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LTR/MARRIAGEitsdolcekay/r/RedPillWomen22/05/23 03:20 AM
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Omg this is such great advice. I will definitely ask him what he is waiting for specifically, and see what he says. Saving this response again thanks hun
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/23 01:05 AM
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Noted. I’ve seen women remarry after kids but I don’t think I want to deal. Especially considering how happy we were. And I just realized it’s been 7 years we knew each other. Thanks for your perspective
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/23 11:21 AM
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Thanks guess I never thought about it that way. I’ve never been a big fan of the let’s see method with cohabitation but considering our specific circumstances then yeah I can entertain it. Thanks for your perspective
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/23 11:16 AM
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/r/RedPillWomen22/05/23 03:52 AM
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Thanks for your advice but I think you misunderstood. We’ve worked just fine and we’re in an LTR before his mental health thing. He’s proven himself to be stable for almost a year now. I left him because he wouldn’t get help. He suffered with no encouraging words from me got help and is back to himself. We had no issues in our relationship other than that
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/23 03:44 AM
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Everyone could like the post… it’s free…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:18 PM
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Yeah it’s just kind a hard for me to say that the guy is stuck based on the wording because it sounds like there is still seductive tension taking place, just delayed gratification
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:17 PM
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Well now that I think about I don’t think friend zone is a thing.. I dont think platonic relationships are a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:13 PM
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So can you define what her exit strategy and intention is? Because stringing someone along kinda implies they are maki if someone hope for an outcome that won’t happen. What is that outcome?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:11 PM
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No you don’t not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:08 PM
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No that’s not true. If your a grown man and you’re a virgin we don’t care. But if you act like a sex hungry immature little boy and then we find out you’re a virgin it hurts your rep. We do think it’s weird though if you’re over 40 and don’t have kids AND you don’t have money
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:49 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:46 PM
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That wouldn’t affect me personally even if it was a guy that I liked. Only desperate women would fall for that, and if she is someone who is rotational dating she’s gonna ghost you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:44 PM
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So to you all being in the friend zone means not having sex??? That’s so silly. Sex is serious it’s not a game
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:43 PM
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Also usually with scenario B she ain’t stringing him along, she’s being courted by other men and she’s observing all of their behaviors to see who’s best or even who will propose first.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:42 PM
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Neither of them is friend zone. B is just regular traditional dating. Why would I have sex with a man and risk stds, injury, becoming pregnant just because he gave me some gifts and thinks I’m beautiful. Y’all forget some of us out here only have sex when a guy shows consistent interest over a long period of time AND we are in love
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:40 PM
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And as you’re “fucking these women not dating them” what are you doing to make sure you don’t create a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:38 PM
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When you start ranking women into classes based on a subset of miscellaneous attributes that is mathematically infinite and even undefined, it is inevitable you will take that bias into the world
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:35 PM
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I’m still confused as to how one would ever find themselves thinking about whether their coworker is a hoe or not…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:34 PM
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Coming from someone who made a whole post titled defining love yet failed to do that. Claiming someone is incapable of love is about as existential as it gets
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:27 PM
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No it’s definitely not wanting to have sex because the man is bad at it if refuses to listen to her requests
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:25 PM
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Tell your fellow men here that. Reddit is flooded with men who can’t sexually satisfy a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:23 PM
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Yep it’s a nice dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:33 PM
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so much thought into things that they think are sex and aren’t even sex. Fucking party poopers. I can’t stand men who are insecure about sex in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:32 PM
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Although I never felt used in my relationships with older guys. I have felt like they were a little controlling but that’s expected. When I saw it was time to leave I did and he hated me for it. He felt like I used him because he wasn’t expecting the break up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:30 PM
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I agree. Women commit to men too soon. I would never be in a fake ass committed relationship that only exists because of some words a man said. What’s the point of dating an older man if you’re going to play house or act as a standin wife🤦🏽‍♀️ You might as well just get with a youngun
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:29 PM
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Grown people really out here talking about how many people they have slept with during a date? How disgusting. If I guy ever asked me that I would not date him. Women shouldn’t be asking either. Because the truth is even if it’s just 1 person as a man you’re gonna be thinking about that one person. Some people are just masochists who want to kill any seduction they have going for them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:24 PM
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85% of women probably have issues finding a good lay. Doesn’t men they don’t like sex it just means that men are bad at it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:21 PM
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I recognize my own people and how we speak at times about specific topics
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:18 PM
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Not my problem and I know older women who are happily married and provided for by their older husbands. So they can be mad at those 40 year old women too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:16 PM
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Exactly younger men are in survival mode and they are super super sensitive. When young guys date and have sex they get burned out and blame us for failing to maintain any amount of rapport. It’s only made worse when women my age condone the behavior and entertain them. Then both the guy and the girl feel like they were lied to or deceived. Stop dating these young dudes they can’t afford you anyways and I’m not just talking about money
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:13 PM
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One I’m sure you are glad exists. After all why would we base our individual decisions and realities off of what some ambiguous maybe even non existent monolith approves of?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:05 PM
