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It comes from old PUA days where everything was focused on the girl and interaction. If you see yourself as a prize you won't think about that. And if you don't, you have bigger things to worry about.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 09:17 PM
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No. Your frame when you say this is something like: "I secretly hope that you don't flake again'.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 07:36 PM
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"Depends on what the chances you'll be 'sick' again are." Don't do that. It reeks desperation.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 06:34 PM
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The women attraction is not static. She can FEEL it someday and not another. Advanced guys don't care if she's not feeling it that day. And maybe even another. You're not trying because you're afraid it will hurt your ego. Keep trying until you get a firm NO from her. In the worst-case scenario she's fishing you to get some validation. Who cares. If it's just a couple of messages on your phone, what did you really lose?
/r/askTRP04/11/19 06:31 PM
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I don't quite get the LTRs after taking the red pill. Is it just me? Edit: I think ultimately it's laziness that men who have been redpilled, enter in LTR.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 03:59 PM
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I don't know, I think there are all attention whores to a degree. On Balkan, it's just more normal due to culture and mentality of people.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 06:43 PM
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Dude, yes it is. It's worse than you think. I have 0 savings but I'm going out as soon as my business provides me with enough cash. When you have the fire under your ass you'll run faster. When you have that safety net of your parent's basement at home it's always "tomorrow" for things that should be done today. And as one of my favorite redpillers on youtube said in one of his videos lately: It's easier to bring ONS to your wife than to your parents. Couldn't agree more. Spinning plates is impo…
/r/askTRP26/10/19 06:13 PM
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I'm from Eastern Europe and yes, women are thinner and more into a healthy lifestyle and they get serious boyfriends sooner in their life, but on the other side, I've never seen more cheating behind a bf/husband's back than in our part of the world. Of course when you're a tourist or smth it's always easier to bang randoms. Not just women who live there but also travellers and expats. Nothing new here, old news.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 05:56 PM
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Yes, it's called roid rage.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 09:15 PM
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I own digital agency but it's really going slow at the moment. Was considering job also but right now I cannot find a good one. Thanks for your tips man
/r/askTRP28/09/19 09:56 PM
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Less % of men will fuck bigger % of women. More and more incels and virgins. An average guy will not be able to even get into a relationship with below-average women because lowlife fuckbois are doing their job. The future does not look pretty if you're not a very high SMV guy.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 01:00 PM
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SMV is highly subjective. It's mainly an ego defensive mechanism.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 04:03 PM
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You are saying like SMV does not matter. They go for different, but they never go on the lower branch.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 07:02 PM
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Anonymity in a sense that only women I swiped right can see my profile. If I see some chick from my social circle I never swipe right even if I have a feeling that she could be a good lead. I believe being on Tinder will lower your social value if people from your social circle know you're there. It's even worse for women. I only talk about it with my "PUA friends". I think you can delete your profile and start again but not sure ( just check on google ). Make sure you get the numbers from good …
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 09:46 AM
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Yeah, that's normal, same with me and everyone I know. Tinder will show you women that will very likely swipe you right in the beginning to hook you up on the app. It's just pure business, so you get addicted to swiping. I use gold just for anonymity. I don't believe gold will give you more matches.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 06:11 PM
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Doesn't matter, she just wants to know if you're still that guy or you become a little bitch.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:50 PM
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That's not true. If your SMV is way higher than hers, shit tests will be nonexistent. ​ It's always when you're something in the middle and she needs to make a decision.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 01:20 PM
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Nothing will dry her pussy faster than telling her your problems and showing that you don't know how to solve them. Meanwhile, we are bombarded by the message that communication in a relationship will solve everything. It's a shit test on a larger scale. Don't fall for it.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 10:10 AM
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Because you want them but don't need them.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 02:42 PM
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Unsuccessful men on Tinder paying so that App can function and exist meanwhile a 5% don't have to pay anything to fuck a different chick every other day.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/19 08:29 AM
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Student exchange = CC. Travelling abroad = CC. Finding herself = CC. ​ Every PUA in Europe knows that the easiest lays are women in student exchange programs. Sorry dude, must kind of sux but I'm speaking from experience. I was in both boats before. Work on yourself like crazy meanwhile so when she comes back she'll not be able to recognize you. Then watch her go crazy and enjoy.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 08:24 AM
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Just don’t LTR them. If a good looking woman is on Tinder it’s because: She’s looking for Instagram followers She’s in the middle of CC She’s damaged goods, emotionally unstable or has some sort of BPD. Be careful with the ones who have only selfies of their face. They’re usually fat. And yes to everyone saying there are some good women out there on Tinder, but the chances for this are so miniscule that you’ll be better just to disregard your search for the Unicorn and not expect anything. Tinde…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 12:30 AM
