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The average penis size is measured as “bone pressed”, from the pubic bone. Let’s say the average bone pressed is 5.5, the average fat pad is around 0.5, therefore the visible length is 5. Visible length would be equal to insertable length. Dildos are slightly longer than the average penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:57 PM
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You just said it, nice if it was little thicker than average. The same applies to length for many women as well. Being little above average is the sweet spot. It is desirable feature.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 06:29 PM
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Exactly, if size was on display, women would really care about it. It doesn’t make sense to me that height matters more than size to women when size actually has a function. It is because it is concealed, exactly. Women still marry men with penises they don’t like or prefer, and for me, that’s the most disgusting thing ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 06:17 PM
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There isn’t much leeway to be below average. Those short cervix women can handle max 5.5 or 6, but even for those shallow cervix women, if your dick is less than 4 inches, physically there isn’t much you can do. You cannot be that much below the average. That range where you can be below average, is narrow af. Average is average because is a baseline. A 6 inch penis will have way more preferences than a 4.5 inch penis. It is what it is. For me as a man, the best penis to have is 6.5 inches of in…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:36 PM
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That’s why I think size does matter and bigger is better (up to a point).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:21 AM
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The question is what is large? Usually it’s more than 7. So between 5 and 7, it’s a range that works for most women, yet the average is closer to 5. I wouldn’t say women want average, I would say women want AT LEAST average but not too big. Preferences are skewed, and being less than 5 screws you in that sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:07 AM
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Actually there is, there is a sweet spot range that has the highest density of women’s preferences. If you have a micropenis, most women will prefer bigger. If you are 9 inches, most women will prefer smaller. Then by logic there is a sweet range that concentrates most preferences. Men caring in a systematic level is about feeling secure and safe about this issue. If I am 7 inches, I will have the certainty that most women wouldn’t prefer bigger. The smaller you are, the less certainty you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:26 AM
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It’s the opposite. Most preferences are for average and up over average and less. Too big is usually a problem of guys not knowing what to do, not a problem of size. Size is usually a problem when you are really way way above average. There is a study that analyzes penis size preferences over the lifespan (Peplau, Frederick, and Lever, 2006), and women who considered their partner to have an average dick were 86% satisfied with their penises, for a big dick it was 94%, and for small dick it was …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:16 AM
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Those sources are crap. The only legitimate study was done years ago by masters and Johnson and found an average of 4.75, when AROUSED. That was done with a speculum, so it doesn’t account for stretching. Next time give data that accounts for aroused state.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:58 PM
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Then why bring up the point about going fully in being better for men? And again, it’s easy to talk about too big, 8+ is super rare, again, there are big penises (6 to 7 inches) that do not hurt women. Can you imagine people saying height doesn’t matter because they don’t prefer 7 foot tall guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 02:44 PM
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Most nerve endings are in the glans of the penis, so men don’t actually need to go fully in to have pleasure. Yet we all know it’s better to go fully in. Then why the opposite case is not valid? Why is it outrageous for men to want to fill up completely a vagina even when most nerve endings are near the entrance? Many women report to like the full feeling, to be filled up without hitting the cervix. To be stretched without pain. Yet men are told that it’s not necessary since most nerve endings a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 02:16 PM
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Actually the range is 4 to 8 max. Also why do you omit the fact that a vagina stretches and the cervix goes up when they are aroused. Why do you omit vagina tenting? I can guarantee you that a 6 inch penis isn’t hitting cervix in most women, by personal experience. Maybe location makes a difference, I don’t know where you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 12:59 PM
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Yes it’s the limit or the point when it becomes to be a problem. Although it depends on the position. That’s why I talk about the range 6-7.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:57 PM
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I’d say limitations of positions of a 4 incher are not fixable or salvageable. Those positions are very limited. Also it needs that both people be at least lean or not fat, otherwise it doesn’t help to the problem. Women still want to go up and down on a dick even when going back and forth on a dick is more effective. Whereas the limitations of a 7 incher can be overcome by skills. A man going too deep is still under his control. So, too much length can be fixed with good skills. The only thing …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:54 PM
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I doubt the versatility is the same or equalized in that whole range (which is quite wide though). I’m fairly certain you can do more positions with a 6 inch dick than a 4 inch dick. They are more versatile. If a 6-7 inch penis doesn’t hit the cervix when a woman is aroused or isn’t too big, then such penis can do way more than a 4 inch penis. What thing I’m certain of is that most women don’t like small penises. There are studies about this. You got to be at least average. Therefore, if we live…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:35 PM
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If a man has 4 inches, clearly bigger is better. If a man is 8 inches, obviously bigger is not better. Most people say bigger is not better because they put themselves on the latter case, and that’s cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:36 PM
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Who says it’s everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:20 AM
