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| 23 | If they ask u to go for a walk 🥴Just like when they ask to go for a run. This guy loved running apparently and asked my thoughts. Told him I hated it and never did it for fun. He then asked me to go for a run on our first date because what matters is the company. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 10:16 PM |
| 32 | Almost half a million likes - this ain’t cute 🤢Isn’t it so funny that my husband hates me and the baby we made together. I’m so relatable lol Whose with me? Don’t we love married life and all it’s quirkiness. He’s usually a great guy besides this 🥰😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 08:01 PM |
| 31 | I'm "supposed" to say thank you to a compliment about my looks?! Thanks for showing yourself so quickly.I love when guys tell on themselves quickly. I’ve been told directly by a guy that he “didn’t want me” because I didn’t respond to him calling me beautiful. After I didn’t respond again, he sent me a message later asking me to add him on instagram. lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 06:06 PM |
| 12 | Never let anyone shame you for taking precautions!You are not being paranoid. These are precautions you have to take. I can’t tell you the amount of times I gave out my number and then was terrified when they started acting weird because they already had such important information. Thanks to FDS I will be giving a burner number from now on. Good on you for looking out for yourself! ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 05:43 AM |
| 56 | She is right, society pushes us to give “nice guys” a chance even if we are not attracted to themHad a supervisor who gave the ugly guy a chance. She was a bombshell, absolutely beautiful. On their WEDDING DAY at the reception she can’t find him anywhere. Eventually she finds him having sex with another woman in some small back room. Never ever give anyone a “chance” It doesn’t matter what they look like, they all have high levels of audacity. They all think well I got her I can probably do better and then they think you’re holding them back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 07:42 PM |
| 54 | What to believe? Bio? Or description? Answer: none.Saw once something that said that any man who says he is 5’11” is a liar. If he was actually 5’11” he’d just say he was 6 ft because he’s close to it anyway. So in addition to his other lies he is also, most definitely, not 5’11” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 06:04 AM |
| 102 | LVM wanting other men to participate in their LVM behavior. Disgusting.A man will say “Stop lying we would all cheat if we were in this situation. Look at how hot she is.” Then a woman says “All men cheat.” and it’ll be the same man speaking up and defending men saying “not all men.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 06:33 PM |
| 57 | OLD Safety: photos you useThis is amazing advice. Thank you. I always wondered how men I had never even swiped right on were finding me. I don’t use social media a lot and having random men message me with information they got from my OLD profile was extremely unnerving. More so when I would unmatch them because of creepy behavior. To have them find my socials was awful. Thank you for this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 10:44 PM |
| 8 | Hilarious and true!!!I thought the same thing. I went on a date where he said you pick the place, so I picked it. Then he said dinner or lunch? I said dinner. Then he said okay what time and day. So I picked a time and a day. Then i get there and he says what do you want to do after this and he gave me 4-5 options and said you pick. So I picked. I thought it was cute so I went on dates for another month with him. Every single time it was the same thing, he never picked anything. I got so tired of it I finally stoppe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 05:32 AM |
| 67 | Sad how a lot of young girls in the comments are missing the point though...This is the equivalent of them just texting now saying “here.” Never again, come get me because I am not fried chicken and this is not a drive-thru! I love this scene now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 04:18 PM |
| 42 | At least we realized our mistake... 😅It’s been two years and I still cringe like this. Does it go away?😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 06:24 PM |
| 23 | Gaslighting, manipulation and mental abuse in 60 seconds. How much do we bet that he also expects his girlfriends to pay for his food and calls her ride or die when she forgives his cheating?that’s exactly what I was thinking. But what if she wants to check if she actually loves him and so she has to cheat? It’s not logic if it only works for him. The audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 03:58 AM |
| 40 | Older men’s fixation with younger women really boils my kidneysIt’s always a 60 year old man with a 23 year old. Why never with a 40 year old woman? That’s still a twenty year age difference, but that’s not the gap they want. They always defend the age gap because they know it’s wrong. It’s not just a number when you went specifically looking for a certain number. They aren’t just looking for a younger woman, they want someone one who might not know any better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 09:58 PM |
| 134 | How the Hot Girl with boundaries suddenly becomes invisible ✌️ You become unattractive as soon as they realize they can’t control you with their cheap ‘validation’ and no longer have a reason to lead you on. You are more than enough on your own.Quickest way to get rid of a man who tells you how beautiful you are as their first sentence is to say ‘I know.’ They do not like it and I live for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 09:47 PM |
| 20 | Ladies would we marry a man that keeps a jar of pubes?Imagine how disgusting he must normally be if she FORGOT about a jar of pubes. That means everything about him is just filthy and the jar was weird but not super alarming to even remember once he was home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 04:37 PM |
| 54 | Scrote is proud of his Oedipus complex.He wants an intelligent woman to be with but he calls women “chicks”??? No intelligent woman would like a man that speaks like this. He doesn’t sound smart or self aware. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 04:30 PM |
| 24 | Off... poor thing.This is the opposite of a high value man. They had been talking for a while but not seeing each other and then he invites her over to smoke and watch movies. That’s a hard pass. It’s good he didn’t take advantage of her but this is still not a man you’d want anything to do with. Look at the whole picture not just one thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 04:03 AM |
| 8 | I agree with men women should not nag them. I would never be a nagging wife. If he cannot measure up to my standards, there will no be any nagging... I'd just kick him to the curb.“Women do not have nagging rights, they only have leaving rights.” Read this in a book and it really stuck with me once I understood it. Do not nag anyone, just leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 02:35 AM |
