ivantowerz Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Tips to navigate divorce court For some people, no lawyer really is best. Lawyers are either settlers or litigators who will drain your account. If you went to college and remember how to cite then you can do your own divorce and get better results. But if you can't, the you will be completely railroaded	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/23 08:51 PM
3	What can I expect That's just it, in divorce you don't know what to expect like you would in criminal court or when companies sue each other. Too much judicial discretion. 6 years in most states is not eligible for alimony but your judge can ignore that.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/23 08:38 PM
1	advice for considering to offer to pay for stbx lawyer If shes evading being served, the publish it in the newspaper, and when she doesn't see it you win.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/23 05:32 PM
1	advice for considering to offer to pay for stbx lawyer Are you insane? File for a motion to get summary judgment and get everything you're asking for. That will make you win in court or she will immediately hire a lawyer when served.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/23 05:26 PM
1	If you have found, much better women after divorce, where? A large part of early dating women is convincing them your not a creep violent schizoid person. Fair or not, a good profile skips that introductory period. Even showcases aspects of yourself.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/23 04:07 PM
3	If you have found, much better women after divorce, where? Almost all women are online now, quality or not. In fact the few times I asked out a girl out in public she called me back because she was able to "background check" me online.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/23 03:42 PM
7	If you have found, much better women after divorce, where? Many people are going to say no to this. But the main way is tying your Instagram to Tinder and other dating sites. Girls almost always meet online now. You have to have an Instagram that advertised you. As a person and as a product. I tried going to "community" activities to meet women but it takes too much time and effort. Having a really good Instagram is a current exploit or glitch to meeting women.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/23 03:00 PM
1	Punished for Service, Providing, and being Male When figuring this out the judges see their own daughters who are going to law school or similar and asking themselves what if she had to take a 4 - 6 year break from her career. Judges are living in another reality.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/23 02:48 PM
2	Punished for Service, Providing, and being Male In today's courts the judge has a lot of discretion. That's why you really are rolling the dice in family court. I wish they would add mandatory judgments and close the discretion. That way everyone would know exactly what outcomes to expect. Right now some are taken to the cleaners while other divorcees with a similar case are left without a scratch coming out of the system	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/23 05:59 PM
2	Punished for Service, Providing, and being Male That sucks indeed. Courts are skewed against the supporter and even moreso against men. In my divorce I argued that the ex did absolutely nothing for me and even got in the way of my career. The judge considered it in the award, but ultimately she lost out on things because I proved she had a de facto marriage with another man.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/23 04:39 PM
5	Divorced now for 1 month, been separated for a year. 3 kids under age 8. Just found out my ex has a new boyfriend and the kids have met him. I have had a girlfriend but for some reason I’m really struggling with hatred right now. Suggestions? I was like you, but now am happy she found someone. because 1 my natural instincts to be jealous, those chemicals have drained from my body.,that the woman I walked down the isle is getting plowed by someone was a horrible thought but it is nature's way of keeping you tied to that woman Eventually it fades. Her having a relationship kills alimony. I was able to take advantage in the divorce of her Mr. Wonderful phase.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/23 03:55 PM
2	Punished for Service, Providing, and being Male Just out of curiosity, what is your argument on why you shouldn't pay Alimony? Let me be devils advocate. When married, your finances become marriage finances. She sacrificed her best earning potential years to raise the children while freeing you to maximize your own earning potential. Good legal arguments against alimony is that she cohabitates with a new partner. Or good moral arguments is she wasn't really supportive of your career and was more of a bang maid before children came along. But …	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/23 03:25 PM
1	Punished for Service, Providing, and being Male Two types of attorneys. Settlers an Litigators. Settlers when you don't have too much money, litigators when you have lots of money.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/23 03:18 PM
1	Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women? Oh ok. Noted. Makes sense. I'm divorced and I think that applies to my situation. Although it turns out in my case I cared for my child a lot more than the average dad or at least put my child's interests over my own since she was born.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 04:45 PM
1	Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women? In what way are women sentimental about motherhood? And in what way are men? I don't get it at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 03:34 PM
1	What are some popular opinions commonly held by people of your own gender here that you not share? Actually as a Red piller myself...our stance is that less attractive women are harder than attractive women to date. The problem is that attractive women tend to have a friendlier demeanor, until you get to the model looking girls, then it gets harder to date them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/22 03:43 AM
6	What are some popular opinions commonly held by people of your own gender here that you not share? I highly doubt most men only care about youth and beauty and absolutely nothing else. It's a major thing initially but most men want connection and comfort too. Very true. A relationship costs effort and sometimes you would be better off without a woman. She could drag you down. Other women build you up. Average guys generally are ignored by the average woman. You have to be a few notches above average to even date any woman. That's the better statement, because yeah if you are a person that has…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/22 03:36 AM