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As a twenty something I’m not outraged
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:59 AM
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It’s not going to happen during sex if you can’t get yourself close to orgasm on your own. But it’s okay if penetration is not what gets you there. Sounds like you just need to experiment a little bit with yourself. A lot of times we just have hidden sexual trauma or anxiety that prevents us from just relaxing and tapping in to our senses Every woman has a spot or area it’s usually close to the cervix. The sensation that we feel during sex is thanks to that and thanks to the larger portion of ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:56 AM
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The one who doesn’t have sex with him but is better at seducing and is less available will win. It’s common and that’s what the new dating scheme will look like as women heal A lot of women are just super confident and very unbothered. Remember it’s okay for men to cheat in this society because fuck how women feel So we’ve evolved past jealousy and possessiveness especially knowing we can date other guys too. If you’re not married, you’re single. And if you’re a woman, you can be married, and st…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:48 AM
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Says who? All the women in my family always encouraged me to date older men. My first was 28 and I was 19. He took good care of me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:40 AM
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Not being able to articulate your boundaries as a man is super weak. Now you’re just stuck being a hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:36 AM
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What are you doing to make sure you don’t create a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:35 AM
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Not wanting to date a single parent is a harmless preference. You’re scummy though if you’re out here having sex with randoms and expecting not to have some kids. So many men don’t even know they are fathers. How irresponsible
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:34 AM
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Exactly they do not deserve to be replicated. All other life forms will refuse to replicate dysfunction. Theme genes need to die off
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:32 AM
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Love is not external
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:19 AM
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But the honest truth is that romantic love from us is definitely earned. You not liking the dynamics is not our problem… meanwhile the men who understand the assignment are getting it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:18 AM
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Men are really struggling out here this is so crazy how y’all are torturing yourselves making something way more complicated than it is then have the audacity to point fingers at us We’re just here being ourselves it’s no one’s fault but your own that you don’t feel loved. Because Love is not external and that’s what men fail to realize
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:16 AM
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Projecting much?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:12 AM
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I just know OP is Black male identified…. At least white red pill dudes make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:21 AM
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Just you using the word hoe is already insulting what makes you think you’re better than the men you’re addressing And then YOU are an actually hoe having sex outside of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:17 AM
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Please keep insulting us 🙄 what’s splitting one hair gonna do??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:16 AM
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Having a child makes you a target as a woman. The post is very tone deaf. Do you not understand women are being charged for murder for having miscarriages and forced to give birth to unviable fetuses only to watch their babies die says or even weeks later
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:00 AM
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Yes that is exactly what I’m saying. As long as she isn’t also being stressed tf out by other things in her life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:27 AM
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I also just recently spoke with a 27 yo male who was an abstinent virgin. Granted our conversation did at times devolve into flirting, I found myself listing after him.. I don’t have any hang ups about male virgins especially the older ones
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:50 AM
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I don’t understand what you’re asking. And I don’t understand what politics has to do with anything. What I can tell you is that my virginity was gifted to man who was older than me and I chose him because he made me feel safe and he was very gentle. The first time is actually a bit painful, your flesh is literally torn into and you bleed a little. I guess this is why some women don’t want some horny virgin guy dealing with them. My first was very gentle. He tore my hymen on the first day and le…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:49 AM
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Irene Yvette does not support abortion and she has some good videos about what compromises she would be willing to make in regards to women’s reproductive rights. I think abortion is necessary at least in my community or at the very lease women need to stop having children or choose the gender of the baby. If I can find her video I’ll post it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:18 AM
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Irene Yvette does not support abortion and she has some good videos about what compromises she would be willing to make in regards to women’s reproductive rights. I think abortion is necessary at least in my community or at the very lease women need to stop having children or choose the gender of the baby. If I can find her video I’ll post it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:17 AM
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I’m sorry you feel that way, hun. Good thing my opinion has zero impact on your uterus
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:14 AM
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But again, my opinion has no effect on your life choices so I’ll say it again in words you may be able to understand Fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:11 AM
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Comparison: a consideration or estimate of the similarities or dissimilarities between two things or people. Solution: a means of solving a problem or dealing with a difficult situation. Just realized I’m literally conversing with a self proclaimed redneck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:10 AM
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That’s not a comparison and that’s not what I stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:08 AM
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Getting to college
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:04 AM
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During that time my life wasn’t even about high school… it was about getting out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:04 AM
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Do what you will with your womb and your partners womb. It’s none of my damn business
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:02 AM
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I don’t compare those two things and clearly your opinion is the only one that matters in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:01 AM
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My mom would always tell me high school is going to be the highlight of a lot of these kids entire lives. Not I
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:00 AM
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Exactly the assumption that we care about being called shallow…. Honestly I feel like it’s probably a specific type of woman he must be talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:59 AM
