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You're 17. You're allowed to fuck up. You've got lots of growing up to do. Have a few drinks to loosen up and get the false confidence. You won't need the booze next time
/r/seduction13/08/17 11:12 PM
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I dont want the chick to think that's all I'm after. Unless that's all I'm after.
/r/seduction13/08/17 07:46 PM
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I agree with that as well. I have gone all the way on a first date but I don't ever try or want to if it's someone I see as potential for more than just a fuck buddy.
/r/seduction13/08/17 07:31 PM
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I like the part about the first kiss before the end of the date. Using it tonight.
/r/seduction13/08/17 06:52 PM
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Me too until I tried to remember what I did back then. Awesome! Get to it!
/r/seduction12/08/17 12:19 PM
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Make it 4 and start talking to her now. That way if it doesn't work out you won't care. Seriously.
/r/seduction12/08/17 12:18 PM
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Too scared? Perfect. Cause dude down the road. You're gonna be scared. But that's good. The only way you get better is by getting out of your comfort zone. The people who are killing it in this arena is doing so because they were scared but went for it anyways. A first date with a stranger I met off tinder or bumble used to be kinda nerve racking but no joke, I have 4 first dates this week. How do you think I feel now going on a first date? It's a walk in the park. I'm insanely confident and com…
/r/seduction12/08/17 11:44 AM
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Well I'm older and can drink, have a car, shit like that. So for me I just ask her out for a drink in the evening. For your age it's tougher so I'm trying to think what I'd do. For one thing, just arrange hangouts where it's only you and her. Then just spend time together and ask her about her interests, her family, maybe college stuff. Maybe someone else can advise as I only had 1 gf in high school and I started with just passing notes. Then we walked to a restaurant and had dinner one time, te…
/r/seduction12/08/17 11:39 AM
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The club isn't the best place to find a lover so the bar is where I go.
/r/seduction12/08/17 11:12 AM
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You keep talking to other girls to remind yourself that this chick isn't special. Seriously. Never stop trying to get numbers until you're exclusive with someone. No joke. I've got 5 dates this week. And if the chick I just got back from going out with never texts me again I won't care. She was attractive and smart too. But I've got options. That's what you need, options! edit: she got back to me, we're having dinner tonight.
/r/seduction12/08/17 02:22 AM
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Hit the gym and do some running too. And forget the no fap stuff. Sometimes you need to to get the edge off.
/r/seduction12/08/17 02:19 AM
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Even if she likes you, she'll reject you because she doesn't want to look like a slut. Holy flashback to high school when everyone was paranoid about looking like a slut over such trivial things such as accepting a date. GL bro, I wouldn't do it over again.
/r/seduction12/08/17 02:07 AM
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Honestly bro. If you two are already interested/attracted to one another I feel that spending time together and getting to know the other person builds attraction. If you find out she's a horrible person, this kills attraction, if you find out she volunteers at an animal shelter on saturday mornings, that might build it. Just spend time together if you can, you cant force attraction.
/r/seduction12/08/17 02:06 AM
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Despite the downvote I agree on the slut thing. I dated a former sorority chick who prided herself on not getting attached. She was very sexual. Best sex I ever had. I would totally date a slut again.
/r/seduction05/08/17 02:59 PM
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You just keep making sure she has fun and let her handle the relationship status stuff and discussion about exclusivity. If you keep doing things right she'll eventually want to lock you down. Once YOU try to lock her down she'll wanna bail. Go with the flow my man. Practice makes perfect. Learn from your mistakes.
/r/seduction01/08/17 01:43 AM
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Let's start with the basics. Do you try to force things? that can cause em to wiggle away.
/r/seduction31/07/17 10:02 PM
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Corey Wayne been preaching that. Dude knows his stuff
/r/seduction30/07/17 05:50 PM
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Thicc*****
/r/seduction29/07/17 03:48 PM
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I feel like once you improve yourself and get that confidence boost- that kills the negative thoughts. If it doesn't. Perhaps therapy is the next answer because that's not normal.
/r/seduction26/07/17 01:44 PM
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Ohhhh, I never told myself that stuff.
/r/seduction26/07/17 12:24 PM
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Google "coach Corey Wayne" and watch the videos you find applicable. You need to learn the fundamentals. The short version is ignore chicks for a while and focus on improving you. You need to do the work that will boost your confidence. If you want clarification or have any questions pm me, I was you once but now I have the mindset you need.
