TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

itwasabreakross Archive

View 0 posts and 13 comments by itwasabreakross on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

The ban was more helpful to me than some well thought out feedback Ouch that hurtzzz. I am smelling some validation seeking but just a whiff. So I guess it's a progress. I realized that I am scared to embrace my sexuality. I have difficulty being honest with myself about what I want my sex life to be. I had wrote a whole retarded paragraph DEERing about why I am satisfied with the amount of sex I am getting (1-2 times a week, 99% vanilla shit). But then I asked myself, is this the amount and typ…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/25 05:21 AM
1

. As a life long deep thinker, that can be easier said than done. Life long over thinker and mental masterbator ftfy. My LTRs birthday is coming up and I don’t feel like doing anything with her. then don't. This is a good example of my identity crisis. I feel like I should plan something for us, but at the same time I’d being doing it for validation or because I think I’ll get something (sex) out of it. So... What the fuck do you want to do? Celebrate, not celebrate. Decide one. Then our anniver…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/25 05:14 AM
1

I’m sad, you didn’t do anything for me for mothers day, and I want more romance and flowers”. Shit test. I was pretty bothered because I do X, Y, Z and now she wants A and she doesn’t give up the C. Covert contract. On top of it all, we don’t have any kids, the sense of entitlement is shocking to me. Covert contract I didn’t say anything in respond other than repeating back. Failed the shit test I feel a bit stuck here on how “woo” her without feeling like I’m doing it because she wants me to. L…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/25 05:05 AM
1

Your wife is getting her fill of emotions from the bus driver because poetry is emotionally charged and so personal for her. You are unfortunately in the game whether you like it or not. Stop I can't lead our relationship if you're not honest with me Good, very good. Frame it like you are judging her value as a future wife. You are not negotiating or arguing. You are the prize. she apologized for being dishonest She entered your frame. wife: " I crave for you to be the man in the poem and to tie…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/25 04:54 AM
1

Going to gym without telling her (punishing), not helping cook (covert contract), and an incident at a family event - me leaving her circle when I realized she was ignoring / mad at me, led her to blow up at me at night. Good, shit test I stood my ground, Okay? told her I did nothing wrong in any of the situations. Ehh fine I guess. Could be better, definitely can be better. Undertone here is that you are justifying herself to her. If you were playful and shitting on her like, "aww, why don't yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/25 04:29 AM
1

I got comments that 'game' isn't the reason I'm not getting laid and was shit on for weak/indirect initiations. Yeah, nah. That's the thing about redpill bros, "she would fuck Brad Pitt, without game, so you are just not attractive enough" is true. You are not Brad Pitt. Brad Pitt has instant value the moment he walks into the scene. You don't have enough value. So I went the opposite direction and tried the direct (blunt) and assertive approach, and then received the feedback that it's actually…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/25 04:09 AM
1

Rules of the game don't change just because you don't want your wife to be upset
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/25 06:32 AM
1

Initiate 3x this next week. Dropping a hammer over and over again is not gonna do you good if you don't understand the technique. Dont get me wrong, initiate if you want but it's time to learn some new skills. More so at myself right now (where it should be) that I’m once again in a situation where I’m not getting my needs met and “waiting” on someone else. I do have something that can help you. It's called the "state". Sometimes we just are not able to get into the "groove" so to speak. So howe…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/25 07:32 AM
1

Yeah, you are right. OP has bigger fish to fry for now, i.e. lift and STFU. Although, many men have fell into the trap of judging their progress based on their wife's reactions, doesn't end well. Sooner or later they will need to figure out how to judge their progress independent of their wives. If you think my comment is net negative to the discussion as a whole, feel free to remove it.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/25 11:39 AM
2

Dude, do yourself a favor and learn some game.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/25 10:40 AM
1

Regressed to bitchy hard rejections. How exactly are you initiating? Unless you are willing to be honest about it, you are not gonna improve. Write down how you are initiating and take the beating. It will do you good I am a man who does not give up when things get hard Not good enough. You don't succeed by not giving up, you succeed by assessing your mistakes, making action plan to improve those mistakes and improving those mistakes.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/25 07:32 AM
1

I got to the point where I said to myself: this isn't working anymore. When we fail, we feel like we are not in control of our lives, and we do stupid things like saying, "it isnt working anymore" to gain some control over our lives. Instead we need to accept that certain things are never gonna be in our control. You can game your wife, that's all there is to it. She's my wife, so of course she has to want me too, otherwise she wouldn't be with me.- Of course she would, she gets all the wife pri…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/25 07:11 AM
1

Your wife "deferring" sex is actually telling you something. She is feeling like she is "disappointing" you. That's because she is. But she is not expressing it to you, or showing you in an emotionally charged way. She is avoiding facing her negative emotions and self soothing herself. Which is a problem because if she can't feel her feels, she is not gonna get horny. She is doing that because you are not outcome independent and she can feel it and feels "maybe, somewhat" guilty about rejecting …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/25 06:29 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter