itsthenewdan Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
24	Glossary of terms- AMOG definition is wrong. It's "Alpha Male Of the Group"		itsthenewdan	/r/seduction	11/12/10 08:27 PM

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2	Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations. I think confidence stems from experiencing success more powerfully than experiencing failure. You gain it by going out and having success (kind of a catch 22), or by re-framing failure in such a way that you can always feel successful (while still being honest with yourself) no matter what you experience. Some people have breakthroughs by moments of inspired boldness. I am reminded of the quote (by Thomas Jefferson), "If you want something you’ve never had, you must be willing to do something yo…	/r/seduction	27/02/13 06:39 AM
1	So I don't want to approach girls anymore... Well, working together is another thing I'd be wary of. This always depends on what your office is like, but in general I have found that the "don't shit where you eat" rule applies. Things can become very uncomfortable. I have rarely seen it work out, but most of the time it's trouble. Again, I am wary to give advice without knowing more about your situation, but I would be surprised if you suddenly broke down a barrier with her and everything was peachy. People certainly open up as they get to…	/r/seduction	24/02/13 06:57 PM
2	So I don't want to approach girls anymore... she is extremely shy and I can't draw her out of her shell I don't mean to imply that I know what's best for your situation, but I've been on dates with girls like that, and I consider those to be dealbreaker qualities. A woman needs to bring something to the table conversationally for me to retain any interest in her. You say you're looking to raise your standards- ever considered that standard in particular?	/r/seduction	24/02/13 03:16 AM
1	Survey: 68% of men would date an unemployed woman, 80% of women would not date an unemployed man As far as BMI goes, sure, the more muscle you have, the more likely you are to be incorrectly considered overweight. BMI has its flaws, but still has a general usefulness for most people. What am I being too quick to judge? The fact that an overweight girl probably has some lifestyle incompatibilities with me, including eating and exercise habits? As I said, there are exceptions, but this is going to be mostly true.	/r/MensRights	19/01/11 08:03 PM
1	Survey: 68% of men would date an unemployed woman, 80% of women would not date an unemployed man Money is power, and power is very attractive to some people.	/r/MensRights	18/01/11 09:28 PM
6	Survey: 68% of men would date an unemployed woman, 80% of women would not date an unemployed man Weight is an odd one though. For me, overweight and attractive are mutually exclusive concepts as well, but I don't consider it to be a strictly superficial thing. Not many overweight people like to eat reasonably sized portions of healthy food and live active lifestyles filled with exercise. Sure, there are some people who are overweight in spite of that, but they're the exception, not the rule. I'm genetically lucky in that I'm naturally thin/athletic, so I realize that I have it easy, but if …	/r/MensRights	18/01/11 09:25 PM
3	Glossary of terms- AMOG definition is wrong. It's "Alpha Male Of the Group" "you go out with express aim to find the AMOG" Are you saying you'll go to a bar or some other social gathering place, and then actively seek out alpha guys and try to take them down a notch? Because that doesn't sound like pick-up, that sounds like going out looking to pick fights. As I understand the term, you AMOG a guy when you're in a situation and you need to demonstrate that you are the alpha, not some other guy. You don't seek him out, and in fact, if he's not there, all the better. Why …	/r/seduction	11/12/10 10:15 PM
2	Performance Anxiety Go to a doctor and get some boner pills. Problem solved.	/r/seduction	11/12/10 08:33 PM
1	The road ahead of us is just so long... The notion that those younger boys and men would see this poster, and then in the moment of truth think to themselves, "golly gee, I guess I shouldn't commit this rape after all... my strength isn't for hurting!" is just absurd. A rapist (or potential rapist) is most likely a victim of some kind of awful abuse that's driving their behavior. The gentle suggestion, "hey, don't hurt people" is absolutely useless with those types. They will refuse to take the risk when they judge it to be unworthy o…	/r/MensRights	14/10/10 05:37 AM