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Except it's not meaning or purpose that anyone really goes to TRP to find. They want to get laid, or get into a relationship.We can say TRP is about fitness and self education and all that but honestly, they just wanna get laid and TRP points them in the right direction...or so they believe.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/20 08:01 AM
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They're hope for the hopeless.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/20 07:37 AM
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This is another slice of the TRP issue...over-analyzation. In the cold light of day, it doesn't really matter why she's being rude, dismissive, or blowing you off...because you don't know the real reason. You can't read her mind or experience her life experiences. The only way it'll ever matter is if you did something obvious to make her be shitty to you (and usually, it's something not obvious). I've heard women justify their shitty behavior towards a "suitor" for some of the following reasons:…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/20 12:02 AM
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TRP teaches men to think that any rude or dismissive woman is shit testing them. 80 percent of the time, she just doesn't like you.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/20 05:17 AM
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For me... TRP did not appeal to me for long, but it initially did because of "male first" aspects of it's ideology which matched up with my own. For example, in one Rollo's books, he writes (paraphrasing) 'you don't negotiate with women or children' in terms of personal relationship and parenthood, respectively. Even though I a a single man, something like that resonated with me because I held the same belief. Take that 'old-school' mindset and mix in the overall frustration caused by living a s…
/r/ExRedPill23/02/20 06:36 PM
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Doesn't make it any more useful.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/19 05:23 PM
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It's not a narcissistic concept, it's an abstract one. Which makes it pretty useless.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/19 04:28 AM
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Only victim here is you, lol. I keep taking potshots for fun at your expense just to see what fake alpha/bigot shit you'll say next.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 01:19 AM
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And a bigot too! You're making yourself look all kinds of good today.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 11:56 PM
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Think I'll not fuck off, but thanks for the useless reply. And no, not all cities are the same.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 11:49 PM
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I should've added that I wasn't even remotely asking for a response from someone looking for an excuse to troll. I'm considering a vacation and was looking for some word of mouth recommendations. But now that I've satisfied your with miserable ass with the kernel of attention youre seeking, you can be most helpful by fading away from my thread.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 11:02 PM
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Quitters.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 10:35 PM
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Could it be possible the juice is throwing your emotions out of sync? When that happens, your perception of the reality changes. Might need to throw out the juice.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 10:33 PM
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"I'm very busy" isn't a shit test; it's a straight up blowoff. Move it along.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 07:28 PM
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Here's something that the Red Pillers and most especially the PUAs don't want you to know and will never admit to...in fact pretty sure I'm gonna get downvoted for even saying it: Most women straight up do not want to be approached by most random men, at least on a conscious(sp) level, even if they like the attention on a different level. In fact, if you approach ten random women and 2 give you the time of day, you're doing just fine. If you bed one you're doing REALLY well. U.S., U.K., Asia...i…
/r/askTRP04/06/19 09:04 AM
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In this case, you're going to have to have to take the plunge and find out if she wants more than friendship. She could be showing you off as a boytoy, otherwise.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 02:27 AM
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I suppose it all comes down to one simple question, then: what else does OP have going on that date day? If he's got another date he could go on, absolutely. But if it's a video game/laundry day, why not? Abundance often only goes so far as a person's actual, on-hand options. In this case, he has nothing to lose but time and emotional investment, and he shouldn't be too emotionally invested in a girl he hasn't smashed yet, anyway.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 12:38 AM
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You said you hate therapists...but if you have body disphormic AND depressive issues, you should take the money you're going to spend on your next cycle and seek help. They aren't all scammers.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 11:55 PM
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We live n' learn. Play.on, brother.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 11:51 PM
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When you consider the possible reward, the risk is worth it.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 11:50 PM
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Gaming girls after meeting them in the club and not smashing that night is always a crapshoot, no matter your place on the sexual totem pole. Keep rolling the die, I doubt you're doing anything wrong.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 11:15 PM
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In all likelihood, it was her idea and it turns them both on. So, why judge.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 11:12 PM
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You should've quit on her after the 2nd time. She likes the feeling of dudes sweating her for dates. All good though; better than you going out, spending money, and getting played.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 10:51 PM
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Only under 2 circumstances, usually: You are gay. You're in a bar and she asks you to buy her a drink. Besides that, it's what they call a "hard choose," and if you start up conversation with her and play things right, there's roughly an 80 percent chance you'll smash, regardless if she's a "good girl" or a skank.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 10:47 PM
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I'd say give it one more chance, but just ONE more. Worst that happens is you waste one afternoon.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 10:31 PM
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Truthfully? Some people never get over it as in completely forget that unrequited love, and in some way carry that person with them, in spirit, until the day they die. However. Through the natural course of time without contact or visual exposure of any kind, you'll realize that the chick don't want you, accept it, and move on with life. Don't force it to happen; unrequited love is another form of loss, and everyone has to "mourn" in their own way. The biggest thing is no contact and to understa…
/r/askTRP01/06/19 07:05 PM
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Endless.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 06:53 PM
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Gangsta.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 04:39 PM
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Listen to the song "Bust a Move" by Young MC. It's not just a song, it's an anthem!
/r/askTRP27/05/19 02:30 PM
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Try to bring one/some of your friends. When you're in this situation, you're undergoing a certain amount of "evaluation" from her friends. Your friends can both social proof you and prevent her friends from shit testing you. And you might even get one of them laid.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 04:31 PM
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Maybe! And maybe it's idiocy to ask strangers for advice in the first place if you're going to ignore that advice anyway.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 03:40 AM
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The justifications you just gave me are the justifications you give yourself as far as why you should persist. But you don't have to convince me or anyone else...the girl decides who she fucks. And she has decided that it's not you. Otherwise, you'd probably be fucking her right now.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 03:15 AM
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But as you said (and you're finding out), weed is a hindrance to your game. Moderating it better may make it not-a-hindrance.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 03:12 AM
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Yeah...it will fuck you up. There's nothing wrong with that, killer, we all get caught up. But her decision has been made.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 02:53 AM
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This question is very important: have you smashed her? Because if you haven't after all this time, she's long since decided that you never will. Move on...
/r/askTRP23/05/19 02:42 AM
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It was a shit test. Or she was just straight up throwing shade. Don't pay these subtle insults from women or people any mind unless you start hearing it often.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 02:39 AM
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Dunno about everyone else, but I preach against chronic pot use because it can often just straight up make you lazy and as you said, anxious. That's part of it's natural effect (allure)...it's more something to do after you get shit done, not when you have shit to do. If you like pot, it's MENTALLY addictive, like video games...you enjoy it so much you don't want to do much else, and then you become dependent. "I could do x y x...but meh. Rather hang out, smoke a j, watch Netflix." Much better i…
/r/askTRP23/05/19 02:35 AM
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I kinda think we're not supposed to actively fight our feelings when we're really into someone, even when they don't want us back. Some people fall for people harder than others. We can only control what we do with that attraction. That being said, one always has to keep in mind that until the feelings have been reciprocated and the relationship consummated (many times over, preferably), that the bottom can fall out at ANY time. That person may not be who you believe them to be, they can ghost o…
/r/askTRP22/05/19 01:21 AM
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And you're a fucking pussy who trolls online subs looking to put people down in the most bullshit way possible instead of actually helping them because he can't call other men fucking pussies in the real world without getting his ass beat.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 09:35 PM
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No, you arent losing frame...from your perspective of the story, as you tell it, she was rapid fire shit testing you and you passed every time. A lot of people on these subs basically suggest raging at a woman like the Hulk to surpress or pass her shit tests, but that's not always the answer. Sometimes a gentler but still firm approach is best...after all her mood swings at that time may have nothing to do with you. You took this rational approach. Rule of thumb is that no matter how much shit a…
/r/askTRP16/05/19 07:16 PM
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She's a tease.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 07:11 PM
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Whoever invites pays. Mark Manson came up with that one, and honestly, it seems pretty fair.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 10:32 AM
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Even though I don't know him, OP doesn't seem like he's any of those things. I think he wants advice rather than harsh criticism. To OP: Most people are instinctively attuned to their status in a group, especially when they've been ostracized. Stop hanging with them for awhile, see how they react. Do they call you to hang out, does anyone check on you, etc. If you get nothing from them, they gradually withdraw from that circle; trying like hell to make things better may actually make things wors…
/r/askTRP14/05/19 12:09 PM
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A very good question. They do exist, but like sociopaths/psychopaths, two things modern people are quick to label people as, true misos are very rare and their actions are very subtle. I have encountered women who believe it's disrespectful to a woman to not buy her a drink at the bar, and women who believe it miso to not hold a door open for a woman. Then there are male bosses at companies who will employ women but never promote them even if they deserve it after years of good work, preferring …
/r/askTRP14/05/19 08:25 AM
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Good stuff. Never ever give a sub an ultimatum; they'll pick the negative side of it just to be rebellious.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 01:20 PM
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This isn't a popular opinion, but married women are a no-fly zone anyway. Extreme drama.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 07:01 AM
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Don't "try" to keep her interested because she won't be impressed with anything but who YOU are, as trite as that may sound. Only thing you can do with a woman who just straight up has more than you is to be the man she was drawn to in the first place, and give her emotional and physical experiences that money can't give her. The rich girl who falls for the handsome fun poor guy trope happens in reality more than is commonly thought.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 01:53 AM
