devastating not being loved for who you truly are, despite being extremely attractive.This could apply on the other end of the spectrum as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:14 PM
3

Whoaaahh what a reversal!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:40 AM
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Agree, I'll add women are indecisive per se, add that with an abundance of choice and life becomes deeply confusing. A women's reference point is deeply flawed just because she socialises with successful or confident men in her social life or professional life, I think women start comparing men who they have a realistic chance with to men who the have access to IRL. "Why arent the men that actively show interst me, good looking, confident and successful compared to all these bums blowing up my d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 12:14 AM
2

This. Red pill men have learnt from women and adjusted their behaviour accordingly. Women are so redpilled for their own benefit, men are adapting. Hypergamy, it exists and men in envious positions are going to take advantage of that much the same way a woman wants to "feel secure" without decades of being with him when he had nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:21 AM
1

Women are deeply confused. The only Man that pays for it her unconditionally is her father. Women expect an unconditional man to be worthy, I think this is where the problem lies. IF more men told their daughters that the only man that really cares about them unconditionally is them, they woudln't be disappointed when men let them down or don't meet their expectations like a good father would behave. Women can't expect men they interested in them to care about them that much. That would be askin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:33 PM
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Cultural but for good reason. Shrink the nation state to a small tribe consisting of say 30 families. The fuckery of modern day dating would render this tribe void in a generation or two and as such cultural norms would have been developed to promote the propagqtion tion and the well being of the tribe. Imagine culutal gender reversal roles in that situation, the tribe wouldn't survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:30 AM
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Men don't. Particularly the part where are man has to co-habit with a woman he has committed to. It's emotionally and financially draining. When men live with each other in a non homosexual, they don't have to deal with all these issues. Men would rather be single than subject themselves to this. The non-thirsty ones anyway. Women would have to make themselves available to simps and betas if they want to be in committed relationships. They'd do a good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:02 AM
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This is unpredictable but.. 1) I suspect men are now deepening their relationship with other men in a non sexual way ie having all the benefits with companionship without romantic females intetests in their lives. Should they want to have sex they'll just pay for it every now and then. From this, as men are resource driven, men's wealth will grow considerably without the need to spend on female romantic interests based on past cultural expectations. 2) This is also occuring with women as well as…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:57 PM
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RP is know your worth, accepts female hypergamy and act accordingly. If you know how much value you bring to your life and the others around you, you'd expect a potential female interest to level up. If she can't that's on her and don't feel bad about it. You ain't a misogynist if she is inadequate but carries herself like she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:13 PM
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You have to be that man, during abosulte chaos hold his nerve and navigate life with utmost ease. I write this from lived experience. That's the idea, how you get there you have to determine this yourself. Develop yourself to be that man. It takes time and effort. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:09 AM
2

Can we have an accronym for this sub, MWM...Man Writing for Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:52 PM
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Perhaps at one stage these men where deeply emotional attached to her. This isn't the case for a job interview. Tom Brady would think 100 times over about leaving her if she could rinse him of half his net worth. It could be they've got options but they are wary of women who are hopeless, that demand a lot and are not even 1/10 of what these bitter red pill men are in providing value to the their community and immediate family.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:46 AM
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One word responses? You really a nobody online, I can just imagine what you are like in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:31 PM
0

Judging from your response and a knee jolt reaction to insult. There's nothing in your head, nothing that I can engage with to get a better understanding about the world around me, just a void of dullness, irrelevance. I'd imagine that is what you are like in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:30 PM
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I'm writing for men not for women, you may think that as a woman but that's not the lived experience of men who get women stalking them without even trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:54 PM
-1

Read for comprehension keyword "women", girls like boys are gullible and easily lead on. I'd extend the "girl" definition to understand 27 years old, these are the gullible types. Certainly not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:38 PM
0

Read for comprehension please, keyword is "authentic".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:32 PM
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That whole chemistry thing is so fleeting. The chemistry or interaction is like crack-cocoaine to women. "Chemistry" is the vibe a man gives off that he can authentically crush the world and everything before it, so he is worthy to fertilse her ovaries. I'm not referring to physical strength but that demeanour of being to handle shit any place anytime. Women are good at sensing if it's fake or authentic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:54 AM
1

LMAO, this Man sounds boring, what about the Man that buys her drugs and takes her to music festivals so she can get the best and most envious social media pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:08 AM
1

How about this idea women "equalise" their perceived value and add another 10% to 15%, for hypergamy stake and presto you might find someone appropriate. Lower your standards is honest advice for women thinking the next deal is better but never finding it, as she hits the wall realises her options a dwindling considerably and she ends up with nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:52 PM
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How about this idea women "equalise" their perceived value and add another 10% to 15%, for hypergamy stake and presto you might find someone appropriate. Lower your standards is honest advice for women thinking the next deal is better but never finding it, as she hits the wall realises her options a dwindling considerably and she ends up with nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:39 PM
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Women do this ALL the time. You do realise child rearing over a decade for young children is a very, very resource intense exercise. It's toxic to you because I'm very blunt about it but it's facts. Redpill is asking women what are you going to offer the Redpill man who knows who true value in a relationship. The golden age of simping is over. Would you rather take the easy way and convince Billy Beta, instead. Delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:48 PM
3

