iverygoodboy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	NEED TO END THIS APROACH ANXIETY SHIT NOW! NOW Options. People handle AA differently. Counting down might not work for some people. Goal 1 is basically the countdown then "hi", goal 2 is more about getting over a fear of rejection rather than AA, and goal 3 is for the overly anxious that need to rate how intimidating an interaction is so they can find one that will push them out of their comfort zone just enough.	/r/seduction	18/10/19 03:54 PM
1	NEED TO END THIS APROACH ANXIETY SHIT NOW! NOW If you're in your head thinking about more than just saying hi it's not going to work. You'll count down then make an excuse and bail. I found that counting down with the singular focus of saying hi clears all the anxious bs out of my head. Basically you gotta kill all background noise and just do it.	/r/seduction	18/10/19 03:35 PM
2	NEED TO END THIS APROACH ANXIETY SHIT NOW! NOW Damn dude, how do you go from learning the guitar to feeling undateable and dying alone? You're taking little things way too seriously. You're over-analyzing everything. Play the guitar for yourself not for validation from others. Going out with the purpose of getting rejected is not easy. It's weird. It's uncomfortable. It creates tension. Tension is what you want. You want to become more comfortable under tension. I'll give you a 3rd goal: 3) Think of something that scares you a bit and rate i…	/r/seduction	18/10/19 01:23 PM
10	NEED TO END THIS APROACH ANXIETY SHIT NOW! NOW 3..2..1.."Hi" Counting down removes all options. Your singular focus is to just say "hi" Simple, but it may be hard if you have expectations like u/traceviral said. Instead of expecting anything, set out with these goals: 1) Open for the sake of opening. Your one goal is to say hi. You will more than likely get a polite "hi" and a smile back. That's it and nothing more. Say hi, exchange pleasantries, and move on with your day. 2) Get rejected by someone, anyone. For example: ask a barista for a …	/r/seduction	18/10/19 02:27 AM
0	I just started day game, what do I say when they say they have a boyfriend? Ask her how long they've been going out or how serious it is. If it's new or she's having second thoughts you can give her your number. She will text you if she's interested.	/r/seduction	25/08/19 06:39 PM
1	You are better looking than you think Hmm for me I just needed proof girls liked me when I first started game. AA is always going to be there no matter how many girls you bang. I found for myself approaching got a lot easier once I had results. Maybe you need to find another way	/r/seduction	24/08/19 04:16 PM
1	You are better looking than you think The brain needs results not words. Evidence over theory. Approach tons of girls, it just takes 1 to be into you to have that evidence. It makes approaching other girls easier.	/r/seduction	24/08/19 03:40 PM
5	You are better looking than you think I used to get like this. If you get stuck you're thinking too fast and probably about her reaction. Slow down, its ok to talk slow or pause and think. Worry about what you have to say not how you want her to react. I don't think they're getting confused, it's more likely your body language is conveying a lot of tension. Focus on open and relaxed body language. Relax your muscles starting with your chest and shoulders. You need to relax into the tension. If you're comfortable and relaxed they'll …	/r/seduction	24/08/19 02:41 AM
10	You are better looking than you think Your inner thoughts show through your body language. If you're insecure and maybe self-loathing it will permeate through your body language. If you love yourself it will show through as confidence. Loving yourself is a mindset shift. It starts with silencing the critic in your head and replacing it with positive thoughts and compliments. Love yourself, flaws and all. That critic in your head does not define your self worth or worthiness to be loved.	/r/seduction	24/08/19 02:29 AM
1	Got her number, she is reading but replying, help! I really like her. It sucks but I don't see a way to salvage this. If you message her again she'll lose any respect she has for you. You show your neediness. Maybe she's testing you, if you sent 2+ messages that she read but didn't respond to you failed her test. Best to move on, she might have some interest but if she was really interested she would be responding.	/r/seduction	05/08/19 02:03 PM
1	Got her number, she is reading but replying, help! I really like her. Forget her, she's not replying. We all want what we can't have. It can drive us crazy. Talk to other girls and don't put pressure on finding a relationship. You'll get attached and come off as low value and needy. Focus on having fun, talk like old friends and escalate step by step from there. A relationship will form naturally with the right girl. This girl you met is not the right girl.	/r/seduction	05/08/19 01:12 PM
1	A sad mediocre first date You have 2 ears and 1 mouth. Listen twice as much as you speak. Focus on what she is saying to you and not what you want to say next. Shift your mentality. She needs to win you over. Evaluate her as a potential girlfriend. Helps reduce your need to be liked by her. Have other girls you're talking to. Have 3 other girls you're talking to and you won't care so much about this 1 girl liking you. Practice open body language. Even if you're tense using open body language signals comfort and confidenc…	/r/seduction	26/07/19 07:57 PM
1	Already have a girlfriend, 2 FWB and possibly another one. Stop cheating, break up with your girlfriend she deserves better. Saying "it's in your nature" is lame.	/r/seduction	22/07/19 07:02 PM