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| 3 | There Are Guys In This Sub Who Don’t Know The Difference Between “Sexual Attraction” and “Physical Attraction “😳This makes a lot of sense actually… | /r/seduction | 02/11/25 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Why it is hard for short guys in datingThis is great advice. Thanks for sharing :) | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Why it is hard for short guys in datingIf you look at it that way, you’re definitely going to feel that way and carry those results with you. I’m big, but I don’t look at it as a disadvantage. (I’m on a weightless journey and it’s not the SAME but the same principles apply) I am not everyone preferred body type, but every day when I get ready I dress to compliment and compensate for where I am. I have tons of great features and characteristics, you do too, just embrace those and make those things your identity. | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 05:19 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do you flirt and date as a lazy introvert?What the fuck do you mean?? Show them your nerdy collections or your favorite reels. Easy. NEXT | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 04:40 AM |
| 3 | You want to know the fastest way to make her run away?It depends on the girl. I love them pathetic. As long as they actually aren’t… 😅 it brings me deep joy to see a man afraid to lose me. In the beginning it can go off putting, but once you have her, I believe vulnerability is the hottest thing you can display. | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 05:20 PM |
| 1 | You want to know the fastest way to make her run away?It depends on the girl. I love them pathetic. As long as they actually aren’t… 😅 it brings me deep joy to see a man afraid to lose me. In the beginning it can go off putting, but once you have her, I believe vulnerability is the hottest thing you can display. | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 05:19 PM |
| 12 | Jerking off to her picture before the date to reduce anxiety. Does it help?I think it would really make you feel better if you told her. | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 02:10 PM |
| 3 | How good can one get good at game like can you get laid in every 1 to 6 approaches?Idk I’ve never had a guy turn me down for causal sex. I’m fat too. Idk. | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 12:37 AM |
| 40 | What's your process once you get the girl home?What area are you in? Asking for a friend. | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 12:46 PM |
| 2 | For those who have pulled from the gym what was your approach?Damn, I’ve been approached many times I guess. | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 06:47 AM |
| 3 | What were the dumbest "hints" you got from a woman?I just feel like no one I know would ever flirt this way! Hahaha but maybe she did think you were super cute and you had her all distracted and she took the wrong water bottle? Im super bold and a little wild at times but I would NEEEEVER! Hahahaha | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 10:32 PM |
| 16 | What were the dumbest "hints" you got from a woman?Is this a joke?! | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Should i simply move on ??If you’re into her, try. If not, just reciprocate. | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Double Text Advice?If you’re going to double text, wait a little bit and create a hook. Your suggestion about something funny from your previous chat is good, but I recommend creating anticipation for your date. Maybe even consider changing up the plans. “Make sure you wear comfortable shoes, there’s some really neat boutiques in the area.” “Hey there’s a pottery class Thursday night, would you be interested in joining me there instead/afterwards?” “Im looking forward to hearing about what you think of this restau… | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 11:30 AM |
| 9 | Having close proximity with women is more important than any other factorsIt’s fairly simple. Join several groups, book clubs, workshops, workout classes, regularly attend church or a wholistic wellness program… anything that even remotely resonates with you. Get yourself plugged and start with networking with the other guys. Be involved, be kind, stand out a little, don’t over do it. Don’t even talk to the ladies at first, just be present. The ladies will notice and you’re going to have a lot more success. | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Numb to getting girls numbersLet’s see screen shots or example texts. There’s a reason these are fizzling. You have to set hooks. And yeah, new contacts can be boring, I totally get that but almost everyone has something that makes them exciting. You have to learn how to extract that. | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 11:01 AM |
| 1 | You should never ask a woman on a dating site what she's looking for.Agreed, it will be so obvious in time. | /r/seduction | 06/10/25 12:34 AM |
| 24 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?I don’t have the experience you’re looking for, but one of the prettiest girls I knew in high school (we became really close right after high school and I lived with her for a year) would bring boys home that I wouldn’t even consider. I had another friend (ironically she lived with us as well…) who was a stripper, cute face, PEEERRRFECT body, but she only slept with her boyfriend (and they occasionally brought other girls in) even though she was offered thousands of dollars to sleep with men fro… | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 04:39 PM |
