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MALE DEPRAVITYitscoolimherenowdude/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 01:33 AM
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I have learned that “you make me feel…” Is a huge red flag in itself most of the time. It is them projecting and making you responsible for all of their “happiness”, aka, temporary endorphin response to being with you. When these feelings eventually level out, which they always will because science, then it’s the woman’s fault that she changed and she doesn’t “make him” feel this way anymore. If the only way you can describe why you want to be with someone is because of how they make you FEEL, i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 09:37 AM
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It needs soooo much work. There are too many instances where those deserve prosecution scape by and others who don’t deserve harsh punishment get caught up with the red tape. Like a 19 old who was maybe held back a year in elementary school and is now a senior and 16 year old who is a sophomore. Meanwhile the creep in the post is legal in many states. 😔😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:23 PM
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This has to be a troll post. Has to be. Sometime tell me it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:20 PM
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“Uncalibrated”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 08:39 AM
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All of this. Sorry, wives aren’t in the mood when they’ve spent the entire day at work, caring for any kids, and washing his stained underwear while he sits on the sofa and like photos of 19 year old Instagram models who don’t want him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:39 AM
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I tried to post this last night. The animal (I won’t say man) in the video, Leo, was on two different seasons of the bachelor franchise and it came out that he was sending dick pics and sexually harassing a ton of women. He also had several assault allegations. Shocking, I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:26 PM
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What you described is exactly part of the reason they use bungee jumping, sky diving, hot air balloon etc dates on shows like the bachelor/ette. (Pre-pandemic episodes). They keep these people isolated from the world in this bubble then throw them onto these dates that produce intense chemicals creating this false sense of bonding and then get them to talk about life traumas shortly after. It’s how they get them to cry and break down on camera when to the rest of the world they look insane, and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:24 AM
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This isn’t a mismatched libido, it’s coercion and abuse. This is awful 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:11 AM
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She should have responded with “oh that’s perfectly fine, I don’t mind waiting until your pay day ;)” Not that she should give him the time of day at all after that but just in interest to see what he’d do and put it back on him and in his place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 06:14 AM
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I think I was temp banned for 72 hours for accidentally making a post with the sub name still showing so maybe that’s why. Weird though! But yep. The picture I think was just important to really hit home especially for people not familiar with the sport and why it’s not at all necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 04:42 AM
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here is a photo of the comparison in uniforms. Insanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 07:13 PM
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The thing that’s crazy is the shorts are still super tight with a cropped top. The only difference is their literal labias aren’t on the verge of slipping out ever twist and turn during the sport. That uniform is absolutely asinine!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 07:10 PM
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Another user did some research and found this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:16 AM
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There’s reason to be optimistic. This user tracked down his story :) https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/onyskg/18_year_old_man_from_maine_looking_for_a_wife_in/h5w223r/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:15 AM
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This is so cute NGL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:09 AM
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It’s not taking back “ownership”, words are not tangible. it’s attempting to take away the power of the word and the pain that it causes. I’m not arguing one way or the other for or against doing so but you asked why, and that’s why. There’s an argument often made that attempting to make a word taboo completely ends up give it more power over people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:07 PM
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I don’t personally use it for those reasons either but the idea is to take back the meaning and power of the word by the same people who are most effected by it, not that unlike black culture has done with the N word. (Not exactly the same but just context). So there’s a conversation to be had about the effects of using it, but there’s a reason for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 06:35 PM
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This reminds me one time in college this guy at a bar comes up to me (we had spoken very briefly at the bar a few minutes earlier) and all his friends are looking from the booth then he bends down and starts trying to lift the bottom hem of my jeans up…and I’m just like what the fuck are you doing? He’s seriously drunk but proceeds to tell me that he and his friends were debating whether or not I must have something wrong with me “like cankles” and that my only “dealbreaker flaw” must be hiding …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 06:31 PM
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I love her. That’s all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 06:24 PM
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He’s definitely lying but my full face of makeup is only 15-20 minutes! And that’s with lashes. Now hair adds on another 45 minutes. But so many people liked your comment I’m wondering damn how long does it take you all for just makeup?! What steps am I missing…😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 12:49 AM
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The “made me wait 20 more minutes” when he was 40 minutes early was a real pickle for me. So she actually hurried up for him despite him inconveniencing her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 12:44 AM
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Yeah this is what I don’t understand about the app thing. What phone forces read messages in texts without an option to turn that off? Not a phone id ever buy LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:57 AM
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I’m confused. Can’t you just turn off the read receipts like on an iPhone? Or are you referring to social media or dating app messages and not text messages?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:56 AM
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I watched multiple videos from this pathetic soul’s account and now I’m scared I messed up my lovely FYP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:22 AM
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Let’s not confuse intelligence or success with emotional intelligence and life experience. No matter how smart someone is, a 19 year old’s prefrontal cortex is not even close to developed fully yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 09:39 PM
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Yes ma’am
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:46 PM
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That’s a shame. That sub (at least years ago) used to be such a huge support for so many women and even girls who were absolutely otherwise alone and lost. This makes me so angry to read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:38 PM
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You are right. Makes them sound so dumb when you think about it. Like why are you “admitting” that you are so stupid that a person out of their mind could be 100 steps ahead of you in every way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:16 PM
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My ex painted his ex to be insane, who he said had stolen from him, cheated on him even after he bought her breast implants that she requested. After about a year of emotional abuse and gaslighting, I finally managed to get out of the relationship. I noticed his new girlfriend (who he has also cheated on me with and wasn’t the only one) has accidentally friend requested me and removed the request (had obviously been snooping on my social media). I remember doing the same thing to his “crazy ex” …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:22 AM
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It was always super confusing to me in that way as well, especially when my old therapist was the one who brought up “trauma bond”. In my case, we shared a trauma, but that trauma was also used as the main source of emotional abuse. “No one will ever understand your pain but me so you can’t leave” “the traumatic event never would have happened to us if you wouldn’t have ______”. And on and on. It took a while to sort it all out and the terminology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:06 AM
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1) I should be asleep because I’m delirious and spent way too many seconds trying to figure out why a “45m” was posting about this in this sub. (Before I clicked the original link). Haha. 2) I love this. Congrats OP! Thanks for posting. It’s important for others to see the positive and not just the negative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:58 AM
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Just so people are aware, those cards (fake versions) were being sold all over eBay so people can get around work and school requirements. So don’t even trust that fully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:28 PM
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I’ve lost interest in a man before because of this. I am petite with short legs. My stride is just not long. It’s not about the speed, I just have to take multiple steps to match so I would notice my heart beating faster as we’d walk around town because I would basically have to speed walk to match his. 2-3 area for every one of his. It’s much easier for someone who’s taller to slow down their pace by just not moving as fast, instead of the shorter person having to exert more effort. When I ment…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:58 AM
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Thanks for mentioning $75. This dude acts like she owes him for HIS dinner on top. SMH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 05:37 PM
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