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Can someone explain to me why this is upvoted so much? The quality of this sub is going down the toilet.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/19 09:58 AM
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Coffin is made for one. Everybody dies alone. Monogamy is a myth. Hoping that the world will turn back to the traditional values is very optimistic. It will not happen. And it was wrong to begin with. Women were fucking their husband just to have a provisioning and not because they were truly attracted to them. It’s not just brasil. It’s the whole world. I live in eastern/central Europe and it’s pretty much the same shit. Hypergamy is build in them. Get over it. If you want to marry some chick w…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/19 06:51 PM
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Yeah because all maried people are happy as fuck. Tradcucks will eventually find out that you don’t choose a reality you want to live in.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/19 03:42 PM
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In summary: I’m afraid to grow old alone, so I need to rationalize why it’s better to take a bet. Until this fear will follow you, you’ll never be free my friend. The world has done good job brainwashing you that the worst thing that can happen to you is to be alone. Let alone no one told you that this comes from inside of you, not external things, people and family included. You’re born alone and you die alone. Until you really get this, you’re not truly redpilled and you’re not truly free.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/19 08:39 AM
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Use paragraphs, please. The first couple of sentences is just your male hamstering of some kind of revenge because she picked him but in reality it’s not even her. It’s her hypergamy. Even if the guy stops being who he is ( loses his contract or whatever ) she’ll still think she’s now playing in this league. The problem is she will not get her vagina wet for the “average 8” any time soon, if ever once she had a dick of a pro athlete ( or any other guy in the same league). Dating world is collaps…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/19 06:26 AM
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That's naive. She can be an 8, but to the guy with an extra high SMV, she's just another plain Jane for an easy lay. The best part is that Jane now thinks she deserves a rich athlete and nothing else. Even if she gets a guy who's maybe 8 or even 9, she will think she settled with him. And no matter how much you invest in yourself, you'll never be a rich young athlete. That's a reality. Guys that think that everything can be solved with self-improvement live in delusion, especially if you want to…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/19 03:05 AM
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Oh let me guess: you get yourself on your first test cycle, a couple of months later you posted your buffed bathroom selfie on your Tinder profile and you got 4 matches in just one week. You also watched some PUA videos and you now finally understand that judging women is bad for your sex life right? I'm impressed, really. ​ I got my dick wet daily before you were even born, kid. Shut the fuck up, testosterone does not grow your brains, okay? ​ If you cannot comprehend the idea why female promis…
/r/askTRP26/12/18 03:05 AM
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Is 1998 your birth year? You should shut the fuck up and listen more, kid.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 12:57 AM
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Time is a factor too, in a monogamous relationship, other men appear to be more alpha. The more she knows about you, the more loyal you are, the harder it is to compete with others. This is because you are competing with fantasies about other men that she whips up in her head. When you exist in reality, it's hard to compete with fantasy. Ek-fucking-xactly. That's why people who are saying 'just be alpha and she'll be loyal' are delusional. When you're in LTR, especially for a longer period of ti…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/18 10:54 AM
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It's nothing new. Everybody with at least a general understanding of the redpill knows that women would rather share high SMV man than settle for someone weaker, poorer and uglier.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 05:47 PM
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Yup, she can fuck 3 guys a day and still be monogamous. The problem is in the timeframe we are defining monogamy.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 09:11 AM
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need to screen the girl Yeah man, just ask her how many dicks she had before you'll marry her and she'll tell you the exact number. This sub is mostly filled with bitter incels right now. "explaining". Somehow shaming men being incels is OK, shaming women being whores is not OK. Dude, you're full of shit. ​
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 07:13 AM
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Dude, why are you here? Just marry one of the single post-wall moms with N count of 100. We'll be glad! WIN-WIN for all! Let me be brief: the more dicks woman had, the harder is for her to pair-bond long term ( we have studies on this ). Redpill understanding comes to you when you're prepared. You and all the cucks liking your post are clearly not.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 04:53 AM
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Oh let get this straight; Some of the redpillers actually had balls to step in front of everyone and expose themselves, now some people here are mad because they would rather stay safe and anonymous. Now they are mad because some people are monetizing out of it. Cmon man. I would pay someone who would put all this knowledge in audio/video format simply because I like that kind of format more. You can argue all day long how everything was written before and who came first with the idea, but I rea…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/18 05:39 AM
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That's painful to read man while you're giving every minute of your day to increase your SMV.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 03:47 PM
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That’s what these student exchanges are for women: a fuck fest.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 11:49 PM
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Yeah, you read this on the internet? I’m from former socialist state and please for the love of god, if you haven’t experience this in real life, just shut the fuck up...
