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About what I expect.
/r/MensRights28/05/14 10:15 PM
1

I will put more thought into what you said.
/r/MensRights28/05/14 01:34 AM
1

I guess my point is that there are a lot of things people can take the wrong way based on our life experiences. As long as it was clearly unintentional, the burden should be on us, not the pamphlet writer, to learn how to cope with the situation. What you suggested, I think, is just as bad as when feminists say that an anti-date rape poster (the ones that say "Don't get raped") counts as slut shaming. We just have to learn to take things the right way. Anyway, I am glad that you have gotten a gi…
/r/MensRights28/05/14 12:28 AM
3

I think the problem is whether you feel shame or guilt for saying something socially awkward. I'm applying knowledge I got from a study I read that showed recidivism is greatly dependent on whether some feels shame ("I did that act because I'm a bad person") or guilt ("I did that act because I made a bad choice"). I wonder if some guys (like my boyfriend, way before he met me) say something socially awkward to a girl and think, "Well, what I said to her is dumb and she left me quite curtly. I gu…
/r/MensRights28/05/14 12:25 AM
4

I'm not quite sure what you're trying to say.
/r/MensRights28/05/14 12:19 AM
1

But you're missing the point. The point is that your experiences, my experiences, and the OP's experiences are irrelevant to this situation. I don't want to get into an argument over whether men are treated worse or women are treated worse because their self-worth is tied to sex. We all had our self-worth tied to sex and it sucks. I know what you guys went through. I was trying to show that I didn't come from a place of privilege. I didn't mean to say "my experience was worse" or anything. What …
/r/MensRights28/05/14 12:18 AM
1

It's not that it's because he's alone (remember, I said I'm dating a former 32-year-old virgin). It's because my friend yells misogynystic things and has a history of violence and threatening violence (impulse control problems).
/r/MensRights28/05/14 12:08 AM
1

I disagree. I think you and I both (in the past) chose to take things like this the wrong way because we were over-identifying with our personal situations. The solution isn't to make everything cater to us. The solution is for us to realize that these aren't personal attacks against us or situations we can't control and to remember that our sex lives are just one aspect of our lives.
/r/MensRights27/05/14 08:23 PM
13

He really worries me. I'm a female and I have a male friend who exhibits basically all the traits of antisocial personality disorder. Because he has poor social skills and can't get his life together, he's in his 30's, has only had one girlfriend, and is a virgin. He has said things before like, "Women are all stuck-up bitches." But he says I'm cool. I guess it's because when I'm around guys, I'm not very flirty and I have a sexual disorder (so he's actually more likely to get sex than I am). Bu…
/r/MensRights27/05/14 08:07 PM
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This is one of the reasons I think feminism does a horrible job at preventing rape. A few days before the mass murder attempt, there was a study that showed that men with poor body image who had just been rejected by a woman was likely to answer candidly on a survey that he wants to commit violence against women. Feminists demonize the male gender and say rape is because of the patriarchy and rape culture, but they don't address the actual issues that contribute to violence. (Of course, female o…
/r/MensRights27/05/14 07:56 PM
1

I wouldn't categorize all or even most of the users of 2XC as male haters. I'm on there and I don't hate men. I do, however, see a lot of ideological feminist things on there, which myself and quite a few other subscribers pretty frequently challenge.
/r/MensRights27/05/14 01:33 AM
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I've been subscribed to it for one week. I thought that might be the case, but I wasn't sure because it's only been a week. But yeah, she shouldn't say misandric things without even doing any research into whether there are male subreddits.
/r/MensRights27/05/14 01:31 AM
1

No worries. It happens.
/r/MensRights25/05/14 01:13 AM
-2

YOu have a negative score for saying this on a men's rights subreddit. No one wants to hear you, male or female.
/r/MensRights25/05/14 12:57 AM
0

Yeah, but being irrational and participating in mob mentality is a human characteristic. It just happens to be occurring on a female subreddit at this particular point.
/r/MensRights25/05/14 12:56 AM
3

That's what I'm trying to say, that they direct more anger that way than to the men's rights movement.
/r/MensRights25/05/14 12:54 AM
7

I find that different issues bring out different segments of the 2XC population. People who are mad at the trolls blame the red pill. Radfems get mad whenever men post comments and call it "mansplaining." But when someone posts some stupid news article, those of us who are critical thinkers who don't subscribe to any particular political belief tend to challenge those ideas. Like when someone posted an article about Jill Abramson and her accusations of pay discrimination, about 2 commentors said…
/r/MensRights25/05/14 12:50 AM
14

I've made an unpopular comment on 2XC before. They can be annoying, like giving me a -12, getting several comments that are condescending, and having one commenter accusing me of being an MRA. (I told her I'm very open to /r/mensrights about being egalitarian. I got downvoted, so I don't think she was amused by my candor). To my knowledge, my comment never got deleted. Maybe because the mods can look up my commenting history, though, and see that I comment somewhat frequently on Reddit about hav…
/r/MensRights24/05/14 07:53 PM
-2

By calling this "women blowing things out of proportion" and not "people blowing things out of proportion," you're just furthering gender stereotypes, which you seem to think are bad.
/r/MensRights24/05/14 07:50 PM
19

I am subscribed to 2XC. They typically attribute it to /r/theredpill, not your typical MRA. At least on the posts I've seen.
/r/MensRights24/05/14 07:48 PM
-4

There is a male version of 2XC. It's r/oney. People are dumb.
/r/MensRights24/05/14 07:46 PM
2

WHO WOULD BE STUPID ENOUGH TO MOLEST CHILDREN ON AN AIRPLANE?????? IT'S NOT LIKE YOU CAN ESCAPE FROM THE CRIME VERY EASILY.
/r/MensRights20/05/14 06:27 PM
2

You got a negative score on this comment on a men's rights forum. Looks like lots of MRA's don't see your opinions as particularly valuable.
/r/MensRights17/05/14 02:22 AM
1

There's a difference between "women" and "some women."
/r/MensRights17/05/14 02:19 AM
1

I assume you live outside of the US. lol
/r/MensRights15/05/14 06:11 PM
1

TIL the best way to make everyone equal in society is to create a policy where everyone dies.
/r/MensRights15/05/14 05:37 PM
1

