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| 35 | [Inner Game] How seduction (inner-game) helped me land a job this week. | itsiceyo | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 09:58 PM | |
| 14 | [FR] a night out in Vegas | Field Report | itsiceyo | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 11:16 PM |
| 7 | [FR] Not giving a F, Text-Game | itsiceyo | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 01:58 AM | |
| 7 | [FR] Just have fun, no closes. Just a good damn time. | itsiceyo | /r/seduction | 13/05/12 08:39 PM | |
| 2 | Thanks again, Seddit! Inner-Game | itsiceyo | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 05:23 AM |
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| 6 | Is there a ranking of US cities that are more open minded to large age gap relationships vs ones that are extremely judgmental about the idea of age gap relationships?bro this is gross. re-read what you legitimately wrote and think re-think your choices if you 'cant get it up unless she is young'. | /r/seduction | 22/05/26 12:46 AM |
| 4 | Banned from dating apps forced to approach IRLand he got banned on two platforms, not just one. op sketch af | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 05:55 PM |
| -1 | Lost my virginity few days ago. Before you guys say anything let me tell you that i paid for it. But I didnt feel anything...like nothing.exactly. I havent had a gf in 2 years, and it does bother me some, but still im unemployed (not by choice) and dont work out. I am pursing hobbies, but that doesnt bring much to the table. If i were to date, im sure a girl would at least want me to work to be able to provide in some kinda manner, say to pay for dinner once in a while or for snacks or treats or small gifts. There has to be some soft of give and take and both persons involve need to offer something, or else it isnt a real relation… | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 02:37 PM |
| 35 | Lost my virginity few days ago. Before you guys say anything let me tell you that i paid for it. But I didnt feel anything...like nothing.And I don't think I'll ever get a girlfriend or the kind of relationship, love I'm looking for i think you should start by trying to be more positive and stop being so negative. Its a huge mindset thing. if youre interested, the wiki in the sidebar has tons of info and links to learn and change your outlook on things. reading this just gave off too many negative and shitty vibes as you have such a low value on your self worth. take a week or two to read some material and you'll start change natu… | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 02:12 PM |
| 27 | Intense Sextto be honest i dont see it as cringe. If the guy you were talking to was interested in you, he would have responded with the same energy as the text you sent him. Its only awkward because he doesnt care if you send pics or not which puts you in a weird spot. I used to love when my ex sent pics, greatest little presents we could receive throughout the day (whether or not they were just teasers or xrated). you live and you learn and sometimes alcohol makes us do dumb decisions. I wouldnt worry too… | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 08:52 AM |
| 7 | Do girls and women enjoy checking out or staring at men's crotch? ( Expert Female opinions are highly welcomed if there are any ladies in here which I highly doubt 😔😄)this guy is on a whole 'nother level. Gets semi-erect from just walking around | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 10:17 AM |
| 0 | “I like tall tatted toxic men who treat me like shit”next you are gonna say all we care about is big dick small wiener club member here. Dont get my hopes up please. /s | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 03:39 PM |
| 2 | She says I'm too old for heryou make a valid point. There was another post on here the other day i think it was saying that this guy asked out his friend (girl) to chill.. He picked her up from work, smoked some weed and just chilled. Got confused cause nothing else happened. What did you expect?? you literally asked her if she just wanted to chill. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 12:43 PM |
| 1 | picking up barista from starbucks in 1 hr - what’s the gp?so you did what ya'll planned.. chill | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 03:48 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]op has six inches on me.. height btw. | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Had a 10 give me the friend talk....perfect 5/7 | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 02:26 AM |
| 3 | Next time she flakes, be like this dude.looks like youre new here | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 12:18 AM |
| 9 | Girlfriend lied to me about where she was and who she was with...is this the end?Personally, my philosophy if she is gonna cheat, she is gonna cheat. Better to find out now than 2 kids later. gdamn thats pretty fuckin meta | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 04:33 AM |
| 9 | Guys, stop deleting your fucking posts...[Deleted] | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Hi.Read the sidebar about inner game. Great place to start. If youre really serious about learning, you read through most of it in the next month or so :) | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 09:30 AM |
| 3 | The best players are asking themselves how to improve by 1% every day./r/theydidthemath | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 04:57 PM |
| 3 | How to make my apartment a place that people want to come and hang out?why? ive been out of college for years now and everyone still loves beer pong regardless. | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 12:11 AM |
| 1 | "Are you free this week?" = no response. "I'm going to X at X time. Care to join?" = immediate response.Whoa.. didnt know you still posted. | /r/seduction | 12/10/16 03:45 AM |
| -3 | gonna master instagram gameInstagram is dead | /r/seduction | 05/09/16 04:46 AM |
| 1 | My Definite Guide to Inner GameBeen on this sub for many years now and i cant stress how important inner game is, its the first thing i try to teach or show anyone because it effects all aspects of your life. Thanks for the post! Saved | /r/seduction | 07/08/16 08:14 AM |
| 3 | How to properly handle the "how old are you?" questionold enough to party | /r/seduction | 02/07/16 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Social skills one can practice at work?Eye contact | /r/seduction | 08/10/15 06:43 AM |
| 2 | Seddit how much has your life change since you found seddit?Im back revisiting this sub after a few years. Dont forget to always keep reading the sidebar. Shit is legit and you forget some silly stuff someomes. | /r/seduction | 08/10/15 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever chosen to be in the friend zone?Bingo. Meet her friends. SOCIAL PROOF AND SOMEONE THAT CAN HELP WITH A WORD | /r/seduction | 01/09/15 09:49 AM |
| -4 | Neil Strauss demonstrating social reactions are never as clear as you thinkWatched the whole thing again. I watched this a few years back and its true what the whole video and what he talks about. id watching it again in another year or two just to resfresh on stuff | /r/seduction | 01/09/15 09:47 AM |
| 6 | Don't Be This Guy [3rd person FR]true. this should have more upvotes. sometimes i go to just have fun. No interest in taking girls home. Just to have a good time and then be on my way either by myself or with friends. | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 10:01 PM |
| -10 | Quick anecdote my very hot female friend told me about guys approaching her. We live in a major city. I don't know what to do with this info. Maybe one of you can help me find the takeaway.alright this is just lame right here. | /r/seduction | 14/07/15 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Rarely see her, talked to her once but know her name. Okay to add on FB? Or too creepy?Lol! How dare you. You cant supress me! Sarcastic.jpg | /r/seduction | 03/06/15 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Rarely see her, talked to her once but know her name. Okay to add on FB? Or too creepy?It isnt really a big deal in all honesty, theres so many places to just meet anyone. Literally everywhere this is a chance to open. There are literally no restrictions out in the "open world" | /r/seduction | 03/06/15 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Rarely see her, talked to her once but know her name. Okay to add on FB? Or too creepy?Too creepy.. And even if you did, are you gonna try to message her? What are you gonna say?? What do you plan to talk about?? Do what you want but Im against this one | /r/seduction | 03/06/15 02:26 AM |
| 2 | My (barely noticable) disability keeps me from being close to girlsbut I can't even be honest about myself from this statement alone, i think you should work on your inner-game first. What is Inner Game? Inner Game is what goes on in your mind. It's the attitudes, values and emotions you carry with you in every moment of your life. A man with solid Inner Game will have few problems attracting women. He will have strong confidence and self-esteem. He is the man every one of you reading this should strive to be. read more about inner game on the sidebar http://ww… | /r/seduction | 22/04/15 01:02 AM |
| 0 | Just a FYI guys, I'm going to be doing an AMA on Iama tomorrow at 1pm EST.came here to say the same exact thing. | /r/seduction | 17/04/15 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone any advice on accessories?yeah silver and gold is just too 'blingy' for me. i like to keep it a bit on the subtle and dark side. also the pharrell hats are so hot right now | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone any advice on accessories?a nice watch would be an excellent accessory. I have a dark faced one. | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 06:36 PM |
| 6 | I've helped 1000s of men with their dating lives... So I created a Udemy course called Dating, Relationship and Conversation Skills For Manly Men and I’ve decided to give it away for FREE to the Seddit communitysweet deal! thanks will definitely do the lessons and leave reviews ;) | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 06:31 PM |