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When the smallest a woman has encountered is pretty close to the actual average, then men have reason to be insecure about penis size. I don’t know why this happens to penis size but not for height. Imagine if men were only with non fat women or non ugly women (by society standards).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:36 PM
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The problem is that the average size is less than most smartphones height, yet plenty of women seem to think average penis size is around the smartphone height.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:11 PM
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They take dick size for granted because most guys are bigger than 5 inches, it’s like below 5 is non existent (very few people) so they don’t worry about it. We live in a world where average is the bare minimum for women. That means that size does matter and that bigger is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:09 PM
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You can do that for any other trait. You can always find something that’s more important. There is always a bigger set! I might as well say sex is not really that important in the grand scheme of things because relationships are so much more than sex. Or I might as well say that not having a skilled tongue isn’t that important because you can still please with your fingers or penis. Or I might as well tell to a woman that it doesn’t matter that she is too fat because what it’s important is how h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:01 PM
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Because size is always a plus (to a certain extent of course). Therefore a skilled lover with a good size is better than a skilled lover with a small size. That’s what your implication implies as well. But to some women that doesn’t matter because just being a good lover is “enough” and above the threshold for good sex, then size becomes a bonus. I just don’t subscribe to that definition of size “not mattering”. If size is a positive, then size does matter because there are sizes more preferred …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:00 PM
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So you are implying it indeed, yet you talk like size didn’t matter. It’s incredible all the loops and platitudes you go through to avoid saying bigger is better or that you’d prefer bigger. Women like you are the worst. They like bigger but don’t have the balls to directly admit it. You are the worst because you present a dichotomy around the does size matter issue. A true size queen is much more respectable, they are truly honest and consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:05 PM
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Are you implicitly implying that a selfish guy with a small penis is worse than a selfish guy with a bigger penis?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:19 AM
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I’m not talking about size queens. They are indeed a small minority. Most women prefer less than 7 inches, but more than 5 (average).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:57 PM
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We or I?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:45 PM
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It’s not just about more women preferring bigger penises than smaller penises, it’s about preferring bigger while saying size doesn’t matter. There are tons of women who think that a size that its big but not too big is a bonus, something positive, yet they have the nerve to say size doesn’t matter. Men don’t have problems with women’s preferences, they have problems with the dichotomy women present.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:19 PM
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It’s crazy though that 1 inch below average is considered really small, but 1 inch above average isn’t really considered really big.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:16 PM
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Average is not what most women prefer, average is what most women find enough. There is a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:15 PM
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Studies say 5.1 x 4.7, however that study is a meta analysis and could be a little flawed. It’s more correct to say that average is around 5.5. You can look it up on google. Yeah, that’s the thing, women also overestimate the average, not as much as guys but they do still. That’s why women take dick size for granted, as if asking for a 5 inch minimum meant that size doesnt matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:33 PM
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It’s 1 inch over average, average is not 6. It’s crazy that there are tons of women who think 6x5 is average.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:14 PM
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More like at least average instead close to average. 1 inch below average is more punished than 1 inch above average is rewarded
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:08 PM
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True, preferences vary, but not uniformly. What’s the point of advocating for diversity of preferences if a 7 inch penis has better odds than a 4 inch penis? Preferences for penis size skew, and they do not skew towards smaller sizes, therefore size insecurity is totally justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:56 AM
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Seems normal for a guy. There could be a margin of error of 1 inch easily. He is below average height though, bet he has an above average dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:29 AM
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Yes, it’s better to be 1 or 2 inches above average however 4 inches above average don’t make the penis useless whereas 2 inches below average make the penis useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 12:11 AM
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Exactly, still means your arms are extremely long.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 12:10 AM
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They don’t need to take all 9 inches.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 12:01 AM
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I had to look up the second term, I’m not familiar with that. To the crease of my elbow, the inside part. Where the skin color is lighter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 12:01 AM
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The problem is that, assuming external factors that limit insertion are the same, the minimum length required stays the same. With less than 3 inches, you can’t do anything. And that’s just 2 inches below average. Then when you add more factors that limit insertion, the required penis length increases. On the other hand, you can be 2 inches to 4 inches above the average and still use the penis for penetration. It’s so asymmetric. This means that average is only ideal when both bodies are fit and…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:53 PM
