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How are you going to woo a women without social skills? Work on it man
/r/askTRP07/07/18 07:44 PM
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Well it seems to me like you already have value in your life. I think you should set aside real time and energy into developing social skills by branching out and meeting people. It will probably feel very uncomfortable at first, but it will get easier. You may say that "I'm just an introvert and not a social person," but many people fail to realize that personality is malleable, not fixed. It's based on your conditions. Change your conditions (involve yourself in social settings) and meet new p…
/r/askTRP07/07/18 07:12 PM
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There's lots of studies that say humans are social creatures and need healthy social interaction on a biological level. It seems like you have a lot going for yourself... introduce people (women) into your life as is you're taking them for a ride. Have the mindset of "I'm going to share some of my awesomeness with others." If they decline, their loss. In order to do so you have to show women your value and that you have an interesting life. Women are hypergamous, they want an interesting life to…
/r/askTRP07/07/18 06:57 PM
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Most likely fucked other dudes. Next
/r/askTRP30/06/18 12:11 AM
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Try to consciously analyze negative emotions. Essentially question every emotion that pops up into your head, ask "why?" Think deeply about what's causing them to occur and why. You'll face some pretty unsettling perceptions that your subconscious mind holds. You can't fix these problems unless you realize their roots and tear them out. Then use your consciousness mind to reconstruct. This takes time and Repetition. Check out bachelorprimes's podcast on self awareness. Receive validation from yo…
/r/askTRP29/06/18 04:50 AM
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A lot of what you described ties into stoicism which I think everyone should take the time to practice.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 12:59 AM
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As a man it's about YOU. Women should be there for your benefit if you want to pursue them. You mentioned this being an LTR but I'm going to bring up plate theory anyway. Plates should be there for you to experience a large spectrum of women. You learn which kind of women meet your values and your standards, and which ones don't. It's about experience. You then make a selection, (if you choose to) that is worth sacrificing your time and attention to. YOU DO NOT SETTLE and waste precious time and…
/r/askTRP25/06/18 12:37 AM
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How u be more alpha and fuck more bitches?
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:57 PM
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Should I pee on it first?
/r/askTRP22/06/18 03:17 PM
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I think if you're someone who is new to spinning plates, it can be much easier to build confidence this way in the early stages of swallowing the pill. That being said there are some who don't have confidence issues so it depends on you. Just have enough standards to not be disgusted with yourself after the deed.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 03:29 AM
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I hear what you're saying. Yes and more than once lol. If not a blow to my SMV I guess it's just a minor insecurity that I seem to be projecting.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 03:14 AM
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Yeah I hear ya. My parents would never throw me out but still can't shake feeling a little uneasy at times
/r/askTRP22/06/18 02:57 AM
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Most girls I see have already started their careers and I can't help but feel like taking them to my parents place seems like a slight blow to my SMV
/r/askTRP22/06/18 02:54 AM
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