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| 66 | getting closer to true 50/50 so he can also take a pill, men wanted 50/50 soHalf the comments I've seen are like "nah I don't want to fuck up my sperm count/ don't want to side effects".. Okay but it's fine for women to endure side effects and blood clots and near death experiences with the pill? Might I also remind men that women have been taking on that responsibility for YEARS and have been suffering for YEARS. But then "condoms are uncomfortable". and all the preventative measures women have to go through to fucking NOT GET PREGNANT are nothing compared to men. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 02:04 AM |
| 10 | PodcastsSecond this. I also love going over the notes she writes on each podcast. I keep the notes and read them again when I need a pick me up! They're great to keep on hand | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 11:43 AM |
| 6 | This loser called GodChosen890 or something is screenshotting our postsHow pathetic. Go find something better to do than talk to women you don't even know 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 11:51 PM |
| 4 | Happy Friday beautiful people 💖 buy your own flowersLove this attitude! 💖 I found most of my power came back to me from a mindset change that I can provide the love I want! Instead of waiting (and being disappointed) by other people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 09:54 PM |
| 11 | Happy Friday beautiful people 💖 buy your own flowersYes! Sounds like a wonderful room for yourself! Would love to see some progress pics!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 11:44 AM |
| 23 | Happy Friday beautiful people 💖 buy your own flowersDove grey! 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 11:42 AM |
| 34 | Happy Friday beautiful people 💖 buy your own flowersThese are dyed and tinted mix of rose, gerbera, chrysanthemum, hydrangea and peace lily 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 11:03 AM |
| 3 | Textbook Terrible V-DayThis is just embarassing. Give it up man. Low effort got you nowhere and you're shocked that you got dumped, then tried to put it back on her like she's a brat? Trash took itself out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Happy Friday. Remember, know your worth.This is the kind of attitude we're taking on forever 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 10:57 AM |
| 9 | I think she discovered FDS.. better late than never 👑The accuracy of this. Im actually dying 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 07:07 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, what do you do for someone's birthday you just started dating?My birthday isn't til April so a little while away. Yeah that's true ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 09:04 PM |
| -1 | Ladies, what do you do for someone's birthday you just started dating?What makes you say that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, what do you do for someone's birthday you just started dating?Wow, what the hell! Yeah a card seems like the good way to go. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 08:42 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, what do you do for someone's birthday you just started dating?Ahh this is good thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 08:38 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, what do you do for someone's birthday you just started dating?Great point, no he hasn't asked and he hasn't gotten me anything. I think it'd creep me out if he got me something out of the blue. But then again gifts is not my love language | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 08:38 PM |
| 8 | I’m really confused about how I should feelYou can't be there to fix him. He needs space to figure this out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 11:22 PM |
| 1 | 👑Buy Yourself Flowers - FridayHydrangeas are my favourite! Such a lovely touch. Keep doing you girlfriend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:11 PM |
| 2 | Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter?PREACH ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:05 PM |
| 3 | Re: His true colors have been Revealed. He just emailed me... I guess he doesn't knowing blocked him already....at least he wished me the best👀Anybody want some tea? I'll put the kettle on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 11:54 AM |
| 5 | Nooo!!Yikes !! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:29 AM |
| 5 | "Where can you lead me? Not up."Now this is some queen shit !! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 09:11 PM |
| 10 | LVM leads with the question “Are you Chinese?” straight off the bat then starts insulting me when I don’t play ball.Huge fear of mine is that guys have yellow fever. Trust your gut girlfriend! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Bought myself flowers because why not 😂 love me some saturday blooms and a good candleAlways! Thought about adding more, but thatll have to be next weekend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 11:23 AM |
| 2 | Bought myself flowers because why not 😂 love me some saturday blooms and a good candle💕💕💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 10:23 AM |
| 6 | Bought myself flowers because why not 😂 love me some saturday blooms and a good candleSuch a beautiful candle! One of my girlfriends owns the company. Love supporting my girls 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 08:53 AM |
