iwanttobesobernow Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	She exposes how feminism uses oppressed women's pussies to get female privilege I understand what civil rights are. I don’t understand what you are talking about with respect to abusing or respecting rights.	/r/PussyPassDenied	31/05/22 08:38 PM
1	She exposes how feminism uses oppressed women's pussies to get female privilege Who? Who am I taking for granted? Who’s work am I diminishing denying and deflecting?? You’re delusional if you think everything has been created by men .	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/05/22 06:39 AM
0	She exposes how feminism uses oppressed women's pussies to get female privilege Thank you to the men. Oh thank you Men for making me from your flesh and blood and birthing me into the world. Thank you for feeding me from your body for my first few years of life and guarding and protecting my young body during my most vulnerable beginnings. Thank you for all of the domestic work that sustained my life, satisfied my constant demands, and maintained my health safety and education throughout my formative years. Men, thank you for standing at my side as an adult, from which I co…	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/05/22 05:57 AM
0	She exposes how feminism uses oppressed women's pussies to get female privilege No.	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/05/22 04:37 AM
1	She exposes how feminism uses oppressed women's pussies to get female privilege Sweetheart, I’m showing you a proper rebuttal. You think you can just spout off whatever bullshit you come up with in the shower is worthy of discussion or even counter? Nah. This conversation has been going on since the beginning of humanity. Luckily, we have records and are able to learn what has been said and build from it, taking the best ideas from the absolute smartest people that have ever lived. I have spent a decade+ reading all of these things and for free before you offering you a gui…	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/05/22 04:36 AM
0	She exposes how feminism uses oppressed women's pussies to get female privilege I’m in the US.	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/05/22 04:27 AM
1	She exposes how feminism uses oppressed women's pussies to get female privilege Hahahaha are you kidding? If you can’t read then just say that. Jeez.	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/05/22 04:16 AM
1	She exposes how feminism uses oppressed women's pussies to get female privilege I would, but people smarter than both of us have dedicated hundreds and hundreds of hours learning and researching this kind of thing. With regard to feminism and your historical narrative, I’d read Simone de Beauvoir’s The Second Sex ch. “History” and then read the last section of the book on “liberation” The “oppressed must be freed from their oppressor” idea is almost a direct MLK quote and it is probably best credited to Hegel or Marx. You should check out Paulo Freire	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/05/22 03:55 AM
1	She exposes how feminism uses oppressed women's pussies to get female privilege You can’t just assume that women are more vulnerable than men. Vulnerable is already a term loaded with gendered connotations and there’s a lot of different kinds of vulnerabilities. Gender oppression is what is wrong with patriarchal thinking. It hurts all of us in innumerable ways. It also takes a serious amount of mental work to ignore the inconsistencies and logical contradictions of sexist oppression, so giving up patriarchal assumptions would mean more “natural” than perpetuating them. Fin…	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/05/22 03:40 AM
1	She exposes how feminism uses oppressed women's pussies to get female privilege What does it mean to abuse civil rights? If there are more rights to demand then that means they’re still oppressed? This sounds like “those greedy women. I allowed them to get jobs. Now they’re complaining about getting paid” Well duh. If we’re doing the same then we deserve the same. Otherwise you didn’t “give us” anything at all.	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/05/22 09:48 PM
0	She exposes how feminism uses oppressed women's pussies to get female privilege You’re just reducing women to what they can do for men. It’a patriarchal thinking that has been instilled in you forever, but it isn’t the only way of thinking nor the truth.	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/05/22 09:45 PM
1	She exposes how feminism uses oppressed women's pussies to get female privilege That’s not fact though. That’s a theory that isn’t even historically accurate.	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/05/22 09:43 PM
2	Financial abortion, a men's right And so do men?	/r/MensRights	29/04/22 05:40 PM
1	Financial abortion, a men's right Women are forced into maternity literally every minute.	/r/MensRights	29/04/22 11:30 AM
3	Women earned the majority of doctoral degrees in 2020 for the 12th straight year & Outnumber Men in grad school 148 to 100 Affirmative action is not relevant because almost all PhD programs only accept the students that they can provide full funding (tuition scholarship plus living stipend) for. And your anecdote is about medical doctors where as the conversation is about PhDs.	/r/MensRights	29/04/22 11:22 AM
33	Discussing future finances 6 months? How in the world have you had enough time to vett this guy?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/22 09:50 PM
5	It wouldn't have anything to do with that hateful, repulsive personality. Nah, must be the cheekbones. B*tches so picky 🙄 This guy is unhinged. He sounds like he’s got a very tenuous grasp on his emotions. I think he could be dangerous. Please be careful op if you actually know this guy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/22 10:24 AM
15	on beauty standards and wanting to opt out, way way out I’m getting a PhD and men always reduce it to how attracted to me they are. They tell on themselves.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/22 07:27 PM
108	A Professor Wasted Her Time Interviewing 46 Men About Why They Cheat We know it’s bullshit because they don’t have emotional needs. Or at least any emotional needs for women, just their homoerotic bullshit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/22 12:20 AM
