itsnotreal9911 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Am I texting too much ? Or am I just reading into this Absolutely on point. Everything you need to know not just about texting, but also on how to position yourself is right here. This needs to be reposted as much as possible	/r/seduction	12/04/22 11:33 AM
1	Anyone paid for it? But my recommendation would be to use that sexual urge to overpower any approach anxiety you might have. If you do have AA, try to rationalize your urge as an excuse to do some approaches. Don’t jerk off until you get a girl, keep yourself hyped up. Just go ham on them	/r/seduction	26/12/19 08:28 PM
1	Anyone paid for it? The skill of being relaxed next to a naked woman. It can be an overwhelming experience if you havent had many lays.	/r/seduction	26/12/19 08:11 PM
1	Anyone paid for it? It’s a double edged sword for me. I am 25 and have only gotten laid “naturally” (without paying) only once in my life. Since then I have paid for it several times. My take is this. If you don’t have inner self confidence, you will see it as a defeat. What kind of a man am I if I gotta pay for it, while everyone else is doing it naturally and ejoying it. The girl you pay doesn’t desire you, so don’t expect any real intimacy or her to enjoy it for real. It will feel good while it lasts especially …	/r/seduction	26/12/19 11:16 AM
1	Average looking guy with amazing game vs supermodel with no game I can’t comprehend how can anyone think that an average dude with game can beat a supermodel. Game is the most useful thing you can do if you are average, but don’t delude yourself that looks are the king of attraction.	/r/seduction	26/12/19 09:31 AM
5	Can't Pull the Trigger on my First Approach Then don’t say anything. Go and fail. Walk up, say hi and tell her “this is my first approach ever. I’m scared shitless. Any tips?” Whatever she says doesnt matter. Whatever reaction you get doesnt matter. You are doing that approach for yourself. Not her. If she thinks its cute, then cool. She will carry on the conversation and ur brain will restart and you will be good to go. If she’s unresponsive or gives a negative reply, then you have experienced something that you will have to get used to …	/r/seduction	23/12/19 06:23 PM
1	I need inspiration! Which films have a focus (or a few good scenes) on men practicing great seduction? Yeah, you are right. People like to give the game more credit than it actually deserves. IRL, looks will handle most of the game for you. The margin of error increases the better looking you are. Notice how girls laugh at anything that the hot dude says? Even though its not really funny? Notice how both women and men associate good traits with good looking people all the time? IMHO, good game is better than no game, but nothing is better than being good looking	/r/seduction	17/12/19 09:19 PM
3	I need inspiration! Which films have a focus (or a few good scenes) on men practicing great seduction? Movies tend to use very good looking guys as womanizers and portrait them as good at gaming. Being as good looking as Brad Pitt makes game obsolete	/r/seduction	17/12/19 02:35 PM
2	Do you have male friends that should be successful with women but are not? What are they doing wrong? I am 25. The funny thing is, in life I'm only a pussy when it comes to girls. Not a pussy when it comes to other men or career choices. I take risks, I push hard. Most guys think of me as a tough, but funny and interesting guy. I just need a way to channel this towards women	/r/seduction	16/12/19 09:20 PM
5	Do you have male friends that should be successful with women but are not? What are they doing wrong? I'm sorry if my post comes off as bragging, but it's far from it. It's just a sad look into someone who probably has the right tools but is missing balls.	/r/seduction	16/12/19 08:54 PM
2	Do you have male friends that should be successful with women but are not? What are they doing wrong? I feel ashamed a lot of times because I realize that I do have a physical advantage when it comes to attraction. And the paradox is that I'm only a pussy when it comes to women. I am stuck in this perpetual self improvement cycle that started 2,5 years ago when I was 150 pounds soaking wet, a skinny twig. Now that things have obviously changed physically, mentally I still can't find that inner courage to do the fucking leap of faith and just approach and say "hi, go easy on my sorry ass, this is…	/r/seduction	16/12/19 08:53 PM
0	How can you feel good enough for women if you struggle to talk to them while other guys don't? I get what you're saying dude. From what I see the advice boils down to be arrogant as fuck. Because if you are average (and chances are that you are average) you don't really have any value that separates you from other million dudes around you. Objectively speaking, average guys don't provide any value that is special. That's what average means. So, basically, you have to view it as a sales job. You are selling average cars? Hype them the fuck up into insanity. Lie, don't tell the bad stuff, o…	/r/seduction	16/12/19 08:31 PM
4	Do you have male friends that should be successful with women but are not? What are they doing wrong? I have the same problem as that friend of yours. I’m 6’3, 210 pounds at approx 14%bf. Bigger than anyone in my social circle. Everytime I go out, I get IOIs in forms of 3 or 4 direct looks and smiles. Sometimes I even get approached. But I just dont have the balls to approach a girl even if she gives me an IOI. I just cant.	/r/seduction	16/12/19 06:33 PM
2	It's hard or even impossible, to be the perfect person You don't actually need all of that. It's a checklist of advice given to people that suck at basic, and I mean really basic social interaction. Sure it's beneficial to max out your looks at practice "game", but you don't really need it. All you need is a social circle. That's it. Ofc there is a threshold of looks, maybe if you are below 4/10 you do need to max out your looks. But be careful, if you are socially retarded like me, you will never get out of the vicious self improvement circle. It w…	/r/seduction	16/06/19 05:51 PM
1	Really? Funny as in a witty, nonchalant motherfucker who messes around playfully with everyone and is center stage in a group of people when talking. Isn't scared to take shit, isn't afraid to deal it out as well. Jokes around, but respects everyone. Sarcastic, but not cynical. Jokes about himself, but is not self-deprecating. Jokes about others, but doesn't offend. Doesn't take himself seriously, but everyone relies on him to lead group conversations and decide if we are being funny or serious. All thi…	/r/seduction	14/06/19 01:50 PM
1	Any 6 foot tall dudes here 6'3 225 pounds with 15% body fat. Wide shoulders narrow hips, big chest, overall good frame with V-shape. Gym 5x per week, strict diet (approx 90% clean cals, 10% shit like pizza or candy when suicidal thoughts become too much). Doesn't matter the slightest where I live. All I get is dudes coming up to me and telling me how big I am and asking me for training advice. And I'm not bashing or anything, but most of those guys that are impressed by my body are 5'7-5'9 tall with average or less than a…	/r/seduction	14/06/19 01:40 PM
0	Why Would An Attractive Woman Choose A Man Who Won't Flirt Or Pay For Her? She will only notice and care about it if you are sub 7	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/19 07:32 AM