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I just measured, Mine from inside elbow to wrist is 10 inches. I am 6’2” tall. I think you are the most deviated from normality if what you say its true, or you are just measuring wrong. Especially when you are less than 5’5”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:49 PM
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There you have it, average penis size goes with petite lady, not average lady, petite lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:45 AM
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What? I’ve never believed women orgasm just from penetration, that’s insane. It’s scientifically proven most do not. I said that using that argument to back the idea of size not mattering is what it doesn’t make sense to me. And the argument of lesbians doing ok without dick doesn’t make sense either. That would be like saying gay guys are doing just fine without vaginas so piv sex is not that important for men as long as you have an asshole lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:31 PM
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I’ve never thought that the fact women can’t orgasm via penetration was a good argument. If intercourse was so negligible because of its inefficiency to reach orgasm, most women could live without it and that’s not the case. If they could, erectile dysfunction wouldn’t be a problem, or there wouldn’t be so many women who get angry or disappointed at a limp dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:13 PM
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Because most guys are less than 6 inches. Because their partners could enjoy even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:10 PM
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The real question is how they distribute. It’s easy to say they are all different, but it’s quite different a scenario where 10% prefer bigger to a scenario where 40% prefer bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:09 PM
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Sweet spot is above average but less than 7 inches. Actually average is not that versatile unless both parties are fit. Average is average because of reproduction, not because of pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:06 PM
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I rather be with a woman who has been actually with bigger Guys before. I just prefer they don’t prefer it. People understand you. You are the one obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 11:47 AM
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“A” woman is not enough. You must be with several different women if you wanna gauge how much size matter. It’s crazy how always women say they are not hive in mind, but think their personal experience must be shared by most women definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:20 AM
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Exactly, it does more harm than good, and women have accountability in that single aspect, with their constant shouting about size not mattering
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:18 AM
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What? I agree with men on this sub. You are the one being obtuse because you keep thinking our goal is to call and prove women to be shallow. Which is further from the truth. The problem is with you, who believes that preferring bigger is ok when your boyfriend isn’t but also knows that nothing good comes from being sincere with him about it. Keep convincing yourself with your arguments, that’s not going to change the fact that most men wouldnt like the inconsistency between the preference and r…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:11 AM
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I fully understand. You know it’s harmful and that’s your dichotomy. You advocate for a preference being meaningless in a vacuum yet you are aware it’s harmful to be fully honest with your partner about that. That’s the dichotomy and why most men in here don’t buy into your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:41 AM
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That as a whole, but per trait is different. More than 30% of women prefer actual average size unlike you. The chances of your boyfriend aren’t 1% when it comes to penis sizez
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:52 PM
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I believe you would keep choosing him, but that’s because it’s him. Poor guy, he doesn’t know what it’s like to be with a woman who actually prefers your dick for what it is, and not just because it is attached to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:50 PM
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Most men don’t want a woman preferring bigger, that’s not weird though. What it’s weird is how adamant I am about it. You should stop the coping. You are just coping because you don’t want to feel bad about the fact that your boyfriend would hate knowing that you prefer bigger than his, but you cope with the argument of you don’t wanting him to be bigger, you just prefer bigger as an isolated factor. What a COPE! There is a reason women like you aren’t telling their boyfriends they would prefer …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:01 PM
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Justified if he was 4 inches. Not justified if he was bigger than 6.5. In one case you face real emasculation, the other is just a case of dysmorphia.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:42 PM
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Because when it comes to inner traits, we all stand the same ground, we all compete at the same level. This doesn’t happen for most physical traits. Physical traits are the initial filter and inherently assigns more value to some traits than others. It’s not 1 to 1 compatibility, rather than some traits make you more compatible with a larger amount of people. Why do you think there is such a concept of “leagues” in terms of physical appearance but that doesn’t happen with personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:39 PM
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But those preferences distribute and so, some are more detrimental than others in terms of density of such preference. It’s not the same when 1% prefers your trait or 30%. Functionally, there is a difference between 4 and 5 in terms of mechanics of sex, more positions are available, the versatility is higher. Do you think there aren’t women who get bored of doing always the same position? Yes it’s a men thing when I talk about emasculation and I agree with that. What would you expect? Like it do…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:35 PM
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That the group who don’t want it isn’t that negligible. From a male point of view, it’s clearly a disadvantage, and a very emasculating one. And it goes especially against your point of saying how 4 and 5 is practically the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:03 PM