| 10 | Bought myself flowers because why not 😂 love me some saturday blooms and a good candleBest part is, the natives last longer! Also surprisingly good from Aldi 😝Won't stop me from buying another bunch next weekend though 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 06:28 AM |
| 3 | Bought myself flowers because why not 😂 love me some saturday blooms and a good candleYES! Definitely recommend 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 06:01 AM |
| 3 | The desire to be partnered is okay, but just don’t let it override your sense of self,This is exactly how I feel. Thank you for this 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 11:24 AM |
| 4 | Why do I only miss my ex when I'm on my period?Another thing to consider is any contraceptives you've used or are using has a huge impact to your entire being. Highly recommend you read a book called "how the pill changes everything" it really gave me a lot of perspective around HBC and why I felt everything so much more after I stopped taking the pill. Happily 19 months pill free and a lot of things have kinda clicked for me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Y’all, I gotta find a way to end this and I’m just not sure how.Been through this with a guy who turned really nasty when I broke up with him. He jumped to conclusions when I didn't reply quickly and then when I told him to stop and respect my space he called me manipulative and calculated. Be careful how you end things. Don't give them the chance to twist your words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, how long would you wait for a second date before the ship sails?Oh nah he ghosted 😂 good riddance. Trash took himself out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, how long would you wait for a second date before the ship sails?No, he's not too busy to send a text. I think its more that we're still texting and he's calling but hasn't asked me out again. It makes me that he's not interested. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, how long would you wait for a second date before the ship sails?I like that. Take action to benefit me. Hahaha scrotation is okay, nothing beyond early stages of talking so far. But I think that needs to change to having plans with people because it'll stop me from being a "pick me" in hopes that this guy will ask me out. It won't matter if he asks me out or not because I've got other things to do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 09:43 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, how long would you wait for a second date before the ship sails?I am talking to other people and they've been great, I think things aren't progressing with them because I'm being a "pick me" and holding out for this guy 🙄 eugh wow what have I done 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 09:39 PM |
| 7 | like a mother!!! mad props to herIm in sales, definitely make this happen 💁♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 12:45 PM |
| 2 | I broke free!Good for you girlfriend! There is never a good time for bad news, so timing is a non-issue imo. I broke up with someone before valentines day so whatever 😂 You will feel sad and I think its okay to grieve the loss of good times, but being with someone (especially someone who doesn't add value to your life) doesn't determine your self worth or ability to love again. You are strong and congratulations for dropping the loser 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 12:43 PM |
| 1 | This is some next level NVM bullshit. Could you imagine thinking your friends are more important than you wife in labour. Chuck him in the bin IMO.100% agree with you on choices being respected. I didnt know a birth partner was a thing. Interesting.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 01:30 AM |
| 4 | This is some next level NVM bullshit. Could you imagine thinking your friends are more important than you wife in labour. Chuck him in the bin IMO.But i don't even think "i want you to be there for my labour" is a conversation to be had. Its a given. You helped make this baby too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 01:23 AM |
| 64 | This is some next level NVM bullshit. Could you imagine thinking your friends are more important than you wife in labour. Chuck him in the bin IMO.Wow sorry to hear that! What meetjng is more important than the birth of your child ? Great to see where his priorities lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 01:53 PM |
| 89 | This is some next level NVM bullshit. Could you imagine thinking your friends are more important than you wife in labour. Chuck him in the bin IMO.Eughh what a scumbag 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 01:48 PM |
| 221 | This is some next level NVM bullshit. Could you imagine thinking your friends are more important than you wife in labour. Chuck him in the bin IMO.What shits me is the fact that he says he didnt want to go. Im sorry what? You don't want to go to your child's birth? Why even have a baby at all if you care so little | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 01:13 PM |
