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Yea I see what you mean. I’m also noting however how he ends it by saying he’s “not afraid of anything”, in my opinion this sounds like a success story more than a vent or something for therapy. It looks more like the outcome of therapy
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 05:29 PM
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No wonder you get so much pussy. Girls love that story of struggle and hardship. Not to mention the dog??! Those girls must be putty in your hand once you tell them about that
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 03:40 PM
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It’s people taking it too fucking seriously. If you call this a “cult” then you are missing the whole point of this sub. Do you are own thing, don’t compromise your goals for some hoe that will just leave you when she gets bored in a week.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 01:20 AM
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I think you guys are just not his friend. The way you talk about this Henry guy is dumb as fuck. Seems like a cool dude, he didn’t get mad when she starts flirting with that Steve guy. This was probably an eye opener for him as he sees she is a slut. Maybe spend more time on your own dealings? Rather than trying to decide how “bluepill” some other guy is?
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 12:39 AM
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Idk man, but don’t do it all for pussy
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 04:57 AM
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It’s not really about the things you do, but the habits your form. Just look at what is the center of your life right now and try and shift it towards something more positive
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 04:43 AM
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All that anxiety makes you part of a common human problem. It takes willpower to deal with it day to day. You seem to be trapped in your head. It’s like you need to be more decisive on some of these ideas you have. Do what you can to start grabbing the controls on your life. You decide what you do each day.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 04:35 AM
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That’s not how you strip club dude.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 10:06 PM
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Glad I didn’t have to give up fap. Smoking weed was my keystone habit. I can now pursue life goals
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 11:58 PM
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Lol huh? If he was just a friend you should have kept the attitude that you and the girl like each other, and this is just another dude that you bullshit with. Don’t let it threaten you, if this guy is fucking her then he knows she’s a hoe and isn’t just his
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 04:44 AM
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Random chick -> “he was really cute until he opened his mouth” If you can make the girl feel comfortable, that is all she cares about
/r/askTRP20/10/17 03:30 AM
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Sounds to me like she was going through real life shit, realized you weren’t someone she felt comfortable talking to, so it brought her even more stress. Would’ve ended at some point anyways
/r/askTRP20/10/17 03:26 AM
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I think your problem is that you are unwilling to sit at the bottom of the totem pole. You have to be a loser for a while to climb to the top. Think about it.. if you made the interaction sexual from SECOND ONE, would things go welll? You don’t pretend to be platonic and then magically escalate. Don’t be afraid to be rejected
/r/askTRP20/10/17 03:16 AM
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I know right , can’t stand how all these submissive busted ass faced dudes keep taking all the ladies!!
/r/askTRP20/10/17 03:11 AM
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She knows she talks a lot. Tease her about it, make her self conscious. Make it clear that you don’t want to hear what is going on in her life
/r/askTRP20/10/17 02:46 AM
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The perfect girl to me is only figurative. I don’t believe that she exists. I also have not intentions of keeping anyone attracted to me. She thinks I’m not attractive anymore? Cool, there’s a bunch more like her
/r/askTRP19/10/17 01:27 PM
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Just stick with your story. You don't want a relationship, it's not your fault if she doesn't choose to believe it when you tell her that. You can still hang out with her, do whatever with her. Don't catch feelings and when she gets weird or sad because you don't want to date, just hit up other girls
/r/askTRP18/10/17 11:46 PM
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I feel like you can't really get the rapport you want until you meet in person. "Warming her up" through text like that can only hurt you tbh. If you want to build rapport, set up a call then ask some questions, a little back and forth, then set up a meet up before you hang up
/r/askTRP18/10/17 05:14 PM
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Reading will help with the concentration, and it may make meditation more doable
/r/askTRP18/10/17 02:12 PM
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Must have been something else then, that seems fine. So somewhere between her dick comment and inviting her over, things went south. Try texting in the future to set up anther date, but otherwise I would just hit up other girls. My gut is telling me she is just fucking with you in the beginning.... and she said "I misunderstood" just to try and confuse you and it seemed to work, there was literally nothing to misunderstand if it were me I would just say fuck her for trying to play with me like t…
/r/askTRP18/10/17 06:40 AM
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Idk man just don't do anything illegal and you'll be fine
/r/askTRP18/10/17 03:12 AM
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What do you mean insinuating sex? I bet that's where you messed up, but you kinda glossed over it....
/r/askTRP18/10/17 03:08 AM
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So you don't agree with what I said? Talk to guys and girls, there's an abundance of people. That should be enough to walk away from any girl. I doubt your ex is the only hot girl available. It's just a matter of leaving your comfort zone and to be willing to meet new people
/r/askTRP17/10/17 08:46 PM
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"Hey have you tried to study yet for this exam?" "Hey isn't it awesome how we don't have any work in this class, lots of freee time amirite?" "Hey I don't really know anybody in this class would you like to study together?"
/r/seduction17/10/17 08:43 PM
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Yea I think TRP should be the dominant one because seduction is a bunch of comfort dudes who can't be bothered to change their life. Most of the guys think that things should just happen for them. All that aside, the info is usually good, just catered to this blissfully ignorant crowd
/r/askTRP17/10/17 05:54 PM
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Just don't be needy and you'll be alright. Girls feel like fucking superheroes on tinder. They become twice as flaky. There's always another guy and tinder is her chance to find guys that are MORE attractive than what she is used to
/r/seduction17/10/17 05:35 PM
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I would go for her before or after class... if you do sit by her though, be prepared to get up and move. Just ask about an assignment or something, talk a little bit, then ask for her number or go get coffee right then and there
/r/seduction17/10/17 05:33 PM
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Yea I mean if a girl is showin slut tendancies like getting sexual while staying very distant, then I prolly won't... buttt you only live once and I like to eat pusssy so 8/10 I'm all in idgaf
/r/askTRP17/10/17 05:25 PM
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You think to much bro. I like nicknames because they show interest. Like if a girl is sounding distant, but she callls me by a nickname, I know she's thinking about me sexually
/r/askTRP17/10/17 05:20 PM
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Abundance is in the approach. Always be prepared to talk to someone new. Guy or girl it doesn't matter. Always have the mentality that you can go out and talk to new people if whoever you are with does not respond well to what you offer
/r/askTRP17/10/17 05:16 PM
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Just read last sentence "go get laid" sounds like an air tight plan to me
/r/askTRP17/10/17 03:05 PM
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To each his own. Eating her out is usually what I crave when I think about sex all day. Like right now, All I want is a pussy in my mouth. I've thought about it and to me, penetration is like the peak. Yea it's cool, but then what else is there? My imagination runs wild when I eat her out, I love it...