| 28 | I've helped 1000s of men with their dating lives... So I created a Udemy course called Dating, Relationship and Conversation Skills For Manly Men and I’ve decided to give it away for FREE to the Seddit communityi just enrolled, and i think its a good idea.. however do i have to pay for any future content? or is there a time limit on when i can review these lessons? | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 06:29 PM |
| 1 | I'm in LA with a couple hours/night on my hands and at a loss for what to do.ughhh damn. LA is a dope city, but you have to have a plan. Never used LA weekly before to plan something before, I just plan with friends on a whim. I might have to try it. been here all my life, i dont ever wanna leave. | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 05:10 AM |
| 11 | Should you tell her about seductionlol no | /r/seduction | 13/02/15 08:17 PM |
| 0 | Female journalist challenged to date 60 men in 2 months details 10 mistakes men make on first dates. Thought you guys might find this interesting.how does the normal quote go? | /r/seduction | 21/01/15 03:30 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Shot Down (and a little confused)omg yes. so true | /r/seduction | 07/12/14 08:39 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Shot Down (and a little confused)Girls are confusing! No matter how you put, women don't really know what they want, even when it's right in front of them. People in general flirt all the time, and women especially love any and every spec of attention they can get. Smiles, flirt convos, and eye contact is the best way to get that point across. Ive had this happen to me once, and i never heard from her again. | /r/seduction | 07/12/14 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Everything You Know About the Friend Zone is WRONGthis made me chuckle | /r/seduction | 30/09/14 09:35 PM |
| 1 | The Friend Zone Is Like a Bad Jobif i go after a girl, and i get friendzoned, i'm okay with that if they have a circle of hot girlfriends. Just more networking and meeting new people. some people take the friendzone way too seriously. | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 01:34 AM |
| 21 | My friend made this tinder account and we posted it to r/funny. He actually got more girls talking to him than ever. Someone explain?the only B word you should ever call a girl is beautiful. Bitches love being called beautiful | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Shisha bar. Inline skating. Dark sky astronomy. Swing dancing. ATV ride in the mud. Definitely not Dinner & A Movie: let's make a list of such innovative, creative date ideas.for me, motorcycle riding through the canyons or along the beach is always a plus. most dont have bikes though. | /r/seduction | 02/06/14 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Three tips you would give yourself on your first dateyou should look through my comments and posts in /r/seduction and /r/askseddit im sure it'll be helpful. ive posted alot over the past few years in terms of video games and girls. For just "computer games" though, you already sound boring. You'll figure it out soon enough | /r/seduction | 14/05/14 02:33 PM |
| -1 | Three tips you would give yourself on your first datelol! you read my mind ;) | /r/seduction | 14/05/14 01:42 AM |
| 32 | Three tips you would give yourself on your first datehave fun. ask questions. talk about what you love to do! (its the easiest thing to talk about. I guarantee it) | /r/seduction | 13/05/14 08:40 PM |
| -1 | What to do if a girl pulls out her cell phone during a date?yeah. let them tweet or instagram or update their status. however if its for checking fb, getting out of an awkward situation, or texting other people... | /r/seduction | 10/12/13 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Does winking at girls really work ???i found that grins and quick 'half' smiles work a lot better than winks. winks are hard to pull off in the wild. I've stopped. lol | /r/seduction | 01/12/13 05:49 PM |
| -8 | I AM TIRED OF THE SHALLOWNESS OF THE GAME. I AM A SENSITIVE UNIQUE FLOWER AND I WANT REAL CONNECTIONS WITH WOMEN :'(start with inner-game. read the sidebar.. its over there -------------> | /r/seduction | 14/10/13 04:21 AM |
| 1 | New to Los Angeles, live in southbay. Where to go to find nightlife??im used to the driving and traffic, so it doesnt really bother me much | /r/seduction | 26/08/13 05:54 AM |
| -1 | Hey Seddit, have a quick question that I think you guys would answer best. If you're 26 and never had a girlfriend, would you tell the people you're dating the truth or make up past ex-girlfriends?hey man, im 26 and i've never had an official girlfriend! it's just titles. I love the single bachelor life. I ride a motorcycle, have an awesome job, i go out and have fun, and i still live with my parents. I dont care, i love my life, and i'm not ashamed about my flaws. perhaps maybe i'll 'settle down' and get a girlfriend, but until then, i'll still be living the dream. Tell the truth and be proud of it, lying aint gonna get you no where | /r/seduction | 26/08/13 05:35 AM |
| 1 | [Inner Game] How seduction (inner-game) helped me land a job this week.awesome man! good luck to you. If i didnt get this job, i would have gone back to school to get a degree in Game and Simulation Programming as well. Dont be worried though. Just work hard. Hard work always pays off. Just keep in touch with all your professors, and keep a positive attitude. You just finished your 1st year, so dont stress on the fact that you wont make it as soon as you get out. Some people are lucky to land their dream job as soon as they exit the door, others take 5-10 years to … | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 06:45 PM |
| 2 | [Inner Game] How seduction (inner-game) helped me land a job this week.hey man! where are you located? I'm in los angeles, CA so im lucky to have every big gaming company out here in santa monica and in the OC to begin with. I got lucky 3 years ago and got a "game master" position at some start up company. I had replied to some craigslist ad, and in the interview they wouldnt tell me what game title i would be working on, and the company was pretty garbage. But i went along with the gig because i loved video games, Little did i know when we got put on our first pro… | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 05:59 AM |
| 0 | [Inner Game] How seduction (inner-game) helped me land a job this week.thank you. i really do agree that with "seduction" and "pua" you have to improve yourself and be comfortable with yourself, before even attempting to pick up chicks and all that other stuff. Yeah ive been in this subreddit a while, and it seems that people are skipping over the fundamentals and basics when attempting to begin seduction. on an off topic note, i LOVE my xbox360. I currently own two of them. I love playing in online multiplayer games which includes titles like the Halo series, Call… | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Vegas tonight. Any tips on where to go for someone who doesn't know the city at all like me?i'd say, to be dress and ready to leave by 9:00, and arrive at the club by 9:30-9:45. | /r/seduction | 19/05/13 03:34 PM |
| 2 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.started off reading the sidebar, and loved the posts from you and throwawaypua. Cant wait till the book comes out. Although im jobless and dont have much funds, i'll be sure to support in whichever way i can! | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Billy's Guide to Shit Teststhis is why i stopped visiting this sub less and less.. sure i still browse around and read tofu's posts, but man there is some bad advice on things. | /r/seduction | 10/05/13 03:17 PM |
| 4 | How can I become a better conversationalist?practice. even just a 'good morning' and a smile. It gets pretty easy after a while. | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Text/Online game: Why do girls delay responses?fyi OP you can turn the read receipts off if you have an iphone. I leave mine on and purposely dont check when i receive a text | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 03:19 PM |
| 2 | After all of the self improvement, I'm still a validation seeking chode.you're 18. you're young. and youve got MUCH to learn. I spent a good 6months reading everything in the sidebar. EVERYTHING. i worked a graveyard shift that was a cakewalk, so i got to read seddit for 6hrs a night. I took notes, wrote down shit, and tried to instill all of info in my mind, and it worked. now that you're in a new setting. you can 'start anew' Be calm. Be cool. Dont be over-dramatic, and be your best self. Dont give a shit about what anyone thinks. Start like how i did man.. grante… | /r/seduction | 12/03/13 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else feel like FRs should be getting more love and discussion?from what i've noticed, i tend to read people's "FR's" in the comments of posts. sure i'll see the casual FR every so often, but when someone asks for help, you'll get some good material reading comments on what worked for that person, in the situation that the OP is talking about. I do it myself, because i can relate. Maybe some people just feel more comfortable posting comments? who knows. | /r/seduction | 12/03/13 11:26 AM |
| 1 | [FR] "I'm Too Drunk for This"werd. i agree. Woman think differently then men. So dont be so harsh on yourself, as i'm sure she's probably beating up herself inside as well. Just text her you had a fun and great time (which you did!) and for you guys to hang out again soon thurs/fri or when the weekend hits. | /r/seduction | 12/03/13 11:23 AM |
| 2 | Tyler Durden from the blueprint decoded on Opening women Absolutely amazing.hmmm. he has a buzz cut i think?? maybe i have seen him before, and just seeing him super chubby in this video just blew my mind. Loved the message and his mindset though. | /r/seduction | 12/03/13 11:16 AM |