She needs help, not a teaching license.
/r/MensRights15/05/14 03:57 AM
1

You might be right. I don't know if there are a lot of studies on complete social isolation. In a more dire case, I would say it's probably the same or worse to be in solitary confinement than to be raped.
/r/MensRights15/05/14 03:35 AM
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I hope that at some point, you re-examine your debate skills and ideological thinking. You are the MRM equivalent of an annoying feminist who says "you don't realize you're giving into the patriarchy" just because you disagree with them on any point. I have explained to you several times that I feel that on a psychological level, solid research shows that being violently raped (a better debater than yourself brought it to my attention that I need to specify "violent" rape, because not all rape i…
/r/MensRights15/05/14 03:33 AM
2

This is why I'm egalitarian.
/r/MensRights14/05/14 06:13 PM
1

I guess it's because people are afraid that "they can go do it again." When there's not proof they did it the first time.
/r/MensRights14/05/14 05:50 PM
1

That's a good point. One of the reasons I think people who want to prevent rapes should follow an innocent-until-proven guilty court system is that putting men in prison if they just had a vindictive ex-girlfriend can increase the males' chances of getting raped in prison.
/r/MensRights14/05/14 05:37 PM
1

Children who came from alcoholic parents statistically speaking deal with depression for shorter amounts of time than children born with sober, physically and/or sexually abusive parents. I've read several other studies that show physical and sexual violence are more traumatic than other stressors.
/r/MensRights14/05/14 05:23 PM
1

Neither one should be taken lightly. Here's an analogy: A recent study showed that children who had physically or sexually abusive parents had to deal with depression longer than children who had non-violent alcoholic parents. These are both terrible situations that cause depression that need to be addressed by society. And although being raised by alcoholic parents is a bad thing, people still shouldn't go around saying it's objectively worse than being raised by physically/sexually abusive par…
/r/MensRights14/05/14 05:21 PM
1

Getting raped (or undergoing any violent crime) is more traumatic for most people than getting socially stigmatized. That being said, there are ramifications for using this as the only way to calculate how to dish out the greatest good for the greatest many. If we, for example, just assume that anyone who gets accused of rape is a rapist and gets imprisoned by our court system, then lots of bad ramifications will happen for real rape victims, the falsely accused, and the ability of our criminal …
/r/MensRights14/05/14 05:19 PM
1

I think you're right in that it varies from situation to situation. Certainly a vigilante response where your life is threatened is probably just as traumatizing as rape. But I think in general, rape is more traumatizing. I also disagree that rape should be framed as short-term. Rapes are overwhelmingly done by someone the victim knows, so it can often start with some sort of grooming. Someone who was sexually assaulted once is often sexually assaulted again within his/her lifetime. I agree (bot…
/r/MensRights14/05/14 05:07 PM
1

Maybe I misinterpreted what he said.
/r/MensRights14/05/14 05:00 PM
1

I agree that it is bad and wrong, but statistically speaking, people heal faster when they are the victims of non-violent traumas rather than violent traumas. I'm not saying that false accusations aren't a horrible, horrible thing, because they are. I'm just saying you can't go around saying that being falsely accused is definitively worse than actually being raped.
/r/MensRights14/05/14 05:00 PM
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I never said he doesn't deserve the right to a fair trial. I never said an individual's right to not be raped deserves to trump legal proceedings that exist to keep vindictive women from getting their boyfriends deported or in prison. I believe this particular provision of Title IX is unconstitutional. I never said it's ok to have anything less than unreasonable doubt to be the guideline for college rape trials. All I said is that you can't say that getting booted from school is necessarily more…
/r/MensRights14/05/14 01:43 AM
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What I'm saying is that being raped or beaten brutally is, statistically speaking, more traumatic than being falsely accused of rape. I do understand that being innocent until proven guilty is important. I said it's important and that people who make false rape claims demean the whole process. You put words in my mouth and you should be ashamed.
/r/MensRights14/05/14 12:39 AM
1

I think you may have been right.
/r/MensRights14/05/14 12:37 AM
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The point is that a good idea delivered poorly is not going to be respected.
/r/MensRights13/05/14 10:20 PM
4

I agree that the proceedings were bad (which I mentioned that I felt that way and gave an example of how things like this can seriously harm men's lives), but I felt it was a bit much for the author to say without any qualifications that what his friend went through was worse than rape. It really makes the difference between a strong argument and a pointless, poorly-backed up rant.
/r/MensRights13/05/14 09:59 PM
6

While this reminds me of an injustice one of my former friends went through when his girlfriend became radicalized and there was strong evidence that she went around the workplace, telling coworkers he emotionally abused her (he's got a temper, but I would say he deserved on honest, "hey you're a d-bag breakup), I really took offense to the first paragraph, because it said that being put on an unfair trial is definitively worse than getting raped. I disagree. There are statistics that show that …
/r/MensRights13/05/14 09:32 PM
3

Crazy, controlling behavior knows no gender. When I was a kid, I was taught that controlling behavior only came from men and it was done to get because men wanted to control women. As I got older, I started seeing examples of crazy, controlling women. I realized the best way to keep both men and women safe is to stop blaming controlling behavior on the patriarchy and to actually look for the psychological causes of it.
/r/MensRights12/05/14 04:23 AM
4

You are a courageous and awesome person!
/r/MensRights05/05/14 03:54 AM
1

Tell him. I know you love your cousin and aunt, but if they disown you for doing the right thing, it's best that you just have the family members who really love you for doing the right thing.
/r/MensRights03/05/14 12:58 AM
7

I think feminists who claim that we live in a rape culture that is hostile toward women need to address that we live in a rape culture that is hostile toward men.
/r/MensRights29/04/14 02:59 PM
0

What paper printed this? Newspapers are doing just fine online, just like this Onion article is online.
/r/MensRights22/04/14 01:51 PM
1

Yeah, I kind of wondered about that too.
/r/MensRights21/04/14 04:36 PM
0

I agree with a lot the statements on here, particularly that we need to draw attention to male workplace deaths/injuries, prison sentencing, custody discrimination, and studies on discrimination against males. What I disagree with is the posting of violence against men because I think it is hard to measure whether men are more likely to be the victim of an unprovoked violent crime than a woman is, or to what degree the disproportionate male violence against men can be partially explained by fact…
/r/MensRights21/04/14 04:34 PM
3

This is good news.
/r/MensRights19/04/14 01:22 AM
4

I stopped reading this feminist's garbage after she said rape culture and patriarchy are grounds for dismissing actual gender equality off-hand. Seriously, if men are so competitive due to patriarchy, isn't she being patriarchal by turning gender equality into a competition?
/r/MensRights03/04/14 01:57 AM
2