/r/askTRP16/10/17 06:52 PM
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I perfectly happy and content individual does NOT go around teasing people for the way they walk. He simply does what he wants to do. Bullying 101, you make fun of others because you yourself are insecure.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 04:52 AM
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People who tease you are projecting their relationship with themselves. Your reaction is projecting your own belief that you do, in fact, walk strange. I would say you should get out of your head a little bit, I don't think it is that big of a deal or something that deserves a reaction.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 03:44 AM
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No you do the plausible deniability for her. It doesn't matter what she says. The difference between beta or alpha is action. Providing plausible deniability is only words and they won't matter all that much as long as you build sexual tension and escalate
/r/askTRP16/10/17 03:38 AM
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You smoked a joint, talked, moved to your room, watched 10 minutes of some show and STILL didn't escalate? I would have been all "idk what to do with my hands" if I was doing anything BUT escalating in this situation
/r/askTRP15/10/17 06:37 PM
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In my experience being "done with men" just is her way of saying all she wants is sex
/r/askTRP15/10/17 06:34 PM
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Look I think you are just proving the necessity for over protective parents. Look at it in their perspective. You say that you are thousands in debt, you're still living at home, and you just don't seem too worried about alll that. Don't you want to be independent? Don't you want to make something of yourself?
/r/askTRP15/10/17 04:48 PM
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If you stick with your next, she doesn't just go away. This will only make her crazier for you. For the sake of your mental strength, keep nexting her. Better to leave it on these terms because like others have said, she will likely manipulate you
/r/askTRP15/10/17 03:06 AM
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I mean most girls see head as less than fucking. I know a lot of girls who suck dick before even kissing. They are illogical and dumb ass fuck. Just bring it up and see what happens
/r/askTRP14/10/17 04:18 AM
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Thank you. I was not realizing how broad the term "lifting" really is. I'll certainly work on it
/r/askTRP13/10/17 05:57 PM
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Thank you, this is what I was looking for. I'll work on it
/r/askTRP13/10/17 05:54 PM
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From my current routine I get health benefits, strength increase, it requires discipline. Why is it that I need to lift to be doing anything? Like I said, lifting only targets a couple of muscle groups. Am I wrong? To be honest my plan right now is get more disciplined and get into a routine of working out. I am doing so with dumbells and machines at my apartment gym. Once I become more consistent and build a little muscle, I intend to incorporate lifting by going to campus gym at least a couple…
/r/askTRP13/10/17 05:45 PM
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Yea, told her to get her schedule figured out then soft next
/r/askTRP13/10/17 04:08 PM
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Awesome. This is great advice
/r/askTRP12/10/17 10:20 PM
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Well since it seems to be linked to some sort of depression, I'd say start being able to depend on yourself. Are you going to be able to not work your entire life? If so you should invest all of your time into hobbies. Build stuff, have fun, TRY NEW THINGS. Make friends who have business ventures, start some of our own. Invest your money, stocks. If you're going to have to work, same advice but just realize that you may have to do some low value jobs to get your foot in the door at organizations…
/r/askTRP12/10/17 03:38 AM
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First time is awkward with any two people. Just play it off. Just try to get yourself off, that's the whole mission of sex. try not to take it too seriously or think too much
/r/askTRP12/10/17 03:28 AM
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I mean at least you realize that you aren't self actualized in any way. It will just take work. And what I meant by someone like you. You just clearly haven't put in any real work. Just reading the post it is obvious that you are far from independent enough to be someone able to afford a Rolex or a car with your own money (at least I was hoping this was the case). You are codependent on your parents and these social interactions. But yea man, this is alll good, you seem fairly aware of your prob…
/r/askTRP12/10/17 03:19 AM
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Also find a spot to cut off the phone call, you shouldn't have time to talk for hours. There is shit to be done
/r/askTRP12/10/17 02:01 AM
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To hang out To do this activity Get to know each other I need you to protect me from thugs (got this one from another redditor.)
/r/askTRP12/10/17 01:40 AM
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Wrong mind set. I have been there, but the thing is, nobody holds that much weight over such an accusation. The worst they can say is you asked out a girl, no big deal. TBH your "that's fucking gay" comment was less than stellar, but your options are this : Invite her to hang out (either your place or out somewhere that you both pay your own way) Or next (the better option) because you just seem caught really off guard and not in a great position to bang this girl
/r/askTRP12/10/17 01:36 AM
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I think you are sitting on the outside of life waiting for the time you can do real work. Is this parents money? I don't understand how someone like this could have a Rolex. You are just thinking about alll the wrong things. You assume that people are jealous of your money when really nobody gives a fuck. Start orienting yourself towards what will be on your mind when you are on your death bed. Things like family and passions and accomplishments.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 01:21 AM
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You're just incredibly insecure and like taking the attention off of you. Idk I fucking hate drama and if I ever met you you would be my least favorite person
/r/askTRP12/10/17 12:01 AM
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"We talked about forming political club" She took your number She says "I will give you info on club" You say "ok I am excited [about club]" You have in no way set this up. From what I see, i would assume she will not take kindly to escalation but really who knows. And I realize I haven't answered your questions really.. but she's in your class yes? I would take this as an opportunity to slow things down. Plenty of time to build attraction, she's not going anywhere. This allows for more distance…
/r/askTRP11/10/17 05:59 AM
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Loving all the input honestly. My thoughts have derailed a little since I posted and this is kind of hurting my head. I suppose this means it is good work to be doing since I am questioning why I have this mental block from vocalizing my intentions and sexual tendencies. Im realizing how hard it is to even talk about this because it is so meta
/r/askTRP11/10/17 05:50 AM
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Ok but let's take it out of the workplace, what then? Am I just too beta to vocalize myself? Or is it typical to just not want to have discussions about it.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 05:42 AM
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Ok well let's keep this scenario out tho. It's a restaurant and really none of the girls I work with are shy and are typically the ones speaking the most. Making jokes and stuff. Like even at the bar though. I won't be one of the guys talking about sex. I'm not awkward about it. Like I don't shy away. I'm still there, same face as always. Standing just as confidence. Just not giving any input on the subject. No talking about how I love to "rail girls" or idk.. I suppose thinking about it now, mo…
/r/askTRP11/10/17 05:37 AM
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This could quickly blow up in your face. I would do the club thing FIRST then you can see what she is like before you take the dive. Especially since my gut tells me she prolly just wanted more people in the club.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 05:25 AM
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Truu and in a society where people like to keep a lot of their business to themselves it's hard to find connections that run that deep. Even those who don't feel it themselves have loved ones who do.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 05:23 AM
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Trails with benches are good. Good for a hookup then you could invite her to your place for some tv n penis
/r/askTRP11/10/17 04:18 AM
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Reddit is a conversation. Instagram is pure validation.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 03:56 AM
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Art is a good bridge between ages if you have any of that to show off. Also drinks. Maybe a swim if you have a pool. Go for a run by your place.. you don't have to shower together but she could still use your shower n stuff.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 03:45 AM
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If you eat your own cum it gives you like 800 followers. Give it a try Edit: I'll delete all my social media and get no likes cuz IDGAF
/r/askTRP11/10/17 03:41 AM
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News and politics are usually not worth bringing up anyways. Sports though, is an easy way to make strong acquaintences. It's literally the only topic with such a large scope on making male friends. So many people can connect with it and it's crazy how different a relationship can change with those you don't no very well, just by connecting over a sport.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 02:06 AM
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Time travel
/r/askTRP11/10/17 02:02 AM
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Meh, highschool sucks for this reason. Keep things on the low. I went to a small school and you just have to be ready for bullshit drama. Luckily as you approach the end of highschool, more and more people will realize that none of it will matter once you graduate. You literally restart and go to a new part of your life.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 02:00 AM
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What I like to do is pretend that I don't feel it. I enjoy being close to a woman and it becomes a game to see how long I can go with out even acknowledging it. For example, was on a semi crowded bus one time, standing up. Smiled at this girl and she stood in front of me. Backed her ass up on my junk and just set it there for the length of the ride and wiggled her butt. Played it cool and it led to bullshit chat about what her and her friends were doing, then number close.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 12:58 AM
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I thought this was a sub for guys...