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Physically? Yes, because I am already tall so height doesn’t affect me and face, well, we all stand the same ground in that aspect so I don’t worry about it. I can’t think of any other physical aspect about myself that I would worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:34 PM
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Physically, I care mainly about two things: penis size and my weight. Both have to be within her range of preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:27 PM
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Here an example of what women of this very same sub think of penises 4.5” or below.source
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:24 AM
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Average is between 5 and 6. Between 4 and 5 there is a large difference. Standard deviation is around 3/4 of an inch, so it’s a lot of people. A 5 inch penis allows more positions and mechanical versatility during intercourse than a 4 inch penis. Moreso when not all people are fit. I’d say in the range of 5 and 6 differences are more negligible. It’s not disingenuous because everything has a distribution, and hence a mean, a median and a standard deviation. Within the range of 4 and 6 inches, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:31 AM
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Because that’s what I care about. I don’t do it for my face for instance, I don’t care about that. Remember men care more about penis size than women. I wouldn’t tell a woman because there is no need to since I don’t compromise physical traits before getting too involved. That’s why I don’t date fat women or women with a flat ass, no matter how compatible we are. Recently I stopped seeing a wonderful woman because I was not attracted to her, she was fat and I couldn’t help it. I stopped it befor…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 11:08 PM
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It’s a self defense mechanism and I agree that I will sabotage you when you find that rare needle in the haystack. The problem is that men won’t believe women, because even if a woman who prefers smaller over bigger is telling the truth, usually women who prefer bigger over smaller aren’t telling their smaller partners that they prefer bigger. And sadly plenty of women partner up with guys who don’t fit their penis size preferences. That’s why men want women to be honest when it comes to prefere…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:46 PM
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Not the same. Several women report how a dildo does not feel the same than a real penis, and that a real penis is vastly preferred over a dildo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:39 PM
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Let me correct you. The smaller they are, their insecurities are more true with more women. That’s just a fact. The majority of women don’t prefer below 5 inches and that’s for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:22 PM
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Not all, most. Saying most is way different that saying “all”. Most women don’t want a dick under 5 inches. The evidence is clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:09 PM
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10% is not common. It’s a minority. Also, isn’t it telling that a woman who belongs to a minority group due to medical conditions still finds average as ideal? What leaves to the average woman without medical conditions?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:05 PM
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It’s clear preference is lower than 8. It’s closer to 6.5. You think it’s good news but I think it’s not. If average is 5.1 we are talking roughly 1.5 standard deviations above the average, which is a lot in my opinion. Unless you consider the average 6 on the dot, in that case would be less than 1 standard deviations. However that’s my point, considering 6 inches average would be taking dick size for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:36 PM
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I get your point, it’s not difficult to find 6 feet tall men even though is above the average. It is still taking for granted physical traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:29 PM
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That’s not your call, some people might care about something that other people don’t, there is no logic in here when it comes to care about stuff and you can’t control that. Personally I don’t understand why some people care about potential partners having a university degree or a house, but they still do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:28 PM
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But say them. Personally I wouldn’t choose bigger boobs but I would choose a nice shaped ass. I would because it makes enjoy sex in doggy style more, because it makes me more horny, because it makes me want to touch her more. Be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:26 PM
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For you it doesn’t, but for some men it might. But If you think it doesn’t mean anything, the you might as well tell your boyfriend how would you choose a bigger dick in a vacuum, since it doesn’t mean anything, nothing bad should come out of that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:24 PM
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Tell me the reasons why would you choose a 7 incher over the 5 inch penis in a vacuum? Be objective. Those are the reasons men care about. It doesn’t matter all the nuance you talked about in your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:19 PM
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Sure that’s why women are less visual than men. But you still have a choice when choosing in a vacuum. That means something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:17 PM
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Yes you did. You are taking it for granted because you think is a criteria that is not hard to meet in a general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:15 PM
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It’s not fake per se, it is skewed because it doesn’t come from primal lust. Those come from things that you would choose in a vacuum, and men seem to care about that as opposed to women. Women take that for granted because they have experienced objectification since always. Men don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:14 PM
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Because that’s skewed by love. It’s only one woman. One sample. Promiscuity allows you to see the true variance of preferences. Also that doesn’t guarantee dick praising. In reality most women aren’t praising average dicks, you say you do because you love your boyfriend, which again it is skewed by love because you would choose a bigger dick in a vacuum. Even though your praisal is true, it isn’t rooted in lust for such sized penis, it is rooted on how feel about him. That’s why men would call i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:05 PM