| 4 | Lunch "Date" with an old, shy friend - looking for some tips, tricks, and general help getting her out of her shellbe assertive, and be fun. By being assertive, women love guys who know what they want, in life, and in general. It's attractive. If youre in school, talk about what you are studying and vise versa. Talk about things you love doing, as your natural passion for the subject will keep her interested in listening, and wanting to talk about what she loves as well. If you work, talk about what you do, and how you love your job or the people you service. WHen you talk about things you love, you'll natur… | /r/seduction | 12/03/13 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Tyler Durden from the blueprint decoded on Opening women Absolutely amazing.i can honestly say that im not the best looking guy out there, but gdamn he looks like some crazy maniac guy. and his pants at around 1:45-2:00 looks like he's wearing girls pants or something. (dont mean to be picky or making fun, but gdamn. never seen this guy before until now) | /r/seduction | 12/03/13 10:40 AM |
| 0 | What does your typical week look like?I was being realistic. Ive had a 6flags season pass for the last 3 or 4 years now. Its not something you do on a weekly basis, especially since its pretty much closed during the winter | /r/seduction | 10/03/13 04:33 PM |
| 0 | What does your typical week look like?I couldnt help but laugh at this, then again i guess its because youre 15. Although I agree with school, gym time, and sports, 6flags is no place to meet girls. Dont get me wrong, you can potentially meet girls anywhere and anyplace, but i disagree with you. | /r/seduction | 10/03/13 04:16 PM |
| 0 | Need help w new girl at work (she has a boyfriend)Couple of things to note from personal experience: she let you know that she has a boyfriend so she doesnt come off as leading you on. As some already said as well, respect the relationship. Dont wanna be known as a homewrecker or get a bad rep. And if shes going to cheat with you, she'll cheat on you. | /r/seduction | 10/03/13 04:08 PM |
| 2 | This should be a challenging night, I could use every tip and trick that is not in the book Seddit.this might work out to your benefit.. id say give this a try OP | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 03:02 AM |
| 1 | If you could sum up everything you have learned here in one sentence what would it be?"people want what they cant have" "The simplest way from point A, to point B, is to simply start talking about B. You don’t need secrets, you need willpower." "girls giving guys advice on how to attract women is like a fish giving advice on how to be a fisherman." "girls should be the icing, not the cake." "never lose sight of your original goal." | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 02:47 AM |
| 1 | What's your one rule?perhaps it's also where i live. I'm in downtown los angeles, and you get the rudest people.. both men and woman alike. I approached a girl once and opened, had a 3-5min conversation and all was going well, until she sputtered out, "well arent you going to buy me a drink?" i quickly responded with "no, youve got me confused with other guys youve met." i ordered myself a beer and left. everyone has their own rules, thats just mine. | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 02:29 AM |
| 1 | So I don't want to approach girls anymore...holy hell.. not mean to be intrusive or anything, but i was just gifted this book through the reddit book exchange this week! I started on the other book that i received, but most def. gonna start on this as soon as im done. | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 01:59 AM |
| 2 | What's your one rule?what i meant was by girl's bdays was more along the lines of friends, not random strangers. Getting bought drinks is nice, ive had girls offer to buy me drinks before in the past, and yeah it made me feel good as well. But majority of the time, from what ive noticed is that they tend to get the drink and leave. Then they'll either give the drink away, or not end up drinking it all. Just a waste of money. There are some nice girls out there who will return the favor with a drink as well, but i do… | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 11:27 PM |
| 1 | First time clubbing--semi [FR]yes, you can benefit from salsa! the reason i learned salsa was because of victor cruz. i had him on my fantasy football team and everytime he scored he'd salsa.. so i learned and started doing it too. girls love to dance the salsa. they all somehow know it. and when it plays, you grab the girl by the hand and dance with her. how many other guys really know how to do it? even just the simple on 2 technique is easy to do in a regular dance setting, you dont even have to sway your hips either. i d… | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 02:57 PM |
| 4 | What's your one rule?never give crazy a baby | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 02:35 PM |
| 2 | What's your one rule?dont buy girls drinks. i break it rarely (girl's bday or what not, as there are some exceptions), but when i do, its for a shot. Girls tend to give their drinks away, A LOT. or 'hey giiiiirl, want some of this???' bullshit. thats my #1 rule. | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 02:34 PM |
| 1 | My biggest problem with Seddit...along to go with your "north americanwomen and their ridiculous high standards", i'd have to agree. I live in los angeles and even TRYING to go out 7 days a week, let along 5 is soooooo gdamn expensive. | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Random things to have around the house for fun or as conversation piece.i've got to compete with this?! you bastard! hahaha all jokes aside though i agree with you on having a nice bedroom set. I accompanied one of my girlfriends (platonic) on one of her shopping escapades and we ended up stumbling into a furniture store. She was very enthusiastic and excited about some of the bedframes, kitchen tables, couches, etc.. and i asked her.. "Do girls usually take notice of all things liek this in a guy's house and bedroom".. first thing she says is "HELL YEAH!" "we're gi… | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Willing to invest $100 and purchase my first (e)book material that you guys recommend to meupvoted for the best book i've ever read in my entire life.. How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. I've re-read a couple times throughout the past 4 years and its an AMAZING book | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 11:27 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when you just don't feel like socializing?Fuck. I think I'm over thinking haha yes, yes you are. You need to be in the right mindset however. Perhaps read up and retouch on some inner-game to get ya back on the wagon. Some people pay too high of a price to be in the comfort zone | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 11:23 AM |
| 4 | Been reading Seddit since summer. Been applying what I've read throughout the school year. Here's what I learned so far.that was one problem that i had during my junior and senior year of highschool. i had so many girlfriends that felt like i was their "big brother" type, that i felt like I was a loss. HOWEVER, i've actually used this to my advantage. After getting over the fact that i messed up in the beginning with making my intentions unclear, i now ask my girlfriends to wing for me when we go out, or put in good word! This actually works since girls are so trustworthy of each other. Last summer i had a girl w… | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Pseudo-FR: The shit-test, the most valuable thing I've learned from Sedditagree and amplify! | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 07:26 AM |
| 4 | Wow, seeing guys try to hit on your girlfriend at a party is weird. How should you act in that situation?my thoughts exactly. if he "tries" to make a move on her, most girls know how to get out. I know theyve done it to me a few times when ive been rejected. | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 07:18 AM |
| 1 | What's the protocol on valentines day?and it doesnt even have to be the expensive kind! ive got 3 dates this upcoming thursday. hahhaaha. granted theyre all friends. but +DHV. just getting them simple mixed flowers, nothing too fancy smancy | /r/seduction | 12/02/13 09:59 AM |
| 1 | [FR] a night out in Vegashmm interesting thought. I love the thrill of the chase or the adrenaline in asking and opening on a girl. Maybe im unaware of having something similar to 'closing anxiety'.. who knows. but thanks for making me think a bit | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 04:40 AM |
| 2 | [FR] a night out in Vegasyeah i live in los angeles, so vegas is pretty much the same thing, just a little bit crazier.. If youre comfortable enough with day game, just open up on someone as youre walking by. I usually try to work in the club though. I was at the Marquee, and holy cow was that club HUGE!! there was like 4 or 5 levels to choose from. Theres no real "best" place to meet girls through since theyre everywhere! | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 04:38 AM |
| 5 | Useful seduction facts.a useful tactic that i use is.. "Hey!! Want to grab a drink? You buy the first round and I'll get the next round!" seems a lot like the ben franklin effect in terms of doing favors? this for me works like a charm, and it almost guarantees that the girl will be drinking at least two drinks. Also, a few times a girl has declined the 2nd glass of beer, and i choose not to buy the 2nd one for myself. Win! hahaha | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 02:46 AM |
| 1 | The first 30 seconds of this video is something every guy needs to see and internalize.wow. that was an awesome read | /r/seduction | 25/01/13 09:09 PM |
| 1 | I want to learn to dance!im not gonna lie, i started doing zumba (kinect) and i can salsa and i have more of a rhythm and a hop in my step when i dance now. i love it! i want to learn more | /r/seduction | 25/01/13 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Let's Talk About Texting [with a mini FR]the only b word you should ever call a woman is beautiful. Bitches love being called beautiful. | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 07:06 AM |
| 1 | I am a professional dating coach for The Art of Charm, AMA!care to elaborate on what happened? Howd you get caught.How you talked your way out of your release.. etc | /r/seduction | 16/01/13 10:53 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Online dating is shit test centralas someone who has worked in the video game industry and was just recently laid off. (worked on blackops2 and other activision projects) this opener DOES NOT work. LOL | /r/seduction | 16/01/13 10:53 AM |