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Play it the same as when any woman comes over: cool, and with no expectations. Watch the movie, have food/snacks prepared. But at the same time, keep an eye on her body language. If she wants you to escalate, she'll give you signals.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 04:09 AM
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Ok then, we'll just still call it 'creepy as fuck' and say it's not a good idea at all.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 05:58 PM
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Yeah...TRP'ers sometimes advocate a lot of things that are crazy, stupid, illegal, or all of the above (such as putting keystroke loggers on a sig. other's cell phone). Please recognize that some TRP'ers are sociopaths, give sociopathic advice, and think people who aren't as sociopathic as them to be "beta" or "feminized." Be careful about what is advocated and advised.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 09:22 AM
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You're getting an opportunity into a sought-after business at a relatively young age with an industry connection some people would sever a finger to get their foot in the door with, from the sounds of it. Fuck high school. Take online classes to get your diploma, but fuck high school otherwise. Build career experience and connections while you're young and always take the good opportunities while they are there or you'll most definitely live to regret it later.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 06:57 AM
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If a man or woman is lucky enough to have received even basic guidance from their parent of their same gender... There are definitely times you ask yourself "what would Dad do or say, or tell me," and while you don't know what they'd really say, your imagination will have a way of filling in the gaps. Thing is, a parents emotional and logical influence over a person is one of the strongest in existence, even if Mom or Dad wasn't around (Daddy Issues)...so strong that even when they die, that inf…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:49 AM
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You didn't do anything wrong. There was no mistake in your comfort building, nothing wrong with you if you got her to this point. If there were, she wouldn't have gone with far with you as she did. You can't read her mind and know why she left, and honestly, it doesn't matter. She didn't choose you for any number of reasons, which may or may not have ANYTHING to do with you personally. When you reach the point of no return, be it sales, sex, whatever, that is the point where a decision is REALLY…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 06:28 AM
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I don't think he asked for or welcomes "judgment." Let the kid have some CONSENSUAL fun.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 06:03 AM
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Based on what you're saying, you've either been pre-selected (the greatest thing in the world, as she's already made her mind in terms of fucking you) or set up to get cockteased (worst thing in the world). Have her over, play it cool and just be about business as usual. Have some casual conversations in study breaks. If she wants some action, she'll give you signals...either through body language or touch. Act based on those signals and escalate from there. If she puts the brakes on, stop and g…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 12:51 AM
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A lot of these motherfuckers are either lying entirely or exaggerating the quality of their women; that's how.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 04:41 AM
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Some people have a lot of rationale for it but going MGTOW for any extended time is basically being a quitter.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 04:10 PM
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I'd be surprised if she even shows up for the date.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 02:48 PM
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Because they're quitters.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 10:58 AM
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Few years back, I went to college as a veteran and became best friends with a 35 year old former Marine. He fucked so many girls in college that his wife left him and he didn't even really care. You'll be alright
/r/askTRP19/11/18 04:49 PM
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People keep saying that but it's not realistic. Race matters in dating, whether it's for the positive or the negative.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:53 PM
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She'll try to get you to meet her kids at some point. Don't. Absolutely don't.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 05:14 PM
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No, because your response is insulting, cliched, and uninsightful, and ultimately unhelpful.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 12:02 PM
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Pretty sure youre a teenager. Or just another troll.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 11:21 AM
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Props to you for having the balls to come out and say you had drugs to help you...most people who make this kind of transformation lie about it and say 'i worked hard, and you can have the same results if you work hard too!' Sometimes real inspiration comes through brutal honesty instead of bullshit sales pitches. Much thanks.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 12:57 PM
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I have, quite a bit. Unsuccessfully. I'm actually at the mindset now that women do not wish to be approached by strange men at all, especially if they haven't already given them the body language cues to "invite" them to approach.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 05:46 AM
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I've read the sidebar. What did I miss there?
