Thanks for reply 🙏 When most couples started dating they were closer in terms of money and status though, as most started dating during university or soon after the graduation. I think this is the key point in your social circle. If , for example, these men had started dating a couple of years after graduation some of them would have really hard time just like i described. But after all it depends on social circle.
If you need to convince her, Most men need to convince her in one way or another. Friday night with mom and dad should be boring enough for a girl to just want to go out and have some fun with you. If you are fun. She is never truly alone or single. This is for older generations. Cultural norms have changed drastically.
A man in bottom 80% of Attractiveness has to convince a woman ( no matter if she's hot, average or unattractive ) he is worthy of her time like she is a CEO or a surgeon or prime minister with zero time. ( And even then she'll act distant and shit after third date because chad shows up ). https://preview.redd.it/pz5a7vx6ve4d1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2a0cc317e9cb4e1d8a64e044b05f9b58161140e8
Not just dating but mens problems in general. For example look at mensrights sub. A post gets 100 upvotes max. Compare it to subs like twox or ask feminists or ... Most men are passive and indifferent towards mens problems
I'm just curious Im curious about something else. Why do people go crazy over the healthy (19-21 BMI ) on here? It's controllable and achievable with diet and exercise
If only there was an alternative where Gene pool modification occured at higher rate. Unattractive people didn't suffer at the same time earth would not become over populated.
Current dating scene is nature in the nutshell. Nature doesn't care about individuals feelings, justice, truth etc. it works based on evolution and survival. Now We've buried almost all cultural norms and people have found out that romanticism is a scam and we're just talking individualistic animals with animalistic needs. Average woman not attracted to average man is nature. Women finding 80% of men unattractive is nature. Them, only going for top % of men is nature. "Tall dark handsome" is as …
I believe most people Its not most people. Some of them. No matter how much love and care and sense of self worth someone get in his childhood, some physical features make people not worthy of love.
Does this behavior ( underrating objectively attractive male celebrities ) give women the sense of power and ego boost? I understand they find different types of chads more attractive but the mentioned behavior is obviously ridiculous.
https://preview.redd.it/7exhkkvwc74d1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5284b578cacf6844e4e0b760cdfc5132dcc36303 This is on twitter and some accounts are getting suspended because of it 😅 ( because of mass report ig )
There is an exception where man is in the top percentile of Attractiveness but the woman is not. In that dynamic the man not only doesn't need to pay but also can get away with being abusive or piece of trash etc.
I think Younger generation of women go for the left one as they are more into "pretty boys" type. Older generations as I've seen still look for masculinity and put emphasis on body
Which one has more success in dating game? https://preview.redd.it/si6mwlcv1s3d1.jpeg?width=1000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cee6b14df143f5fe0b19e8c5e5d6d05b0889c5c3
Womens mating selection strategy is nature. Them finding 80% of men unattractive is nature. Average Woman not being attracted to average man is nature. Nature is a system that doesn't care about feelings justice truth etc and it works based on evolution and survival. Bitching about it and writing 100 pages essay about it's unfairness is like yelling at machine learning or optimization algorithm that why it keeps choosing the best - fittest.
Isn't current state of dating market just nature in the nutshell? Where cultural norms are almost buried and humankind has found out romanticism is a scam and we're individualistic talking semi-animal creatures with animalistic needs? Nature doesn't care about feelings, justice etc. its a system that works around evolution and survival. I mean discussions and debates about how women find most men unattractive or average woman isn't attracted to average man doesn't change it. Its like yelling at …
Maybe it comes from being raped by medieval pillagers I mean this could be the case 😅 But i dont think there any form of physical attraction here. Its her job.
I've said this before but i want to emphasis on it. Late bloomers are the most realistic and pessimistic ones toward relationship, love, dating etc. They've seen the ugly animalistic and brutal side of humankind.
No. I'm trying to say most people on those subs allergic to admit that ( or that relationships are transactional ). Its interesting that they are terrified of something.
I've asked this on other subs like dating advice and relationship advice that if you deeply know that if you were less attractive you'd get rejected by your partner how can you name this love or how are you able to love them. People act like they're allergic to this question and hop into comments like " thats not how relationships work" " no looks doesn't matter as much as personality" etc. There's more comfort in ignoring bitter truth like how we don't think about death in our day to day life t…
Its not all about getting sex. Sex workers exist. It is about wanting to be desired in sexual way and the feeling of being attractive. The beauty of Attractiveness.