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 01:03 AM
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Oh yeah, because in North Korea news are much more truthful without any bias right? Capitalism, you sure? You're reading too much politics, dude. ​ People just read and watch things that are in alignment with their preexisting beliefs because it gives them validation. And the one who has attention, controls the narrative ( & resources). And in all honesty, TRP is guilty of that too.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/18 11:14 PM
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When they get fat
/r/askTRP30/10/18 04:02 PM
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Block them & move on. They have your phone number in case your “no contact tecnique” works, but that frame is fucked up from the start if you ask me. You still expect something and you shouldn’t.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:57 PM
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I had once a fuck buddy like that. She was constantly talking about exs, guys who hit on her, asking me if she should date this guy and talking how all the rich guys hit on her but she’s ‘not that kind of girl’. I never shown any jealousy or anything. I don’t know if I failed here but I just wanted to fuck her so I really didn’t care. I just knew from TRP that’s she not wife material. Let me tell you that all that resulted in one of the most toxic relationship that I’ve ever had. She tried to fu…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:43 PM
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Lol a lot of people downvoted this but it's 100% correct.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 09:17 AM
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Once woman said to me: I'm always on the market.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 09:11 AM
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I'm thinking about moving there for a couple of months. So, easy girls there?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 03:06 PM
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It the easiest era for people who are destined to have a great life ( via genetics, born in rich family, etc... ). It’s the worst for people who were born with fucked up genetics. The feminine imperative wants only Chads kids. The Chads are drowning in pussy, but incels on the other side are going to die virgins. And the percentage of people who will be considered Chad is going to be smaller and smaller day by day, thanks to social media, tinder, Hollywood 50 shades of grey and feminism. The ave…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 03:09 PM
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lol pseudo science at it’s finest.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 10:57 AM
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I disagree. Betas will not somehow become more attractive with less government, they’ll just become more necessary, but women will still try to fuck alphaa and sex with a beta will still be just a transaction. Problem with being sexless in not that you can’t get sex but that you feel unworthy and undesirable as a man.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 08:55 AM
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Than shoot yourself in the head because the fact that you are here means that your face is not pretty enough. Game is in my experience bullshit for people who have no balls to approach and face rejection. No wonder you believe face is everything right? Because you’re a fucking pussy yourself. And that 95 - 5% - where are these numbers coming from? Do we have studies? Have I missed something? It’s just a subjective opinion. Nobody knows these numbers and it’s different for each girl and different…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 08:07 AM
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Same here. Have a friend that thinks every girls belongs to him. Like he spins 5 plates and if I like some girl he thinks it’s his turn, like wtf
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 11:38 PM
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Oh really? Sperm banks exist for how many years now? Ever heard of that? If you REALLY think this is the problem. And funny thing, if you google 'male sperm quality by age' you get: Male fertility starts to decline after 40 when sperm quality decreases. You throw this number around like 10 years is no difference. Maybe you think you are redpilled, but let me tell you, you're still beta as fuck. Froze your sperm ( just in case lol ) and start your family when you find yourself in a right position…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 10:21 PM
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Incels are redpilled men in a crab bucket.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 06:22 PM
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80% of women are there just for attention and have no plan to go out with you unless you're really really good looking. Tinder is not for TRP because if you are that good looking to actually have success on tinder, you wouldn't need TRP in the first place. I once met a chick who had 1700 matches and is hardly a 5 on a good day. And she lives in a city of 200.000 people. That tells you a lot.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 12:53 PM
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How is that physical? I don't understand...
