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1	Ex of over a year reached out and not sure how to handle it. We broke up because of distance which is now not an issues and me being too needy with her Without knowing either of you guys it’s hard to say what you should do. When all else fails you can try the truth. Tell her that you are happy for her and you are glad she shared this with you. Say you are glad she got in touch with you. Tell her you regret how things ended. Say you have a few things you wanted to talk to her about. Ask if she would like to get coffee or whatever to catch up.	/r/seduction	08/03/19 11:00 PM
2	Ex of over a year reached out and not sure how to handle it. We broke up because of distance which is now not an issues and me being too needy with her That is pretty harsh. People look back and reassess their own behavior and the relationships they have been in. Sometimes they aren’t sure if getting back together is a good idea or not, and they want to talk to their ex to see if they still have feelings or are wearing rose colored glasses when they think of them. With your attitude I think they will take off the rose colored glasses pretty quickly. That’s not how to treat people.	/r/seduction	08/03/19 10:29 PM
7	The responses feel so sad here. Everyone responding feels they are bugging women, and that they shouldn't be approaching. Everyone is an individual and everyone has a different reality. Too many people just assume their reality is like everyone’s reality. It’s funny, when you go to r/askwomen there is a huge thread where the gist of it is asking “what do men do on a daily basis that pisses you off?” with thousands of responses and upvotes. One of the top answers is that men feel entitled to approach women and try to chat with them while they are just grocery shopping or living their life. Then half of the threads i…	/r/seduction	08/03/19 10:22 PM

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