You are correct. The book I read by an anthropologist in Central Africa was wrong.
/r/MensRights22/03/14 09:57 PM
1

It stays for 4 reasons: it's a cultural thing if you come from a Jewish family, male circumcision reduces men's sexual pleasure but eliminate's women's sexual pleasures, hospitals can sell foreskin for research and advise families because they gain from it, and feminists are so caught up on what it means to objectify women that they don't even address what it must be like to get the most sensitive part of your body mutilated to look aesthetically appealing to members of the opposite sex
/r/MensRights21/03/14 10:28 PM
10

Because math skills pay and English majors work for Walmart.
/r/MensRights21/03/14 10:24 PM
3

Yeah, feminists are dumb.
/r/MensRights18/03/14 12:46 AM
9

I grew up radfem. What these women usually think is that patriarchy owes them safety because all fears a woman can face are based on men's desire to control women. I don't think they're a fan of pussy pass in situations other than child custody and rape trials. If a young, cute girl gets out of a traffic ticket by an older male cop, they see that as patriarchy.
/r/MensRights17/03/14 05:22 PM
17

I think the preponderance of evidence part of Title IX is unconstitutional. The problem with feminism is that a lot of feminists have great ideals about equality and believe things like that everyone deserves the right to a fair and speedy trial and that no one can have life, liberty, or property denied without due process, but feminism is heavily dominated by victims victims of sexual assault and domestic violence who are at a point in their lives where they cannot think about SA rationally, so…
/r/MensRights17/03/14 02:38 PM
9

My parents were pretty normal but my aunt was a past victim of domestic violence and moved on enough that she got happily married to a man, but she was still traumatized enough that she thinks of a lot of the radfem stuff as liberating. I always looked up to her, so I took all her radfem books as the word of God(dess). I thought radical feminism was the only answer to some brief episodes of abuse I went through as a child, and I believed that having sex meant that a man was going to objectify me…
/r/MensRights12/03/14 03:36 AM
1

So basically, AlbrechtVonRoon and I said that some MRM activists have a legit reason to complain and others are fringe woman haters. I also interpreted him saying, "I know what you are trying to say" as an acknowledgment that feminism has gone too far. And for agreeing with a statement that feminism has gone too far and there needs to be a MRM but the few genuine male chauvinist pigs need to stay out of it, I got referred to a long-winded article about how feminism has gone far. I already agree …
/r/MensRights11/03/14 02:21 AM
3

Interesting thought, troll.
/r/MensRights09/03/14 02:17 AM
2

At first, I thought the 6th one was about slut shaming, but then I thought it might be a reference to the infamous SlutWalk girl who had that sign that said her "assailant" "doesn't know" he raped her.
/r/MensRights09/03/14 01:11 AM
0

Yes! This is why I left feminism.
/r/MensRights09/03/14 01:04 AM
0

<sup>This.</sup>
/r/MensRights09/03/14 01:03 AM
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I don't need feminism because feminists teach young men that if they want casual sex, they are objectifying women and they teach young women that if they want casual sex, they are acting out daddy issues when biology should really explain both of these cases most of the time. I don't need feminism because it often overcompensates for women's issues and leads to unfair public policy for men. Advocating for gender equality rather than feminism or men's rights would correct this. I don't need femin…
/r/MensRights09/03/14 01:02 AM
0

Sounds like some woman is mad at her ex-husband and is taking it out on men.
/r/MensRights03/03/14 08:59 PM
0

Fair enough.
/r/MensRights03/03/14 08:53 PM
0

The problem is the academics. I have two feminist college professor aunts. They observe "truth" in sociology the same way an English major seeks the "true" meaning of a book--they always look for symbols and keep finding symbols of patriarchy and pedophelia in our culture. The problem is feminism isn't the right type of academic--statistical analysis with a consideration of significant correlations over methods like content analysis and anecdotal evidence.
/r/MensRights01/03/14 10:54 PM
0

You fight the fact that men have it rough in instances like custody battles, having to do shitty work assignments (I've definitely felt weird at my workplace when my male managers assign only males to go out and shovel snow in sub-zero weather and I know that challenging them to let me go out and spare some of these guys is only a waste of everyone's time), etc. while women are disadvantaged in other aspects of their lives like being able to have multiple sex partners without being stigmatized a…
/r/MensRights01/03/14 07:34 PM
0

Whenever you make a political statement, you are telling people what you think would be a better alternative to the idea they are using. There should be some back-and-forth. This wasn't intended to be an "I'm right, you're wrong and if you don't agree with me, you're dumb." That's why I qualified it with "I would like," because I want to experiment with this model and see what it would be like. I believe this experiment would get rid of the problem of all three existing. When there is a men's ri…
/r/MensRights01/03/14 07:30 PM
0

As a movement?
/r/MensRights01/03/14 03:30 AM
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This is the most discerning comment I have seen on the men's rights page. I upvoted and you and would like to applaud you for trying to at least understand what the other side is saying before disagreeing with feminism. You have the position that is most similar to mine, which is that we need to acknowledge both gender equalities. I would like to get rid of men's rights and feminism and instead have a gender equality movement. But even as a female who has had my life compromised in the past by a…
/r/MensRights01/03/14 01:37 AM
13

Yes, I hate being the target of whistling, catcalling, and overly-persistent horny men, but having survived REAL acts of violence, I find the use of the term "verbal rape" pretty insensitive and invalidating to my experiences.
/r/MensRights28/02/14 09:52 PM
1

Is there any evidence of this other than anecdotal?
/r/MensRights28/02/14 03:22 PM
6

This is not a men's rights issue. This is a zero-tolerance issue. It's just a bad policy.
/r/MensRights28/02/14 03:32 AM
1

Check state laws before you go to the spy shop, though. For example, it is illegal in Kansas (or at least it was when I was a journalist) to record phone conversations without telling the other party. That automatically gets your evidence thrown out in court.
/r/MensRights18/02/14 07:21 PM
1

I didn't realize all fathers abandon their kids until I read that little Facebook meme. Makes me wonder who that man was who drove me to school, ballet, and Girl Scouts and read me bedtime stories and helped me move out, even though it made him sad. Must have been a robot.
/r/MensRights18/02/14 06:46 PM
2