/r/seduction26/07/17 10:56 AM
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There's something to be said for self improvement too. It helped kill a lot of my insecurities I discovered after introspection/reflection. An ex dumped me back in September and I was a mess. Then around January while looking at videos on how to get an ex back I found some videos about self improvement and thought - fuck it, lets do this. So I changed my wardrobe, joined the gym, started seeing a therapist to understand my feelings better, whitened my teeth, started examining my career and what …
/r/seduction25/07/17 11:40 AM
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I feel like I could have written this. This is exactly what I've been doing and it's helped my social skills tremendously. "Don't believe everything you think" is what I tell myself when a negative thought about myself pops in my head.
/r/seduction24/07/17 12:41 AM
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Honestly. Just focus on improving all aspects of you. Once you're making progress on working out, cardio, clothing, a job you're excited about, etc. Once you are putting in 100% work to become the best version of you,. then you raise your standards and the girls who you felt were out of your league suddenly have to work hard to impress you. shorter version: Level up and that feeling goes away.
/r/seduction18/07/17 12:34 AM
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Real talk.
/r/seduction16/07/17 05:15 AM
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I like giving out advice and making things work but I really don't have anything to suggest except to let you know what else is out there because I don't think you guys are sexually compatible and that's insanely important in a relationship. If a dude is really into you he will put in every ounce of effort into pleasing you and making you happy. I dated a girl for a year and the sex was just ok but I didn't care cause I was getting laid. I put zero effort into getting good at it with her. About …
/r/seduction13/07/17 11:39 PM
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Just wait. If it went down like you said then you will definitely be on her mind. If you play it cool and wait for her to contact you again then she'll respect your self control and not losing your shit. I'd cotinue dating other women. Worse case scenario, you never hear from her again and even then I wouldn't blame myself - it's possible an ex from her past just came in the picture and since she'd be more emotionally invested in him then it would explain things if she ghosted. Personally dude, …
/r/seduction10/07/17 11:23 AM
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Had a tinder date last night. Sealed the deal at her place!
/r/seduction08/07/17 03:22 PM
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Absolutely not. It's not as if most women would want to go out with you, "if only they understood the love and value" inside you and that they would know that if only they spent time with you. Agreed. If she's attracted to you she'll go out with you unless you give her a reason not to.
/r/seduction07/07/17 11:03 AM
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I'd be curious to see a follow up post. Even if it's just "never heard from her again" If this stuff was easy it wouldn't be fun. Well. It would be fun. But the challenge is fun too.
/r/seduction05/07/17 01:08 AM
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"I simply haven't chased her or reacted to her shit tests" Dude, your game is solid. My advice, and what I would actually do in your scenario, would be to definitely not ignore her. Let her come to you are her pace so she knows it's her decision. But for god sakes don't make her a gf or wife her lol
/r/seduction05/07/17 12:23 AM
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I end up thinking its me No, dude. You did all the exact same moves I would have done in your situation. You played it perfectly. It's annoying because these chicks as destructive as they can be are often times the most hardest habits to kick I probably would have agreed if I was like 21 or so. But at 29 I don't want to deal with the b/s anymore. So I find it's now easier to walk away when they get like that. But your situation is unique because you dug this girl back in the day so you don't wan…
/r/seduction05/07/17 12:12 AM
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Dude she sounds fucking nuts. I would just keep doing what you're doing but decrease your effort by like 10x and spend little thought on this chick. Why? Because there are so many women out there. This one is annoying and possibly nutty
/r/seduction05/07/17 12:00 AM
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I'd get her digits then I'd go mingle with my friends and leave her alone "you don't want her to be approached by someone else or her forgetting you" That's not the mindset to have. If she forgets about you then it's her loss. After I got her number I'd be stoked for a little while but then I'd be trying to get more numbers. If you're at the top of your game working on your best self then you won't get jealous about other dudes because if they can take her (from you) then you don't want her.
/r/seduction04/07/17 11:35 PM
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No, dude. Yes, it's weird. Well, not weird. but it ain't something a man would do. Ask her out for a drink and then get her number if she says yes. Only text to set up the date. Save the convo for in person, bruh. Get 'em
/r/seduction30/06/17 06:44 PM
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Preach
/r/seduction30/06/17 04:19 PM
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