| 1 | I am a professional dating coach for The Art of Charm, AMA!the whole getting kidnapped thing, twice? Maybe its here in the comments or on your site. sounds interesting though | /r/seduction | 16/01/13 07:29 AM |
| 3 | I am a professional dating coach for The Art of Charm, AMA!whoa. speak several languages, worked for various governments and have been kidnapped. go on....... | /r/seduction | 16/01/13 07:14 AM |
| 2 | Sedditors, 2 Questions. 1) Do you call or text after number closing? 2) What is your first message/phone call after number closing?exactly. LOL | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Sedditors, 2 Questions. 1) Do you call or text after number closing? 2) What is your first message/phone call after number closing?when i number close, I call it right then and there and tell her to save it. (right then and there at the club or bar or wherever i may be) | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 05:07 AM |
| -2 | How do you transition from grinding into gaming?http://i.imgur.com/8aPJd.gif | /r/seduction | 11/01/13 03:40 AM |
| 2 | [FR] UPDATE To that Cold/Mean Girl and the first (maybe last) date.TO OP: DONT STICK YOUR DICK IN CRAZY!!!!!!! PLEASE READ THIS OP | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 11:34 PM |
| 2 | [FR] UPDATE To that Cold/Mean Girl and the first (maybe last) date.drinking wine and watching the clippers game waiting for an update. i wonder what time it is where op lives | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 05:48 AM |
| 1 | "Body Language Tells" from UK channel 4 "Sex" | The Love & Freedom Projectnever thought about that until now :l | /r/seduction | 29/12/12 03:18 AM |
| 2 | "Body Language Tells" from UK channel 4 "Sex" | The Love & Freedom Projectthis was posted here about a year back, and im glad it's been posted again as i have a date tonight. Good to have the upper hand and feel confident going into the date! thanks for the post good sir | /r/seduction | 29/12/12 02:39 AM |
| 1 | How about just saying "kiss" instead of "kiss-close"?because you closed the deal/date with a Kiss | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 07:53 PM |
| 2 | How to become a 'go-to' guy?i am this guy. I get invited out to parties and bars on thursdays, fridays, and saturdays.. i came this way by being fun. I would hit up parties when i was around 19 because i had friends who were older than i am, and would go with them. I remember getting drunk off of vodka smirnoff when i started out, which made for a funny "i remember the first time i got drunk" story. I was never this type, in HS, i was the quite, beta, type. Never had a gf in HS, was never on any sports teams, and i ditched… | /r/seduction | 20/12/12 08:25 PM |
| 13 | This needs to happen. Call vs. Texting. Pros and cons of each26/m here, and i think you've got some things wrong, because im floating around in the middle myself, but i learned to adjust and take every girl (and person) that i meet differently. i feel like i am in the "inbetween" , growing up with having to the call the girl's house i was interested in hoping she'd pick up the phone, in which cases 99.9% of the time it wasnt. If we call, its because we want to talk or have something to say or ask. who answers a phone call with a "what?" .. and then us wan… | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 10:39 AM |
| 1 | This needs to happen. Call vs. Texting. Pros and cons of eachna. there's aactually a los angeles seddit lair too, isnt as active as it used to be.. but still awesome that they'd set up summer night meetups to chat and go out. | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 10:13 AM |
| 2 | So you get a # close then the girl flakes on you, what do you do with the number?as someone who has actually tried this, FOR SCIENCE... it does indeed work. my favorite line is Me- Hey! If I was giving grades on your call back skills (or text), you would definitely get an F! i get a response(usually a laugh, or a text of self-value or something) but a response none the less. | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 11:29 AM |
| 3 | Text/phone game: Airplane mode is your friendwerd. i put my phone on vibe, not silent though and just leave my phone on my bed. I'll play games, watch netflix, browse reddit for a while and then check my phone. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 07:20 PM |
| 3 | [FR] The best rejection I've ever gotten.i like both of you guys. Enjoy this one. "if i asked you to show me your boobs, would your answer to that question be the same as it is to this one?" | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 10:20 PM |
| 4 | 20 Ways to Be More Assertive and Get What You Wantoff topic but - Archer is the man! | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 09:44 PM |
| 5 | [FR] The best rejection I've ever gotten.i WILL steal this | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 07:22 AM |
| 1 | I asked a girl for 3 things she's into, later another guy did the same, she pointed it out and awkwardness ensued.how did he use the EXACT words and lines that he did?? what did you say? | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 11:18 PM |
| 3 | is this only for guys?tons of girls post here in /r/seddit. I know the search bar sucks, but theres tons of subbreddits like, askreddit, askmen, relationshipadvice, etc | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, I have a confession. I keep a set of higher-end liquor bottles that I refill with with $10-a-handle liquor. No one has ever realized the difference. What techniques do you use in the course of seduction that you aren't exactly proud of?i love you for this. | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 08:10 AM |
| 1 | just so damn beta...yeah man, read the sidebar. I learned alot of stuff just from reading. I got a big confidence boost and then actually started going out into the field, saying hi and starting conversations. All starts with mindset. | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Need help getting out of the friend zonethe thing you have to look at here, is not that she has been "sending you mixed signals" but how you were interpreting things while hanging out. Over analyzing things will make one go crazy. Why dont you ask her out to go study somewhere. Local coffeeshop to hang out and of course study, or at your place (her's works too) Try to stay away from too FB chat/AIM and text. Doesnt build attraction. | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 08:13 AM |
| 4 | Help me decide if I should kiss a girl that has a BF. Sigh.if shes willing to cheat with you, she's going to cheat on you. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 10:11 AM |
| 2 | The Big Compliance Test Listim going to try this one out this weekend. for science. and also because it seems like it would be fun. | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 12:41 AM |
| 1 | How to handle compliments/flirting?hahaha just a habit to type sbux. (s-bucks) | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 03:31 AM |
| 3 | How to handle compliments/flirting?i used to be a sbux barista, and i dont remember ever reading this. | /r/seduction | 13/09/12 07:38 PM |
| 1 | How to handle compliments/flirting?not only that, but since she works at a coffee shop. feel free to drop by in for one of your favorite drinks and start a small conversation, KNOWING that she gets off at 7.. come in at 6:45 or something ya know? You have a little bit of an edge in knowing this info, use it your advantage :P | /r/seduction | 13/09/12 07:37 PM |
| 0 | How to handle compliments/flirting?just be fun, and go with the flow. relevant | /r/seduction | 13/09/12 06:24 PM |
| 6 | "You're doing that PUA routines, aren't you?" - What do when called out?this everytime. Agree and Amplify. ;D | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, What is one invaluable piece of knowledge have you picked up in the last year - That you think everyone here should know?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gu7mDA-b8wM | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 02:10 AM |
| 0 | Seddit, What is one invaluable piece of knowledge have you picked up in the last year - That you think everyone here should know?lol alcoholics. do what you love, love what you do. have fun trying to be like me | /r/seduction | 11/09/12 05:30 AM |
| 41 | Seddit, What is one invaluable piece of knowledge have you picked up in the last year - That you think everyone here should know?accept and amplify, or ignore. being outcome independent be yourself, but most importantly, be fun. dgaf what anyone thinks you cant change people/events that happen in your life, only how you react to them ABC (ALWAYS BE CLOSING) | /r/seduction | 11/09/12 01:14 AM |
| 13 | 20 Mistakes You Make at the Barbeing outcome independent is what its all about. If you go out looking to get laid, and dont get laid. Youre gonna have a bad time. If you go out with the mindset of just having fun and a good time. Then you're gonna have a good time. | /r/seduction | 05/09/12 08:00 PM |
| 2 | how many women read seddit?i've read some FR's where guys would post that women call them out on being PUA's and being fake or what not, and i know there are a couple of women that post around here on seddit. It would be interesting to see the numbers, but meh.. i dont really care | /r/seduction | 05/09/12 02:56 AM |
| 33 | Girls are so silly (and predictable)the only B word you should ever use beautiful. Bitches love being called beautiful | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Girls are so silly (and predictable)LIKE A BOSS | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 08:10 PM |
| 14 | There seem to be 2 different concepts of the friendzone.1) the girl never liked you, but she was too nice to say fuck off. 2) You've missed your chance, and SHES MOVED ON, now its your turn to move on. | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 09:52 AM |
| 1 | I need some advice and help.by not giving a damn and moving on. Have your own fun and your own life. Sure your head over heels for a girl right now, but why try to improve your 'relationship' with someone who isnt even sure if she likes you or not. Improve on yourself. Do shit that you love without being outcome dependent. | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 09:51 AM |
| 2 | Here's an interesting study that might be relevant: Warmer drinks create warmer feelings within people. Thoughts?being a chld psych and chld dev major i enjoyed the two read you gave. although what some of the comments were somewhat true.. good info t know. As a tip: i love doing breakfast/brunch dates and ordering a warm chai.. girls love that shit! ;D | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 06:37 AM |
| 1 | I need some real big help.i would say, try being more assertive, than being a dick. Know what you want, and go after what you want. thats all | /r/seduction | 16/08/12 01:34 AM |
| 1 | I need some real big help.Most effective pick up line is saying Hello ;D | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 02:28 AM |
| 3 | [FR] A weekend in LALiving in Los Angeles, i forget sometimes of the 'desire for alpha' and 'financial security' bold points in your FR. It sucks how girls actually find ones attractiveness by what they do for a living and i've seen it happen a bunch of times. Dont let any girl milk you, when talking money of course. :D Thanks for the FR | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 04:01 AM |
| 0 | What to do when girls take a while to respond?i like this :D | /r/seduction | 13/07/12 02:43 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Had a good time, made some progress.It's awesome how things tend to work out when you decide to just have fun and go out, because you want to have fun. Thanks for the field report | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Just Facebook messaged a girl I had a serious crush on from about 3rd to 5th grade but never talked to. Unexpected response.Good mentality to have. At least you said what you needed, and she responded positive as well. You never know until you make a move, so bust it! /dance | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 02:58 AM |
| 2 | 8 Reasons Regular Guys Should Learn To Cookmy favorite cooking quote: "cooking is a science you can eat" | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Upcoming AMA with Eric Disco!thanks for the links for us lazies. Going to be following up on this guy tonight at work when i get some free time. Also, now that you mention it, i dont usually google "pua" stuff at all really. I think there's more than enough stuff in the side bar to remind myself of the good material, although i should branch out a little | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 02:47 AM |
| 3 | Developed a website to show seddits best weekly quotesi dont understand that arrow feature, but thanks for this website! i just had a bunch of post-it notes with alot of quotes on them. I will be adding them! | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 01:32 PM |
| 1 | How to just wing it and not give a fuck or be more confident in your actions in general?"and I have constant anxiety from thinking about the outcome in general" here's your problem. You think too much. You think about what to do, what not to do, what happens if i do this, what happens if i do that, what will this girl think of me, what will my friends think of me.. JUST DO. Youre so outcome dependent it's getting to your head. If i approach a girl at a supermarket looking for pasta sauce or whatever, i dont care, and why should I if shes cute. Who knows, maybe she likes pasta too? … | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Quick, fun tip for texting girls you just met!here's a question that i think is fun.. "so are you a 'truth', or a 'dare' kind of person" | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Field report #1never had an s-close? | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 11:23 PM |
| 1 | I get eye raped all the time at work, don't know what to do with it please helpI plead guilty to "I look like studying, but im really on Reddit" | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 07:38 AM |
| 5 | How Do I Get Myself to Open Up to Guys and Actually Start Dating? I'm gonna be 23 this month and I *still* suffer from social anxiety. :(First off, do you have any hobbies? Are there things you love to do and are passionate about said things? Once you can passionately talk about these things, and know what you like, and what you want, conversation will be much easier. What im trying to get at is to better yourself, and your inner game first. Not necessarily saying to not go out, or anything but know who you are, and be comfortable with who you are. In the side bar about AA.. its states that "Normal guys are boring and slightly aw… | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 07:35 AM |
| 2 | Ask a girl out for some time this week. She says she's real busy but will get back to you...do you follow this up or wait and hope for the best? (x-post from r/askseddit)This happens to me quite often, usually around Mon/Tuesday. If nothing comes up by Weds, Weds night i'd bring up again and ask if she has any plans for Friday or Saturday and go from there. I personally try to skip a day of texting/interacting, or keep it really simple and minimum. So just hold off for now, as she might also just be a busy person. | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Just Facebook messaged a girl I had a serious crush on from about 3rd to 5th grade but never talked to. Unexpected response.If she agrees, set the tone and the pace of the date. If she responds with yes, you can always say Lets grab lunch sometime. If you want to be a lil more fun, you can always replace lunch with Drinks at this one place, and they have a happy hour menu there. Fun on a budget, and lots of drinks. hahaha edit. just read youre under 21. | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Doing sports activities as a datenormal trail hiking?? Lots of walking, talking, outdoors stuff, and it's sporty and adventurous. Try doing that. | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 08:14 PM |
| 21 | How do I successfully invite/get invited (by)people to do something fun?the one thing to remember is that people have their own lives, and they're only worried about themselves. As you get older, you start to notice this more often, but sometimes you just gotta ride on your own, or stroll onto the bball courts and jump into a pick up game. (tis what i do) Keep continuing on having your fun, and people will follow or join you. Dont let it get you down though. | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 08:09 PM |
| 1 | How to not come off as creepyif youre thinking too much about not being creepy, then you might look socially awkward and not creepy at all. You probably look more nervous than anything. Also, can you describe what "creepy" you think is, because you 'feeling' creepy might not even be what you think it is. | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 08:03 AM |
| 27 | Just Facebook messaged a girl I had a serious crush on from about 3rd to 5th grade but never talked to. Unexpected response.please OP, do this!!! | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 05:21 AM |
| 7 | What kind of books should I be reading?i read "the $1 Million Reason.." as THE ONE DOLLAR MILLION REASON | /r/seduction | 08/07/12 05:52 PM |
| 1 | feeling depressed... help me out seddit..out of sight, out of mind. Do you not have any guy friends? girl friends? hobbies? video games? books? ANYTHING?? will this "one-itis" be relevant to you in 1 year? 5 years? if you answered No, then get over it. | /r/seduction | 08/07/12 05:49 PM |
| 0 | why you shouldn`t post [FR] to reddit seductionhttp://imgur.com/qXqaw | /r/seduction | 08/07/12 04:58 PM |
| 2 | This may offend some people... but hot chicks like sex tooinspiration can come from anywhere | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 11:31 AM |
| 10 | Girl told me i was beautiful and said i could get any girl i wanted. She wouldn't give me her number.also relevant | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 11:24 AM |
| -5 | Girl told me i was beautiful and said i could get any girl i wanted. She wouldn't give me her number.if all else fails, for science! | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 11:23 AM |
| 2 | Positive thinking does not work—positive action does.thank you for this. I am getting laid off from my job soon, and this suites me well. Positive thinking can only get me so far, where i know positive action will get me even farther. | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 09:05 AM |
| 1 | On Dating and Motorcycles (xpost)Im from LA as well.. I start from Forest Lawn off the 134, down sunset and into Santa Monica, then up PCH. I agree with everything that you said in this post, ive taken 3 girls on the bike now in the past 2 weeks, and have another set up in 2 weeks. It's fun and exciting, the girls love it and the kino is EXCELLENT! ;D Its memorable every single time, and when i ask what was your favorite part, then explain and talk about everything! I have a few 2nd dates now, and i cant wait! Imo, i think they… | /r/seduction | 01/07/12 04:42 AM |
| 1 | So exactly, how willing are most women to having sex the same night?there was a post on here not to long ago portraying women's sexual urges, and it was ridiculously high. | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 01:14 PM |
| 1 | What happened to the seddit IRC?wasnt it because of Spammers? | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Just getting over One-itis. ONE RULE.hahah yeah, that small jingle is embed into my brain. | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Do you ever just blatantly ask for escalation?i actually like your responses man. very informative. people new to seddit just havent realized what you speak, is the truth. kudos man | /r/seduction | 28/06/12 12:42 PM |
| 3 | Just getting over One-itis. ONE RULE.60652? And help take a bite out of crime | /r/seduction | 28/06/12 12:39 PM |
| 2 | How does not fall in love when having sex?fuck her like youre gonna win 10 billion dollars if you can saw through her pelvis with your wiener using only pleasurable tactics | /r/seduction | 28/06/12 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Doing it wrong to overcome approach anxietymade a girl laugh and number closed with an opener that i read not too long go here, it was the grasshopper opener. "Hey, have you seen my pet grasshopper?? He was about 1 inch tall, same hairstyle as you, and wearing a green cardigan" | /r/seduction | 28/06/12 07:45 AM |
| 2 | Dear seddit, how did you learn to game?25 year old here. Recently learned about seddit maybe like 3-4months ago. I learned 3/4ths of my game here on reddit. The other part of what i learned was going out there, and actually trying and experimenting all that i read, granted i work graveyard shift and i would browse seddit/askseddit literally 5-6hrs a night (Which i still do and read pretty much everything) What really got me going though, was accepting change, and wanting to change. Start with your Inner Game first, i had social anxie… | /r/seduction | 28/06/12 07:41 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Asked out a girl from class, ejected awkwardlyfree upvotes for being right for once. | /r/seduction | 27/06/12 01:10 PM |
| 3 | Little question about facebook gameput it this way, it took you 2 days to respond to her friend request, might be the same for when she responses, especially since sometimes at least in the text game you want to (amount of response time x 2). I dont believe that you sounded needy or anything like that when you sent the message. I thought it was pretty good and solid. Just wait it out | /r/seduction | 27/06/12 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Vegas in July for hacker conference, help me land a nerdy hacker girl?just be outgoing, and talk to people. Dont be socially awkward and just have a good damn time. Youre going to a conference that you love doing, so i'm sure that'll be the topic of the day. Have a drink or two, but dont over do it. Imo, its vegas bro. Go out and approach, approach, approach! You will definitely get numbers and random girls to have fun with for the night. Granted i know you want something a little bit long term (4-5days worth) Just hit up a cute girl you see there and make friends… | /r/seduction | 27/06/12 09:50 AM |
| 2 | what signs have you noticed that means someone is definitely interested ?i noticed i tilt my head as well.. interesting ioi i give off that i noticed just recently. | /r/seduction | 27/06/12 09:14 AM |
| 11 | what signs have you noticed that means someone is definitely interested ?preening, girls will put their hair behind their ears and show their necks. | /r/seduction | 27/06/12 09:12 AM |
| 1 | New guy looking for any critiques.imo, the only enemy is you not talking to the girl, regardless of getting rejected. | /r/seduction | 26/06/12 08:32 AM |
| 3 | Video: How to Flirt (For Beginners)you only live once brah, might as well flirt with everyone. lol | /r/seduction | 26/06/12 07:33 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Confidence goes a long way. Strong eye contact, kino, and k-closed at LA afterparty.Jillian's at uni city walk?? I'm in LA as well | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 04:44 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with rejectionlove your videos man | /r/seduction | 22/06/12 09:08 AM |
| 2 | I've been approaching a lot and been very mindful of my game lately and noticed some subtle problems that I might have otherwise not noticedi do this alot more often than not, however i do this with friends. I think i do it naturally, as i truly am interested and of course, accompanied with a smile. I guess i need some more field practice with openers and trying not to be so submissive and 'interested' | /r/seduction | 22/06/12 08:56 AM |
| 2 | How can you invite girls on dates without paying for their drinks?use a bit of wordplay. excuse me while i get a drink. brb while i get a drink. if you say something like.. "lets go get something to drink.." "we should get something to drink" it kind of announces like we should get something, and since you brought the idea up you're going to pay. Unless she asks first, in turn you can state.. "sure! you buy first round, and i got the next" (ive done that a couple of times, usually works out for me better this way for whatever reason) | /r/seduction | 22/06/12 08:16 AM |
| 2 | Live your life as if you couldn't be rejected.awwww yeeeeahh! | /r/seduction | 21/06/12 10:31 AM |
| 2 | Wit & TeasingPeople say im a funny perspn, i believe it has mostly to do with the fact that i'm overly sarcastic and also say things with a smile and laugh with things. remember .. agree and amplify! takes lots and lots of practice, and works so well | /r/seduction | 21/06/12 10:03 AM |
| 1 | I'm not looking to pick up tons of girls, but simply to improve my social interactions in general (i.e. get people to like me more). Is this the right place?i have "how to win friends and influence people" by dale in the backseat of my car. my favorite book | /r/seduction | 21/06/12 09:45 AM |
| 1 | How I un-friend zoned myself [FR]i am glad i read this. thank you | /r/seduction | 21/06/12 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Build sexual tension in a tent.as much as you would like things to go well, which we all do. Remember not to be outcome dependent on getting laid. If things dont go your way and you dont end up doing it, dont be bummed out. continue to have a good time, and keep the positive energy up! | /r/seduction | 20/06/12 10:21 AM |
| 2 | Whats a classy way of saying "Do you wanna come over to my place and fuck?"Do you want to watch a movie at my place? | /r/seduction | 20/06/12 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Honesty is the best policy.one girl, and the bottom half of another/???? | /r/seduction | 19/06/12 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Funny Shit (Amnesia Date)i dont even know. what i do know are the funny ass videos they showed. edit: i mean, offensive and not in any way funny videos they showed. | /r/seduction | 18/06/12 08:39 PM |
| 3 | Personal handshake tip when meeting a lady for 1st time.yeah. i can see that.. would like some female input though.. | /r/seduction | 18/06/12 07:54 PM |
| -4 | Personal handshake tip when meeting a lady for 1st time.why would women get offended? I could only see imagine they would be offended if they weren't strong and confident in themselves. | /r/seduction | 18/06/12 07:49 PM |
| 14 | Honesty is the best policy.one thing i hate about girls sometimes.. when they say that they DONT WANT A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP, but then they dont want to be "one of many or other" girls that i'm currently seeing. /facepalm | /r/seduction | 18/06/12 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Funny Shit (Amnesia Date)squid pro row | /r/seduction | 18/06/12 05:05 PM |
| 5 | Funny Shit (Amnesia Date)lol. quid pro quo i learned in my sexual harassment training last week! | /r/seduction | 18/06/12 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Approached more than 50 women, but still no results...try not to be so outcome dependent.. whereas because you approach someone, you need to get a number. I had this problem as well, but now i do it for the conversation, or for whatever reason i go up and talk to her. | /r/seduction | 17/06/12 10:31 PM |
| 3 | Strange yet effective indirect openerlol. "same hairstyle as you, was wearing a green cardigan" winner! | /r/seduction | 17/06/12 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Don't Flinch: An article on success and getting stuff done (x-post from TIL)holy shit | /r/seduction | 17/06/12 08:08 PM |
| 6 | Has anyone else ever been called out w/ seddit terms?imho, sounds like you have some personal experience with someone taking advantage of insecure and unassuming you. /shouldershrug.jpg edit: do tell | /r/seduction | 17/06/12 07:16 PM |
| -2 | What are some drinking games to build attraction?actually.. a female friend and i were talking, and it turns out she doesnt love drinking beer and/or liquor much, but what she does love is bacon. (who doesnt right?) so i made it my goal to buy some of this bacon goodness -> beeeer which i did. It should be arriving tues or weds, and we're having a taste testing on friday night or Saturday night. This might not be relevant to OP's "fun with drinking games" and what not, but still an activity to do and definite way of building attraction. I'm bu… | /r/seduction | 17/06/12 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Girls with boyfriends. How to deal with them... It seems all the cute girls are takenive seen the planting thread mentioned a few times now. i guess after lagging it for a week, i'll finally read it. lol | /r/seduction | 15/06/12 11:14 AM |
| 1 | got her number. going vlubbing tomorrow. panicking.rule 1 - dont give a fuck. it seems like you are giving way too many. just be yourself. be cool. lead the way. do shit that you want to do and she'll follow. just be confident in yourself, shes already giving you her time and attention for your upcoming date. | /r/seduction | 15/06/12 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Mystery coming back. "Ultimate pickup artist convention". Others speaking there including Tyler and Jeffy from RSD"the old tv show" ??? | /r/seduction | 15/06/12 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Mystery coming back. "Ultimate pickup artist convention". Others speaking there including Tyler and Jeffy from RSDlol wow | /r/seduction | 15/06/12 10:04 AM |
| 1 | old but still amazing and what you should be trying to achieve here [xpost /r/videos]those last 8 seconds of the water really gave me a run for my money. | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Great Video Put on by Daygame.com It's been the summer of daygame for me, and I absolutely loved this!great vid. day game looks like it can be ALOT of fun | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 10:28 AM |
| 3 | Just got sent this in a text and without hesitation forwarded it to 2 girls. What is seddit's analysis?hahah thanks sir! yeah i really didnt give a fuck. was merely for science, and it ended up playing in my favor. lol | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 08:34 AM |