Germaine Greer tried to say paid jobs don't require as much work as men claim they do because men get lunch breaks.
/r/MensRights16/02/14 04:18 AM
3

r/legaladvice
/r/MensRights14/02/14 06:00 AM
0

We aren't speculating that she raped him because he has never accused her of doing so. It's possible that she did rape him and he never talked about it because it's taboo, but that's not the subject at hand and you are getting off topic.
/r/MensRights12/02/14 05:41 PM
1

It depends on whether the rape (if it happened) made her fear he would harm her and/or her loved ones. The thing is, we aren't her and we aren't her ex-boyfriend so none of us knows.
/r/MensRights12/02/14 05:40 PM
1

Not true. Single occurence can lead to a fear for one's safety. It appears based on the fact that she didn't know how to prove it to the police that she didn't try to consult anyone on escaping, which could point to her being vindictive, but the fact that they were together for three years is not enough to make a judgment call.
/r/MensRights12/02/14 12:18 AM
1

How about both statements are false? Just because a man does not mean he is a rapist and just because they were in a monogamous relationship doesn't mean he raped her.
/r/MensRights12/02/14 12:16 AM
0

For a couple of years of college, I dated a guy who had some physical and mental health issues. Due to his physical health issues, he expected me to be at home, waiting on him hand-and-foot. Although he wasn't physically well enough to have sex very often, he told me that because I had a sexual disorder and he "had to give up the best part of being alive" for him, I owed him all my money so he could buy drugs with it. So even if I had time to be out on my own, I couldn't spend any money on mysel…
/r/MensRights10/02/14 03:09 AM
1

The article says she claimed he "coerced her, psychologically and physically." It sounds like you didn't even read the article and just went by the headline.
/r/MensRights10/02/14 02:55 AM
2

I don't know this girl, I don't know the situation, but I do know that we can't just assume that he didn't rape her because they were in a monogamous relationship.
/r/MensRights10/02/14 02:52 AM
3

This is dumb. Do they have statistics to prove that any significant amount of male perpetrators do it because they want to prove that they're men? Of those men, how many would actually choose not to assault victims because of that poster?
/r/MensRights04/02/14 04:28 PM
2

I wish I were British so I'd be able to sign this petition.
/r/MensRights31/01/14 03:43 AM
2

"Rape culture" isn't just a straight male thing on Facebook, unfortunately...
/r/MensRights17/01/14 03:24 AM
1

You're not very articulate.
/r/MensRights09/01/14 12:22 AM
1

Maybe I don't understand the point you were trying to make. What does months v. ten minutes of responsibility have to do with levels of responsibility?
/r/MensRights08/01/14 08:04 PM
1

But it's still responsibility and responsibility is responsibility is responsibility.
/r/MensRights08/01/14 07:53 PM
1

Yes, but in a lot of drunk hookups, if a man is going to have sex without a condom (and open himself to STD's and pregnancy), he's probably not going to ask a woman (and therefore even have the possibility of having her lie to him) about being on birth control. What I don't like about the article is that it provides no statistics on what the factors are behind unprotected sex. If it's a drunk hookup, chances are it's probably both partners' faults. If it's a woman lying about being on birth cont…
/r/MensRights08/01/14 05:47 PM
1

Female condoms are a lot harder to apply than male condoms. No one ever uses them.
/r/MensRights08/01/14 05:44 PM
3

Interesting point. I will think about this some more.
/r/MensRights08/01/14 05:37 PM
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"The second is the introduction of the pill, which the Food and Drug Administration approved for contraceptive use in 1960. It made nonmarital sex far more easily available, reducing the incentive for men to marry. As George Akerlof and Janet Yellen argued in a 1996 paper (yes, that Janet Yellen, and Akerlof is her husband), the pill very quickly broke down the old institution of the shotgun wedding. With reproduction under female control, it became a female responsibility." Sex is something peo…
/r/MensRights07/01/14 11:01 PM
1

I'm sorry you had to be a mod at one point. Must have been pretty stressful!
/r/MensRights07/01/14 03:28 AM
1

Hmmm...
/r/MensRights07/01/14 03:27 AM
1

It is a gendered issue, though. As a female, I have received a lot of support from society in healing from past SA's from men. Men who went through more extensive abuse than I have have been targets of laughter and disbelief. It's sad.
/r/MensRights07/01/14 12:46 AM
2

I kinda want to know, because i have thought of unsubscribing from this subreddit in the past because I got too many aggressive responses to a lot of my comments. I want to know if I had been talking to a troll.
/r/MensRights07/01/14 12:45 AM
1

Could you please provide examples?
/r/MensRights06/01/14 03:06 AM
1

I'll think about it some more. Maybe I should clarify that the problem is feminists, not women. I for one, I should probably disclose, am a female.
/r/MensRights06/01/14 02:05 AM
-3

The problem with rape culture is that we have demonized the wrong gender and presented the wrong gender as victims.
/r/MensRights03/01/14 11:13 PM
1

Just be careful and use a condom, don't have sex with a girl while she's impaired, and if it's casual sex make sure she knows you're not looking for a relationship. Do have sex. Have fun. These are the best years of your life. Even "sex-positive" (and I use this phrase lightly) feminists don't believe in some of those crazy statements you listed. Don't worry about women who say "All sex is rape" or "If a man puts his penis in a woman's vagina it is rape no matter what," because chances are, thos…
/r/MensRights03/01/14 04:26 PM
11

He said non-college girls. If a girl starts her degree right out of high school, she'll be done when she's 22, which is a little young for Cougarville.
/r/MensRights03/01/14 04:23 PM
2

Yeah, it's pretty dumb. Honestly, it offends me more as a person who believes in logic and reasoning than it offends me as the bisexual daughter of a Jewish woman and disabled man. (I only bring up Judaism because saying "6 million people" can catch people off guard pretty quickly and show them how unreasonable they're being).
/r/MensRights02/01/14 08:12 PM
7

Nah, it's cool. I just think Hitler makes it into arguments a little too much, like in the case of what NOW did.
/r/MensRights02/01/14 07:16 PM
13

As a Jewish person, I find Hitler metaphors offensive. No, sorry, but 6 million of my people did not die just so you can bring the suffering of my people into this. As a person who likes logic and reasoning, I dislike the occasional MRA who says misogynistic things, and I especially dislike NOW using these few people (and some men who have nothing to do with the MRM) to make it look like the whole movement is like that, or just assuming that because men want custody of their children, that they …
/r/MensRights02/01/14 06:18 PM
3

