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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Is it desperation If I text her on the same day I took her number? If you don't text her the same day, some guy who she gave her number too last week is gonna get the date. You guys act like ONLY your number, and ONLY when you text matters. You have to get ahead of the other guys trying to get her attention. Imagine she is on a date with you, and the guy she gave her number too a week ago finally calls. Do you think waiting for him worked out?	/r/seduction	20/02/26 04:24 AM
1	I (28m) have never had a girlfriend, nor had sex in 3 years. Where do I even begin? You need a hobby that's social. I don't care what it is or if you have to start one. It could be getting together to play cards or a group of friends hiking. (Playing cards doesn't have to be at home, you can go out to do it.) If you are out doing interesting things, now you have something to talk about with girls. And you might even meet some. You could just be like "Hey I starting a hiking club, you should come join." Or bird watching or ANYTHING.	/r/seduction	20/02/26 04:11 AM
0	Is Mark Manson’s Models only relevant for cold approach? It's actually needy to be afraid to ask a girl out in front of other people. Think about, you would only be nervous to do that if you cared what other people thought about you, and feared being judged, and rejected in front of others. It's the need for positive validation.	/r/seduction	13/10/25 07:52 PM
18	She’s out of your league (for now) It's a little more the other way around. Think about that person's options. The hardest people to attract are gonna be people with a lot of options. A girl that already has guys that are charming, tall, and handsome can even ignore them because they are all after her. You take that same girl and put her on an island with 20 women and 5 men and the dynamics change completely. It all comes down to options.	/r/seduction	11/10/25 09:14 AM
2	25f Struggling to Please Turn off the TV without asking for permission and start kissing him. Trust me, whatever he is watching is not that important even if it's sports.	/r/seduction	11/10/25 08:42 AM
1	At what point do you decide to close the door forever? Why would YOU want a girl who behaves like this? Tell her this behavior is unacceptable to YOUR standards and move on.	/r/seduction	19/09/25 01:59 PM
25	Cold approaches in shopping malls are hard as fuck I would avoid starting off with a question. Really sucks when ask someone something and they don't respond. Much easier to deal with making a comment and getting no response.	/r/seduction	16/09/25 11:40 PM
1	First dates should always be on a weekday or Sunday? Yeah always doesn't make any sense. There are will be some exceptions.	/r/seduction	13/09/25 01:48 AM
1	First dates should always be on a weekday or Sunday? This advice makes a lot of sense actually. What if you go on the date and realize you don't like the girl that much? This leaves Friday and Saturday to look for someone else. Also, just because you have 1 date doesn't mean you shouldn't be looking for dates with other girls. I'm actually liking this advice the more and more I think about it.	/r/seduction	12/09/25 04:12 PM
12	Girl cancelled less than 1hr before first date Definitely sounds like she is flaking out, but you can take the "honest feelings" approach her. Example: "I'm disappointed, it doesn't sound like you are really interested in going out anymore. But hey, I understand, dating is difficult.' Just say how feel, minus any anger.	/r/seduction	12/09/25 04:08 PM
6	What's with girls telling me they're busy? Girls are indirect because they worry men might attacked them physically if they were brutally direct. So they are indirect for survival. For example, it doesn't matter if a girl says she has a boyfriend and doesn't it. The point is she trying to tell you "not interested." Busy? "Not interested." Are other people going? "Not interested." Feeling sick? "Not interested." It's simple really once you break their code. Every answer means the same thing.	/r/seduction	08/09/25 11:57 PM
9	Should you date with a girl who you don't find physically attractive in her pictures? Some people aren't photogenic, but look better in real life. The opposite can also be true.	/r/seduction	02/09/25 11:50 AM
2	Failure after failure No, it's more like advising a man who previously had no job and didn't even go to restaurants to appreciate the places he can afford to go to now. Celebrate the little achievements along the journey. That's really all I am saying.	/r/seduction	21/08/25 09:02 AM
2	What are some manners of women's pre-selection or screening you witnessed? This happened only once to me and it was kind of eye opening. I was at a dance club sitting on a couch. It was early. Person after person, even couples stopped by to greet as they came in. Might have been 30 to 40 people. The girl was right near me watching everything. She was cute and I went to sit with her and said hello. Her first response? "WHO ARE YOU??" I was actually confused by this, but then I worked it out. She was wondering why everyone was saying hello to me. She was super hot and li…	/r/seduction	21/08/25 02:29 AM
2	How do y'all judge while texting if the girl is intresting enough to hangout with? Unfortunately,.it's up to you to make the fun. Also, unfortunately, (and many guys don't consider this), you might not want to date her. No matter how attractive she is on the outside. There is ONE criteria I place above all others even looks: "How much fun do I have with her."	/r/seduction	21/08/25 02:17 AM
19	Failure after failure I actually have the answer you need to hear: "STOP FOCUSING ON THE OUTCOME." Count your progress by your actions. If you went from zero approaches to 30, that's really amazing. Have fun with just approaching. Don't put so much stock into results.	/r/seduction	21/08/25 02:13 AM
3	Desire for older women Well if you don't want kids, an older women is either done with that or isn't looking for children either.	/r/seduction	21/08/25 02:04 AM
23	What do girls find attractive in men? What turns them on? One of the biggest misconceptions about women is that they aren't as visual as men when it comes to attraction. This is just completely FALSE. From a young age girls first talk about "cute" boys. And from just anecdotal experience, girls are very visual. For example, a friend of mine was going on and on about the bartender. He hadn't said one word to her and she knew nothing about him. It was pure visual. Girls are a little different in that they are more forgiving towards men when it comes to w…	/r/seduction	14/08/25 01:45 AM
5	38, divorcing after 17 years—how do I re-enter dating in 2025? The problem with this is there isn't any timeline. Telling people to "just work on themselves" is incomplete and somewhat bad advice. You should be working on yourself....for the rest of your life. See the issue? While you are working on yourself, you should also be putting yourself out there meeting and dating woman. Obviously, most of those dates will lead nowhere, but they also can contribute to making yourself better. A date might suggest going hiking, something you never did, but you contin…	/r/seduction	09/08/25 08:34 PM
1	Help with my text game Everything this guy said. It's not interview.	/r/seduction	23/07/25 04:54 PM