| 143 | This is some next level NVM bullshit. Could you imagine thinking your friends are more important than you wife in labour. Chuck him in the bin IMO.Right!! My sister had a full on labour. Ended up needing a blood transfusion (her husband stayed the entire time). But it terrifies me to think that there are people out there that wouldn't be there for their wives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Nominee for Pickmeisha MVPEven her dog is like "you fool" 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 02:40 AM |
| 32 | “Hold on, babe- let me finish this match first..”So sorry for the loss of your son. Honestly, such an amazing woman to go through that. Your success and strength is such an inspiration 👏💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 05:32 AM |
| 9 | Listen to your pets!!!I met one of my friends boyfriend and I have always had a bad feeling about him since. I have a Doberman and she never growls at people. They both came over for dinner one night and my dog never growls at people. Always very excited to see people. She absolutely hates this guy and was always really on edge around him. I'll never forget it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 10:37 PM |
| 8 | Am I being groomed?OP mentioned the intent started out as mentorship. That's where the professional gain comes from. Everything beyond that is obviously sexualisation on his part. Hence why she should run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 10:48 PM |
| 9 | What you can expect from late 30 somethings.Bahahaa so accurate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 09:57 PM |
| 24 | Am I being groomed?No professional gain is worth the pain this man will cause. You can get professional advice from anyone - why does it have to be specifically this man? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 09:47 PM |
| 15 | Proof that FDS works , husband cheats wife with younger woman abandons her during her pregnancy , wife goes full FDS instead of cOmuNIcaTE and cOUnseLIng ,demands all and half of his paycheck , scrote regrets comes back begging .I stopped reading at "[F24] was more supportive than I thought my wife could be." Dumb fuck didn't even try. Thank u next | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 05:43 AM |
| 2 | One of my favourite things to do. Credit: byefilipeIts hilarious and infuriating at the same time 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 02:45 AM |
| 19 | So many women are in relationships where they are just thankful the man doesn’t hit them, control them, rape them or cheat on them. That’s how low the bar is for men.Definitely learnt the hard way that just because they're not abusive doesn't mean they value you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 10:44 AM |
| 8 | Marriage for the vast majority of women has historically been indentured servitude or outright slavery. Men who think they’re “scaring” us by saying we’ll end up alone....So...what? You think you’re threatening us by offering NOT slavery?🤔What the hell! 1996 was not that long ago. Seriously disturbing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 09:53 PM |
| 10 | Relationships are an option, NOT a necessityThis is why we love Keanu 😂💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 06:14 AM |
| 9 | Girls, HVM behaviour?Hahaha yess!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 01:25 AM |
| 49 | How exactly do I give him a last chance to meet my needs?I think you really need to sit down and ask yourself why you want to give him another chance even after you've already expressed how you feel and him CHOOSING not to take that on board. Not worth it. Imo. Thank u next Edit: also seems like its not very convenient for you guys to see each other so why not be with someone who's closer and isn't a LVM 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 09:15 AM |
| 46 | He’s lucky to get ONE chance with you. NEVER give him a second.If this isn't a sign I dunno what is 👏👏👏😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 09:09 AM |
| 3 | Dating to simply remind yourself that it's better to be singleIm 26 and honestly I feel the same way. I've dated guys my age who just want to fuck around, get high and sleep around. I've also dated guys who are older late 20s early 30s who end up having so much baggage that I end up feeling resented for things I haven't done. I've basically given up on guys and dating because I don't deserve that kind of love. And besides I love myself and my friends and family more and the way I deserve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 04:57 AM |
| 6 | Low Self Esteem? This Simple Daily Task COMPLETELY Transformed My LifeThis might sound stupid and I'm embarrassed to say this but I tried this weeks back and I found i was just grateful for the same things over and over. Is this selfish of me that the gratitude got boring? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Why do people look down on failed relationships?If anything being in relationships is hell. The mental headache and anxiety that i get is just through the roof so honestly, im gonna say it one more time - definitely better off being alone 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Why do people look down on failed relationships?Yeah I dunno how to thank u next family. Wish it was easier 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Why do people look down on failed relationships?Hahahaha love it 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do people look down on failed relationships?Hahaha what do you do when it's family? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 11:10 PM |