| 6 | Just got sent this in a text and without hesitation forwarded it to 2 girls. What is seddit's analysis?it was posted on here a month or so ago. I used it around 2am-ish and posted a response from a girl that i got like 20mins later. We ended up going on a date later on that week and i got to 3rd base. LMR ftl!! oh well | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Closers. Only.alpha male | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 07:19 AM |
| 6 | Probably the best in-field video footage ever. By my best friend, Cajun.here's a quote with the one with emo hair. "im not a fan of textbook game, but if it is, then he's good" WTF is that?? doesnt even know what he's talking about | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 11:29 AM |
| 3 | Probably the best in-field video footage ever. By my best friend, Cajun.as if retards isnt bad enough? haha | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Eye contact/How can you tell if someone is into you.yeah. i studied social communications and sociology in school, and learned quite a bit about eye movements and the direction the eyes move. Also note, if the person is left handed, then its the opposite! some people dont know that... but at this point, im more into the girl, so i just tend to look at her naturally instead of seeing if her pupils dilate or not :] | /r/seduction | 11/06/12 10:06 PM |
| 36 | How's it Going?kid tested. mother approved | /r/seduction | 11/06/12 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Growing a beard could up your confidenceneck beards are terrible bro and not 'clean' looking. | /r/seduction | 11/06/12 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Anyone Cut Down Their Blinking?hahahah read this about a day or two ago! | /r/seduction | 11/06/12 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Eye contact/How can you tell if someone is into you.i saw a video a while back when i used to lurk and read alot and i understand preening. However, the best i can do, and what i do is look at someone's eye color, and KNOW what it is. What i CAN NOT do, is tell when a pupil is dilated or not. Next date im going on, i will look for the lick/curled lip, because i notice her put her hair behind her ear every so often. thanks man. any suggestions on how to look for dilated pupils? | /r/seduction | 11/06/12 11:14 AM |
| 6 | Facebook talking advice.quick tip. keep the conversation on FB at a sheer minimum.. if any conversation at all. This doesn't lead to any attraction and its happened quite a few times. I now stay logged off of FB chat and come appear online every so often and see who's online. Be quick to the point, and try to set up a date. Once you've accomplished that, say something along the lines of i gotta run but we'll chat later. Then confirm with a text or whatever your style is before the date. Read the side bar though, if you… | /r/seduction | 09/06/12 07:23 PM |
| -4 | Blowjobs, do they happen?fat girls give the best blowjobs because they're always hungry | /r/seduction | 09/06/12 07:15 PM |
| 2 | [FR] "Fine....I'll have sex with you" Challengeas i fellow "thats so raven" user.. i applaud you. | /r/seduction | 09/06/12 06:53 PM |
| 4 | Learning game is much more than getting women, it's about total self-improvement.tldr; have fun & don't settle! ;D sounded like a damn good time! | /r/seduction | 07/06/12 07:28 AM |
| 2 | A guy challenges me to a fight. I will lose. How do i decline without looking like a beta?LOL i waved someone along once when i showed up to a club/bar with his ex gf. I shoo'd him away cause he was a total tool and dbag, and they we not together. things didnt turn out well for both of us. | /r/seduction | 06/06/12 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Picking up chicks with internet memesi recently started using "is this your boyfriend?" when in a new social circle. It makes it totally awkward for them, and I found out if the dude is her bf or just a friend. | /r/seduction | 06/06/12 11:26 AM |
| 2 | Use this technique to reduce approach anxiety before going out!r/trees ?? lol | /r/seduction | 06/06/12 11:11 AM |
| 13 | Use this technique to reduce approach anxiety before going out!thanks man! watched this on my break at my desk, and ended up falling asleep. LOL. i felt good and less stressed. | /r/seduction | 05/06/12 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Richard la Ruina's "How have you been?" approach - it works pretty damn wellit actually happened naturally and I didnt even realize it! :] | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Richard la Ruina's "How have you been?" approach - it works pretty damn wellthis happened to me once, as someone was trying to get in on the the conversation. When he asked how have you been, i jumped in after she answered with a "ohh you guys know each other?? Did you guys go to school together?" Sometimes it happens to us, just be aware! | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 10:30 AM |
| 0 | You should always be closing (The Hold'em Mentality)abc! | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 10:18 AM |
| 3 | You should always be closing (The Hold'em Mentality)"sometimes you just gotta fold those pocket aces" just clicked in my head | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 10:16 AM |
| 2 | Hey Seddit! A friend and I recently made a subreddit called /r/BitchesLovePicnics, for cheap dating ideas/advice. Feel free to subscribe!first thing i see submitted is Dave Chapelle! lol thank you!! :D | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 07:28 AM |
| 5 | Seddit, I'm about to have sex with the girl of my dreams. I'm going to go for a relationship. I have one thing to say to you.pics or it didnt happen | /r/seduction | 03/06/12 09:09 AM |
| 2 | Really hot girl at the gym...but she is always with her mom. What do i do?yeah i found askseddit to be extremely unhelpful. go figure | /r/seduction | 03/06/12 08:30 AM |
| 5 | Really hot girl at the gym...but she is always with her mom. What do i do?lol i asked a question on askseddit, had like 1upvote, and 5 downvotes or something. didnt find it helpful at all | /r/seduction | 01/06/12 12:54 PM |
| 0 | The reason why you're so neurotic and what to do about itthanks for this! | /r/seduction | 31/05/12 12:58 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Forgot about meeting herhttp://imgur.com/XVQB3 | /r/seduction | 31/05/12 11:37 AM |
| -1 | Conventional Wisdom: Asking a Girl Outwerd | /r/seduction | 31/05/12 11:32 AM |
| 1 | I'll be your nemesis.i read.. "hey faggots, my name is john and i hate every single one of you. All of you are fat, retarded..." and then i decided to click the picture. next thing i did was LOL at work. thank you. | /r/seduction | 30/05/12 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Rules to Live Bymind..blown | /r/seduction | 21/05/12 10:41 AM |
| 2 | 5 cures for approach anxietyop will surely deliver | /r/seduction | 21/05/12 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Noobie with girlssince youre in highschool still.. Ask about class or the homework, or about that test you just had. You can easily transition from there. Talking about the avengers movie has recently been working for me. Although its already coming up on 2-3 weeks. Finals and Summer vacay are a few interesting topics here as well. Usually before class starts, you have that 3-5min window where you can talk and get yourself situated in class, If shes in a class with you before lunch, ask her whats for lunch today… | /r/seduction | 17/05/12 07:55 AM |
| 1 | FR Bank Day Game - #-closelooks like the cash is in the bag! good luck | /r/seduction | 14/05/12 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Super solid daygame, shitty nightgame. Advice?agreed. i would of done w/o the weird ass hairstyle, but that one was playing with his hair. Was pretty funny and genuinely made all the girls laugh and giggle. | /r/seduction | 14/05/12 10:47 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Just have fun, no closes. Just a good damn time.yup. tried not to be outcome dependent, and just had a good time! | /r/seduction | 14/05/12 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Super solid daygame, shitty nightgame. Advice?ooh. thats a long vid. commenting so i can watch it tonight at work :3 | /r/seduction | 14/05/12 03:56 AM |
| 1 | How to spike her emotions and rekindle the flame with a hilarious text message.lol. i pretty much did, but i didnt really care since we hadn't talked in a while. guess it worked out! | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 11:00 PM |
| 2 | (FR) Crashed and burned tonight.dont be so negative. ask her out on a lunch date or out at night for a drink or two since the weekend just arrived. | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Just opened a two set of German girls in McDonalds and number closed them both. Today was a good day.yolo | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 10:58 AM |
| 3 | (FR) Crashed and burned tonight."Long story short I ended up heading home early tonight, because I couldn't find her." care to explain a little bit?? | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 10:50 AM |
| 7 | How to spike her emotions and rekindle the flame with a hilarious text message.interesting.. id use the first one, however i dont really care for chocolate. hahah might try this out, granted its 1:40 in the morning. edit: this text is +600/120 LOL edit 2: 2:49am - we have a date tomorrow! hahahah wow. most random thing ever. sometimes random and spontaneous is good. here's how she responded. "No, i'm not a chocolate person. I'm sorry. I hope this doesnt change things between us." Me: "lol really?? i dont care for chocolate either." and from there it just kinda escalated. :… | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Seddit Pocket Notes Appi really like this app. Super user friendly and you look at your phone alot anyways, might as well read some material to get your mind set down. | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 12:15 AM |
| 7 | [FR] First date – Handjob in the park.omg. i literally lol'd at work. gj sir | /r/seduction | 10/05/12 08:47 AM |