People shouldn't be so closed-minded and just assume that a certain type of thinking has no merit.
/r/MensRights25/12/13 11:07 PM
0

Yeah, feminists are dumb and can't tell the difference between what is caused by a social ill and what it caused by biology.
/r/MensRights22/12/13 02:20 AM
1

You and I are smart and know the difference. Some people, however, are dumb and think one inevitably leads to another, even though there is no scientific proof (unless you count some very poor correlation-based studies).
/r/MensRights20/12/13 01:53 AM
1

The man-haters probably were raped. I have seen anecdotal proof of it. Would be interested if there is a way to get clinical proof. I have also seen extreme feminists who are happily married and have kids and don't realize their politics say one thing and their feelings say something else.
/r/MensRights19/12/13 03:03 AM
6

I grew up in a family with lots of feminists. This was among the most extreme (but not THE most extreme) things I've seen written in earnest.
/r/MensRights18/12/13 02:59 AM
23

As an ex-feminist who used to have PTSD, I believe one of the problems with feminism is that women think sexual assault is a "women's issue" (despite the fact that rape happens to men all the time) and so lots of women who have sexual trauma join the feminism movement. They can't (I couldn't) separate their world view from a more objective view on what it means to "rape" or "objectify" someone. So it just becomes demonization of males.
/r/MensRights18/12/13 02:56 AM
2

I didn't see anything about a blacklist, just some stupid coding to eliminate patriarchy. Maybe it's because I stopped reading that idiocy.
/r/MensRights16/12/13 02:38 AM
5

I am sorry for what you are going through.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 09:17 PM
2

Thank you for summing up my thoughts exactly!
/r/MensRights06/12/13 05:52 PM
1

But I did say men face problems. I said they face problems with getting male rape recognized as a problem (sentence 4 of my original comment on why I left feminism. I even hinted that I am blessed with female privilege), that they have problems getting an equal chance at being able to spend time with their kids when their wives may just expect them to make money (sentence 12), and that they can't even look lustily at women without being labeled as "objectifying" women, when I, a bisexual, can lo…
/r/MensRights04/12/13 05:50 PM
1

Actively looking is when I say that patriarchy exists in a few religious institutions but is not enough to explain all or most of the evils in society and you call me a misandrist.
/r/MensRights02/12/13 03:39 AM
1

I don't know what to tell you because you keep actively looking for problems in everything I write. I would like to tell you what I think matriarchy looks like and why it should be eliminated but I don't have time anymore to try to get you to stop actively looking for discrimination in everything I say.
/r/MensRights30/11/13 07:01 PM
2

How about if you commit violent or non-consensual activities you pay child support and never get to see your child, regardless of the gender of the perpetrator? And we set up laws so we can acknowledge that an erection is an involuntary response, and so yes, a man can get raped. This should improve the lives of men and the children they create. Statutory rape should depend on the situation, because some states don't have Romeo and Juliet laws.
/r/MensRights25/11/13 11:42 PM
1

I do not focus on this issue a lot. I think men's rights should be emphasized more than feminism right now, but I personally am more interested in other societal evils than gender issues (I'm kind of a foreign policy type of person), although this is something I am interested in. I don't know the best resources to find these things. I think the information you provided is still inconclusive. In a society where it is a norm for women to give up their career ambitions and for men to continue with …
/r/MensRights25/11/13 08:47 PM
1

I would like to clarify that I would like you to show me something that is statistically-based and not anecdotal. I have seen cases of women complaining anecdotally that they dislike having men expect them to sacrifice their careers (Hope Edelman's "The Myth of Co-Parenting" comes to mind). If you provide just anecdotal evidence, I will conclude that some women want men to take care of them and some women want men who respect their ambitions. If you send me something statistically-based, I will …
/r/MensRights25/11/13 04:03 AM
3

I like the point the author of this article is trying to make, but I don't like reading rants.
/r/MensRights25/11/13 03:54 AM
1

The study cited in the article that spawned this debate seemed pretty unbiased. I think you're being a little pessimistic.
/r/MensRights25/11/13 03:27 AM
1

Could you please send me links to articles?
/r/MensRights25/11/13 03:26 AM
3

Rape culture never really addresses how men are shamed and victimized by rape. It never exposes the fact that our culture says that men can't get raped, or that "men don't get raped, they get lucky." Rape culture only focuses on bad things that happen to women. Feminism doesn't address state custody laws that favor women. The laws are written with the assumption that a mother and child can only be victims of a violent father, and it doesn't address the issue of what happens if the mother is craz…
/r/MensRights24/11/13 01:53 AM
13

I think the reason why women don't run as often as men deserves more examination. Either way, quota systems are never the answer. In Latin American countries where quota systems are used, women often are recruited to parties because they are related to males. In their legislatures, they often vote along the party line, instead of voting in line with "women's issues." It actually leads to women in power being taken less seriously, because the stereotype is that legislative women are just puppets …
/r/MensRights24/11/13 01:35 AM
1

I think I meant to say "anachronistic patriarchal institutions" rather than "patriarchy." I don't think it deserves special treatment. If you will recall, the original subject I was talking about was why I left the feminism movement. And I also said that anachronistic patriarchal institutions aren't a full explanation for why there is gender inequality.
/r/MensRights23/11/13 12:32 AM
1

I believe patriarchy explains very, very few things in modern society. It explains why some places of worship allow for smaller roles for women (usually in terms of leadership) but MOST situations come from the fact that we as humans tend to categorize people and assign them different roles, which is often done unfairly. I think gender stereotyping explains way more of our problems than patriarchy does.
/r/MensRights20/11/13 11:56 PM
1

I think patriarchy explains none of what you described, hence I left feminism.
/r/MensRights20/11/13 11:39 PM
4

That would be a more accurate word.
/r/MensRights18/11/13 11:06 PM
16

When a girl has sex with a male teacher, she was taken advantage of. When a guy has sex with a female teacher, he "got lucky." Even if he's 14. It's men in this society who have to suffer living in a rape culture.
/r/MensRights18/11/13 08:54 PM
29

I want to use this information to help some people understand that women can lie about sexual abuse, but then I remembered that if I use court verdicts as evidence, they will just say that the teacher got off free because the jury is a part of our slut shaming "rape culture."
/r/MensRights18/11/13 06:39 PM
15

