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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Home Equity	Getting Started	itsmyotherredditname	/r/Divorce_Men	06/07/26 02:18 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Home Equity She's going to refi without me.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/26 11:05 AM
2	Home Equity She won't, we'd have to sell. She refuses to live in an apartment. I'm not crazy about the idea, but I'll do it anyway. She would need the equity to buy something else.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/26 12:24 AM
2	Home Equity Do you have a legal document?	/r/Divorce_Men	06/07/26 07:19 PM
1	Home Equity I'm worried about that. That's why I'm trying to piece all of this together.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/07/26 04:42 PM
1	Home Equity I found it after I posted. It's called a Duke Order. I come off the loan but stay on the deed. There's a set amount of time then it's either sold or bought out. There's also a tax provision that allows me to be considered living there even though I'm not due to the divorce and not have capital gains tax on the money.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/07/26 03:45 PM
2	Home Equity There's an option called a Duke Order. It's a legally binding order where she refinances, I come off the loan and I stay on the deed. There's a set time, when our youngest graduates, then the house is either sold or I get bought out. There's also an IRS code that allows me to not have to pay capital gains even though it won't be my primary residence. I understand what you're saying, I'm just trying to do what's best for my kids and explore all options.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/07/26 03:35 PM
2	Home Equity I don't think so, between the rates right now and the added $150k the payment it will be to high. I don't want her being house rich and cash poor for the kids.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/07/26 03:31 PM