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took me over a decade to realize that, the comfort of being yourself, genuinely being yourself and believing and trusting that what comes out of your mouth is not nonsense but genuine and people hear that, that alone is liberating.
/r/seduction02/09/22 03:33 AM
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He just saved the links in order to post them
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:28 AM
4

Did you just up and down me?! Stop eye fucking me it’s never gonna happen
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:26 AM
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Not doing anything is the biggest regret, go in there expecting to be rejected and you’ll be pleasantly surprised. Be like hey, I bet you’re gonna say you have a boyfriend or something. She be like nah I’m married bye son! And you’ll walk away knowing that you at least tried. No regrets
/r/seduction13/08/22 05:18 AM
5

“She’s rubbing her genitals against mine, do you think she’s into me?”
/r/seduction26/07/22 12:06 AM
1

what guy would do that?
/r/seduction15/07/22 11:35 AM
7

Some also see it as a challenge and a way to play a player, they both fuck and then.. well they both think they played the other. Some are just oddballs
/r/seduction04/07/22 12:14 AM
1

My roommate would describe it usually as lack of sexual energy. Those are her words not mine but what it taught me is that women love that edge, if a man is too safe and easy he comes across as boring. Hence “not feeling it”. There was a good quote in a movie I’ve seen back in the day The Tao of Steve ( may have to rewatch tnight) but he says women are like cats, they want to chase and hunt a rabbit that’s constantly hopping and not a dead prey.
/r/seduction07/06/22 11:29 PM
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The best advice I can give you is read the book “the Subtle art of not giving a fuck” after reading it I slowly started noticing that I do not need validation from others to be happy. You have to find your own inner voice that validates your self worth. You’re also very young, so the sooner you realize that everyone else feels judged and insecure, and that their judgment is just projection of their personal insecurities. The more powerful you will be.
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:00 AM
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older women know how to give compliments, younger women get complimented so anything appearing as a small positive from them, makes them seem easy. Confidence, as well as a guard to not be taken advantage of.
/r/seduction22/05/22 09:50 AM
3

Big arms aren’t a personality trait :) They may be a piece of the puzzle though, depends on what you’re looking for
/r/seduction24/04/22 10:08 PM
1

Yea it makes it sound like if throw food in the bucket the crabs will toss it out or something. I like your escape analogy better. But it’s not a mentality just clumsiness
/r/seduction01/04/22 05:25 PM
3

What’s the crab bucket theory
/r/seduction31/03/22 11:40 PM
6

This, sometime I look at an attractive woman and the way she carries her self and think to my self: I wonder what she’s really good at, like hobby wise whether it’s singing, painting whatever it is that puts her in the zone
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:53 AM
21

Mountain biking
/r/seduction20/03/22 03:59 AM
1

I read dancing advice and started reading, then I realized I should re-read the title
/r/seduction26/02/22 03:56 AM
5

They crave attention, some have found that even negative attention is attention so they feed off whatever they can get. Some have been conditioned to mostly get the negative one and so… here we are
/r/seduction11/02/22 04:29 AM
1

What I keep hearing my female roommate repeating every time we go out is that she keeps pointing out how polished someone looks. And how if this dude ‘cleaned up’ he’d be a 10. No shame in taking points from queer eye for the straight guy series either
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:18 PM
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Just get a nice haircut don’t go cheap on it, and some simple clothes that fit and feel good, stick with black/white/gray colors and build on that with a few colors as accents that shit goes a long way. Hitting the gym helps with energy and feeling good, but clothes make you look good
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:29 AM
1

I find that squeezing my self into a billiards game work wonders in meeting people, sometimes girls want to get in on it and you can partner up
/r/seduction19/01/22 07:49 AM
3

Try sucking on her clit not just licking
/r/seduction17/01/22 02:12 AM
1

“Nice” is safe, safe is boring, women are like cats if it’s dead they won’t chase it. What they’re saying it’s missing oomph, some spice, some role play some challenge, emotion. Daily flirting/teasing
/r/seduction01/01/22 02:47 AM
2

You would look great above my fireplace
/r/seduction16/12/21 09:34 PM
7

I told a girl that her actions made me feel a certain kind of terrible, she flipped the fuck out at me and ridiculed as if I, as a man, was not allowed to have boundaries.
/r/seduction13/12/21 03:34 AM
12

Also there's no need to force vibe, if there is none then you need to learn to cut your loses. Some people vibe and some people don't, you wouldn't want to be friends with someone who you don't vibe with why force yourself or someone else to be intimate with you if the rhythm is off
/r/seduction27/11/21 10:43 AM
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Tomorrow’s not a good time she’ll be at my place
/r/seduction10/11/21 01:44 AM
1

Beat you can be is take a step back and stop being needy, basically take it or leave it attitude. And if she says she want to hang out say you’re busy but willing to reschedule. If you’re the only one initiating, then it’s a lost cause.
/r/seduction08/09/21 02:59 AM
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Lol first link I clicked was 15% off - $400 boots, I think that subs definition of frugal is off
/r/seduction05/09/21 01:44 AM
3

