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| 3 | Shutting girls down in conversation? | its_all_perspective | /r/seduction | 25/03/16 05:07 PM |
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| 6 | Going out tonightGET OFF REDDIT | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 05:20 AM |
| 6 | How much does (good) first sex affect a woman's attraction for you?Yes that is what people often say but in my experience it's not concrete. In my opinion it really has more to do with your connection. Some connections are made in days or weeks but haven't you ever met a girl that everything just seemed effortless? That felt like you two could share everything yet you've only known her a short time? That's the kind of connection that can result in amazing sex no matter how long you've know her. I'll add more on the second paragraph in a little bit. I'm in a rev… | /r/seduction | 10/11/16 09:32 PM |
| 32 | How much does (good) first sex affect a woman's attraction for you?I've been with 35 women give or take a few ranging from 18-40. Virgins and non. I can tell you there's no right answer. Preferences vary far too much from girl to girl. I know I fuck great but that's not everything. I've had girls say that sex with me is fun and I always make them feel good about themselves. However, two of those girls (who I was dating) also said that it just didn't really feel romantic. On the flip side I've been told by others that I make great eye contact and it's really rom… | /r/seduction | 10/11/16 09:04 PM |
| 216 | "We're not having sex tonight."My favorite is "I'm not looking for a one night stand." To which I reply "Do I really seem like that kinda guy?" With a smile on my face. It almost always ends up in a one night stand... I'm that kinda guy | /r/seduction | 27/10/16 06:14 PM |
| 5 | How do you pick up older women?Lot of good answers here but I'll put in my .02 anyways. I have a fair bit of experience with late 20's to early 30's women and I'm 23. I started chasing them at 21. Here are the big things that I've learned. 1) Age: Avoid it at all costs. Don't bring it up and if they do then brush it off and make a joke about it. Most of the women I slept with wrongly assumed I was around 25 and I let them believe it. 25 to 30 is a way easier bridge to cross than 21 to 30. 2) Dress: Know your audience and dres… | /r/seduction | 08/09/16 07:34 PM |
| 1 | would like some feedback on my appearance/r/rateme | /r/seduction | 15/05/16 10:47 PM |
| 2 | What type of things so I need to say to make a girl attracted to me?It sounds like you need to work on making your intentions clear and get better at escalating. Both are widely covered here just search around. How often you should text varies from girl to girl. Topics to avoid include ex's, other girls you're interested in, and guys she's interested in. I've found that those land your ass in the friend zone real quick. | /r/seduction | 11/04/16 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Shutting girls down in conversation?Pretty much spot on why I didn't think it was a simple shit test. I take it as an actual critique of my communication skills. | /r/seduction | 25/03/16 06:19 PM |
| 5 | Daygame is the future of pickupIt's also the past. I think everyone can agree that success rates are much higher for day game than night. And what do you think people did during the day before the internet? Day game has always been where it's at. | /r/seduction | 26/12/15 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Hey Seddit, what would you suggest for practicing game at college on a daily basis?Say hello and just talk to them? | /r/seduction | 19/11/15 02:43 AM |
| 1 | What is your take on taking a liking for a flatmate at uni?Roommates are best to befriend and not fuck. I've never seen something good come out of hooking up with a roommate. My friend did it a few months ago, girl expected a relationship and shit got weird when it didn't go that way. She ended up moving out and breaking her lease and the landlord blamed my buddy for it and it just an all around bad situation. | /r/seduction | 20/10/15 08:26 PM |
| 0 | Sedditor Locator 2015Utah | /r/seduction | 01/10/15 02:03 AM |
| 3 | How to go for a kiss when the girl has a boyfriend? How to initiate when, me and her are having dinner And a few drinks.Don't chase girls with boyfriends. I've been there and it never ended well. Karma is a bitch | /r/seduction | 12/09/15 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Salt Lake City.. ASSEMBLE!What are your go to places in SLC? | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 08:00 PM |
| 6 | Anyone from Germany? How do you pick up German girls? They seem very conservative and hard to talk to.Step 1: Rent a car Step 2: Drive to Prague | /r/seduction | 10/06/15 05:43 AM |
| 0 | Need motivationI get drunk and approach the first girl I see, any hesitation marks you as that lone guy | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Flirting with older ladies?Sure, I'm almost done with a mechanical engineering degree (they eat that shit up) and I have worked for many startups as a freelance designer. I've also done 2 startups on my own and those didn't pan out but they love the fact I went out and tried to do something I love. Some things I've designed are 3d printers, medical devices, ecigs, and sunglasses. I've been passionate about every single project and I convey that when telling them about it. Right now I have an internship with an aerospace c… | /r/seduction | 16/03/15 08:04 PM |
| 6 | Flirting with older ladies?This is a pretty hit or miss situation in my experience. I've been with numerous women between 30-40 in the past year (21 now) and I've learned that confidence is key. First, they all thought I was 24 since I can grow a beard which helps because they didn't think of me as innocent, just young. I have a lot of things going on in my life that shows ambition and honestly I would talk a lot about myself in a borderline cocky way. They loved it. Hearing a young guy talk about having his shit together… | /r/seduction | 16/03/15 06:41 PM |
| 1 | When I initiate girls, don't even notice meI wish I could help more but I honestly don't try to pick girls up at club anymore. I'm a conversationalist and bars without blaring music is my sweet spot. Once I know a girl, then I take her to a club. Maybe try a change in venue? | /r/seduction | 10/01/15 03:08 AM |
| 2 | When I initiate girls, don't even notice meDo you just come out of nowhere and make physical contact? Because that's a sure way for them to throw up their guard. I've never initiated a conversation with a shoulder pat. My go to is making eye contact, even if it's brief, and smiling for a second. Then they're aware of me and I'll continue talking to my friends for a minute before I walk up. Also, picking girls up in a loud ass club sucks. | /r/seduction | 10/01/15 02:59 AM |
| 1 | The only girls that crush in me are always younger than me.It sounds like you are taking the "innocent" comments to heart. I'm 21 and my largest age gap was with a 36 year old. Now I also pass as 24 pretty consistently but that's still a hell of an age gap. I chase older women pretty consistently and I do it by being assertive and confident. Just an example, but they often bring up my plan in life so I tell them and come off as ambitious. This one basically told me I would fail and to just wait till I hit 30 but I didn't take that. I shot it the fuck do… | /r/seduction | 10/01/15 02:54 AM |
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