/r/askTRP11/10/17 12:44 AM
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Call her by a random name and act like you know her. Decent way to get foot in door and show that she COULD be part of your circle
/r/askTRP10/10/17 05:20 PM
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You are investing to much time. You know what I do when I don't want to talk to a girl? I don't answer at all, if she gets butt hurt that's not my problem that's life
/r/askTRP10/10/17 04:48 PM
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I think it is mainly a generational thing. They are overcoming oppression on a historic stage. I can't explain it exactly but let me know if this helps explain it a little... the slaves were not a good thing right? But when we finally realize this, we let black people live with whites. There may be every single person saying yeah I'm not racist, but the racism is still engrained in the culture. It takes people dying out to finally change this. The remedies I've seen of this is the way that black…
/r/askTRP10/10/17 04:58 AM
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Alright man just keep trying to convince people you're a leader I'm sure it will work eventually.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 01:31 AM
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You don't need to become a leader. You need to lead
/r/askTRP09/10/17 10:22 PM
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Again, you are not understanding at all what it means to be a leader. If you are a funny guy you can still be a leader. If you are not genuine and make an ass out of yourself trying to be "silly" then you will look like an ass. A leader shows people how to live and how not to give a fuck about what people think. To be a good leader you need to know what you want and take it. The way you do that is irrelevant as long as you keep your eye on the prize.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 05:37 AM
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If by spontaneous you mean not being solid, then no you are not a leader. I leader can be spontaneous, but he sticks with his decisions once he makes them.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 04:09 AM
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Ok you seem to think that being a leader means you can't be fun to be around. You become a leader because you can do what you WANT literally nothin else to it, stop thinking about all the wrong things.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 03:40 AM
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Sadly the best option is a lonely one. You can befriend some guys that get girls (they won't care that they don't get in your pants) but you need to understand they will come and go. There are plenty of independent females out there that don't give it out too often, but you do need that source of happiness you can get from hobbies or work. Just be upfront with guys and realize that this will leave most wanting nothing to do with you. On red pill at least, finding a girl like you would mean cutti…
/r/askTRP09/10/17 03:30 AM
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I mean if it's something that brings up anxiety for you, I would say you will learn gradually not to bring it up. You just need to be able to recognize this anxiety. Always remember, peeople don't need to know your business. It's always good to be able to stay a little mysterious.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 03:21 AM
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Lmao are you judging based on that time you hung out with him?? Actions are actions doesn't matter political or not.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 03:17 AM
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Well they can't really fault you for hoping it could be a possibility. They will be explicit if it is not what they want. If that is the case just act like it never happened
/r/askTRP09/10/17 02:06 AM
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I take that back. I guess you could say that if you would like to open with a joke
/r/askTRP09/10/17 02:03 AM
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It's a joke lolll please don't come at her with a "hey I'm a virgin ;))))))"
/r/askTRP09/10/17 02:03 AM
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That's not a normal texts and probably would have scared her away tbh. You did it right because it shows you appreciate her letting you know but you weren't just waiting around for it. No clue how to go from here you're just gonna have to wait for her to answer or give it a few weeks before offering plans once more
/r/askTRP09/10/17 01:59 AM
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But like you think I'm joking but I would never go to an all girls party unless I were gay or it was an orgy. That sounds boring as fuck
/r/askTRP09/10/17 01:47 AM
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It seems small enough to just act like it never happened but idk. Brunch seems like a friend thing you know? Dont go on another date with her unlesss you can escalate and know for sure that she wants your dick
/r/askTRP08/10/17 07:19 PM
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Orgy is the only viable option.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 07:17 PM
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You should have sacked up and said it was two separate checks. You don't even know this girl why would you pay for her food? You shouldn't pay for her food unless you are dating.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 07:13 PM
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What you need is a soft next. Reset and ask her out some other time. The vibe wasn't right for her. One reason or another
/r/askTRP08/10/17 06:37 PM
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Make your goal to get yourself off. That's all sex is, two people trying to get themselves off.... together
/r/askTRP08/10/17 06:35 PM
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Just don't shut down (keep up normal convo) and look out for giggling or references. Then once you seee that the vibe is playful, you should initiate. Allow for a few no's because who knows what goes through their heads. Always assume that it is going to happen.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 06:32 PM
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What you need is polarizing answers. Don't be afraid to lose her, and in the meantime refrain from being clingy or needy
/r/askTRP08/10/17 06:25 PM
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Oh I totally get what your saying. Thanks man,, she just didn't want to fuck me
/r/askTRP08/10/17 02:47 AM
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Yeah you're right she may not have been into me. I've actually stopped contact because I sensed that. It's only just now that I think the fact I didn't provide plausible deniability drastically reduced my chances. I heard it explained like when she tells her friends, she can say "oh then he invited me over to watch this or do this" the way I said it to me, it would be more like the activity was hooking up. Like I said drinks but I don't feel this was enough (maybe because I am simply not interes…
/r/askTRP08/10/17 01:23 AM
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What does "relevant" even mean? Seems to me like you broke frame by not responding to her meaningless claim.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 03:39 AM
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But if you instead let the attraction grow by saying nothing except settting up dates... then all they do is anticipate the date and wonder about what a great guy you are. More texts (no matter what they are about) means more opportunities to say something stupid and fuck it up.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 01:58 AM
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Huh? You are messin up right out of the gate. You are supposed to convince yourself. That's it. Become the person you want to be. They will see you as a normal human once you aren't intimidated or anxious around them. No sooner no later. They are just people.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 01:53 AM
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I think it's important to realize that the wall you are placing between friend and sexuality is only in your mind. Once you can have sex with friends, then it won't matter that you're "just friends."
/r/askTRP06/10/17 05:46 AM
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If it's bad disrespect I usually lose all interest.. so I will hard next and smile at her like any other acquaintance if I see her out.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 05:40 AM
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God I fucking love shy girls. Something about a girl with really high self esteem, who thinks she is the shit that just turns me off immediately..
/r/askTRP05/10/17 10:09 PM
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Number or Snapchat. However if I actually want to actively attract the girl, it's always the number. Snapchat is only for special cases. It can keep her at arms length. For when I met the girl but don't want to approach her just yet. Keeps her at arms length and makes her think she isn't good enough to get reeal deal text messages
/r/askTRP05/10/17 07:21 PM
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I wouldn't neg if I were you. But what I have noticed with shy girls is that they are the most independent. They will be the first to say fuck you if they sense you don't respect them. Just be as stoic as you can and know that she can handle herself
/r/askTRP05/10/17 07:09 PM
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This is so fucking true. Tinder has to be extreme as possible on their side to cover their ass. Reality will happen regardless
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 07:06 PM
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But I just found J.i.D - hereditary . and that's a good song that shows some redpill philosophy. It's not her fault she's like that. And if she leaves you for some other guy. You move on like it wasn't a big deal at all
/r/askTRP05/10/17 01:50 AM
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You never really have the girl (she could leave whenever), and there are girls everywhere (abundance)
/r/askTRP05/10/17 01:47 AM
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You sound like a chick. Who cares
/r/askTRP05/10/17 01:44 AM
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It's always a dry spell, it's never a dry spell.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 01:42 AM
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Psssst, be a fucking man and teach her..