Punky is edgy though, if you rocked that shit well I’m not surprised. I live in a town where baggy shirts hoodies and flip flops are a thing, everyone looks comfy and safe, that’s not a very good look. Doesn’t have an edge..
/r/seduction05/09/21 01:41 AM
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I check out James Franco’s shit, he looks good while looking like he ain’t trying. His wardrobe is simple sharp, yet has an edge. Constantly on the look out for similar style if anyone has input
/r/seduction05/09/21 01:39 AM
2

Bud if you think calling someone a liberal is an insult, it says a lot about you. Also why would I be triggered? Im just amazed at the words your brain put together.
/r/seduction28/08/21 06:23 AM
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Just wow
/r/seduction28/08/21 04:38 AM
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There are exceptions to everything, if you're finding a reason to not read the whole post then you didnt want to read it in the first place.
/r/seduction28/08/21 03:54 AM
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As someone living in beach town there are plenty of women that go to the beach alone to lets say read a book or just bathe. Now I tried a quickie once where I only brought a towel for a dip and run. So I asked a girl to watch it for me and her tone was one of off put. I didnt even linger just threw it near by and ran in the water with joy. Then wiped off and left by saying enthusiastic thanks!
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:58 AM
1

theres a groupon in my hood for teeth whitening and cleaning for under $50, crooked teeth add character, my teeth aint straight and off white, but they're clean and my breath is freshh. I own this shit.
/r/seduction08/07/21 05:24 AM
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That is some mega chad shit. Its like you didnt have to do anything just be. Aside from that, congrats!
/r/seduction05/07/21 01:08 AM
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It was a good joke, relatable and situational, why so bitter? Look whatever gives these guys confidence in just interacting is a big plus, Im here to give advice, and frankly sounds like you could use some.. Lift people up, dont put them down :)
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:45 AM
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It was a good joke, relatable and situational, why so bitter? Look whatever gives these guys confidence in just interacting is a big plus, Im here to give advice, and frankly sounds like you could use some.. Lift people up, dont put them down :)
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:45 AM
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Turns legs away from this comment. Subtly.
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:31 AM
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Id being something to throw in the oven. Itll come out fresh, maybe something frozen like pizza bagels
/r/seduction02/07/21 02:45 AM
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Granted, what you said makes sense, I have also pondered the fact that some women have been afraid to take risks because of many failed romances they've experienced in the past. Though it's not necessarily a bad thing. If a woman, has been making the same mistakes over and over that is on her and those can be spotted, but if she has made mistakes to find out what she's looking for ad was able to learn from them, she may turn out to be a keeper. The one's that learn from their mistakes have a cer…
/r/seduction25/06/21 10:55 AM
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Assuming you are a woman, and you're asking because you're self conscious about sharing your number if the question ever comes up. you wouldn't be asking this question if you're over 30 you're asking this question because you're worried that you may come across as a slut you found a partner that you believe is the one, but you've tasted flavors, and the guy you're with hasn't and that makes him feel inadequate. a) if that is the type of guy you like, it's really important to understand that you …
/r/seduction25/06/21 09:26 AM
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yea when the other person is 18 it raises red flags. But otherwise 25 and up .. are you serious?
/r/seduction25/06/21 09:16 AM
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I aint gay but $20 is $20
/r/seduction18/06/21 05:27 AM
2

In conclusion attraction is a package, a combination of positive traits. You may not have that tall, chiseled chin with good hair look. But you also don't want to be with a woman that is seeking only that.
/r/seduction21/05/21 07:41 AM
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Jelousy is seen as a red flag and basically tells her that you come with baggage and will be emotionally high maintenance. But for her to test you so blatantly is toxic on her part
/r/seduction11/05/21 12:53 AM
133

Are we in highschool?
/r/seduction11/05/21 12:51 AM
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I do agree that if youre dating someone this kind of talk is genuinely a red flag and immature. Its not exactly healthy how old are we talking?
/r/seduction11/05/21 12:49 AM
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Keep your chin up and when eye contact is made nod your head a little. That could give you a clue if shes open to talking.
/r/seduction26/04/21 11:15 PM
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If I dont have my mask on and she doesnt break eye contact I usually just stick my tongue outand widen my eyes usually gets a giggle. Tip dont leave your tongue out too long thats weird
/r/seduction18/04/21 04:23 AM
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I think I speak for all in this sub when I say, well played bud!
/r/seduction04/04/21 07:48 AM
5