| 8 | Is being physically close a good idea to the woman?I think proximity is a good way of indicating interest. With that being said, use it to your advantage! Create scenarios where you are close and then pull back. She will FEEL that. | /r/seduction | 14/09/25 10:38 PM |
| 0 | why do girls say they want a nice guy and then date someone who looks like he eats drywallOmg he really does… 💀💀💀 | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 03:36 AM |
| 0 | How to get quiet guys to make noise?Make. Him. Scream. Get creative baby :) | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 02:29 AM |
| 11 | 20 truths about seducing women that transform ordinary men into magnetic menNumber five really spoke to me. | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Need advice please , I fucked upAll right the first thing you do is do not text or message her. If you have already…. Stop. give her at least one or two days… she knows she’s got a ticking time bomb until she goes home. Message her on the 29th. Tell her you know the date was a disaster, but you wanna make it up to her. | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 01:04 AM |
| 3 | How to you guys “re-attract”?Well, if there’s ever been any loose ends or something that you need to apologize for I would start there. Before you do that though, anything that you know about her whether it be something in her schedule or store that she goes to a lot, say she always goes to the library on Saturdays… or a mutual friend has a party… just run into her ” accidentally” that’s where you’re going to be very short with her, but flatter her. And then follow up with a text apologizing or giving her some emotional bai… | /r/seduction | 24/08/25 07:20 PM |
| 3 | How to you guys “re-attract”?I think girls in general, love closure and unfinished business. I would just orchestrate an accidental run in. Just be very brief and don’t forget to flatter her. | /r/seduction | 24/08/25 06:36 PM |
| 9 | The "Tactical Wake-up" Seduction MethodI loved it when he was like “I’m a 27 year old virgin.” | /r/seduction | 24/08/25 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Does not reaching sex when escalating physically make women distance themself from you?Teeechnically, sex causes woman to bond to men, but a lot of woman also have a lot of shame around it afterwards if they don’t feel a genuine and deep connection, so it will very likely end badly if you try to escalate after she clearly said she wasn’t ready. She’s communicating to you, so hear her and wait for her. Slow your roll! Let her initiate! Buy her dinner and flowers, kiss her on the head. Linger on hugs but not to cope a feel. Show her she is worth more than the end goal, and she will … | /r/seduction | 21/08/25 12:37 AM |
| 1 | No follows up after sexIf you were serious about her, yes. If it’s for lack of options, or you just want something casual, I would say leave it. Doing that could get a woman very hooked. | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 12:59 AM |
| 3 | No follows up after sexThis is tough, it does show a lack of good communication, which is hard during vacation and through messages. Maybe you should be vulnerable with her and ask or apologize? | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 12:22 AM |
| 0 | No follows up after sexDid you follow up with number three? It could be that you don’t ask enough questions or that you’re too available. If she’s not feeling adored and ignored (weird right, they need a little of both to keep things interesting! It actually creates a chemical reaction in the brain where they crave the validation and adoration if you give them good amounts of space. Number one and two seem like pretty normal fizzles. It’s definitely going to happen. Not everyone vibes! | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 11:49 PM |
| 1 | How many women are you currently seeing at once? And is she aware that you're dating multiple people?Love | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Telling people "not to apply pressure" is terrible adviceIt’s not just your looks it’s your energy. The more she gets to know you the more detailed her opinion of you will be. At first she might think you’re not cute enough to hook up with and then she gets to know you and your worth goes through the roof on her mind because you’re sensitive and kind and loyal or on the flip side… she’s attracted to you and thinks you’re funny but then she finds out you’re an asshole or you’re shallow and she’s not into it anymore. | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 06:15 PM |
| 29 | What do girls find attractive in men? What turns them on?The glutes are the muscles that drive the action. When they are bigger and juicy (not just fat, but like bigger, muscular and athletic) it’s just hot, I think to myself “that guy fucks” & I wanna wrap my thighs around him. | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 12:39 PM |
| 28 | What do girls find attractive in men? What turns them on?Intelligence, shoulders, ass, arms, class & eyes in no particular order. | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 12:21 PM |