Black pill needs a serious modification about the " chad - good looking man " narrative. It should be mentioned that those said men should have brain in their head. Brian > looks
People are confused about two separate concepts: Power of being Attractive ( power of sexual desirability) and being able to sleep with everyone ( the power all women have caused by male thirst)
Always. Al fcking ways. even on men's rights sub Btch falsely accused a man for rape just because he looked creepy And then this. Some men deserve to be miserable https://preview.redd.it/nxoktyodbu2d1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a9fc32b9c3820def5818aa9916f3bc78beceb491
If its specifically for master students then not weird. if its a mix bag of undergrad and masters its weird because there's a big difference in maturity level of undergrad and grad students In my country everyone who goes to uni does a master) Also which country?
There was a dude i was his TA at University, helped him alot with coding, projects etc and gradually became friends. I just contacted him, talked alot. He said that my brain is spoiled due to severe social isolation and this brainrot goes away once i interaact with people again. He is super cool, super friendly really charming and kind hearted. He invited me to a party for next week to teach me some lessons about how to flirt with women. ( I mean just teach, he's in relationship) I hope this doe…
I don't know maybe I'm overestimating the power of beauty. but you’re still going to have to know how to extract teeth competently if you’re a dentist, sell real estate if you’re a realtor, do whatever job you’re supposed to be doing to get rich Nowadays everything is over competitive and over saturated But again i see multiple good looking women being famous for just being beautiful. ( Like on twitch, YouTube... ) But maybe its distorted reality or social media wants us to think that way.
And if this is the comment you're settling on, now (after deleting and reposting a few times) Lol i said don't report me I have got kids to feed. Then deleted it because it was cringe. Look, I didn't mean anything in sexual way. Just easy money. If you win a 5000000 lottery are you gonna still dive into a stressful field/ job ? Because most people hate their jobs. If they had money they'd work on something they like.
to be fair she's rather tall for a girl and she would exclude a lot of guys from her pool if she went only for giga tall guys Yeah 5'9 is tall for girls. And tall ladies are the least picky about height 😁
No not sex work. I. Mean... easy money. Like rich husband. Like attractive women making TikToks and become center of attention within a month or something like that. ( And yeah it could be sex work too )
Doesn't it bother you when you are spending the best part of your life ( youth ) working and studying day and night and another woman makes bank selling nudes and getting attention? Isn't it against "work Smarter not harder" ?
If you want to be as rich as a dentist you need to put in as much work as a dentist What about women who make banks by posting selfies or just existing doing day to day things or making 5 sec TikTok videos blinking or putting out their tongue?
Visited a female dentist. Assumed she had worked really hard to get there. She was young. Never married no kids. I Wonder why she chose that way when there are ways for women to make easy money. Like literally as easy as a snap.
Actually i just searched about it and i was wrong. terminally ill women are 6 times more likely to be abandoned by their husbands.%2520(Glantz%2520et%2520al.&ved=2ahUKEwiTvKG7xqmGAxVJ9LsIHf5uCMgQFnoECA0QBQ&usg=AOvVaw17E71Xgvf_0KC35ApMPlKS)
Your nightmare was really a NIGHTMARE :) Our subconscious brains create these bad dreams out of fear or regret or something we are gnawing on mentally. Yeah its all our subconscious mind and usually full of symbols
I had a super weird nightmare. I was at hospital, botched and crippled after getting Limb lengthening surgery and a horrifying device attached to my legs with blood all over the bed. I was trying To stay calm talking to myself about being brave enough to go for what i truly desire and how these things happen on the long road of seeking beauty and Attractiveness. The nightmare part was that the room was full of giant flying cockroaches ( like a bit smaller than fallout 🪳) and others in the room d…
I understand that you're trying to say " don't be NPC " . But average and below average men ( 80 % of men ) have very little to no room for even a minor flaw. Yeah if you're tall or handsome your flaws may appear cute or sexy to her.
Attraction is often far more complex than No. Its not. We are animals after all. A talkative one. Let me tell you how attraction works: For men : be Attractive , dont be unattractive, dont be socially inpet and autistic. For women: exist and don't be fat or terminally ugly.
