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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
29	There’s no alpha/beta dichotomy		itsyourbirthdayz	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/11/23 04:33 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	There’s no alpha/beta dichotomy Yes, it would be incredibly helpful. Short of stuff like “she likes her boobies sucked” I am pathetically oblivious. There’s gotta be a series of things that I am missing throughout our time together. I can’t think of behaviors that are not overtly sexual that would turn her on hours before we have time to actually get it on.	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/11/23 12:38 PM
2	There’s no alpha/beta dichotomy I didn’t do anything to escalate. My excuse is that we were busy trick or treating with the kids and then getting them to bed. My wife always gets pissy at the kids’ bedtime, so I got butthurt that my efforts to make it a fun day for everyone had gone unappreciated and I gave up at that point.	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/11/23 01:42 AM
3	There’s no alpha/beta dichotomy Thanks for the links. I figured this had been covered before, but I wanted some help because it’s weird to see people suggesting there needs to be a balance between the two and then trying to figure out what that means for me. I was the only dad doing Halloween stuff in a group of moms yesterday and I didn’t get laid. That’s probably more to do with seeking validation and having a covert contract around my behavior than anything else. The idea that I can’t be alpha no matter what is really haunt…	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/11/23 09:28 PM
5	One year field report This is a fascinating FR. My wife broke up with me when we were dating and had a ONS. At the time I thought it made sense to take her back. I figured I had basically ignored her and I never considered marriage until she did that. Now, 8 years later, I have finally found MRP. I probably never had any frame, and I definitely had none after the ONS. It’s an interesting scenario. Frame is basically everything. I am wondering how many men have been through similar. My best friend had it happen about …	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/10/23 10:18 PM
4	Yesterday I posted about being attacked on relationship subreddits, being called whiny incel, and misogynistic because I post on here. Why is there so much negativity we hatred for male spaces and male vulnerability? I’m now being targeted and my post on this Reddit was locked. My recent observations have lead me to conclude that the nature of female power is rooted in inducing emotional pain in men. Look around, that’s all they’re doing. If they can make you doubt yourself they have won. I am not doing this necessary, but you have to wear women like an accessory. They’re not your clothes and they’re sure not your underwear. Take off any accessories that tarnish themselves	/r/MensRights	11/09/23 05:08 PM

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