So we can create laws that limit the cultural information teenagers get because of some unproven claim that music videos somehow make men forget that women have feelings? Seeing things like this makes me glad I left the feminist movement a long time ago.
/r/MensRights16/11/13 11:49 PM
1

Please don't cuss me out. I understand the logic behind it and I understand that they have a business to run. What I don't like is that all the comments I read said that women are asking for special rights, but no one wanted to address the fact that this mutually reinforces a society where women have to give up career satisfaction and men are expected to stoically spend less time with their kids. Instead of saying hateful things about studies that raise this issue, we should be advocating for a …
/r/MensRights16/11/13 11:21 PM
1

I don't think the article was advocating for women to get equal pay for less work; it was advocating for employers to not assume that women will do less work just because they are mothers. Granted, it would be nice if it quoted a peer-reviewed study rather than the findings of a feminist-oriented think tank with the study that shows employers are biased against mothers and for fathers.
/r/MensRights16/11/13 02:27 AM
1

I interpreted this article as saying men should be able to force women to get abortions. Did I completely misread it?
/r/MensRights11/11/13 11:16 PM
1

In some states, you need written consent from the father (only if he is known).
/r/MensRights11/11/13 11:15 PM
1

What I disliked about the way "pro-choice" Democrats dealt with the healthcare debate is that they kept saying anti-abortion Republicans should vote for Democrats because yes, Democrats typically want to expand abortion rights but they also want to keep it safe, legal, and rare with social programs and Republicans actually increase the need for abortion by doing things like limiting health insurance options for people with pre-existing conditions. So then, when the health care debate came up and…
/r/MensRights11/11/13 07:36 PM
1

Yeah, but we shouldn't force someone to tear a child out of their womb against their will. And we should have laws that prevent mothers from destroying a baby without even notifying the fathers. Those are pretty invasive things too.
/r/MensRights11/11/13 02:50 PM
-3

Instead of advocating for men to force women to have abortions, we should advocate for more state laws that require consent from both parties before they get an abortion. I support abortion, but if my brother's girlfriend got pregnant and he pressured her into getting an abortion, I would never forgive him. And if she got pregnant and decided to get an abortion without telling him she was pregnant, I would never forgive her. I wouldn't allow it in my own family and I won't allow it in a civilize…
/r/MensRights10/11/13 04:51 AM
2

This is really, really sad. He must feel awful when he was only trying to be a good parent and some stupid judge wanted to interpret it as neglect.
/r/MensRights09/11/13 01:50 AM
2

I was serious. btw when I said, "Thank you for taking the time to show fellow mensrights subredditers that a lot of the behavior on this subreddit is unnacceptable," I didn't mean "show" in any sort of a confrontational way. A more specific synonym would be "explain." I think you have a point about it not being "a lof of the behavior." It was an accidental hyperbole on my part.
/r/MensRights05/11/13 02:39 AM
1

I tried teaching fukuaneveryoneuknow about basic tools of rhetoric. It didn't go very well.
/r/MensRights05/11/13 12:31 AM
5

I think this is the most hostile subreddit I have ever subscribed to. If the topic were not as interesting as it is, I would have unsubscribed within the first month of being on reddit. Thank you for taking the time to show fellow mensrights subredditers that a lot of the behavior on this subreddit is unacceptable.
/r/MensRights05/11/13 12:25 AM
2

Thank you so much for that comment!!!!!! You have brightened my day!!!!!!
/r/MensRights26/10/13 10:09 PM
14

I think there are quite a few posters/commenters on the mensrights subreddit who need to learn to be less confrontational and deliberate when they comment. There is a lot of namecalling and cyberbullying on this subreddit whenever I agree with an OP's post, but not for the exact reasons stated (or that a commenter believes). The result is a lot of exchanges of unpleasantries rather than real dialogue/convincing.
/r/MensRights26/10/13 02:00 AM
1

Do you think it is common for women to get PTSD-like symptoms? Is there any anecdotal evidence or statistics you could direct me to?
/r/MensRights24/10/13 04:17 AM
1

Why do you feel other women had ten times more rape hysteria than you?
/r/MensRights24/10/13 12:33 AM
0

This would have been a constructive response that would have clarified some misinterpretations I made, that definitely should have been toward the beginning and not the end. If you would like people to get at things and not just be annoying, I would recommend being less confrontational and using more constructive responses.
/r/MensRights23/10/13 01:34 AM
1

The article is not enough. The only thing that would be enough for me to say whether your fears deserved the same poignant language or not is for me to be you, and physics prevents that. Still, from what you described, it seemed like a very strong fear nonetheless and I am sorry you had to go through it.
/r/MensRights23/10/13 01:31 AM
1

Perhaps I didn't articulate myself very well because I basically meant what you said.
/r/MensRights23/10/13 01:28 AM
0

Granted, it is a powerful tool and like all powerful tools, it can be abused sometimes, but that doesn't mean it's always wrong. There is a difference between trying to draw in perspective and trying to be manipulative.
/r/MensRights22/10/13 01:47 AM
0

It's about gathering perspective, bringing in more facts. Showing that there is more than 2 sides to a multi-sided issue. On the contrary, saying that only fukuaneveryoneuknow is the only person who can decide how issues are framed is dishonest, because you are not the only person who gets to decide how truth is measured.
/r/MensRights22/10/13 01:45 AM
0

I mentioned that the men on this subreddit complain that if men work (on average) more hours than women, that means they spend more time with their children. You have not stated whether that is a legitimate complaint or whether it is first world whining. Could you give me your opinion on it?
/r/MensRights22/10/13 01:38 AM
1

Most people consider reframing arguments the best way to make your point while simultaneously addressing the other side's point. Have you ever taken a class in speech or rhetoric? There are also some books on the subject. George Lakoff is famous for writing about this topic. You should read up on it. It seems that your belligerent style and excessive cussing is meant to offend rather than engage. I don't think you understand how debating really works.
/r/MensRights22/10/13 01:33 AM
0

It makes perfect sense in the context of this conversation because the topic is who does and does not have the right to say they are an oppressed group. How is that off-topic?
/r/MensRights22/10/13 01:20 AM
0

You say middle class women have no place to feel marginalized because they do not live in the third world. You are wealthy enough to have access to a computer that has Internet. I can reasonably assume that you are not a part of the third world. Therefore, you should not subscribe or validate subreddits that are about the rights of people in the first world, be it male or female.
/r/MensRights22/10/13 01:19 AM
0

