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Need Supportivehn/r/Divorce_Men05/01/26 06:48 AM
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Well for me, my marriage was volatile as fuck. I dont miss the having to sit on the side of the road to mentally prepare myself for possibly an argument about any random thing, No arguments, no her always blaming me and making feel bad about myself. If a woman throwing pussy at me, I can catch it without feeling guilty, after a sexless marriage, goddamn does it feel good to not having to turn down a sure thing just to be faithful to a terrible wife. Best part, get to rebuold your image, do what …
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/26 09:02 PM
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Nothing
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/26 03:12 AM
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I was given this advice by a friend that was i. The navy lol
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 08:34 PM
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Are you here for advice or just to tell everyone you better than them? You still here talking to strangers.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/26 05:21 PM
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Its hard brother, trust me I know. But hold your head high! We have been through it also. I am going through it right now! I am here with you. 4 months in. Not even sign papers yet. But I dont give up. Everyday I getbup, square myself and walk into the unknown. That's how we build resilience. By not letting what broke us, keep us broken.
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/26 03:48 PM
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Wrong take. Its not about being complacent. Know what you will tolerate and will not tolerate dint make yourself feel like you were a problem.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/26 07:23 PM
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What you talking about. Love yourself man. Love yourself. You need to learn to be happy by yourself first. Do that first. You are a winner. Start acting like it. When. You have high energy, you attract like energy. My wife left me September 2025. I hurt. But not letting it keep.me down. And I have met awesome new people. at 32 years old I am starting over for the 3rd time. It sucks but waking up and still making myself happy. Man life feels good more often now than it did in my marriage. I got i…
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/26 09:04 PM
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The things starting our relationship i was ecetremly ssmteadfast etc. But when is saw her struggling mentally and ask me for kindness and gentleness so I did. How could I not give that to my wife. And I just got worse and worse. And start of 2025 it was like a switch flipped and she needed this and that to feel safe and for us to be good. As soon as I stopped making the marriage work she left. I told her "fine sex is a big deal fine, I won't ask for sex ever again so if we don't have sex it's be…
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/26 01:30 PM
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I was told this by a friendnd today. Thanks man!
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/26 09:27 PM
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Same. We didnt have kids. But we did go to marriage counseling and the therapist was assigned her to resolve my insecurites, like taking the dog out for the last time then leaving the doors unlocked then when I wake up and se either unlock I am in the wrong for being upset and anxious about sleeping the entire night with the doors unlocked. So she took it that the therapist was putting the blame on her and she was sticking up for me. She said I never took care of her. Maybe I should have kept a …
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/26 01:46 PM
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Yeah. Definitely. Its rough man. I never though I would be going through this. I remember the times her eyes use to light up when she saw me.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/26 01:12 PM
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Same man. I did self improvement, suppressed my emotions, put her first in everything. She walked away saying she need space so went to her friends place then txt me she grieving the marriage and that I never cared for her or loved her. And that she sees im trying to be better but its not enough. And took something I said out of context text twisted it and put the end of the marriage on me. It seems like women get to come up with a bunch of excuses to not take accountability. Like only them stug…
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/25 03:14 AM
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