/r/askTRP30/03/18 02:26 AM
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Theres only one moral to the story and its a pretty common one: DONT COMMIT MURDER.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 06:31 PM
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Partially in agreement here... Way I see it, the true true purpose of TRP and the mindset of the single men who immerse themselves in it harkens back to what Lincoln once said admitted about slavery during g the civil war...His priority wasn't to free slaves, but to keep the Union intact, and if he could do that by freeing all slaves he would, do it by freeing no slaves he would, or free it by freeing some and leaving others alone, he'd do that. Point blank, women are the inevitable priority for…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 07:14 PM
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"Or, would you pop a cap in the crack dealer’s ass and shove his head on a pike?" I actually don't like this option...something about 'murder'.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 11:38 PM
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With a lot of experience in the subject, I can say that anti-depressants can be very helpful if you have a legitimate chemical imbalance which causes depression. However, too much of a dependency on anti-depressants (a short-term solution) vs. directly confronting the underlying issues causing their depression (a long-term solution), and utilizing non-chemical means to improve their well-being. Most people aren't willing to make the changes to their lifestyle (not "mindset") to bring about that …
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 11:07 PM
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Start from scratch and take them one at a time...like reading the Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck and exercising, finish the book and build up the exercising habit, and then moving on to the next goal. Some people can make lifestyle changes all at once, others need to ease into them gradually.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 08:04 PM
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He wasn't a celebrity of any kind.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 11:21 AM
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I'm pretty sure that an insult and a vague criticism of character isn't what he needs.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 12:10 AM
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If you actually proposed the skipper-first mate dynamic to her, you were way too overt to begin with.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 02:36 AM
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It seems as though white women are less apt to try and outright fight a dude. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y8sCOm0BIdc This is pretty accurate.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 11:43 PM
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A black woman is the only type of woman that will: -Get in your face and straight up dare you to hit her -Call you a pussy when you don't -Cry and call the cops when you do
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 08:48 PM
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This is actually not uncommon during relationships between white women and black men. She'll declare sexual assault for any number of reasons because she believes/knows people will take her side over his. I have no sympathy for the black man in this situation though; any black man that gets into a relationship with a white woman knows going in that this is a risk when dating white women.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 08:22 AM
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Single moms make decent plates...but only decent. They never have time for much besides hookups to be honest. The amount of time you fuck them before you meet their kids varies, but it hardly matters; don't do it. Trust me as sure as you trust the rising of the sun...do not do it.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 05:00 PM
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Better question to ask yourself... Were you really having fun before, or were you just trying to convince yourself you were having fun? Not everyone genuinely enjoys dealing with women, but conventional wisdom says that you MUST if you're going to be successful with them. Maybe you've been faking it all along.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 04:17 AM
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One of the reasons businesses work with business-providing entrepreneurs is that they are very much expendable to the operation of their own business. Any entrepreneur that stakes everything on one client is cruising for a bruising to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 04:27 PM
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Because you can't serve two masters forever...eventually, you're going to have to make a time investment into your business to push it into the next level. Networking alone is a almost a full-time job.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 04:12 PM
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Dunno about that. Some people make good money with those.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 04:07 PM
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Because even in business, a lot of people are full of shit. Not a sarcastic remark; a reality. Now if part of your business is centered on providing verbal expertise of some kind and you're giving all of that expertise away BEFORE the contract, yeah, people are going to take the info and walk away. But straight up and I'm hoping other entrepreneur out TRP's feel me...the number one thing that drives a customer/client away from any particular service is price.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 09:36 AM
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Only employee I've had is an intern, and he was damn good; young and hungry. In my line of work, one doesn't really need too much assistance. Whenever I've had people under me in other work, I looked for people who were "consider it done" people. Pretty simple...some people are 'what's in it for me' when you ask them to do something, and others are 'consider it done' people not only because they're truly people who know how to get things done, but they're smart enough to know that if I need them…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 09:24 AM
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You're a government slave even if you make millions.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 09:19 AM
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I'm not at the point where I don't have to worry about money, but I'm sure that place is sweet.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 09:18 AM