1	Man gets his ex-GF to pay child support, and Reddit freaks out I doubt it's SJWs. It's actually conservatism that thinks men should fulfill their slave roll and shut up.	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/22 06:57 AM
4	Do women underestimate the strength of smaller men? Sometimes even smaller men with smaller looking muscles are stronger than aesthetic bodybuilders.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/21 08:28 PM
9	Marriage teetering on the decision to have a child Dont do it. The last thing you want is a child with someone who will divorce you anyway. When women have kids you become way less important to her relative to the child	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/21 08:11 PM
1	When does it stop hurting? For me its not about the next person, its about where Im at. I met someone awesome, better on paper in every way than my ex. But it just wasnt time. Dont be afraid of staying a bachelor for awhile. But of course everyone is different. I only speak in generality terms. Generally its best to take time to heal and spend with friends.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/21 05:56 PM
3	When does it stop hurting? Well, also according to pop psychology men feel immediete relief for a few months in some cases but the heartache is time released. Its called the denial stage. Hopefully this trend doesnt apply to you. Also rebounds dont work for everyone. It didnt work for me But its worth a try.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/21 06:06 AM
2	When does it stop hurting? Better Bachelor is generally correct with the realities and nature of todays modern women, but do not listen to his political takes. And his main message is to become MGTOW. But, a better philosophy is to continue to date but never remarry or try not to get attached to any one woman again. Women are but passing clouds in the sky.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/21 05:51 AM
0	When does it stop hurting? According to pop psychology you should be back at baseline after 1 year for every 5 of the relationship. Faster the older you are, faster the more long terms youve had and faster the better you are at attracting new partners. So in your case, you should be approaching baseline before 2 yrs with huge strides in 1 yr. Help it along with therapy and talking to anyone that will listen to you.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/21 05:46 AM
2	Pain? Yeah this is sad but true. The woman was stunning and brave for leaving you even though she will need your checks and not feel the loss because you are forced to interact with her on occasions.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/12/20 03:50 PM
4	Pain? Divorce is just like a bigger legal breakup. The same rules apply. They will realize it the second you don't care anymore. As long as they can sense you still care, they will feel like you are still somewhere in the back burner in case they change their mind. So the best thing to do is to work on moving on and try not to think about her perspective at all. Fuck her, she was willing to lose you, even if she realizes she fucked up, give her the gift of ghosting her for her stupidity and that feeli…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/12/20 03:35 PM
2	Does anyone else read r/divorce and see a ton of toxic women? Yea.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/20 11:17 PM
4	Does anyone else read r/divorce and see a ton of toxic women? Lol. Right? And here I thought I was just the average mild mannered dude, turns out I got all the Dark Triad traits if you ask my ex.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/20 11:14 PM
7	So much harder for me than her Well, look. It could be the reason why a lot of women report never actually loving a guy after they divorce him is because that is a common female coping strategy. It is associated with borderline personality disorder, one moment they idealize you the next they de-value you. But even when there is no personality disorder, women will rationalize leaving a kind devoted man by amplifying his negative qualities and downplaying his good qualities. That's how they cope. Their next relationship is goin…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/10/20 12:39 AM
1	Best way to meet girls at uni? Ok so in University, you generally just want to focus on making friends with dudes. Like a frat, and just go to parties. While at parties it should be easy to score with girls by just opening and chatting and injecting some teases. But during the day and in classes, you want to just play the slow game. You are going to be there for 4 years with a lot of the same girls. So just start talking to them platonic and keep them on ice, be a cool guy in class, be a loudmouth bullshitter during class dis…	/r/seduction	25/01/20 07:26 AM
1	I need some help Do some escalation. Calibrated escalation. I was on a date the other night and I just cringily forced myself to touch the girl on the shoulder. So much that I almost slapped her shoulder from how nervous I was. I have a hard time turning platonic into man to woman. But you just have to just barrel trough it and do it. Get in that first touch on the shoulder with the back of your hand. After I touched her shoulder while continuing the joke, I soon escalated to doing my thumb wrestling routine, an…	/r/seduction	25/01/20 07:07 AM
1	Death penalty for men only: Texas Woman's Execution Halted, DA Won't Appeal Im not saying it isn't fucked up, all I'm saying is, it is indeed offensive and your mother is whore too she didn't get the pussy pass from me no sir.	/r/MensRights	04/02/13 07:47 PM
0	Death penalty for men only: Texas Woman's Execution Halted, DA Won't Appeal There's not always shame in getting away with something, sometimes there's pride. Like, look how fucking slick I am. There's also the duality of pride in sex and shame as well, look at my big fucking dick, and ha ha you've go a small penis.	/r/MensRights	04/02/13 07:37 PM
0	Death penalty for men only: Texas Woman's Execution Halted, DA Won't Appeal Hey guys I'm just passing through on this sub, It seems to me, a girl who has in fact gotten away with something would feel offended by the term pussy pass just as she might get offended by the meaning itself if she felt that she deserved the credit as an individual and not because of her tits. But to the casual female observer witnessing the verbal exchange, she might even interpret it as a sort of girl power sort of thing or on the other end of the spectrum she might get offended that she was …	/r/MensRights	01/02/13 04:22 AM