/r/TheRedPill21/04/18 11:51 AM
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Yeah, just be yourself. That will sure make you happy, especially if you’re a loser. Sounds like bullshit women gave me for 15 years.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 10:05 PM
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IMO you need two things in every successful endeavor; first is consistency and the second is intensity. So if we put this in a simple formula: Work = consistency * intensity. One forgotten will only give you mediocre results at best. This book only covers consistency more or less. That's great but it will only get you so far because nothing in our world is constant. So don't forget to try to do a little bit more each time. To give you an example from the gym; being consistent with the same worko…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 01:49 AM
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Same here. No, you need some common sense. It also depends on where you are right now. If you’re broke ass entrepreneur working 24/7, you wont keep a girlfriend no matter if you’re Bill Gates in the making...
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 02:42 AM
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Sorry to tell you this but she is probably looking for better option.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 05:52 PM
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Yeah and you know that on N = 1 right?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 05:51 PM
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I had the worst breakups with the exact type of girls you're describing ( sounds like one of my 3.5y ex LTRs lol ). At least when you're fucking a bitchy girl you know what to expect but with this innocent looking girls, you'll be fucking amazed what they can turn into at the end. You better believe they also have their dark side and it can sometimes transform into much much darker being than you can even imagine. And there's no fucking way you'll ever get the real number of guys she slept with.…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 12:06 AM
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Again, is woman fucking you because it elevates her social status or is she fucking you just because she actually enjoys it? It's an ancient debate, so I won't go there, but it's something to keep in mind when simply saying: "social status/money/social proof/being alpha" will make you more attractive. My opinion: No, it wont make your more attractive, but it will make her chase your approval more, which can (sometimes) result in sex.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 11:40 PM
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women want to fuck the man at the top of the dominance hierarchy First, this is debatable. I would say woman want to fuck men who are on the top of gene dominance hierarchy, anything else is just a transaction. Second, 90% of socializing is bullshit small talk and nothing else. Make yourself competent in some area that you can contribute in a big way and it can land you on the top. Simply socializing will do nothing.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 02:57 AM
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Are you kiddin me?
/r/askTRP11/02/18 02:27 AM
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Dude, if you have so much time thinking about this bullshit you’re doing it all wrong. Why? Because the default mindset you’re coming from is “she’s on the pedestal and I need to manipulate her somehow so she knows I’m kind of a big deal”. If your SMV is high enough you don’t have to think about this shit. You’re focusing on the wrong thing.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 01:43 PM
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Yup, I guess Dan Bilzerian plays on his looks. Money = status to some degree. I hope we all agree what status does to your attraction.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 02:42 PM
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Lol, ironically you’re quoting someone who is a multimillionaire and is richer than any of us will ever be here. What he’s saying is don’t do this just to get approval from woman because it’s just a reactive and not proactive force. Do it for yourself.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 02:31 PM
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Because it goes against the notion of “alpha fucks beta bucks” and due to the fact that TRP is full of authistic people. Money is important especially because it opens up new opportunities everywhere: looks, social circle, lifestyle etc.... Most people are broke and that’s why they need to hamster this shit out somehow...
/r/askTRP06/02/18 02:27 PM
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That sounds great on paper but some guys SMV will never reach a point where they will get a “fuck yes” response from any girl or at least not from the one they would like to fuck. Edit: spelling
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 12:52 PM
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I guess some of you were born redpilled. People learn ffs...
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 06:28 PM
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If you want to look the best you can, bodybuilding is still the way to go.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 10:24 PM
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Read again: 2 years. Yeah she was around 40% body fat. 1 - 1.5 kg a month, not that hard believe me, specially if you have bad genetics...
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 09:00 PM
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I'm from Europe. It may be a little bit better here, but let me just give you my story... My ex had around 55-60kgs when we started dating, she’s 5.4' and back then had a pretty nice body. One year later I was competing at men's physique show ( bodybuilding ) at ~ 82kgs. One year later after my competition she had 8kgs more than I had when I was on stage. And at the end of the day she cheated on me with some fucking horny beta who she met in college. Yeah I know, don't fucking ask me why I was s…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 06:43 PM
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Kudos to him. Not hating just saying what it really is.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 04:20 PM
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Lol that blackpill dillusion that after 6 months of lifting you somehow become The Chad speaks volumes. It’s just your confirmation bias at work, nothing else.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 04:12 PM
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You fucking won dude
/r/askTRP17/01/18 01:19 AM
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The problem is in your title "Potential LTR". If you are chasing her commitment you already lost her. You shouldn't be thinking about committing to any girl before she brings it on herself. Ever. I did this mistake many times before I came here. A girl showed me interest and I immediately wanted to trap her into LTR. Why? Because I was clueless beta in fucking scarcity. If you would spin plates of the same SMV, you wouldn't be thinking about LTR at all. x5 The solution is abundance. But for the …
/r/askTRP13/01/18 01:49 AM
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Start with Grant Cardone, Jordan Belfort, Brian Tracy.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 01:09 AM
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Most guys are delusional here. I’ve been lifting for 9years, doing BB shows and earning fitness coach certifications and never have a feeling that i’m near that just because I’m lifting.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 11:32 AM
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Oh I see, your "phone game" is doing it. If you're ugly, professional photos will only make it more clearly that you're ugly. But do you really believe just pro photos will make you top 5 in the group of 100 guys all horny to fuck? Geez.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 10:51 PM
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That's why Tinder is bullshit. If she looks like 9 on Tinder, she's probably 6 at best.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 10:50 PM
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Being butthurt and calling her out is failing IMO. I just totally ignore it if I don't have a good verbal comeback.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 07:26 PM
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professional photos can easily get you into the top 5% Sorry guys but how the fuck does professional photos make you 5%? You're delusional. After matches, you still need to meet this "leads" in real life.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 07:19 PM
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This is bullshit. Finasteride increases testosterone because less of it is converting to DHT.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 12:37 PM
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Been on it for 7 years, no sides.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 12:33 PM
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LTR is trap. It makes men weak. Then she branch-swings and you are there again, out in the wild, doing stuff you should do from the start. Spin plates and work on yourself like your life depends on it. There is no other path to real freedom.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 12:31 AM
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Exactly. Remember guys, men think logically and love emotionally, women think emotionally and love logically.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 12:46 PM
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No need bro. I have a face of a God and I eat 10 pussies a day so good they cry all over my beautiful face.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 06:16 PM
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First world problems...
/r/askTRP12/12/17 03:43 PM
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She came all over the world to run a cock carousel, not to find a boyfriend. She wants to ride as many Chads as possible before she gets back home where she’ll put her nice girl mask back on. That’s why Erasmus and student exchange is so popular in Europe, especially among the women. They can ride as many cocks as they want without any downside.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 08:15 PM
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Your words: looks is all it matters. face = looks. Are you expecting to get information about a nose job on TRP or what? Fucking hypocrite, trying to bring everybody down with his victim incel bullshit, now your expecting to get tips on self improvement? Go fuck yourself.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 02:46 AM
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No actually just a question...
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 01:15 AM
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Point he’s making is: Even if you squat 40kg, you can’t beat Mr. Beautiful Face. I actually agree. My GF squats more.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 01:13 AM
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What the fuck are you then doing here, Mr. Beautiful Face ?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 11:46 PM
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Brace yourself TRP, Incels got their subreddit banned.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 09:55 PM
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Welcome to the 21st century. The problem is a 3/10 nowadays has minimum 10000 dicks in her area waiting to fuck her anytime. All she needs to do is to swipe a couple of times. In reality, it's even worse.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 08:28 PM
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There are studies which observed that strength is the highest in the evening for majority of population.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 04:09 PM
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Please don’t
/r/askTRP06/12/17 02:40 PM
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Same story here. When she was fucked up with her weight problem I was trying to do every fucking thing before I cut the rope and get out of LTR. After 3 years she finally did it. But now I was fucking depressed because my startup failed and I was working 12 hours/day for months. She felt my weakness and branch swing to another dick in a couple of weeks.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 07:05 PM
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I've been reading TRP ever since we cut ties (2 weeks ago) and have a much better mindset. We had a huge argument 2 days ago once again because I asked her for her mothers number so I can hopefully have her move out. Turned into a SHIT show and she's pretty much going to stay here for a while and so am I. What about that other guy? Look, IMO she knew what she was doing when she did a branch swing. Your frame in that relationship was totally fucked up if she thought otherwise. She'll give you tha…
/r/askTRP14/11/17 05:10 PM
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Is SMV really that important here?