Listening to very well paid corporate women whine about how broke they are week to week over a long period of time. They always seem to be well dressed and cosmetically astute.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:02 AM
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TRP is the realisation of what value highly functional men are and if these men aren't up to par focus on themselves to make them more desirable to women. If women can't handle it then they really should be single and work on themselves. What's wrong with a man knowing his true worth and extracting as much as he can from a women. Women do it to men by witholding sex and relationships from men ALL THE TIME, so please don't say it's a misogynistic trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:27 AM
3

Finances is such a boring and dry subject to most women that deals with the abstract and conceptual but also the iron clad discipline to achieve this and plan with absolute conviction and clarity, if women are genuinely self sustainable that's admirable. But most aren't. Being unsure and uncertain is mostly a female trait. It's not sexist. I am not surprised women are attracted to men who have genuine confidence. Because women in general aren't confident in themselves. I wouldn't consider it sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:26 AM
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Most men are invisible to women, if you read my post again it's a certain type of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:27 AM
0

No. Women are indecisive and unsure of themselves, yeah she might be earning a lot but she is usually broke by the end of the pay cycle. Women thrive on the present in exchange for their future. It's the Man that can embrace the future with confidence and certainty, a trait women admire for good reason. All this false confidence basd on income is true to a certain extent but over stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:47 PM
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The scam starts when she becomes thirty plus and deep in consumer debt with no assets. So the only men worthy of her attention are established men with careers and assets. But as men know, where was she when he was struggling and striving? She doesn't like young men anymore or average men. She wants the disciplined and focussed man but that was too boring when she was in her 20s. So what she really is saying is I want a man to directly or indirectly pay down my consumer debt, let me move in to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:58 AM
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No body wants to be Billy Beta. It's happening, visit your local cafe and their are legions of single 30+ women waiting to be scooped up by men who stop giving a fuck. Established men in said cafes are looking through these women as if they're invisible. They're winners who crossed the finish line and have deep scepticism on 30+ year old women. The women that are in relationships are dressing up in floral sundresses Iike their going to church on Sunday morning. The game is up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:44 PM
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If she doesn't that's fine. I want to emphasis the months and months of menstrual cycles and how that impacts women more than men, particularly in terms of fertility and the lack there of. Men are oblivious to this and as such it's not so much of an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:07 AM
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I'd say the wall is based on the psychological impact declining fertility does to a woman's mind. Sure a man can stay childless but a man has never experienced months and months of dealing with hormonal menstrual cycles. A woman has to comes to terms with this. If she doesn't procreate, what were all those menstrual cycles for? The corporate ladder and the face-tuned IG posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:56 AM
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My fertiliser my choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:31 AM
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A woman feeling inadequate or doubting herself to such an extent it starts to effect her relationship moving from the metaphysical ie in her head to the physical world where a man questions if he should subject himself to her behaviour. It's like a man is life is primed to purge any insecurity a woman has. You know what, that's extremely burdensome. The problem with modern women is modern society has enslaved them to deep insecurities they are in deep state or paralysis. It's an observed, freque…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 03:04 PM
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A woman feeling inadequate or doubting herself to such an extent it starts to effect her relationship moving from the metaphysical ie in her head to the physical world where a man questions if he should subject himself to this behaviour. It's an observed, frequent debilating insecurity that men have to endure with their women. Take note most men don't experience this with their closest male friends. So the question arises in men's minds "why do I have to put up this"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:57 PM
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But every man is a potential rapist, right? So I have to make him jump through so many emotional hoops because I'm also unsure of myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:53 AM
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Some Redpillers have come out of committed relationship, you know the blue pill types that swept women off their feet and did all the right things. We are the ones that can't look at women the same way. That look of weariness of what it takes for a man to hang around with a woman that reduces value to him over the years, women are deep psychological and financial burdens. Why would a modern man build himself up to be taken down by a woman, slowly and gradually.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 09:45 AM
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The bar is low for women running out of options as they age and their ovaries aren't as good. Men call it out for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:44 PM
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I think women in their 30s with consumer debt, no assets need to be realistic. It's ok to experience the world on your terms if that's what you want. But if it means financially stunting your future circumstances you may need to lower your expectations. Men won't tolerate a women who shows up in their life in her 30s, in debt with a biological clock ticking, that's equivalent to the desperate 19 year boy with a sense of entitlement and little value to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:54 PM
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Cathie Wood. But that's through years of commitment and wisdom over decades in the professional investment community. She speaks a nuanced language about investments that would go over the head of many people including men. But people in her field know she is the real deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 10:34 PM
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After reading this comment I think at some deep psychological level women have a deep scarcity mindset relative to men. Women doubt themselves constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:18 AM
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Some women stalk and harass men who are very dangerous and EQUALLY capable of being loving and dependable men. The dynamic can be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:31 PM
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She wanted to know how I felt about her when we were alone. I asked her to take a deep breath and hold it as long as she could, when she couldn't any longer and gasped for air, I replied "that's how I feel about you". There was nothing scripted, premeditated or insincere about what I meant and her intuition was right. I wasn't a millionaire or overly good looking, I was 17 years old at the time and communicated the best way I could to her. IF we ever met again it would be the most subtle interac…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:16 PM