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For the longest time, I did the former but then I did the latter.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 03:06 AM
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So what... It ruins any credibility you might've had, that's what. How is anyone supposed to trust your observations or insights about black men if you don't even enough respect for them to refer to them as black men rather than the other thing? I notice you don't call white men anything but white men.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 07:19 PM
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Statistically speaking, ZERO black TRP'ers appreciate your use of the n-word in any context.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 12:49 AM
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I don't suggest anyone avoid endeavors that will lead to failure. For my own part, I welcome challenge into my life and accept failure as a natural process of most challenges. At the same time, there ARE people who actively shoot for failure based upon their mindset that sometimes, it is an option. This is because they've been raised or sold on the idea that not all failures are catastrophic, even though some can be. They aren't aware of the full consequences of failure, so they don't attack the…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 04:43 PM
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I think entrepreneurs understand that more than anyone in the population...they know that there will be mistakes along the way no matter what they do, but too many of them or one really big one can very well mean the end of the world.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 03:31 AM
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Over 10 years ago, for about 3 months, I dated a woman I was never truly intimate with...as in we slept in the same bed for months and I hung out at her place often, but we were never really had sex. We made out and we did "stuff," but we never had sex. The reasoning she gave for us not having sex was that her body was a temple, she didn't get down like that...she once even asked me to get an STD test before we could have sex and God help me, I actually went and got one. I put up with it because…
/r/askTRP25/05/16 03:01 PM
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From experience, there are a few ways to deal with bullies effectively: -The single most effective way to deal with a bully (especially verbal bullies) is to in a joking/sarcastic manner throw shade back at them. Those that dish it out usually can't take it and once they're butthurt enough, they'll hate you for sure, but they'll leave you alone. -You can try to ignore them, though this is only effective half of the time; some bullies will persist even when you ignore them UNTIL they get some kin…
/r/askTRP23/05/16 11:56 PM
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First a word about nightclubs. You will go to the club more, and you will fail more. You will fail soft, you will fail hard, and most importantly, you will fail often. Most of these failures will have little to do nothing to do with you--women have all sorts of reasons for going to clubs and are looking for any number of things when they go. Some just want attention and yeah, some want dick (yay). Long story short, you're going to fail a fuckton when you go to the club regardless of your game le…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 09:27 PM
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Be nice. We all have to start somewhere.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 06:54 PM
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One of the things you'll never hear is that even that even the so-called Chad super-alpha (that is as semi-legendary as King Arthur) has at best a 45% success rate with the women he approaches. I like TRP because TRP fosters male self-improvement and awareness, but we don't promote self-acceptance that much, either. Good post!
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 01:37 PM
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Nice post. In a layman's sense, I would say that most people that study and try to undertake Machiavellianism like the idea of it (who doesn't like winning), but they simply lack the inherent cleverness required to be effective at it and usually just become that backstabbing asshole or that snitch at work. Besides, to properly utilize traditional Machiavelli concepts, you already have to be in some degree of power--Machiavelli's book was called 'The Prince," not 'The Pauper.'
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 09:15 AM
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In a broad sense, yes. But people in education know inner-city doesn't have much to do with race and instead denotes a school in an urban area where crime and poverty are prevalent issues.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/16 06:01 PM
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I've watched Trump speak on TV and read Trump's interviews across three decades. I am not impressed. He's a good businessman even though he's not a bootstrapper but is he a president? Never.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 03:35 PM
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Trump is a modern George Wallace with a lot more money and a lot more subtlety; I don't get this from media, but my own knowledge of history and my own observations of him. Trump himself puts out so much spin that I don't think anyone knows the reality of him. My advice: Stop repeating everything you read on Return of Kings.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 02:45 PM
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"Choose one: Homer Simpson or Donald Trump, I think you get the point" Neither.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 02:01 PM
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Yeah...you do know that stealing is the most omega behavior that exists, right? Real ass dudes don't need to steal from anyone, let alone women because they're out getting their own shit. And they sure as hell don't brag about it.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 12:25 PM
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There's always talk on this thread about how to be 'alpha' this and being masculine, tough, all that shit...but most of it is just euphemism for how to get and keep women. But a man's true 'alpha' is about where he stands and what he does when shit (like this) really hits the fan. Good luck bro, you are true alpha.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 05:54 PM
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