/r/askTRP04/10/17 08:05 PM
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No problem. And to be honest, her responses just sound like she is waiting for you to come at her with the details. For all she knows you were just being kind to her by suggesting you hang out some time (I say this to everyone I haven't seen in a while even if I have no intentions of actually hanging out). Could be better because now she's probably hamstering. Take your time and figure out a time that works for you.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 06:41 PM
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Yea I mean that phone conversation seemed alright to me. Looks like there was some sexual tension there. I mean she called you, no problem not being sure when you are free. Now it is just easier to text her and be like "hey so X at my place at this time, can you make it?"
/r/askTRP04/10/17 06:29 PM
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Text her when you have the logistics squared away. Let her know when she can come hang. Not much else to it at this point
/r/askTRP04/10/17 06:21 PM
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Music is about how you feel while listening to it. It is blue pill to focus on what you THINK a song means. Don't compromise music taste because you think someone will think you are lame.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 05:46 PM
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You should get out more
/r/askTRP04/10/17 05:44 PM
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Also just a side note. This does not sound like a FUN encounter so I don't understand why you keep her around anyways
/r/askTRP04/10/17 04:56 PM
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You have the whole spiel of "I don't care if I ever see you again." Now is the time to commit and cut your losses if she doesn't like what you are bringing to the table.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 04:54 PM
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Nah you are looking at it the wrong way. You are very judgmental and most girls will not find that attractive.. all that aside, you should do what you want, that's the whole point. If you want to put yourself out there, make friends and what not. Just make sure you are remaining attractive to all the females. As long as you don't develop a dependency on the girl you intend to date, you're good. Abundance mentality will be your friend. Even if you don't casually have sex all the time, make sure t…
/r/askTRP04/10/17 01:28 AM
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You are thinking about this too much. Waitresses and bartenders are obligated to be nice to you and are looking for tips. This makes it inevitable for her to smile at you and stuff. Unless if you happen to hit it off in that moment (which would lead to a no effort number close) then don't even bother. Always assume they are just being nice.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 12:29 AM
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She's just trying to work dude. She doesn't need random customers hitting on her... it'll be reaaally obvious on her part if you have an opening to ask for a number. Otherwise just order your shit and be kind.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 10:26 PM
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The only reputation that matter is the one you keep with yourself. Trust me, people don't know your business as much as you think they do. People are worried about their own life, they don't care about yours.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 08:39 PM
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Just be the strong man that spots their bullshit. They will love you. If you are there to do your job and do it welll, that respect will be all you need. Just sit back most the time because half the time it'll just be "what the fuck are you guys even talking about."
/r/askTRP03/10/17 12:20 AM
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Craigslist is a legit place for people to post jobs. You just need to know how to spot the fakes. I.e., no job will ever ask for social security on an app. And you are not required to provide it.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 12:17 AM
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Fair enough. You are probably right.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 08:09 PM
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People are people. You just sound really insecure and that is all. No point in offering advice because I am certain you won't even hear it.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 08:02 PM
1

Dude you asked her in person how many likes she gets. I'm sorry YOU can't fuck any chicks.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 07:04 PM
1

I mean send them a link to some posts that apply to your situations. It's an article like any other. I think red pill is important because it is a conversation that is so unique. It's so meta in its nature. Idk if you can find some good field reports or whatever to show them, that may be a good intro.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 07:03 PM
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Asking the wrong questions boyo ...... Try this: how does a human fucking being deal with a mom who is just being a mom.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 06:59 PM
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5 digit followers??!? Woowwwww soooooooo coooooooolllllllll
/r/askTRP02/10/17 06:50 PM
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Idk how to salvage. You may just have to learn from the experience. Otherwise, go after other girls for a while, then invite this one out for coffee or to your place where you can bring her into YOUR frame, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 02:58 AM
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To me it sounds like you implied meeting up out somewhere. Like you wanted to meet up if she were already going out. Once she said she was staying in, you are expected to provide the thing to do. Maybe a movie at your place? Or drinks? You can't just offer to come through to her house and give her dick, it doesnt work like that.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 01:39 AM
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You should have not acted like you cared what she thinks. Idk what I would have said, but I would have just put it out of my mind. Move on to new topics, act like it didn't happen like it isn't a big deal
/r/askTRP01/10/17 07:24 PM
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Just don't think about the first two years. There is actually a sort of mid college crisis that everyone gets when they realize their college years are almost done. People start over a thousand times during college. I'm actually in a very similar place. Haven't made a whole lot of friends, I'm a junior and I don't plan on joining a frat. Frats are definitely not necessary. As long as you can get some good friends, all will be well. Continue to lift and all that. You can meet friends there. Get n…
/r/askTRP01/10/17 06:13 AM
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You are too indecisive You are a bitch who just wait for her to come back so she always has the option She is more decisive than you. Go ahead and submit by taking her lead. you two will not work if she is not invested, so she just made this really fucking easy. The only advice you can get is to cut off all contact and move your life in your own direction. If you can't do that, you should wise up and realize this is oneitis. Because lucky for you there are a million other girls and you don't nee…
/r/askTRP01/10/17 02:25 AM
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Bring a second condom so you don't have to pretend you "didn't notice" lolllll
/r/askTRP01/10/17 02:19 AM
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You are waiting for her. Not literally maybe but mentally. You are not mentally removing contact. You are constantly thinking about getting back with her. You should stop talking to her. Stop thinking about her. If you can't do this , then that is exactly why she doesn't like you. I don't know why I'm even continuing to entertain this. You are avoiding. The true issue at hand. That is all. You have to change your life. Stop thinking this relationship will save your life.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 10:28 PM
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"Did I offend you with my joke?" Lol man you might need to next this one
/r/askTRP30/09/17 10:16 PM
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I think what you don't understand is that attraction takes time, it's not just her. Attraction can grow WHILE you ignore her. If you are doing your own thing while you stop talking to her, attraction can build. But you really have to stop talking to her. Don't sit around like a bitch waiting for her to come back. If she likes you she likes you
/r/askTRP30/09/17 10:02 PM
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Your whole life is revolving around this relationship THAT IS NOT HEALTHY. your life should revolve around YOUR LIFE. Get it?