| 2 | HAVE YOU EVER BEEN DIRECT AND TOLD A WOMAN?: “LET’S FUCK.”No, at the very least start with passionate kissing | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys actually experience women initiating sex?Okay so here are some beautiful examples: - use your eyes and facial features to convince, look at her as if she’s the most beautiful thing you’ve ever seen in your life and just say “wow, you look so beautiful this morning” or “baby, I’m so lucky to have you” or simply “you are so beautiful!” ask her about something very specific, this requires studying her… is her hair different? Say something. Did she do her nails? Say something. Does she have a hobby or job she enjoys? Ask a specific questio… | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 02:08 PM |
| 4 | Do you guys actually experience women initiating sex?Be hot and cold with her. Give her a genuine thoughtful compliment or moment of emotional intimacy and then withdraw and go cold. This creates scarcity and makes her crave more. Reject her a little this creates insecurity and anxiety that only you can soothe. This is just about as affective as open and honest communication, in fact I would say even more so because of the ache it creates. Unfortunately some ladies are insecure sexually and they just won’t initiate no matter how horny they are. I … | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 10:48 AM |
| 2 | Do you avoid porn?There’s a lot on here or on the internet in general. just look up Erotic Literature along with something you’re into and read it. 🤭 | /r/seduction | 27/07/25 12:26 PM |
| 5 | Why Would Someone Get No Matches on Dating Apps Despite Having a Solid Profile in a Major Metropolitan Area....Drop the link, we can let you know know ;) | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Do you avoid porn?Reading smut helps as a crutch. | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Is it worth it to have sex with a woman if your not that attracted to her?Love all of this. This guy fucks. 💜😮💨🤭 | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 03:24 PM |
| 8 | Is it worth it to have sex with a woman if your not that attracted to her?Well said. The odds are statistically much higher, but with this attitude, you’re repelling OP! | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth it to have sex with a woman if your not that attracted to her?As a female who deals with shame afterwards, no way hahahaha. At the very least, if you’re not having MEANINGFUL sex, he better have at least made like a baddie for hooking up with a Greek God. I’ve seen a lot of guys who are willing to hook up with anything that has a heart beat. It just depends, are you that kind of guy? If you’re willing to put your dick (raw) into anything that will let you, you’re probably going to get an STD, or end up with an accidental pregnancy. Masturbation is a much b… | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 03:21 PM |
| 0 | She falls in love quicklyI’m like this a lot… 😅 one thing that will really help is for you to keep communication about it. Let her know! I think that your little obsession with me is so adorable but it’s also a little unhealthy and borderline creepy. If someone put it to me like this, I would have a much easier time receiving it. | /r/seduction | 23/07/25 04:15 PM |
| 97 | Best way to get a FWB as an average guy?This is pretty typical with friends with benefits. I don’t know a lot of girls who continue to hook up with a guy for months. I think if you’re wanting something more consistent, you should probably just try to get a girlfriend. 😅 But some things that could work is just being super open about what you want, and invest in them a little bit. Nothing huge just like after a few weeks, bring them a coffee, buy them a new toy… theme sex night 😅😅😅 just little things that add to the experience, so that … | /r/seduction | 22/07/25 02:23 PM |
| 4 | i left her house after she fell asleep, am i a bad person?You can talk to her about it and see if she’s open for it. Be honest with her, women respect that, and if she’s already falling for you, I think she’ll be able to hear that. I personally don’t think that you should continue to try to meet with this girl for casual sex. Her baby daddy is coming out of prison in two months?? That is the last thing you need. 😅 You already have a new prospect , just put your energy there! | /r/seduction | 15/07/25 03:57 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to awful rejections?I’ve never been rejected like this either. I don’t think I would take it hard, ONLY because someone who acts like that is just deeply disturbed and ugly on the inside. I think it would’ve saved me a whole lot of trouble. 😅 | /r/seduction | 13/07/25 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Some guys just have itA shocking amount of ladies would never consider a married man. | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 01:44 AM |
| 15 | What actually makes women want to come home with youCreate sexual tension and then back off. Example, touch her arm or move a piece of hair from her face and then don’t touch her again. Maybe even take a step back and she will step forward subconsciously if she’s interested. Let her chase. She will beg you to take her home. | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 07:28 PM |
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