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Didn’t you say that you were with a 7 inch penis and that you would choose that in a vacuum? So the one bigger wasn’t 1 inch bigger, was 2 inch bigger. Either you are underestimating difference in sizes or your boyfriend is closer to 6 inchers rather than 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:01 PM
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Yes, in more hedonistic/shallow settings. There is a reason smaller guys are bounded to the realm of serious relationships, for the same reason you stated in your post, because of nuance, they are not in a vacuum. However men care about this more hedonistic component, that’s why they care about size and don’t see it through the lens of nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:50 PM
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The definition of “mattering” for men inherently does not include nuance. It’s easy to diminish the importance of a single trait by using nuance. You might as well do that for every single trait and you’d be right to some extent every single time. For me that’s cheating because it’s easy to do and I could use nuance to neglect any perceived importance assigned to a single trait. Also women get irked because they think men think they are being shallow, or not being truthful or that they are settl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:46 PM
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Success in dating? I thought we were talking about penis size, dating is different story. Penis size does not influence dating success, especially since women don’t see the dick until they decided to have sex with you. However I reckon that bigger penises have more repeated costumers than smaller penises. I’ve seen it with my own eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:40 PM
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Exactly, so average being some kind of baseline supports the idea of bigger being better. I’ve noticed that many women take dick size for granted just because most men are average. They aren’t used to see dicks below 5 inches. If 5 inches has became some kind of baseline and there isn’t much leeway to be below the average, that’s bigger is better in my books. That means that guys from percentile 50 and above have more sexual value.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:27 PM
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It is relevant but experiences might not reflect the statistical mean or median. A 8 inch penis is as rare as a micropenis, both stand equidistant from the mean, the same amount of standard deviations. There is no study for this but I’m quite confident on average the 8 inch penis is having more sex with different kind of women than a micropenis. Also it’s easy to see that plenty of women virtually already have an opinion on big penis sizes, like somehow several women already have experienced a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:22 PM
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68% of women who considered their partners to have a small penis wished they were larger. source
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:11 PM
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What are you talking about, he is saying you gotta be just slightly above average. That by definition is not the general population, its percentile higher than 50. This is the problem, many people take penis size for granted. They think that asking for 6 inches isn’t asking for much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:32 PM
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The minimum effective dose is closer to average. So average is where you set the baseline. You might think it is 4 inches but it’s closer to 5. If most size preferences lie above 5 inches, that means bigger is better. Big dick guys and women take it for granted because they think that asking for 5 inches is not asking for much, and part of that is true since most men are 5 inches or above. However I see it as most preferences being skewed towards the right side of the bell curve. Finally, if the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:06 PM
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Guys know that it isn’t a dealbreaker for women. Guys issue is about how the preference tends to be more for larger than smaller. It is skewed. Preferences aren’t symmetrical around average, and that for men it means that size does matter. Again, guys know it isn’t a dealbreaker for women. If it was, they wouldn’t be insecure about it because a woman choosing a man would a guarantee that she prefers his penis, but sadly that’s not true because a woman might choose a man as a serious partner even…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:04 PM
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No one’s blaming women for their preferences. The thing is that women just can’t pretend to keep saying size doesn’t matter when they don’t actually prefer small dicks. You just admitted that women don’t like small dicks. And that’s it. That’s all. It’s not their fault, plain and simple. Women simply don’t understand because they don’t have a penis being presented to different kind of women, they only have personal experience as a receptor of different penises. No problem with your preferences, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:17 PM
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Size queens are a minority. With facing dissonances I didn’t mean ending up with a size queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 04:12 PM
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Results as in women’s preference. It’s the best you can do. You can’t avoid self selection in this case. You need people to be willing to state their preference. The best you can do is to have the biggest sample size as possible. That’s why the study with 3D models means shit because the sample size is N=75.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 04:07 PM
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No, it’s not to bring other men down or make them more insecure. As counterintuitive it sounds, it helps to do the opposite. A man is more likely to overcome penis size insecurity by facing the reality of size mattering or women preferring bigger instead of facing dissonances. Imagine if women were told that men aren’t visual and their physical appareance has no impact whatsoever on attraction, even in social interactions. That it’s all in their heads. The dissonance would be considerable and it…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 04:03 PM
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That would skew results. That’s like analyzing whether size matters when people is in love. That doesn’t make any sense. If you want to analyze a factor, the rest must remain equal or unbiased.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:52 PM