/r/askTRP30/09/17 09:46 PM
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Yea dude, I commend you for this. OBVIOUSLY she stilll wanted to sleep with you. The whole situation seemed not to register with her hahah. She thought she could be disrespectful as she wants and still get some dick. Great job holding frame and getting this bitch out of your house.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 09:44 PM
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You sound annoying as fuck. Chill out. Abundance mentality is not what you think it is. Give her some space, she is her own person. I just don't see why you are so onsessed with this girl. Are you gonna get married next weeek? No contact for the rest of forever is a good option, your relationship is unhealthy. You need some hobbies or something, you are stressing me out just from reading this shit. You lack confidence. You were a bitch so yea I can see why she would cancel plans with you. She ju…
/r/askTRP30/09/17 09:38 PM
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Because she doesn't fuck with you right now. That's it. You just keep trying to rationalize everything she says. She is a bitch, she's supposed to get emotional. You're supposedly a guy, you're supposed to stay strong. You made her feel dirty, no sense in arguing, that's what happened. Whatever connection you had before is gone, so let her float around life. You have to leave her so she can see what life is like when you turn your back on her. If you're always there trying to explain away every …
/r/askTRP30/09/17 09:24 PM
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Nobody is cool. That is the secret. Every single person is just doing what they want. Every single person is the coolest person ever if they believe it is true
/r/askTRP30/09/17 09:06 PM
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You are a delusional pussy. Bottom fuckig line. You didn't say "one thing". You blew up her phone demanding answers after refusing to talk it out the night before. Not to mention you gave her fucking chlamydia!! This is not the girl for you. Put effort into yourself, don't put it into trying to convince this girl that she likes you. Seriously. The only way you can keep this girl and show that you actually care about her is to stop talking to her completely. Approach other women. You keep saying …
/r/askTRP30/09/17 08:41 PM
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Wut.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 08:30 PM
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Just "hey we should do this thing, can I get your number?"
/r/askTRP30/09/17 06:07 AM
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Snapchat isn't a bad idea. If you have her number, a phone call early on is an easy way to get on her radar.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 05:07 AM
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Two of your questions asked how to have a conversation..... after you had a conversation. Wut.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 05:25 AM
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The ugly fit guy is still ugly. But it becomes more of a joke like "oh you ugly motherfucker"
/r/askTRP29/09/17 05:12 AM
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To be honest. You will look totally different in 6 years. Then you will look even more different 6 years from that. No fucking joke, if you take care of yourself and be CONFIDENT you can attract women. Being ugly can make you unique and give you a sort of style that nobody else can imitate. I know this sounds like some snowflake bullshit. Don't take it that way. Just know that you can't change the way you look, so make due with what you have.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 12:32 AM
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You should do and talk about what you want. By changing yourself for women, you will make yourself unattractive.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 04:22 PM
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Girls typically do not like intellectual topics. Some do enjoy diving into philosophy about a situation, and psychology as well. But even those girls can get bored pretty quickly. You'll have more intellectual debates by not thinking you are superior. You're not an intelligent guy in a world of "non intelligent" people. You are just another dude on earth, just as fucked as the rest of us. You don't have to "dumb yourself down" and that is pissing me offf just to have to explain that. Many people…
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:27 PM
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I mean they are just people like us. I take all there advice with a grain of salt. Look for what they are trying to say and try and pull out the parts that come from their experience. I've gotten good advice from some of these endorsed contributors, but that is different than being friends with them. I am treating this whole forum as a hub for information. It is a conversation that really happens nowhere else.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:15 PM
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Just do your thing bruh. If you're so good at picking up chicks then why are you here
/r/askTRP28/09/17 02:57 PM
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Well it's just on one side they all think your cool. But if you overstep with one, then it could be a complete 180 with all of them. Dealing with separate friend groups are a better bet. If you don't want to bang this girl though, your best chance is to not act like you do. Just keep her as a friend and be nice. She won't judge you just for not wanting to sleep with her. It seems like you are trying to manipulate the situation because of the feeling you get by having so much attention from this …
/r/askTRP28/09/17 06:16 AM
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Slippery muhfuckin slope. Proceed with caution
/r/askTRP28/09/17 04:53 AM
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Good on ya for noticing this. And I would venture to say that beating your meat is good for you when used strategically. As long as you are in control, there is no issue. If I am overly feeling emotions about a girl, I usually jerk it then I realize that I'm actually just depressed and need to work on myself.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 04:42 AM
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It sounds to me like you're trying to live through these girls to find happiness. You are seeing the pretty girl and you are making her seem perfect. You think "if I were with this girl, my life would be amazing", but really you need to just do the things that you would do if you already had this girl on your arm. It's a mental block that keeps you from doing what you want to do. She will not help you reach happiness, but you may be able to reach her if you find the happiness in yourself.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 04:24 AM
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But honestly she could be shit testing you, but if you aren't actively trying to escalate it really makes no difference. I would look for other girls to make sure I can forget about this one
/r/askTRP28/09/17 12:04 AM
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As someone who is attractive and socially flawed.. my looks have never distracted from a lack of social skills. Just a thought
/r/askTRP27/09/17 11:55 PM
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Oh dam sounds pretty sick lol
/r/askTRP27/09/17 06:28 PM
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Hahaha she's just some girl. She wants more people at her party. Sounds like you were REALLY high. This type of behavior turns off a lot of girls, but it's more funny than anything else. I would say you are thinking too much about how she feels. Just be more confident and deliberate in your movement. Try to escalate so you have a definite yes or no answer to your advances.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 05:51 PM
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If she is actively rejecting you and you aren't escalating, then you should just say you are busy and can't drive her that day. She won't pry any more. After a few days she will get the hint that you aren't out her giving favors just cuz you're a "nice guy".
/r/askTRP27/09/17 05:36 PM
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Hmm I guess I should have said yes when she asked if I've been in love. I was so worried she would ask more details but I need to be stronger and not give out that sort of thing. I don't think about that sort of thing. I'm more of a forward thinker. Which sounds lame as fuck. I think I just need a stronger frame. Trying to build it piece by piece using anecdotes such as this.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 05:09 AM
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Hmm well let's say she does ask if I was in love or maybe is open ended and asks me to telll her about my past girlfriends. What would be a way to get past this without telling the truth.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 01:22 AM
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"Competitor" in your sport is a friend. You're both honing in your skills and it sounds like he made you a better player. Give respect where credit is due and stop acting like you want to date this man. Be friends, be cool.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 07:45 PM
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Yea you guys are right. I'm overthinking because I was insecure...