So you're going to unsubscribe from mensrights because you're at least lucky enough to have access to a computer, right?
/r/MensRights22/10/13 01:10 AM
-3

Let me disagree with you with facts (which are often posted on this subreddit). Statistically, women spend more time at home and men spend more time at work. This means women have less time to work on their careers and men have less time to spend with their kids. Instead of saying middle class women are not being oppressed (because they're middle class), you should be saying they are somewhat oppressed and their middle class husbands are somewhat oppressed, but just in different ways. Let's plea…
/r/MensRights22/10/13 12:59 AM
14

Like Elly Tams, I too am a former feminist, current gender equalist. I couldn't take it anymore because my feminist aunt said the most slut shaming things. For instance, she bragged that when my cousin turned 16 and started wearing makeup that she told her, "You can do whatever you want with your body but I want you to know that you look like a Puerto Rican slut." As someone who has had to deal with sexual assault in ways that a lot of feminists have not, I would say that the people who belong t…
/r/MensRights22/10/13 12:53 AM
1

I grew up with an aunt who is a little crazy about these things and told me weird stuff like, "Don't put your hair over your face (as mosquito netting, while we were walking over a bog) because you look like you're shy and some man will see you and rape you." (She probably has PTSD from being abused by a neighbor as a kid and having dealt with domestic violence). I also was physically abused by an older male at the same age. It got compounded when I was a teenager and my parents told me they thi…
/r/MensRights21/10/13 10:47 PM
1

My understanding of the clinical/counseling field of psychology is that PTSD is considered more complex than other phobias and is not treated as easily. I guess we're kind of saying the same thing.
/r/MensRights21/10/13 03:14 AM
1

I was being genuine. I hope you don't think I was being sarcastic.
/r/MensRights20/10/13 02:15 AM
1

No, I think I misunderstood. That's what I tried to say this most recent time.
/r/MensRights19/10/13 10:45 PM
1

Could you please explain what you meant when you said, "The long term effects of rape are similar to the long term effects of living in a culture of rape hysteria"?
/r/MensRights19/10/13 03:25 AM
1

I would agree that the long term effects of rape are similar to the long term effects of living in a culture of rape hysteria, in terms of the cases you sent me. But I disagree with what you said in the article, about how women being told about rape in excessively dramatic ways is as bad as women actually being raped. There is fear in both of them, but I would prefer the irrational fear to the PTSD-type fear (which I had).
/r/MensRights19/10/13 02:25 AM
1

I would also like to point out that rape can lead to suicide. I know this because when I was a teenager, I had PTSD and wanted to kill myself to make it stop. One of the reasons I became interested in men's rights is because I know that men not only have to deal with the feelings I had, but society telling them that they can't be raped, and that must be really invalidating.
/r/MensRights19/10/13 12:21 AM
1

By your logic, isn't she trivializing the mobs and lynchings by saying she is a survivor because she endured not any lynchings and vigilante mobs, but this? "For the woman on the street, rape hysteria is shoved down her throat over and over till she vomits it up without thinking, all over herself and her life. It seeps into every interaction, every step she takes into the outer world. ‘Is this man going to rape me? All men are guilty! I’m never safe and it’s their fault!’ That’s where rape hyste…
/r/MensRights19/10/13 12:19 AM
1

Thank you for being one of the few people who responded to me without being belligerent. I would find her metaphor better if this situation related to her almost dying in some way (be it suicide or her having been falsely accused of rape and having been attacked by a vigilante), but the most dramatic thing she cited was that she was a little traumatized by false statistics. I think you made an excellent point that rape hysteria can create victims and survivors, but it does not apply in this case…
/r/MensRights19/10/13 12:15 AM
1

Also, where does Alison's story of rape survival specifically mention a time when she was threatened by rape?
/r/MensRights19/10/13 12:12 AM
1

I'm confused.
/r/MensRights19/10/13 12:11 AM
1

False rape accusations also trivializes rape, so let's not trivialize rape by falsely accusing men of rape, or having some woman who has not been assaulted as a result of rape hysteria call herself a survivor.
/r/MensRights19/10/13 12:05 AM
1

It can lead to suicide.
/r/MensRights19/10/13 12:03 AM
-1

I agree with all the talking points, but I disagree with "My name is Alison and I am a survivor of rape hysteria" as the framework for this essay because it trivializes rape, all rapes, of any gender, to suggest that "rape hysteria" needs survivors like actual rape does. I know it's meant to be ironic, but it isn't ironic. It's just offensive. Once again, glad about every single last one of the talking points, not so happy about that particular line.
/r/MensRights18/10/13 02:09 AM
2

Oh. Sorry.
/r/MensRights15/10/13 03:07 AM
4

That's where the "until they earn disrespect" part comes in.
/r/MensRights14/10/13 04:55 AM
2

Everyone deserves respect for being a human.
/r/MensRights14/10/13 04:54 AM
2

Saying that having a female majority of college dropouts is success while deliberately ignoring self-esteem doesn't even tell the complete story. We don't graduate college for the sake of completing a task; we graduate college to have a good life, and it's hard to have a good life if you have low self-esteem. That being said, I would agree that this was kind of a derpy article. You can't just say hookup culture hurts women's self-esteem more than men's without backing it up with statistics. Ther…
/r/MensRights07/10/13 03:41 AM
18

This is a better depiction of Facebook's double standards than something that was up on mensrights a week or two ago that said (without any anti-woman groups as a control group) that groups that had names that were something to the effect of "Boys are stupid," which were probably more battle of the sexes than hate groups, weren't being removed. Talking about castration of males is wrong and promotes violence against men. I am glad you took the time to show that Facebook really does have double s…
/r/MensRights30/09/13 02:33 PM
1

I'm not sure these groups sound like hate groups. If they're battle of the sexes, that's not hate groups. It's dumb humor. I don't think anyone (except annoying feminists who actively choose to take things the wrong way) would call "Women are Evil" or "All Women are Annoying" to be the names of hate groups.
/r/MensRights26/09/13 02:03 AM
2

I suppose I read into her statement more than I should have. I guess I believe so much in consent, that I looked the lyrics up with an image in my head of 2 people who had previously discussed what they like. (In a context of consenting adults who talk about what they like, "I know you want it," is dirty talk.) Of course, I have had annoying guys try to tell me they know I want to have sex with them and my objections do nothing to them, but it's different when you hear it on the street instead o…
/r/MensRights23/09/13 06:40 PM
1

