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I understand but what's the connection here with chads because like attracts like. Even if you aren't interested because they are dumb Chad's don't care less.... similar wavelength.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 10:11 PM
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Like when did you know a woman well enough to know that she lacked intelligence? And "Chad types" are not exactly high on intelligence themselves so I doubt they care less whether a woman had intelligence or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:12 PM
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I don't know...but there's things wrong with the way you look at this. You met 5 women.....and have somehow transferred that "data" onto the billions of women in their 30'sm 5 people mean nothing....I meet that many in a day if not more. The majority of single women in their 30's in my country are not miserable...why would they be? It's not like men in their 30's are saying they would only date a woman in 20's. They are looking for women also in their 30's and even the ones that would date someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:01 PM
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Okay but you should be honest with yourself. What do you care about what their future looks like? Whether one is happy and the other is miserable....what is the "end game" for you? Just to vent? Or to find a sense of delight or comfort at the thought some women may be unhappy? Iow, it's pointless wondering the lives of other. I'm 40 and I know some women that are 40 and happy and some that are 40 and unhappy. It has a lot to do with mindset, personality etc. Likewise I know some happily married …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:38 PM
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What do you consider major major dysfunctions? And if it's that bad then you wouldn't even have any concern of how much "successes" they have with the hot guys. But it's grating on you for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:19 PM
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Okay that's true. But you keep saying and believing that as the reason and maybe that's with some women sure but how do you explain that you literally cannot find a gf? There's guys that work in like I.T lol - not exactly Brad Pitts in either looks or persona- that everyday can attract a girlfriend or wife....so what do you think is happening different to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:16 PM
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I think this is an issue of today's society and not related to age. People are now used to dating apps and always aware if things don't work out or there's some little issue there's always someone potentially "better" out there. People have become a bit disposable and replaceable. Maybe I'm wrong but that's what I'm seeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:13 PM
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If its been this hard then it's 100 a mindset and personality thing. You see "average" guys getting a gf and or getting married so what is the difference about you? And you should move out of your mums place. I'm not one of those people that mock it etc because in my background some people live at home for like forever. Get married and then they all live with elder parents still. But everyone is independent. From how you write I don't really get a sense like you are too independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:08 PM
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"...until like 50's..." and even then not necessarily. In my background there are a number of singers that are over 50 and still have huge sex appeal. Look up Branka Sovrlic for example. I think she's like 60 something now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:59 PM
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Yeah exactly 🤣 There's aging Chad's for us aging Barbie's and we are happy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:52 PM
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If you are having trouble "getting" women why is that? How sure can you be that it's because they are only wanting some Chad (I'm not American but I think that's the term 🤣)? Why don't you get some friends to find out from these women what they really don't like about you? Obviously, if you just see each other's looks and don't talk e and they reject you you can be confident it's based in looks. But if you are talking with them etc and then they re reject....don't you think it could be something…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:48 PM
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It's normal to have preferences but when you start referring to them as "standards" then it indicates a certain type of mindset. But if you are happy with how things are going then keep do doing what you are doing. Btw, I'm 40 and I have younger men hit on me all the time but that's besides the point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:22 PM
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I guess there's many reasons. Maybe some women are afraid because they were cheated on or had some really bad relationship. Same for men I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:16 PM
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I don't think it's either/or. Both women and men... perhaps even more so women....are most happy being in a relationship. But it also doesn't mean having to be desperate for a relationship with just literally anyone. No offensive to the OP but from what he sounds like many women would be turned off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:51 AM
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Tbh, you come across as being bitter and just as shallow as these women that you are complaining are too shallow. When I read your post it also seems to me like you commodity youth and beauty and value women according to them. It almost had a indignant feel of "how dare women over a certain age be happy". And the way that you talked about the "obese woman" like as if she was just some lowly object that you were doing a favour to......it's not good. The way that you are looking at women is all wr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:28 AM
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OP if you are not a traditionally attractive guy then you need to have something else to stand out. Usually money or self confidence and/or charm. I'm saying that because you are talking about "getting laid". Or you could actually try to attract a relationship by being qualities that women want (genuine, kind, sense of humour etc)
/r/seduction24/03/22 03:46 PM
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Perhaps but I don't think a male supermodel looking guy is anything to go off because many women will just assume this guy is a pretty boy and is vain etc. If you have a masculine guy vs a somewhat feminine super hot model guy often women will be more interested in the masculine guy. At least I am. I remember even on the show Loveiland here everyone is super good looking naturally, but they had this one guy that was a model who always looked in the mirror etc and the girls gave him no attention
/r/seduction23/03/22 07:30 PM
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From a woman's perspective....why don't you just go on a dating app? They have hookup apps for that kind of thing
/r/seduction23/03/22 01:20 PM
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I am a woman and I think that if you message her you should be prepared for rejection. Because if nothing has changed then I don't expect she will change her feelings. Maybe fix the issue and then message her when you have a new confidence and new vibe? I think that should have made the date at your place by this stage. If I knew that a guy had this issue I wouldn't just dump him but some women are not me I guess
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:57 PM
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