Look buddy. Women have problem with men being in position of power. They say no we don't give a sht who cares do what ever you want etc but you damn well know they do care
remember having an argument with a guy that autistic men typically have trouble getting relationships and for some reason the idea of that was so absurd to him Good luck trying to convince these geniuses. You can say you don't have one arm and one leg and a boomer shows up just to say its your PERSONALITY or some other nonsense
Imagine in the near future there is a technology that let people change their gender completely within a week just like they were born that way. It is cheap and all people can afford doing it . What is your guestimate about women to men ratio ?
Its because those women are boomer conservative Ladies that still believe in monogamy. So they're dating within their age range . Younger - Modern women don't need these groups. they have no problem joining a chads harem. They don't care if they're 6th side chick for someone. They crave hot men.
No one said 6 ft have no problem. Shorter guys say that if you have X level difficulty every each centimeter - inch lower than that it gets 10X more difficult
There are different groups of people who don't understand the struggles of 80% of young men in dating. 1- women : no matter how attractive or unattractive she is . She never gets it . Try to see the world from a poor starving African kid's point of view. Your brain isn't powerful enough to simulate every aspect and every complexity of that situation.You can't. 2- tall / top 20% men : their behavior reminds me of bill gates quote : If you born poor it isn't your fault If you die poor it is your f…
Meme subreddits have literally become advertisement place for porn stras and onlyfans whores . ( Rip to subs like faces , first impression , lookmaxing etc ) An advertisement agency posts something suggestive and with that whores pic in it somehow Then fake accounts ( the same agency ) ask "sause? " " "Source?" "Link?" and shit like to keep these hoes mainstream.
Why the main post itself has 1k upvotes and the comments have 5-6 k ? https://preview.redd.it/c7rwn9251s1d1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cc0a1e14e447d143a3cc5ce3177fe16146b867a8
There should be an international day when young men receive one of these pillows as a present from their families. Men are true victims of gaslighting <image>
A woman can get away with having a bad job if she's pretty, I don't know where you live but even mid women can . All Women need to live on easy mode is not being ugly and not being fat .
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Can an ordinary person who isn't celebrity look as young as jared leto in his 50s ? https://preview.redd.it/9eytufcvtl1d1.jpeg?width=1600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=45c9148208b92feacb21425cef3a328a43d9d917
I absolutely don't sound bluepill when I say anything about misandry You are talking about misogyny on the exact post about a man getting stabed by his girlfriend. I mean how could the word " misogyny " cross your mind here ? Is it your mantra ?
They're trying not to do this by gaslighting/ virtue signaling. If the " women are wonderful " cover falls completely and ALL men see their true nature: 1- they won't have orbiters , simps, white knights and betas 2- red pill and black pill are gonna widespread like fire which they don't like it to happen 3- they still depend on men as a whole. They don't bite the hands that feeds them ( yet)
Its average for western ( except Netherlands) young white male . I wanna be tall . I wanna feel attractive. There's nothing on earth more attractive to women than being tall.
If women had more physical power and they were as strong as men they wouldn't do virtue signaling and gaslighting. They would yell it straight to mens face they don't like them because they're ugly . They're short. "Yeah we are only attracted to top 20% of men . Now what ?" This "we don't care about looks " , "just be a good person " , we don't care about height even I'm attracted to Shorter guys " is sign of a deep fear . Subconscious fear of mens hostile reaction while they get rejected by a w…
he has a 6.5/10 face, full hair , is 6'5 . his ex nor his current partner was/is very attractive or high-status either. . He can do way way better. Dont worry.
Most women don't suddenly lose themselves over pretty faces like men do Because its height. Something you can't do anything about. They find nerd , shy , socially awkward BUT tall guys attractive.
Height is more important than face unless you're ugly. Height is what attracts women not face. If you're under 6' you are not her first option. She is settling for you OR you are replaceable within 10 minutes and a right swipe max. Fathom this.
Sir , sincerely and with all respect , you are 50 , things have changed now . Self improvement is necessary yea sure , but its not the main thing , its not hitting the gym 10 times a week , shit we are dealing with is crazy , we need cultural change ( specially men )