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Numbers don't mean much if the person is an absolute freak in bed that count is going to be high. If they say they have a low N count and know how to perform they are not being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:45 PM
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Good question. I'm not sure. I think young, attractive Australian women are hypergamous to begin with but as they mature they adjust their expectations, usually when they start to become unnoticeable to men. Having said that it doesn't stop them from interacting with a man they find attractive, despite being in a committed relationship. But most women are invisible to men, likewise most men are invisible to women. So if most women are invisible to men, they probably have realistic expectations a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:26 PM
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MNC = multi national corporation, it wasn't the first time such comments have been made by women regarding high net worth individuals spending habits. That particular comment wasn't done in a comedic tone, so I can say it wasn't humour.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 01:46 PM
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I work at a a discretionary MNC in Australia and was discussing with female work colleagues how much high net worth clients were spending money to the value of $XXX,XXX (mid to high range), and the women were lamenting that the MNC should have client photos with account information so these customers could be easily identifiable. It was an unguarded display of unapologetic hypergamy, and of course these women are in committed relationships with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:18 AM
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Friend A: I don't know what she sees in her and why they are together Friend B: She must give really good head (Both Friend A and Friend B look at each other and nod in mutual agreement). "She gives really good head" is how you keep any man. If a woman can give consistenly great headjobs like no other woman he has experienced he isn't going anywhere. A friend of mine told me he came home after work to an untidy house upset, so to appease him the wife gave him a head job. Now that's the right bal…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/22 02:57 AM
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It certainly isn't but the trajectory to being financially ok with scant financial assets at that age is good reason to be anxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:25 AM
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I think it's more nuanced than this. She wants the "fun" guy with poor financial skills that are just as bad as hers, living in the moment with her but seriously undermining his financial future at his expense while she flaunts it in front of her friends with frequent hair and nail treatments. She's not high maintenance, she's young and stupid. There are plenty 50 year old women complainng about working in their old age, single and regret about buying too many dresses in her 20s and 30s and fail…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:32 PM
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In this day and age the more accomplished a man after toiling and striving for years by himself the less likelihood he will be receptive to women who show up in their lives. Her waiting at the finish line for a winner have created men who have contempt for that type of woman. Sure women don't want to take risks but why should a man take a risk on a women when he is accomplished. The knife cuts both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:44 PM
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You need to cultivate as many diverse social circles as you can. You aren't for them and they aren't for you. You can't be everything to everyone at your grad school. Focus your energy elsewhere. The men you are after are probably middle career types with minimum bachelor degrees, they're not at grad school but in industry. Men that have their life sorted out won't be intimidated by you, you'd be more of an amusement and companion to them, not competition to be intimidated by. I'm sure you can s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:20 PM
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I'm not so sure on this. A friend of mine is with a Nigerian women, amazing woman, intelligent, well-spoken, industrious and physically attractive. She is pure class. The number of women I have met at her value and level I could count on one of my hands only. People of value recognise each other by their mannerism and how the communicate ideas and display unscripted nuances about their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:45 PM
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As sperm donors and walking ATM. This tends to happen when a woman is the last of her friend group to get fertilised, usually in her 30's. Men need to weed out this sort of women who want to enter their lives. You are not human to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 11:11 PM
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Some RP men have no mating strategy, like "if I continue to put my dick in her will she potentially ruin my finances or mental health". A man de risks himself if he uses the service of a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 08:14 PM
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No accountability in a relationship, opinions that are costly because women tend to be less self-aware. I nearly cried when a friend of mine told me he didn't want to sign off on a massive 30 year mortgage but couldn't stand up for himself against his wife. That poor bastard "has to deal" with successive interest rate rises while she enjoys herself at home and won't work full-time. I'd imagine if he stood up for himself he "wouldn't be a real man" and "not treating her right" or "she deserves be…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 08:05 PM
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You need substance. One line replies on-line mean patheticness in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 07:57 AM
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You know what's so damn hard as man that women don't get. Men make plans 10 to 20 years ahead, it's difficult to be in the present even with the women who are important in our lives. Women in general are mostly concerned about how they feel in the present. If I don't make her feel a certain way in the present I'm useless to her, even though I've made projections 10 to 20 years ahead and show up every day, get to that goal where I need to be and potentially share that with her. Some men don't wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:49 AM
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Women do approach men way, way out of their league but very subtly and most men are invisible to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:15 PM
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It's like this. Any person that walks into a dark alley, alone who is uncertain of themselves, fears the unknown and is anxious while doing so, doesn't instill confidence in themselves or others. Apply the above idea to life in general. So if another person has composure to do so and the other doesn't, should we frame this as a competency or supremacy issue. The language used in this post can cause confusion between the meanings of competency and supremacy. But I do have hope women at a primal l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:36 AM
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This guy gets it. Only self improve for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:36 AM
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