/r/askTRP26/09/17 07:08 AM
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I would be more forward. Say hey can you talk at this time? Call her then learn about her, let her talk. If she is boring then why are you talking to her.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 05:16 AM
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Look it's not the nudes, it's a mentality. I talk to the girls and I want them to want to show off for me. Fucking them is one thing, and in this scenario, it's the simpler of the two. It's just a feeling of missing out maybe. The girls that I fucked talk about how they love sending nudes, yet I'm hardly ever on the receiving end ya know? It's a feeling that I'm not as good as I could be.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 04:06 AM
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I never minded giving weed for sex, since I give away weed anyways. The drug makes me a giving person. Especially since I was gonna smoke anyways.... she also will usually invite me to smoke in the future I presume, or we go pickup together and split the cost.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 05:44 PM
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Like, you weren't actually being nice, that was your intentions. By saying you were just "really nice" you are refusing to let go of those habits and risk repeating them. I get what you are saying completely about the emotional wall. From my experience that's just how it is. We live on one side, and they live on the other. But you attract them in a different way than you think. What you see as nice and kind behavior does not register as that to them. Once you figure out, through trial and error,…
/r/askTRP22/09/17 04:23 AM
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Ye man do your thing. You've just gotta wrap your head around the fact that they are just thoughts. As soon as you stop caring, she forgets what happened. As soon as you decide it wasn't a big deal, then it's not a big deal. You say you were way too nice? Cut that shit out, you know that isn't true, be honest with yourself, you were trying to be nice and it came off as clingy or whatever. Forget about it and move on. Ain't no reputations out here. Just the one you hold for yourself.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 04:10 AM
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Also you are using the word professional VERY loosely lol
/r/askTRP22/09/17 04:00 AM
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Yooo girls whisper to fuck with you, just ignore it. Or call them on it, your choice. Nobody can ruin your reputation like that except you, no way it was something that bad. It is one girl, I don't care how many followers she has. That is all in your head.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 03:57 AM
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Ask anyone if they don't like a certain person and a vast majority will say something along the lines of "he didn't do anything wrong to me".. so just don't let it kill you. I know it can be hard, college is just a second highschool for a lot of people.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 04:33 AM
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The best advice I could give is to focus on the new you that you are trying to create. The past can't be changed, and most people will assume that you are a new person anyways. Literally every time you meet someone who doesn't know these things about you in full detail is a chance to start over.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 03:26 AM
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Ahh see I don't have much job standards lol. I just feeel better when I have job, kind of a workaholic. Best of luck to you
/r/askTRP20/09/17 09:58 PM
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I personally believe that everyone has some sort of value. But how in the world can being unemployed be less stressful than having a job
/r/askTRP20/09/17 09:52 PM
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Uhhh the desire isn't there because you should desire to get a job and move outta your parents place.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 09:20 PM
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Yea I mean it seems like you didn't have a real conversation with her about it. Maybe you should break up and move on. From what you wrote, you asked her if she wants to break up? Don't you have reasons for wanting her there for you? Idk this doesn't seem like a relationship that will last.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 09:17 PM
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Well does an hour and a half late fuck up your plans? If not tell her it's straight. They are your plans right? Didnt you want to do them?
/r/askTRP20/09/17 09:11 PM
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I didn't actually say that last part btw. I'm saying it is implied.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 08:38 PM
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Truth, thanks man.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 08:20 PM
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Oh protect from thugs that's a good one.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 08:20 PM
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Reflexes, can't live with em can't live without em. But seriously I mean holding her hand is too ambiguous don't you think? It doesn't say you want the dirty, she doesn't want a second boyfriend, she wants to cheat. That's why you're here right? You can only be the guy she goes to for sex right now. Get her alone and try to escalate. Really the only thing you can do. Watch a movie at your place. Have drinks, make her dinner, listen to music, out together an IKEA table idk. If you don't have a ho…
/r/askTRP20/09/17 05:50 AM
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She's already takin a step towards cheating. If her bf knew she went on this date with you he should be furious. You played with her hair? Sounds like a "I'll take literally anything I can get" and she didn't feel like telling you to fuck off, cause it wasn't doing much harm. I would reccomend more deliberate movements, other than "accidentally touching her leg with your fingertips". Stop confusing the both of you and either make a move or dip.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 05:14 AM
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Uhh girls be fickle dude. She may want to fuck you one day then not the next. Seeing that all you ever did was talk, I'd say it's very easy to just assume the attraction was all in your head and move on.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 04:53 AM
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Ahhh you got us OP, really had me going. Happy trolling
/r/askTRP20/09/17 04:43 AM
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I've actually had similar work experience where she avoids me and stuff. This was mainly due to her being shy and not wanting to seem to public eye as a slut maybe. Just say hi to her like nothing happened. Don't act like anything is different, let her be the bitch. You seem to be outcome dependent on this case.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 06:48 PM
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Not true. I think it's the fact that girls understand the power of touch. Even though they are not sexually attracted to the guy, they let a touch here and there slide, passing it off as cute and innocent. If there was any intent behind it or if it was seeen as escalation, they would be shut down.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 06:23 PM
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But you didn't show her the dick. You shouldn't have shut down just because she told you to stop. Going for girls at work is tough because there is not the option to ghost. It either works out or you have to avoid each other. If it were me I would have just continued to flirt at work and never take her out. Sounds like it would make work more fun. Then again I really hate drama.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 06:16 PM
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Spin a plate on your finger, is there a risk of it falling off? Yes, that's the point.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 05:36 PM
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Lmao red pill didn't do that, it's the girls.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 05:21 PM
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Do you really think she won't smell any of this. Just decide what you want to do, a magic answer isn't going to float up from the comment section.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 06:42 AM
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I'd say you will have most success if you at least give the appearance that you fuck with everybody. Talk to everyone, you are a rock remember? Prove that nothing and nobody can phase you. If you truly don't give a fuck you can hang out with anyone. Girls love that shit idc what you say, the good ones at least. Worth it to chat up all girls. Hang with who ever lets you do your thing. If they allow you to be who you want to be, then who gives a fuck.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 04:13 AM
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Look at your past differently, learn to laugh at the things others laugh at. Being raised by women can make you a ladies man if you use the memories right.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 04:01 AM
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Cause you're still thinking about it. The only way to see change is to focus so hard on the new you that the old habits just fade away.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 06:19 PM
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Common fallacy here, which I have experienced as well. Having the mentality that she thinks you're a god will only lead you to crash and burn. You are farther from success than you think, that's the hard truth. Basically, if you think it's so easy why don't you bang all the chicks in the world? It's important not to care about seeing the big picture in this way and to learn how to just be in the moment.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 06:04 PM
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I mean she already seems like the type of person I would next for sending dumbass snaps like that. If she rejected me I would certainly say fuck it.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 05:06 PM
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But the thing is, nobody is watching your life but you. Act like you are past it and the people will believe you.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 05:02 PM
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I would recommend understanding truthfully where you stand. Nothing in there told me you have successfully plated this girl. You have not internalized the theory, you're just not there yet. The only way to improve is to start from knowing nothing. From the other comments I hope you can see that this is the case. No shame, everyone is at a different stage in life, just keep working bro.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 06:48 AM
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Your post and the title are contradicting. It seems from your experience that talking a lot through text is what doesn't seem to be working?