I don't care what it sounds like to any individual. The point is that no one gets a monopoly on what it means.
/r/MensRights23/09/13 02:26 PM
8

Because it only accounts for one-night stands and not for men who are in a monogamous relationship with a woman he thinks he can trust.
/r/MensRights23/09/13 01:03 AM
5

"The song of the summer? 'Blurred Lines,' with lyrics featuring coercive language recognizable to anyone who’s faced unwanted sexual advances." I'm a woman. I've dealt with a lot of unwanted sexual advances. I still believe that any poem (or song) uses metaphors in a way that is ambiguous. The fact that I've dealt unwanted sexual advances does not mean I have a monopoly over interpreting art.
/r/MensRights22/09/13 11:40 PM
1

You got me there.
/r/MensRights21/09/13 09:58 PM
2

The thing with this subreddit that irritates me though is that all of the comments (and all, not most) that come from people who purposefully distort my views and claim I said something I did not say just because they don't agree with my position come from this subreddit. I think the difference between this subreddit and others is that on other subreddits that discuss contentious issues, they have pretty basic rules about respect like a no name-calling policy. Here, they just say "no doxxing wil…
/r/MensRights20/09/13 10:58 PM
2

I had a guy friend (heterosexual male) who was trying to hook up with me freak out on me for sitting with my legs sprawled out on his couch. He said I looked too manly. I asked him if I needed to cross my legs and he said no. I just kind of laughed and didn't bring up patriarchy or male privilege.
/r/MensRights19/09/13 01:29 AM
0

I still would like to see the evidence that I said definitively that she was molested. Could you please tell me where my wording was ambiguous? If you cannot, a polite thing to do in this situation is to say, "You're right. I read into what you wrote more than was necessary. I am really sorry I made an inflammatory comment." It's a nicer thing to do than to blame these unpleasantries on me.
/r/MensRights18/09/13 05:25 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/MensRights18/09/13 03:02 AM
0

I never said she "must" have been molested. I said she "might" have been molested. Lest anyone not understand my word choice, I then proceeded, "Whether she has or has not...." I really made an effort to show that I did not make any assumptions about her. The only person who made assumptions was you making an assumption that I was making an assumption.
/r/MensRights18/09/13 02:37 AM
1

I'm not going to lie. I kinda skimmed through the first half. I was more interested in the study where it showed that men use actions to describe what a man is, rather than adjectives.
/r/MensRights18/09/13 02:30 AM
2

She might have been molested as a kid by a teacher. Whether she has or has not, she should devote her life to working for organizations run by people who can deal with this issue with less emotion. She might actually put her passion to good use that way. But definitely on the taking orders side rather than giving them.
/r/MensRights16/09/13 05:11 PM
1

Could you please elaborate in your own words?
/r/MensRights08/09/13 01:20 AM
1

Elaborate.
/r/MensRights06/09/13 03:46 PM
1

What purpose do they serve in a modern context?
/r/MensRights04/09/13 08:34 PM
1

It says 2012 on it. I don't think that's ancient. I also don't see how using med student data, which predicts future students should be used to explain the current wage gap. Also, speaking of med school, women are lagging in being in leadership roles in medical academia.
/r/MensRights04/09/13 03:12 AM
1

429,000 male physicians/surgeons and 226,000 female doctors/surgeons. (Source: http://www.bls.gov/cps/cpsaat39.htm) Now that I answered your question, answer mine: Where did I say that men shouldn't be encouraged to be nurses and that people should be paid for time they spend with their families?
/r/MensRights03/09/13 11:20 PM
1

I never said men can't or shouldn't be encouraged to be nurses. I find no problem with it. I also didn't say employers should have to pay people for time they spend with their families. I just said the statistics MAY point to the possibility that women are encouraged to take less demanding jobs at the expense of their careers and men are encouraged to take more demanding jobs at the expense of their families. If you had actually read my response appropriately instead of actively choosing to read…
/r/MensRights02/09/13 02:04 AM
1

My uncle has a beard. At least my aunt is consistent.
/r/MensRights02/09/13 02:00 AM
1

I upvoted because of the title you gave this.
/r/MensRights02/09/13 01:00 AM
7

I grew up in a feminist family where 2 of my aunts told me stupid radical bullshit like that shaving my legs contributes to our pedophelic culture. I think plenty of the arguments feminists make are dumb. But the arguments they make about quite a few things relating to the gender gap make sense. Feminists I know often argue (as is mentioned in the article) that women work less hours than men. This should offend both men and women because it means the traditional family, where women put aside the…
/r/MensRights31/08/13 03:58 AM
1

I find it suspicious that this little sour puss girl says that contradicting or laughing at her agenda is patriarchy. I think she doesn't realize that she doesn't believe in feminism so much as she believes she feels safest in a delusional world where she can't be proven to ever be wrong in any situation.
/r/MensRights26/08/13 03:53 PM
2

People on both sides were being dumb. Although AndyAndrophile makes a good point.
/r/MensRights25/08/13 03:37 AM
2

I don't think having the condom be "uninvented" should discourage trusting couples to have the man take the pill.
/r/MensRights07/08/13 08:29 PM
1

Yes, but that still doesn't give b_kraken the right to make this into something it isn't.
/r/MensRights02/08/13 11:04 PM
1

That's a good point, but I'm challenging the assertion b_kraken is trying to make, which is that Verizon is trying to say that domestic violence only happens to women. It says in some parts of its domestic violence campaign that domestic violence is committed against 1 in every 7 males. (Read here: http://responsibility.verizon.com/domestic-violence-prevention). I'm not saying that some people don't have the right to find that particular ad offensive, but I am saying that that ad should not come…
/r/MensRights02/08/13 02:40 PM
-4

I don't recall any parents in my community actually trying to tell pre-school girls to avoid boys. I've never heard of parents in any other community trying to do that. It's a dumb joke and is always presented that way. I think the author was trying to look at the issue evenhandedly but when she wrote, "For the women with male partners that are reading, when is the last time you held the door open for your mate? Opened his car door? Paid for a meal or done something kind for him without expectin…
/r/MensRights02/08/13 02:25 PM
1

Apparently having a picture of only females is the exact same thing as saying domestic violence only happens to women. Or maybe Verizon isn't endorsing that idea so much as not actively trying to dispel the stereotype.
/r/MensRights01/08/13 09:41 PM
4

Also, call the local newspaper.
/r/MensRights13/07/13 08:29 PM
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