| 3 | im 22 ive recently lost over 35 pounds feeling confident, never been kissed in my life, help.i have literally nothing to lose and every single thing in the world to gain. +1 upvote for that. I would read a little bit more of the sidebar as there's some really good stuff in there, as well as the links. Usually if you have some small chat and there's lots of smiling, giggling, laughing, what have you.. say you have to leave. Don't just say that either, if you have to leave, go somewhere else. I'm a beginner like you, been in this sub-reddit for about 3-4weeks now, and so far its been fun.… | /r/seduction | 04/05/12 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Neil Strauss' iPhone App: A Better Manyeah. I have the app since i got paid earlier. i dont mind the 2.99 as i rarely buy anything from the app store, so why not. It seems like a small RPG game, with achievements and Levels. Level 1 has like 12 missions.. Ranging from something like - Say "hi" to five random women or asking a random woman what time is it today. Once you accept the mission - you have 24 hrs to complete it. After completing it, you can give a Mission Report for a FR and tips for other people to read (albeit i havent s… | /r/seduction | 04/05/12 09:18 AM |
| 108 | Texting trick that has never failed me[http://i.imgur.com/irTU7.gif] | /r/seduction | 04/05/12 03:02 AM |
| 7 | Neil Strauss' iPhone App: A Better ManDUDE. this would be so much fun! hahaha. Good practice for random day game too | /r/seduction | 03/05/12 10:47 PM |
| 2 | [semi-FR] Just a quick reminder about the importance of eye contactso do eye contacts :P stick to it though man. it does work! | /r/seduction | 02/05/12 02:04 PM |
| 3 | The Tension Pointthanks! you'll find conversations to flow easier and be 'meaningful' and have a little more umph to them. Let me know how it works out. Dont forget. you can do the "TRIANGLE". you can look at each eye and top of the nose to give your eyes a more fluid and active action, rather than giving a death stare :D hope this helps some of you! *edit - dont forget to smile! | /r/seduction | 02/05/12 01:16 AM |
| 18 | The Tension Pointyeah. Something i had a habit of doing is breaking eye contact. Being a little competitive, ive turned it into a game, and now i almost never break eye contact first. I agree that it dissipates the tension, but its crucial to hold it instead. | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 10:37 AM |
| 4 | Ever have problems being nice?remember this. "Agree and amplify. or Ignore" in the scenario where the two girls kissed at the party. You could have agreed, and amplified with a.. "any room for me??!" with a fat smile. Would have got some laughs and brought on some spontaneous fun if they said yes. You seem to be using alot of negs though. Smile more and just have fun. Dont be a douche. | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 10:33 AM |
| 4 | Getting out of the Friendzonei cant stress this enough, but taking off your glasses really puts an emphasis on things. | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 11:44 AM |
| 3 | You guyssssss. <3ch'ode school | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 11:31 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Nothing Too Crazy, But Went Out Solothe best part was reading the "i had a fucking awesome time regardless while out solo." So glad its friday. I'll be flying solo for sure, my friend's can tag along and enjoy the ride if they want. regardless, its not gonna stop me! thanks for the motivation /thumbsup.jpg | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Whats a good reply for "Do you have a gf?i have this written at my whiteboard at work. which i memorized. Agree and Amplify. or Ignore. he did the right thing! hahah | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 12:43 PM |
| 2 | If a girl is interested in you, why does she flake?yeah i read this not too long ago. good advice | /r/seduction | 26/04/12 01:49 PM |
| 2 | If a girl is interested in you, why does she flake?i do this. Something that i add is "let me know if anything changes before then, I'll do the same as well if something happens to come up." not sure if its good or not, but it works for me. Less flake rate from my experiences, however girls will always tend to flake every so often. | /r/seduction | 26/04/12 01:48 PM |
| 1 | [FR] extremely short.truuuue. here i am almost 8 years later barely finding out about all this stuff! | /r/seduction | 26/04/12 09:20 AM |
| 3 | If a girl is interested in you, why does she flake?LOL soo true. This happened to me, it's been two days and nothing, but she still updates her fb and tweets through her phone. No biggie though.. just think its a bit hilarious. and annoying of course. | /r/seduction | 26/04/12 08:29 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Girl on a Bikethe new "F"Close. Sounded like fun though! Let her come to you. She knows where you're gonna be with that flier, assuming youre going to the event | /r/seduction | 24/04/12 10:28 PM |
| 9 | Oneitis just got knocked the f**k out.had to look it up myself. taken from urban dictionary. (posted for the lazy) Often confused with love, this is the feeling that a particular woman is actually special. This is just an illusion; she is the same as the other three or so billion. "Go fuck ten other women" is the most commonly prescribed treatment for this "disease" (hence the "itis"), as it tends to show quite quickly how very alike people are. In other words, get over yourself and your obsession with that girl, because it's just a… | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 12:30 PM |
| 1 | What are your general rules of thumb on dates?sitting next to someone, isnt that more of a "couples" thing? | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 09:59 AM |
| 2 | The Question we are all asked 100 times a day: How are you?what i tend to do .. is respond with a very enthusiastic "Im doing great, how about yourself?! How was your weekend??"..[or any other question/current event.. ex:coachella ] and a smile. I throw in the question almost immediately and have all the attention on her. The smile imo is the most important part! Works like a charm since ive been trying it. | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 09:26 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Do I know you?fuckin legit!!!! made my night/week/month | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 09:19 AM |
| 4 | Peackocking, Without Even Tryingi take off my robe and [chef's] hat | /r/seduction | 21/04/12 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Cross-post from Askseddit: Small [FR] with a twist and a question.i would go with the.. "i live multiple lives" .. its actually quite funny and mysterious. i also wouldn't bring up any negativity. She took time to look you up on FB, just keep it at that and try not to care/think about it too much. | /r/seduction | 21/04/12 08:32 PM |
| 10 | STOP WAITING: DO IT NOW!this aint my dad.. its a cell phone. duhhhh!!!! | /r/seduction | 20/04/12 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Got the best compliment I could've received from my ladies' man best buddy today after he went out with me the other night.your mindset. NOT giving one fuck. | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 11:50 AM |
| 5 | for all you guys worried about going out solo, DONT BE :)good luck! sky's are clear and all engines are a go! blast off in 3...2...1... | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Movies like "The Notebook" have brainwashed men, ruining our success with women. Look at this example.dat pizza | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 01:36 PM |
| 112 | Changed my "job," got a great response.more rare than an abra in tall grass | /r/seduction | 12/04/12 02:59 PM |
| 33 | Changed my "job," got a great response.I work for a video game company. Bitches don't like video games. | /r/seduction | 12/04/12 02:49 PM |
| 2 | TL;DR girl tells me she is so turned on by my confidence, This makes me feel unconfident. help?trueeeeeeeee | /r/seduction | 09/04/12 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Going to a club tonight. Anyone have advice for someone who is a club noob?LOL i remember i went out with friends friends (both guys and girls) and we ended up going to this random ass 18+ club. We waited in line for like 30mins and told it was $15 to enter and i'm okay with that since i work and the place was "poppin".. turns out some of the girls werent even 18.. they were 16-17 and didnt even have enough money to pay for entrance fee. never hung out or went out with them ever again. | /r/seduction | 09/04/12 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Going to a club tonight. Anyone have advice for someone who is a club noob?hey bro. mind giving us an update?? Hope it went well | /r/seduction | 08/04/12 09:20 PM |
| 2 | The Real Man vs The "Nice Guy"trueeee.. knowing is half the battle | /r/seduction | 07/04/12 09:28 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Day-Game Cold approach broke the 4th wall and escalated to hand-holding within minutes.awesome story bro! super interesting, and happy endings are always good ;D | /r/seduction | 06/04/12 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a bf, a date, or almost anything...omfg... i have Dale Carnegie's book in my backpack right now! (im at work btw) I take it everywhere i go. i have notes in my book and has taught me alot about self-improvement and lots of other things. Also.. "If there was one thing I wish I could have done differently back in HS, it would have been to stop giving two shits about what anyone thinks" i wish i was the same. I thought too much and never did anything. I was too worried trying to be "cool" and "popular", and now 8 years later, all of… | /r/seduction | 06/04/12 12:04 PM |
| 0 | Basic female advice from a girlfor #1. i found Lunch to be better than coffee. Dinner is too formal and coffee is too casual. Lunch has worked for me so far the past two dates ive had! Hope this helps other guys. | /r/seduction | 04/04/12 08:54 AM |
| 1 | 7 unique TL;DRs.nzt 48 ;D | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Who can explain how to properly neg a girl"...if she sees you're not in awe of her she'll believe its because you are accustomed to better, if she believes girls much prettier than her are interested in you than shell see it as proof that she should be too." me gusta | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 02:22 AM |
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