/r/askTRP15/09/17 06:30 AM
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Part of growing is realizing the idea that is this... i love desssert, yet I catch fish with worms. Meaning that you must give the people what they want. It will feel internally like you are betraying yourself, but in the end it gives you what you want.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 06:26 AM
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R/asklazertag
/r/askTRP15/09/17 06:23 AM
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You are analyzing the wrong interactions. There is no meaning behind these words. They just see you're struggling and wanted to throw some positive words your way.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 06:14 PM
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My guess is she wants to see if you're a cool guy. What I would do is get her friend to like you too, then make it clear that you're claiming the first girl. Would have been smarter though to make some excuse rather than that snarky comment. Then you could have made a plan to meet with some alone time. What you said made you seem pretty self conscious bottom line.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 06:04 PM
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You should do whatever you want. I for one don't mind meeting new people so I prolly would have gone.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 05:55 PM
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This guy. They do want the funny business OP
/r/askTRP14/09/17 05:54 PM
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She was making excuses to hang out. Doesn't matter what you do, assembling a bike is just something to do. Also you are too immature to ride bikes? I don't understand? You sounded like she had takin a jab at your ego and got defensive.... when in reality you were just self conscious that riding bikes somehow puts you in a "friend zone". Don't be so paranoid.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 05:52 PM
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I think what's keeping me convinced is the past. She has tried to hang with me multiple times in past when she was in town. I usually read it and don't respond.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 05:14 PM
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Agreed.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 04:51 PM
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Yea I thought about that. I think she was jut high though. Plus shecould be trying to sound more cool or whatever. All excuses aside I'm just gonna feel this one out, see if she actually comes over.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 04:13 PM
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There is, it's a city I've really been wanting to explore too. But I just wish I knew other people out there too, it would make the decision much easier. I'm glad you see my dilemma though. I think I'll lean towards the side of caution and just do my thing here, wait for when she comes around.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 05:47 AM
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Word I won't travel to her, putting her outta my mind tbh. One question tho, is it a shittest if she calls me her boyfriend? I just assumed she was trying to be funny so I ignored it completely and continued by talking about her booty and what not.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 05:33 AM
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Definitely don't want a long distance relationship. Only the opportunity to fuck whenever she comes into town.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 04:02 AM
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If it were me I would invite over one more time, try to escalate, and if there is no successs... on to the next
/r/askTRP14/09/17 02:41 AM
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A little over 7hrs. Would certainly have to make a weekend out of it. I'm hoping I can get her to come here, but I also don't want it to be months down the line when she can finally make it happen... she invited me to come up there she has a house n stuff I'm just short on cash lmao.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 02:27 AM
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Working on the plans. She lives kinda far so it isn't that easy
/r/askTRP14/09/17 02:23 AM
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Hook line n sinker.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 02:21 AM
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Strong advice. I will do exactly that.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 01:45 AM
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You a dumbass my friend. Why are you still married? If that were me I would not stay in an unhealthy marriage for my kids. That's just me though, once I become self aware of something like this, I can't move back. My kids will understand one day that I was simply not grown enough when I met their mother. Divorce and pursuing my life goals is the best way I can be a good example for my children.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 07:56 PM
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If y'all are hanging out n stuff that's kinda dickish your friends should know if you see her as someone who may be relationship material. And if she's not relationship material I say who cares. But that's just my opinion and how I would see it personally.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 07:31 AM
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Everyone has an off night and on yours you still fucked hahahahh. Seriously dude sometimes you just give off a bad vibe. Maybe it's time to balance out your life a little focusing on yourself rather than going out. Get some personal success goin on ya know?
/r/askTRP13/09/17 07:20 AM
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Jeez I hope this isn't marriage. Is all hope lost.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 07:07 AM
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How the fuck would we know. If you can be a porn director figure it out. It's just about finding the right girls. They're people you can't just convince them to do something like this that they don't want to. You need natural abilities for shot like this, not some advice on a forum.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 07:05 AM
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Guess I'm not a male. Will never throw a fist over a girl, sorry to disappoint.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 09:32 PM
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Def her seeing if you will freak out and become self conscious. Please do not contact her again. I'll bet she found some other dude to fuck. Find someone else, do not contact her. Maybe you'll crosss paths somewhere down the road, but don't count on it.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 08:58 PM
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Hahaa why are you even in a relationship Jesus she should break it off with your overly guarded ass.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 08:55 PM
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Uhh I kinda feel you. I guess start bringing friends into that part of your life? If you hang with them they're prolly a little fun? Don't be so self conscious that they are you're parents. As you grow, you will begin to see them as equals. People with flaws just like you. Get some hobbies tho as well. Invite your parents to do them with you. Don't only hang with them by doing what they want.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 08:51 PM
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Any woman either wants to fuck me or she isn't certain yet. Lmao a quote from something, but I feel it applies here.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 08:47 PM
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Maybe don't force shit? Don't do what you think you should. Feel out the situation and take opportunities to show you are good at the sex and not just a dillusional sexcraver. Nothing wrong with being a perv. Many girls undress you in their mind as welll.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 08:45 PM
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I would recommend finding reasons other than pickup to improve yourself. Once you're truly doing the right things and it is for yourself, you'll start to see results.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 08:41 PM
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Hahahha who the fuck fights over a girl. Also in my opinion, only boys fight. If you have a cause that is noble than be my guest. Exhibiting yourself as "ready to fight" all the time comes off as a confrontational prick, which you DONT want. However, what you want to do is give off the vibe that you could handle a situation where a fight may occcur. Don't act like a bitch when there is confrontation, but don't be the guy always looking for confrontation.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 08:37 PM
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If you think you need to be free at this point in your life, and like it wouldnt be smart to be tied down... tell him that. Just don't be surprised if he finds someone else.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 06:57 AM
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To me, it's all about your path. As long as you are on that path, you are already where you need to be. If you are working towards something greater, I see that aspiration as a part of you. To me, I would think it illogical to say that you must be at a certain point in your life in order for me to find you interesting. Success does not come overnight.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 06:55 AM
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Yes alright, for sure going to make a stronger effort to remember names. I like this mindset.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 06:04 AM
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I'm not necessarily good with names lol. Nicknames are always good though... and I supppse I just feel pretty redundant in sometimes addressing by their name
/r/askTRP12/09/17 05:52 AM
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Understand that you're not different. You're just another human dude. A couple friends is all you need, your post just tells me you are unhappy with your current life. Make a change if that is the case.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 05:13 PM
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Alright thaks a lot! This was helpful
/r/askTRP10/09/17 09:24 PM
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I think that asking her out would have been the good move. Would further solidify the fact that you were joking. After all the only other option is to be her friend right? She prolly won't even want to be friends with a guy who "doesn't date fat chicks" lmao
/r/askTRP10/09/17 08:23 PM
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I think you prolly don't focus on them enough. Do you comment on her body often? are you making it clear you will have a good response if she sends them? Idk I am no expert but I have success when I have the mindset of not caring what she sends as long as she feels hot when she sends it.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 07:38 PM
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What that dude said. Girls love to take nudes
/r/askTRP10/09/17 07:35 PM
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I mean some girls really are that dumb and would act like it's some "fire" lolll
/r/askTRP10/09/17 05:09 PM
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I mean sure I can tell them about my life, but it's not an ongoing dialogue that I can talk about, I'm busy making it awesome.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 02:49 AM
