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112	OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Why are you shocked at how terrible males are? 😦 I'm in a five year relationship, and I still love my partner very much. I've seen a lot of posts about guys using women as an 'emotional punchbag' (I know I'm not a poet) where they use their partners to vent about their emotions. I'm going through some stuff at the moment, nothing too serious but I think I've been talking about my feelings a lot which must be quite intense for her. So I went home cooked my girlfriend a banging 3 course meal, got some flowers and asked her questions about her co…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/02/20 03:54 PM
190	OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Why are you shocked at how terrible males are? 😦 TL;DR - Thanks for pulling no punches and helping me learn. I'm shocked by it because I don't see it or experience it. Men tend not to do this behaviour in front of other men so I went through most of my life thinking it happened way less than it did. In my experience most of my girl mates won't talk about this sort of thing because they're used to it or think guys aren't interested, which is why I started asking about it around 5 years ago after chatting to my girlfriend about it (when appropri…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/02/20 02:34 PM