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Immature women rant and rave to each other about a guys looks. Mature women will talk about what a guy did for her. And smart women don’t discuss how good their man is in bed with other women…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:58 AM
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As a woman I read this and laugh… it sounds like you’re describing a teenage girl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:56 AM
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If women are to be blamed solely for being turned into single mothers by degenerate men, the solution is to abort if the father leaves. I don’t understand why women agree to raise the offspring of the men who hate them and their seed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:55 AM
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You have to really hate yourself to fuck a guy you don’t even like and even pity… like how does your vag survive that unless that’s a kink for you. Sorry but no I’d be way to dry to fuck anything out of pity tf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:31 AM
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Not true at all… 😂 why do y’all speak for women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:29 AM
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If not having sex before marriage or at least before a committed relationship wasn’t so foreign to people this wouldn’t be a thing. Do better, women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:28 AM
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Sorry wrong post
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:44 AM
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I think people like that just get upset because they are insecure about not being good at sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:54 PM
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I guess I got really good because I always listened to what my partners liked and and asked them. It’s actually fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:52 PM
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That is so gross. Good on you for not taking that. I don’t understand the point of going down some one if your goal isn’t to make them feel really good
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:52 PM
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Why do I feel like this is very white female specific
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:24 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:23 PM
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And women are also now talking about choosing the sex of the baby if they do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:22 PM
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Most women are choosing not to give birth
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:21 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:21 PM
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🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 Here we go…. 🌹Is an absolute GOD in bed 🌹Very wealthy 🌹Incapable of cheating 🌹🌹 Takes care of me and our children fully where we don’t worry or want for anything financially. If we want it we can get it. I FEEL VERY HAPPY WITH THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:14 PM
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post partum and I’m definitely still above average looking There aren’t any hard rules. I had a natural birth and no stretch marks or cellulite. Went back to a size 2 in a little under a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:06 PM
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Men having to travel out of America to get a lay is just sad. Not women’s fault though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:59 PM
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I did not know that. It’s easy enough… do you tell them what to do? Being vocal about what you like is important if you think they aren’t good at it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:46 PM
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In my opinion if a woman does that she doesn’t like you or doesn’t like giving head at all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:43 PM
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Gspot isn’t a circus trick. You can find it with your fingers and the more aroused she gets the easier it is to find. At least that’s how mine works… it’s hiding all the way back there but gets more engorged as I’m aroused to the point that my partner can find it without looking even with his dick. I literally can’t squirt without that massage
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:42 PM
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Deep throat’s are overrated?? What???
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:39 PM
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That’s sad going all in is so much fun. Do they not like what you’re carrying?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:38 PM
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It is a circus trick for some…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:37 PM
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Stop offending actually attractive women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:36 PM
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If they are above average I must be a unicorn
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:35 PM
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Where are you all because I don’t see women looking like these where I am
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:35 PM
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Reading this as an extremely attractive black female and appalled at how low your standards are. In my personal opinion all these women are below average. Even ole girl from KS’ average at best looks better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:34 PM
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Exactly. Which is why it is a psychological thing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:12 PM
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Why does the gender even matter. A crime is a crime
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:07 PM
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The only thing we’re thinking at that point: Please… please… please
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:01 PM
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And Michael b Jordan is ugly. Look like a fat lady sat on his face when he was a baby
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:16 PM
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And Michael b Jordan is ugly. Look like a fat lady sat on his face when he was a baby
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:16 PM
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Why do they need numbers for women they will never meet? Just focus on the ones in their life I’m so confused and sorry you had to do all that work
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:16 PM
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Why do they need numbers for women they will never meet? Just focus on the ones in their life I’m so confused and sorry you had to do all that work
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:15 PM
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Why not just ask women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 06:22 PM
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And yes I agree a lot of women are too passive about sex but I think it’s because many don’t actually know what they like and don’t even masturbate in a way that mimics sex. A lot of women nowadays masturbate like guys: watch porn and just fiddle. Stop watching porn ladies, listen to a man in your ear telling you sweet nothings, while you rub your body with oil and RELAX, you might actually learn something about yourself…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:48 PM
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First, stop beating yourself up honey and pat yourself on the back for being considerate enough to actually figure this out. It’s a two way thing. She has to be in the mood, and it’s not entirely your responsibility to get her in the mood. I hate when women in relationships act like they can only get wet if their partner does something. I used to think like that too and I realized I wasn’t creating a space for myself to just relax and feel sexy just because. And you’re right foreplay isn’t going…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:45 PM
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