panty dropper right there /s
/r/seduction12/12/20 10:00 AM
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Maybe she doesnt want to get out of the car cause you parked in the wrong neighborhood
/r/seduction06/12/20 06:56 PM
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I wouldn't downplay the percentages too much, but I will agree that being smart about socializing and spotting the danger zones and avoiding them and not increasing risks by staying back is good practice, you wearing a mask bonus points, your buddy(?) on the right, not cool.
/r/seduction19/11/20 02:08 AM
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Agreed, I'm mostly adding to the conversation of training and getting comfortable with the mask on and using eyes to communicate, not your mouth/smile, in a more relaxed environment
/r/seduction18/11/20 09:26 PM
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This is a good time to learn to flirt with just eye contact, a confident eye contact a little head nod and pronounced greeting even to a barista, store clerks goes a long way. My favorite is every store now has 1-2 people checking entrances usually girls, so just walk in like you own the place, mask on strong eye contact pleasant strong and pronounce "hey, how's it going?" greeting back it does wonders. The other day I did that walking in and walking out almost every cashier said good-bye to me …
/r/seduction18/11/20 07:40 PM
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Just be aware when she's uncomfortable and learn to read when to let her go. Consent is not just physical.
/r/seduction18/11/20 07:38 PM
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Also I would avoid calling it rejection or a loss its all a learning experience, every interaction is temporary
/r/seduction02/11/20 03:59 AM
1

Where I live I have a few quality ones but you really dont need many people just good ones. One I can talk to about hardships, one thats dependable for travel, one thats good for coffee dates to meet new women, one who lives next to a damn good burger joint and his doors are always open to me. Stick to quality not quantity. Youll usually notice whos good at what and if that fits your lifestyle be kind to them and theyll make time for you when you text them.
/r/seduction31/10/20 08:59 PM
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I think youre mistaking his charisma being able to push the envelope a bit further. If he was less charismatic he would portray the same qualities in a way that suited his image. A guy that looks differently would do things differently but can follow the same principles. Like I wouldnt be able to deliver Brad Pitts speeches in fightclub the same way but I would be able to get the point across in my fashion.
/r/seduction20/10/20 05:36 PM
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I was such a bitch and now it shows. It would have been awesome to have a father figure that showed me the ropes early on. I envy the families where a father would spit game at their mom here and there.
/r/seduction11/10/20 02:54 AM
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Not trying to compete with OP Though one of my best interactions was a girl and her mom in a hotel bar. I opened her mom and she introduced me to her daughter. You win the parent with confidence and stability and you're in. And the best part is, the parent isn't even phased they're glad to be part of the conversation, if it's a pleasant one as opposed to a predator catching their 'young' behind their back.
/r/seduction22/09/20 05:53 AM
4

Must be nice to be a super cute guy.
/r/seduction14/09/20 07:04 AM
1

Hi
/r/seduction25/08/20 09:36 PM
2

Well cocaine is highly popular here so not far from a mixture of drunk meat head meth heads.
/r/seduction07/08/20 03:22 PM
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I live in a Bro-ey beach town full of frat boys and marines. I can attest these sexually deprived drunk meatheads are ultra trigger happy
/r/seduction07/08/20 08:44 AM
2

Sounds like you need to stop wearing hoodies and be comfortable with your hands just hanging and or being active.
/r/seduction01/08/20 06:46 PM
0

And if you can make non judgmental observations of your surroundings they'll feel so much more comfortable in your presence, as opposed to subtly criticizing and sizing things up. Its such a toxic mindset. Granted I take micro size edible everytime I go out so its easier to take them along for my ride, its always a good time. (You hear a frog) what is that sound?! Oh that the lake monster, stay behind me Ill protect you. At the end of sound, I saved your life, you owe me big time.
/r/seduction23/07/20 05:43 AM
3

I feel like that line translates to 2 things. "Youre coming off too strong" or "youre coming off too needy" theres shouldnt be a reason for her to say that. I admit Im on the receiving end of it many times and after processing the situation those are the 2 conclusions I come to. More often than not... Every situation is unique and there are instances when the boyfriend line is warranted for sure.
/r/seduction21/07/20 09:28 PM
4

What she was just testing the waters. Sometime you dont know until youre married with children. Thats what you can be at least 70% sure shes into you
/r/seduction20/07/20 06:19 PM
1

But most importantly find the right size, like pants I would always buy one size too large, then I tried a pair of jeans that fit like a fucking glove and never looked back. Also a nice fitting jacket instead of a hoodie makes a ton of difference. And yes when choosing something and theres a chica next to you, ask "hey.. what do you think yay or nay?" And put it up to your chest or whatever..
/r/seduction19/07/20 12:21 AM
3

This, when something feels and looks good its soo good.
/r/seduction19/07/20 12:18 AM
2

Just imagine it your buddy walking down the street or someone you met through a friend. Like "hey I recognize you but not really, whats up?" Or hey have we met? I dont think so, maybe we should. Im dopename
/r/seduction26/06/20 01:04 AM
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smooth
/r/seduction21/06/20 02:16 AM
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You'd just have to be more careful and creative with approaches these folks learning by numbers tend to be very awkward, i had the pleasure of seeing them out and about 'learning' aproches on my then girlfriend it was hilarious. Awkward body language, approach from behind, muffled uncertain speech patterns, uneasy eyecontact. Yea then you look like a creep. But I saluted them for trying.
/r/seduction13/06/20 11:26 PM
8

If it's bullshit what comes out of your mouth, you're a joke.
/r/seduction17/05/20 04:29 PM
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Female targeted ads with male characters
/r/seduction10/05/20 07:47 AM
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