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Exactly, I fully agree with that. It depends on each couple and everyone is in the right to do so. The main issue is that usually men don’t have a way to know womens true preferences because women who see size as a bonus but are willing to be with smaller guys aren’t telling them straight to their faces how they prefer bigger. That’s why a man has to be confident and act like he is not even bothered by bigger being better, like at all. If you are confident, the woman will feel safe to share her …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:50 PM
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Plenty of women stay in bad sex relationships still because relationships are more than sex. They see the whole person. This is proof that a woman choosing you is not guarantee that she prefers your size.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:47 PM
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It isn’t about being the biggest, hottest or top 1. That would be never ending. It’s about the extent of the preference in both ways and how much one is willing to accept and/or compromise. I’m sure most women would find ok me finding some women way prettier than them, but I’m sure plenty of women would not be ok if I prefer the face of a big chunk of women compared to hers. Like I find her face attractiveness below to a huge number of women but it is still above my threshold of enough to overlo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:45 PM
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This isn’t about not being happy with your non preference, people can be happy with things that aren’t their preference. That’s not the point. It’s that you would be more “happy” with your preference, even if it’s marginally negligible, let’s say 10% better, as you say it is a bonus. Maybe you don’t care about that small difference but your partner might and he is in his right to do so. I can be happy and satisfied with a woman whose face I don’t find that attractive as long as I like her body. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:24 PM
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Yet you loved the dick of the guy who wasn’t great
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:11 PM
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Exactly, bonus! That’s the keyword and men care about that. It’s like being prettier is better than being average looking for women. Yet men aren’t saying being prettier is not better like women do with dicks. Women could just say that penis size is a positive trait and end of discussion. Then it’s up to men whether they care about that or not. But no, they say bigger is not better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:09 PM
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They are roughly the same size in the study, and in both cases it is above the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:54 PM
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Women don’t leave men over the size of their penises. Actually they do partner with men who don’t fit their size preference. Which is a problem in my opinion. The truth is women are more unsatisfied with smaller penises, but that’s not enough reason to leave a man. The never ending does size matter question. Women have a very different definition to men regarding what “mattering” means.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:52 PM
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Lever, Frederick and Peplau, 2006. (Table III). Women who considered their partners to have a small penis, only 32% were satisfied by it. The meaning rest wish they were larger. Women who considered their partners to have an average penis, 86% were satisfied and if they considered their partners to have a large penis, 94% were satisfied. The difference is just astonishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:46 PM
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My man, you are clever. You truly understand everything about this. I appreciate it because I can’t articulate it as well as you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:30 PM
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What you say is true, women find dick preoccupation unattractive. However, women always resort to say that when they cannot fight the argument of size mattering, and thus it makes him right about his point. It’s very telling. The key as a man is to be confident and don’t care about whether bigger is better. That’s the only way to know a woman’s true preference regarding penis size.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:27 PM
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I love this, now this is when women try to explain their point of view with what they actually mean with “it doesn’t matter”. How he treats her well, how she loves him, how he is more skilled and that what matters, etc.. I’ll give a tip to some men. Act like bigger is better and you aren’t even bothered by it, like it doesn’t affect your confidence at all. Be confident regardless of everything. That’s the only way to know what women truly think about penis size. Carry yourself that way, and you …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:23 PM
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This is exactly why women keep saying size doesn’t matter, or at least only the ones who think size doesn’t matter show up. This is one great difference with men. If you ask men about their preferences about butt or Tits, they will not hesitate to do so and give you a straight answer, with no regards on how might affect some women and their insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:17 PM
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If your boyfriend was not so great as a person, just like the guy with the 7 incher. Or if the guy with the 7 incher was as great as your boyfriend, Which dick would’ve you preferred? That’s how the “does size matter” question should be analyzed and not skewing it by considering the whole person attached to such penis. You have to keep everything else equal even if it’s not realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:56 PM
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Women can be skewed because they see the man as a whole and don’t isolate size as a factor. It’s the exact same than saying being hot as a woman doesn’t add sexual value or don’t matter because it is not a guarantee of good sex. Do you know what knows better? Data where penis size is isolated. In a study by Lever, Frederick & Peplau, 2006, women reported to be very satisfied by their partners penis size in the following manner: Large penis size: 94% Average penis size: 86% Small penis size: 32%
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:04 PM
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Even though a perfect sized dick can be trash, the ceiling is higher with a perfect dick, regarding intercourse. And that means bigger is better, because perfect dicks are above average but less than 7 or 8 inches. It’s like a woman being hot doesn’t guarantee good sex, still being hot is an advantage and gives you more sexual value.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:24 PM
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