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But you see, I was the one asking for advice/tips
/r/askTRP10/09/17 02:48 AM
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This was such an eye opener. So many relationships seemed so complicated because it was so simple. I was not making her comfortable enough to talk about what she wanted to say. My demeanor screamed judgment because I was only focused on creating what I want. It is beneficial to shift my focus on the listening part more. Opening up to being a good non judgmental soul. Though it feels like I am betraying myself internally, it will eventually bring me the results I crave.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 01:17 AM
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I mean you must remain ignorant of the fact that your a virgin. Even if she knows, she will happily ignore it if you're having a good time. Which is why there is no reason to bring it up. It will give her false perceptions of the way your night is going.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 09:37 PM
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I wouldn't, even if she found out from someone else, it will make her uncomfortable FOR you. She won't like the feeling. Just pretend you know what you're doing. Girls will "understand". If she's sleeping with you it won't matter. Plenty of non virgins will still perform in a way that seems inexperienced. One tip: it won't just slip in immediately. Insert, slowly glide in all the way. Then get to pumpin lmao
/r/askTRP09/09/17 09:35 PM
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Lmao a dangerous vibe? I guess so but if you're pretending to be a drug dealer without even being surrounded by real drug dealers.... you look like a dumbass even if you choose not to see it.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 09:01 PM
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I mean you have to give them drugs, they will know it's flour -.-
/r/askTRP09/09/17 06:55 PM
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You're a workaholic, join the club.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 06:47 PM
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The problem here is that girls like drug dealers because they get money or drugs. If you do not actually have either, then you are still useless.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 06:41 PM
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Yea I can't imagine, I'm an average height guy myself. Any girl taller than me, it's easy to just not even think about them because I don't believe I'll have a chance. Joking about it really is a good play though because then nobody feels uncomfortable and it is not the elephant in the room. But if they are out on a date with you. I would just assume they aren't so selfish to believe your height is the issue. After all she knows how tall you are. Especially if you've met in person. Don't let you…
/r/askTRP09/09/17 04:58 AM
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Like the fact that you're wearing lifting shoes that raise you 2 inches? Why be so insecure by thinkin about that typa thing. Just date shorter girls, I wouldn't even want a girl taller than me. That sounds uncomfortable. Just my opinion I don't know what it's like to be you. Only how I would go about it if it were me.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 04:38 AM
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Perception has nothing to do with what you say. But yea that's a good start I suppose
/r/askTRP09/09/17 04:35 AM
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Your height surely isn't the problem. Just your perception of it.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 04:24 AM
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Wow this was very enlightening, friend. Your comment put me in a nice mindset right now. If what you are saying is true, I will be a much happier man in the months to come.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 03:59 AM
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I mean not really a shit test, more just a joke since she's prolly a pervert too.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 03:14 AM
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Yea behave like a man is one that I always have trouble with. I look back and all my effort was typicallly "act as a person". Allows me to relate to people I meet if all ages. I feel I'm improving though. Working out, getting my life together career wise. I need to be a man tho, getting tired of these girls calling me bud. No self confidence and I'm just too nice. Idk what else to say, I know nothing any one can say would even lead me much, it's all really personal stuff it feels I need to work …
/r/askTRP08/09/17 11:41 PM
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Ahhahaah let me know when girls actually want to be a part of your bullshit scheme. You really think you the man huh? But you have to ask a forum for permission to make your next "move" because you don't want it to transform you into an evil beta. LMAO break free of these shackles bro.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 11:12 PM
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I mean they were just trying to show they knew you weren't any kind of player or whatever. Like what they asked if you thought she was cute you said "yes" then smiled or laughed or something? Idk just doesn't sound like you really made any attempt at any of the girls in this story.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 11:05 PM
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You need to turn your life around. Find something that your passionate about. Something maybe that can relate to your studies? That will make your life maybe feel like it has more purpose. Understand too that this may lead to being single send that is the best way to truly work on yourself imo
/r/askTRP08/09/17 03:57 AM
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Anyone who is successful will tell you that you can lead in any job. Everyone starts somewhere, find an industry you enjoy and enter at a low level you lead large industries by learning the smaller parts of it to understand how it works. You gotta build your skills and grind for a while
/r/askTRP08/09/17 03:46 AM
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lol I would make fun of it cuz it's funny. Not in a mean way. Jealousy doesn't make sense cuz I don't want you to be a male model.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 08:34 PM
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True, I definitely ran away because of a faulty frame. I couldn't trust myself anymore in that situation and got scared. This happens to me often when a girl starts to ignore me. I think it would have been good to have gave her an alternate way to re enter the convo and then back off for good.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 06:09 PM
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Uhh learn to think about the last time you were drunk. Live in that mind set. Don't let it control you.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 04:00 PM
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Idk walking away seemed like the right move. It wasn't like she was embarrassed or sad. She gave of the vibe like she understood my every move, since i was trying to manipulate her. It got in my head, so I didn't think I could say anything that would dig me out of the hole. I didn't like the way the dynamics had turned so I walked away... am I way off base?
/r/askTRP07/09/17 03:42 PM
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Agree to disagree. Keep all that subconscious. Don't intentionally mimic your movements. Don't calculate them. Don't focus on the way you position your body. That will make you look awkward and it will make you more self conscious, whcih is not good.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 06:30 AM
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If you're paranoid about it, it will probably not work out. If you're confident and don't care about what others think about it, you could make it work. I for one would make fun of it so you'd need thick skin for sure.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 06:28 AM
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I would tell her what was up with me at the time. Where I was walking where I came from. Whatever bullshit on my mind idk
/r/askTRP07/09/17 06:26 AM
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Uhh they motivate you to be your best self? A relationship should be about self improvement. The right girl will lead you to success the way you are best suited to find it.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 06:21 AM
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You can do.... everything. This sub was made for guys like you, meant to change your programming. Just fully accept that at this very moment you are not even at the bottom of the totem pole. You are merely buried beneath it. Grab on and begin to climb my friend.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 06:12 AM
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Marketing is a good one. Psychology isn't bad either. Think about it as building your knowledge. Whatever you find interesting, just go for it. Visiting a career counselor would be helpful. Free at most colleges. But I would simply focus on building knowledge rather than stressing on finding the perfect career right now. It's common to struggle with career while you are in your career as well, so I'm told.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 06:06 AM
2

Also that thingyou do together can't be gay sex cuz that is gay
/r/askTRP07/09/17 05:52 AM
1

Just remember that guys like to do things together. As long as you aren't getting a guys number just to talk then it isn't gay
/r/askTRP07/09/17 05:51 AM
2

The dude from King Arthur is also in sons of anarchy. Just a good actor, girls love him. He's just a dude tho, do your own thing.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 05:46 AM
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You're totally right, thanks for explaining it like that! It's like I am thinking my chance of failure with her is lower because we got close at one point. That's just not the case I should try with other girls
/r/askTRP23/08/17 05:32 AM
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But if his friends turned their back on him and don't believe his side of the story, they are not his friends and he needs new ones.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 05:17 AM
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Fair point. I'm new here, think you could give me a quick explanation of the outcome dependence? I am forgetting about this girl until she wants to stop being cold and at least sext(she lives outta town), but I would like the direction as I practice more on new girls.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 04:33 AM
1

Hahah at that point who cares if she's using you sounds like a fun weekend project. If all you want is sex from her, literally why not
/r/askTRP23/08/17 03:53 AM
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I would think deeper about the problems you are having. None of your guy friends should give a fuck about the opinions of a girl you dated. You did something to offend your friends. Accept that and fix it. Make new friends. Find new hobbies
/r/askTRP23/08/17 03:49 AM
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If you were actin like you knew what you were doing when you clearly didn't you probably came off as trying too hard. Other than that I doubt they judged you too hard
/r/askTRP23/08/17 03:44 AM
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Would probably help to not think about victories or whatever bullshit. She's just fucking with you. Would probably be best to treat it as a joke. See it as the childish games that they are. She is a child
/r/askTRP23/08/17 03:40 AM
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