/r/askTRP13/11/17 11:06 AM
1

No I'm just a regular European living in Europe.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 10:42 AM
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My FFMI is 24. I don't believe a lot of people here at TRP are more jacked. So gym is obviously not the answer to all. Plus, you are not interesting or have anything interesting to say. Here you're probably right.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 10:36 AM
1

Can I just ask why not letting her come with you to the gym is bad?
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 09:41 PM
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You're paranoid about LTRs and cheating. If your SMV is high enough, there should be no problem. Even if she cheats on you, you have no problem attracting a new girl of her caliber. The problem is when your SMV is low and you commit as the exit strategy and an excuse to not work on your SMV anymore.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 02:33 PM
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Totally agree, not everybody here on TRP gets it. Looks = real physical attraction from women. Money, fame etc = validation/some sort of transaction that women get from you. Frame is overrated IMO.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 02:17 PM
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Get out. You won't change her. Believe me, I tried so fucking hard. When I was on the top of my game and she was fat (35% BF) I try to do everything to change her ( cooking, working out, shopping groceries, counting calories ). Then my startup failed and I was fucking depressed all the time because of it. After couple of months of all the drama in my life, she lost almost 30kgs of weight, she cheated on me and branch swing.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 08:37 PM
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If you need to think about saying or not saying this shit, you are focusing on the wrong thing. Raise your SMV.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 08:22 PM
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Yup, it does not matter if your SMV is high enough, you can say everything OP wrote not to say and you'll still get laid. But for recovering beta, this shit is good to think about.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 08:12 PM
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I agree partially, but you are way too generalizing here. First of all, it's not just that she settles. It's much more to that: When she gets you in LTR, she won you over, you're automatically less interesting to her. She got all the validation from you. Many guys who gets in LTR make that women the central part of their life. Many guys stop working on themselves, go the the gym, work on their confidence etc. Why would they? They have a great girlfriend at home. Day after day she poison drips yo…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 12:59 PM
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Unless this good-looking guy is beta in every conceivable way, I disagree yes.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 12:45 PM
3

Or maybe you're not that good looking... Ever though about that?
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 12:22 PM
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It's a 4 minute tinder "live experience". No shit attractiveness is the most important thing.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 12:15 PM
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just for reference, are you bald?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 11:54 PM
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Yup, the problem is when 80% of guys think they are good looking.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 11:41 PM
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Yup, this sub is filled with people who can't look the truth straight in the eye. This forum has become bluepill self-help hamstering circle jerk. They may fuck you, because you're rich, have a great body, social status or what fucking ever, but that was just some sort of transaction ( you provided her with something ) on her side. On the other hand she will bang Chad simply because she wants his cock/his genes. Everything else beside this is you getting that big dick in your ass by that woman. …
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 03:57 PM
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Or maybe you’re mentally masturbating on “someday when I will be jacked” land too much? Time will tell. And enjoy your “social proof” and “preselection” because those things don’t last long. Hookers are great btw.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 03:34 PM
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Yup, my FFMI is pretty much one point higher, which means my body probably looks better than this guy. You're just giving too much importance to this ( like the rest of theredpill ). What really matters is that you're somehow lean, broad shoulders ( which are mostly genetically predisposed cuz you cannot control bone structure of your body ) and as I said it before: height and dick size.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 03:18 PM
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Lifting will only take you so far. My FFMI is ~ 24 and I've done everything humanly possible in the gym for the last 10 years. It gives you some bonus points if you've been a fat fuck before, but it would not save you if you're otherwise average looking guy. Women will prefer good looking face over a jacked muscular body any day, especially younger ones. If you're not a celebrity ( for which women will fuck you just to get validation ), height, facial structure, hair, dick size and color of your…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 02:30 PM
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Whenever you feel that you dont wanna lift, or dont wanna game, just take a look at the graph and ask yourself who's experience of the scale you'd rather have. Talking about attraction, if you give me millions of dollars and amazing charisma and game, I would rather won the genetic lottery any day. Which isn't a problem, cus you have abundance mentality and have a few in the kitty... right? Right, I really like to see how many 40,50,60 year old guys are spinning hot plates. It's one of the bigge…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 01:46 PM
