itreallyislikethat Archive

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1	How to make a move on a girl. What do you mean "make a move"? Are you trying to attract her or are you trying to kiss her? There's a lot of different moves that can be used in different situations. Check this out: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1sy4wq/escalation_ladder/	/r/seduction	16/12/13 03:51 AM
1	Let's talk about being a wing-man. I brought two of the hottest girls I know to a party and let my friend make out with both of them. He brought zero girls, took credit for the party, might have creeped some of my friends out. Fuckin eh.	/r/seduction	05/11/13 10:46 PM
1	[FR][daygame] "how I didn't see the forest because of all the trees" it or "things not to do!" I will still have sex with you. Hah! Jokes aside, well done. I still think you can turn it around. I think you should go with something like "I REALLY wanted to show you that I'm not that kind of guy and since I've done my due diligence and you were so patient, let me show you what you've been waiting for." Something like that... I dunno, if you've kissed her and managed NOT to bang her under the circumstances you described, I think there's still something there for you to work with. It's not li…	/r/seduction	13/06/13 03:34 AM
2	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma) All things considered, you're right. Given the context of not being well acquainted with the girl, a movie isn't ideal, but (I mentioned this elsewhere) if you can gauge her interest and she seems physically interested, a movie isn't a bad idea. Let me also clarify and differentiate the difference between a movie at your house in your bed from a movie in theaters. Theaters is not a good idea. If you can get her to your place in your bed (or hers for that matter) for a movie (on a laptop or deskt…	/r/seduction	13/04/13 09:58 AM
2	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma) All your first dates should be small first dates; think coffee, lunch, dinner, movie, walk. A concert or something expensive should be for when you know she can attend for sure and is interested in both you and the event. That said, if you can get a friend who will go with you if the girl doesn't pan out, you can gamble, get the ticket, ask the girl, and worst case scenario, go with your friend. If she says yes, tell your buddy that the girl said yes. If you're good friends, he/she will understa…	/r/seduction	12/04/13 11:28 PM
5	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma) By trying to make moves on her. If tells you she's not into you making moves on her, then there you go. If you're hooking up and she's talking about other guys, she's trying to make you jealous. If she's trying to make you jealous, she sounds crazy and you should reconsider your interest in her imo.	/r/seduction	12/04/13 11:18 PM
13	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma) Let her come to you. You're kind of contradicting yourself by saying you want to tell her it isn't working out, but you don't want to ruin your chances. Sounds like she's ruining her chances with you. If you just stop talking to her and be brief when you do talk to her (not in person), depending on what you mean by "girl I've been seeing," she'll either do something about it, or she won't. That's when you can decide for yourself if she's worth your time.	/r/seduction	12/04/13 11:16 PM
3	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma) I'm not an expert at going out by myself, but if you're looking to meet people or enhance your game, it's perfectly acceptable to leave your friends and go talk to whoever you want and then have them there to receive you if things don't go as well as possible. I would suggest bars for talking to people, if you have a strong physical presence and can get a girl to dance with you without much verbal communication, then try a club. Going solo is hard for me, but if I were to speculate, I don't thin…	/r/seduction	12/04/13 11:12 PM
1	I just want someone to talk to me, dammit No worries, brother. So what do you do? Well, there are a really only 1 this I can think of, assuming you're staying quiet in an attempt to let the other person talk. Reflect. Think about something or don't think about anything. In my experience, reflection doesn't require active thought. It can just be sitting and listening to the sounds of what's going on around you. You can people watch and wonder what people are doing with their day. If it's night, you can look up at the stars (my favorite).…	/r/seduction	03/04/13 04:12 PM
2	I just want someone to talk to me, dammit I think you're in a good position! Here's my two cents: In my opinion, it's actually harder to talk (in terms of getting words out) when you have two people who are trying to "lead" a conversation. That's not to say that it can't or won't be captivating or meaningful, but it's more that you have to concisely say what you're trying to say. That said, I think finding another conversationalist with whom to have engaging conversations would help you in future situations where you're with someone who…	/r/seduction	02/04/13 11:51 PM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma) I do actually haha. I have some written raps that I practice from time to time. Need to get into free styling some more though. My shits weak.	/r/seduction	19/03/13 07:01 PM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma) Well written and well thought out. Much appreciated. Hesitant to do coffee shops because people tend to be busy in there and I don't oft drink coffee. That said, those are both lame excuses. I'm glad you mentioned the dhv bit.	/r/seduction	19/03/13 04:02 PM
2	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma) Well I suppose it's worth mentioning that he is a law student and so he values any extra time he has to study. On top of that, he knew I was trying to find a date. Since I'm sure you've ascertained that I don't date males, surely you'd understand that he wasn't too upset to be first guy after a list of girls were unavailable.	/r/seduction	18/03/13 11:36 PM
5	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma) This is good. I would add that it's good to have a backup that knows they are the last option and is willing to go if you can't find anyone else. Recently, I told my male friend "Hey dude, I have two tickets to see this great band I really like and I'm going to ask a few different girls, but if none of them can make it, will you go?" None of the girls could make it (short notice) so I took my male friend, but at least I didn't have to sell the tickets or go solo (which isn't really all that bad …	/r/seduction	18/03/13 10:33 PM
22	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma) Nobody likes you when you're 23. Source: I'm 23 and nobody likes me.	/r/seduction	18/03/13 09:47 PM
8	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma) TL;DR: How do I time manage being awesome, and showing people (read women) I'm awesome? So I have a full time job in a city (Hayward) that isn't particularly 'popping'. I live (Alameda ~30min from work, ~30min from play/fun) near enough to the city (SF), but how can I find time to do all the things that make for good inner game (cook, hobbies, read, groom, style, etc.) and spend time going out and getting after some new females (on weekdays)? On a given weekday, I'll have maybe 3-4 hours of free…	/r/seduction	18/03/13 09:46 PM