| 8 | Why do people look down on failed relationships?Its so backwards. The relationship I have with myself should carry more weight than anything. No man is ever going to amount to the love I give myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Why do people look down on failed relationships?100% Thanks lovely 💕 I know what that feels like, and it sucks but we're better off because of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 11:07 PM |
| 6 | Why do people look down on failed relationships?At what point does projection become an observation though? Do you think people say what they say because that's how they see you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 10:56 PM |
| 8 | Why do people look down on failed relationships?Its tough when it comes from your own family. My sister essentially implied I was a desperate person because I hadn't found the love of my life and moved across the world for them at 24. "When I was your age I'd already done XYZ. You never learn from your mistakes - you're always hung up on guys." Shock horror i can be upset about a multitude of things that aren't men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 10:55 PM |
| 3 | What a great song! Let's support each other <3Such a vibe 🤣👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Didn’t expect this to hit so close to home.Fuck thatt 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered April 12 2020thank u next | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on using Bumble for OLD?Thanks beautiful ! For a while I honestly thought there was something wrong with me, but fuck that, he doesn't deserve a second of my time 😂 I'm doing so much better now. And I hope you are too! I'm just thankful he hasn't reached out. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 06:53 AM |
| 8 | Thoughts on using Bumble for OLD?This happened to me too. Baffles me why he waited months to sleep together if all he wanted was a hookup but his loss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 06:22 AM |
| 3 | Sis, If You Have to Write A Whole Essay Here To Ask Us Whether He is Playing You and You Should Move On...I find that more often than not people are looking for validation that the decision they've made is the right one. It's easier to save face if everyone agreed to your decision in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 11:56 AM |
| 17 | I thought this one was a little ridiculous. Some women aren't even healed at the two month mark"I'm depressed because my wife who just gave birth doesn't have sex with me like she used to." Someone call the wambulance and GET THIS WOMAN A NEW HUSBAND. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 12:07 PM |
| 3 | Didn’t expect this to hit so close to home.Definitely feel like this applies to all relationships right now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 09:17 PM |
| 8 | Husband cheats on wife after she spends 10+ years taking care of him and paying off his debts. Stay away from LVMHonestly this made me so mad. I feel so bad for her and I can’t even begin to explain how much I want her to overcome all of this 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 11:54 AM |
| 8 | Another reason not to date older menSurgeons are overrated. Disappointing at best 😂 they’re so self absorbed because everyone in their work life treats them like god. Then expect that in every aspect of their lives | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 11:26 PM |
| 8 | Another reason not to date older menGod bless your mother. I’m sure if I told my mother anything she’d probably say the same thing to me but that’s a whole other story I don’t want to talk about. This really came at a great time for me. I was seeing this guy who was 7/8 years older than I am and I was ✨😍✨ by his maturity (now antics) and now I’m kicking myself for thinking that he was actually interested in me. Honestly I’m just so done with dating because I feel like no matter how old guys are they’re just disappointing at best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 08:48 AM |
| 5 | Blocked!!Eugh good on you girl! This happened to me once. He planned the date. Messaged me at 5pm that he was gonna come pick me up at 7pm. He didn’t even show 😂 took myself out then met some girlfriends afterwards. No one gets away with ditching me after I put on a face | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 10:49 AM |
| 11 | Another profile outing a LVM on Tinder. Sisters warning sisters 👯♀️Makes me wonder whether they like me for me or not 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 10:31 AM |
| 2 | Find your worthPREACH 🙌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 11:02 AM |
| 11 | Another reason never to date down...This was my ex to a T. Paraded me around like an ornament to everyone he knew. Yet couldn’t handle the fact that I had opinions and wanted to live my own life and that my world didn’t revolve around him 🙄 better off without him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 10:57 AM |
| 2 | I am dying! Which one of yall made this mod for the sims 4?I’m dying! This is gold | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 04:32 AM |
| 4 | Translations for Common Red-Flag Phrases?“Don’t waste my time” - 100% wasting your time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, say it with me,Yes !! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/19 12:23 AM |
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