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I agree. Further I would then ask myself what's the point on working hard on 3,4,5,6 if you don't have 1,2, because the majority of women ( at least 80% ) wants to fuck top 10% of men. If you're not top 10% she's just settling for you and she'll probably fuck or branch swing as soon there is an opportunity. When she gets a top 10% cock, she will not settle for anything less, because now she thinks she deserves it. Sorry, but after some time I think self-development is bullshit for playing attrac…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 11:56 AM
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It’s her shit test, actually working as a filter to remove all nice guys and chodes from the equation.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 11:04 PM
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Dan Bilzerian is sooooooo beautifuuuuul and pretty! But actually you're right... Looks are everything when this is all you can offer to women.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 12:52 PM
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and I don't feel insecure about my attractiveness either. I simply am not attracted to the idea of being with someone who has a sexual preferences for something that I specifically am not and never will be. Then I'm sorry to tell you that but there is not a lot of women out there for you. Because my experience are that most women dream about being gangbanged by 5 other Chad's cocks and many times those Chads happens to be black ( especially if she's white European women ). How do I know this? Ma…
/r/askTRP10/10/17 10:16 PM
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I just have a feeling that all your experiences with women are from the sidebar and Pornhub.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 10:35 AM
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What about cold approaching a girl that had her father died yesterday on the street and you get rejected. Are you still thinking with your authist mind "Fuck my SMV is not high enough, I need to go back to the gym braaaaaah"?
/r/askTRP09/10/17 10:23 AM
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Have you done 1 cold approach in your life?
/r/askTRP09/10/17 10:12 AM
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That's just plain bullshit. You can reframe it like that if you wan't some motivation out of it, but it's just not realistic.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 09:59 AM
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Man, not even Brad Pitt has 100% success rate. You're way too much narcissistic. Thinking that you're so special that every girl should be into you is quite extreme. No offense. Just keep going. You need to desensitize yourself from rejection. It's part of the game. You play you lose some, especially in the beginning. It will get better, just keep going.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 09:53 AM
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Occasional shit tests and negs: great. Shit tests and negs all the time during conversation: run the fuck away.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 04:19 PM
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Unicorns do not exist. Believe me, the worst and ugliest end of relationship I had was with that type of girl you're describing in the first paragraph.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 04:13 PM
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Have a backup plan. I would personally just change my plans the moment she send me a message she has something else to do. Even if she contact me 15 minutes later, I would just ignore it for a while and tell her I can’t because i wanted to see my old friend or whatever. Never wait for her. Not 4 hours man. That’s needy as fuck. Edit: I wouldn’t next her for that, maybe her excuse is valid ( but many times not ).
/r/askTRP07/10/17 10:06 PM
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Our time here is finite. IMHO it's better to develop yourself in this time than to fuck girls you don't want.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 05:25 PM
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No, go for it. And get rejected. Get your ego smashed. And then use that frustration and anger to transform that energy into developing yourself. Don't think about girlfriend when you're 19. And be grateful that you found TRP at such a young age.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 05:23 PM
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Because monogamy is not natural.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 02:40 PM
3

Wait, you say that SMV is all about looks and status. And you got all that down. And you think you have no game. You also say you have no results. So, no game and no results. Have you ever though about reconsidering your opinion about "SMV is just looks and status" maybe?
/r/askTRP04/10/17 02:22 PM
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So than you're a billionaire with perfect game and charisma, perfect social skills, body of a greek god and of course with all the knowledge in the world. I'm not sure what you're even doing here...
/r/askTRP04/10/17 02:06 PM
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Don't tell them. Show them. Passive dread game is great, but telling with your words you're fucking other women is just stupid IMO.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 05:52 PM
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I think it depends on context or how alpha / high SMV are you. For guys who are high SMV playing beta a little bit can be beneficial to your attractiveness. But the majority of men here are not alpha or high SMV. That's why TRP labels those "beta traits" as something bad.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 03:52 PM
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