| 134 | Why is she cleaning his apartment before she moves in?I’ve never understood the argument that men don’t know how to clean. What is there to learn?? I never had a cleaning lesson or was shown explicitly how to clean but I know exactly how to do it. It’s not some difficult life lesson men miss out on. They don’t clean because they don’t want to and they think that it’s women’s work. It’s that simple. The excuses made for men are ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 06:12 AM |
| 5 | Dump that trash!I had a first date where I parked in a secondary lot the restaurant had. He parked just a couple feet from the entrance. When it was time to go there were no more than 2 cars in the lot, it was dark and I could see mine was alone and far away. He asked me where I parked then said okay bye and drove off before I even got to my car. 🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 02:09 AM |
| 33 | A MASSIVE Red Flag When TextingI went on a couple dates with a guy who would turn them on and off. I also want to add that there is a way to read the full message without opening it by just holding down the message. I realized this trick he was doing when my laptop would show that the message had been read but my phone wouldn’t. He was CONSTANTLY reading my messages and then responding hours and hours later. Just like OP I would be glued to my phone waiting for his response knowing he had already read it three hours ago and w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 02:58 AM |
| 3 | We joke about ringpop proposals but nah, sisMe too. I finally realized this year that I actually love jewelry, I just used to not wear it to not seem so “high maintenance.” I’ve bought myself a ring and some earrings so far and I’m not stopping until I sparkle ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 07:52 PM |
| 11 | The last time I dated anyone who wasn't my husband was 16 years ago, a man come over from spain (I'm mexican) just to see me and we didn't had sex, and now men think you don't need dates? Ok...I thought I was watching a parody of “dating” coaches with all his annoying movements. Until I see the comments here and realize it’s real, then I laughed even harder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 05:37 AM |
| 30 | Romanticization of sex work on social mediaI wonder how many of the women who join OF at 18 will later be turned down for jobs by the very men who were subscribers. This is the opposite of empowerment and just another way to keep us down. The massive amounts of young, impressionable women that are receiving these messages to start an OF is heart breaking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 05:13 AM |
| 104 | What are they even thinking when they send messages like this??I hate that ‘sorry I’ve been too forward.’ Like if she would then appreciate the honesty and apology and then say yes to his original question. It’s such a cheap tactic, what a creep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 04:04 PM |
| 41 | "MeN dOnT gEt AnY CoMpLiMeNtS"I compliment women all the time. I have never ever complimented a man because as soon as I do they will think I am interested. A woman complimenting another woman is just a compliment. As soon as a woman compliments a man it’s “okay so you want me don’t deny it.” I hate seeing those posts asking men if they love being complimented. Everybody loves being complimented, men just don’t know how to act when they receive one and that’s why they don’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:15 AM |
| 140 | I literally don’t even have wordsI know, I didn’t even think it was funny. Im glad she was able to laugh and be okay because she eventually posted it but watching that was terrifying, she needs to just leave and explain nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 03:58 AM |
| 5 | All of these are instant dealbreakers for me, what about you?I love it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 05:35 AM |
| 6 | YouTube Dating Coaches creating PickmesRyan Patrick is the worst, I remember watching a few of his videos back in April before FDS. He was kind of irritating me but I thought oh well this is just what it is. Until he said something along the lines of ‘Don’t text a man all about your day, he doesn’t want to hear that, he’s going to think you’re annoying, say this instead’ and it was something dumb and “flirty” I found it so irritating for him to tell women that. I went down to the comments and somebody wrote a comment saying if I tell… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 06:39 AM |
| 202 | DAE find the forever-GF thing scarier than getting f*ckzoned?I had a teacher in high school who told us at one point that he had been with his girlfriend for 10 years. So most students asked him ‘when are you gonna propose?!’ and he said and I quote “meh😒” guys will really stay with you for 10 YEARS while they wait for someone they actually like to come along. This was one of the more important and unintended life lessons I learned in a high school. If a man is with you for that long without marriage he doesn’t want you, you are just convenient. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 02:50 AM |
| 6 | Ruh-Roh Call Her Daddy Fans Are Starting to Turn on the sEx pOsiTiVe podcast and call out internalized misogynyI always saw this too. It was always # callherdaddy and nothing else on the profile. I never even bothered to look it up. Way to many guys had it for it to be a good thing, instant swipe left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 11:59 PM |
| 144 | Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not.Yes! I always hated dating because I was putting up with things I really didn’t like. Cheap coffee dates where I bought my own coffee, planning dates, being invited somewhere last minute, ALWAYS paying my half. I hated it but I thought that is dating now so there’s nothing to do. That is why I love it here. I was a pick me because everyone told me to be that way. Not here though, we all think alike and it’s so refreshing to know that my standards were never too high and I don’t have to settle. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:15 PM |
| 62 | Don’t worry about a man who doesn’t appreciate your value.This was awesome 💕 But hot cheetos in the morning is sooo good🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 03:49 AM |
| 44 | You can break up with your bf due to financial reasonsI went on a couple dates with a guy who was getting a graduate degree. Thought because he wasn’t making much money off being a student teacher it was okay when I paid my half on the second date. The on the third date he insisted we share a plate of spaghetti. While we are eating he told me how he had just spent the weekend with his friends where they rented a boat and went to the most expensive sushi buffet ever(his words) and then they all went out and got drunk after. Whole time I’m being forc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 08:55 PM |
| 6 | "I don't do friends."That’s what I was thinking too. First thing he does is ask for a pic then directly asks her out and she still entertains his texts and then sends him a pic. Went on for way too long, she should have blocked right away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 06:13 AM |
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