9	Stop fucking falling in love with "potential"! Well my baby is only ~1.5 years and my ex and I broke up just a couple of months ago. It is gif wrenching to see what kinds of successful, handsome, smart, considerate, and all around infinitely higher value guys I am attracting now that I know it’s okay to have standards.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 05:44 PM
154	Stop fucking falling in love with "potential"! I got pregnant by one and he screwed me over for life. My poor choice is now my amazing, innocent, Sweet, perfect child’s father. I fucked up. Don’t go anywhere near potential. In fact only go for men that at a few steps above you. They have it easier in life.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 10:36 AM
12	I think he told on himself He could predict your emotions because he was causing them. He says he wants submissive and within a couple of hours your on your knees begging? Not a coincidence. And why??? Why would you miss having someone that can narrate your inner life to to? Thats your job.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/22 07:55 PM
87	Saw this on IG. Could say I'm shocked but sadly I'm not. Statistically the most likely person to sexually assault an underaged girl is her step father.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/22 10:00 PM
60	In the Spirit of Valentine's Day.. I don’t remember the holiday, but one ex (that clearly hated every fiber of my being 🤡) bought me a “stress relief” candle from bath and bodywork’s. It is somehow the most generic and thoughtless gift, while also being such a specific personalized jab; this was the candle because I need to fucking chill. Lmao	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/22 09:03 PM
250	One thing these scrotes gonna do is drop their masks. Their real intentions show when they feel they have trapped their wives. Girl run! This man literally ran crying home to his mommy. 👀	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/22 06:21 PM
1	As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behavior The most important thing here is that she doesn’t have to fix him! Why is she trying to force herself into this being her problem? Nah.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/22 06:18 PM
46	Men literally have no empathy for women: A case study on prostitution and porn Honestly the most I consider it, our globalized neoliberalism has created an entire world era defined by cultural narcissism. Masculine overt narcissism looks like LVM and the feminine covert narcissism looks like pickmes. There’s no hope.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/22 10:23 AM
169	STOP BENDING OVER BACKWARDS FOR ABUSERS WHO BEND YOU FORWARD AND SCREW YOU. She is so fortunate not to end up like Gabby Petito, yet she still wants to be accommodating to her hobosexual ex who ousted her from a van in another state. She should not tell him where she is. He obviously doesn’t care about the watch. He wants her to come and the way he is talking to her is possessive and cruel and scary. He is fucking dangerous. She needs to send that to someone that knows him, where he can get pick it up later. Also, this girl is crazy and she needs to go home. She jumps straight into staying with people that know how insanely vulnerable she is?? Why does this person worried about some dumb trash watch and yet value their life …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/22 06:43 PM
20	Text: I have a few minutes, Do you want to talk on phone? You were supposed to block and delete not just decline.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/01/22 01:58 PM
15	Spoiling men financially is always a mistake Reciprocated? Fuck, girl, it’s never even appreciated.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/22 10:53 AM
32	Man who used woman for sex is mad that she used him for sex. There is no such thing as casual sex. They will always want to keep it casual but do not like it when you treat them the same way 🤮🤮🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/22 11:18 PM
41	The "Happily Ever After" marriage fairytale sold to women is a lie. The truth is most marriages are miserable FOR WOMEN because most men are NV/LV. Society gaslights and (in some parts of the world) even forces women into settling. I’ve been thinking about this a lot too. Especially how it’s now become the PC or progressive thing to refer to your significant others as your “partner.” But this is bullshit and it gaslights women into thinking that not only are egalitarian relationships possible, but that they’re common.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 06:42 AM
1	Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about. So he can brag about it on Reddit to strangers. He can’t connect to women, they’re not human. His actual dating profile is his Reddit account.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/21 02:14 PM
4	Bizarre pickme post in another subreddit: woman so excited that the office "hot guy" flirts with her that she goes out to celebrate I couldn’t do it. I only made it to the point where she texted her husband. It was so fucking cringey that I died of second hand embarrassment. 💀	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/21 09:10 PM
11	Was anyone else CONVINCED they were asexual? Honestly I’m so far gone that even reading comments about some of you that found someone they were genuinely attracted to makes me feel icky. I don’t want anyone touching me. I can’t even imagine what it’d be like to be with someone I’m genuinely attracted to…. And I really doubt that I’m genuinely ace because I’ve been masturbating since I was 9 years old.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/21 01:20 AM
100	Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds. Okay but to clarify to the scrotes, we don’t categorize men as essentially low or high value. We categorize men according to whether or not their character, qualities, and behaviors are valuable to us and our lives.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/21 03:15 PM
96	My mentor confessed to me. He's 24 years my senior. Girl. Why are you texting a school mentor? You should have stronger boundaries in professional relationships. Only email.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/11/21 11:59 PM
18	Men’s Rights and Teaching I let infrequent and controversial statements fuel discussion and peer engagement. I would have asked if anyone had a response or I would have pushed back myself.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/11/21 02:50 PM
131	Just a friendly reminder that men will date and marry women they don’t like. Oh but haven’t you heard?? “MeN neVeR gEt CoMpLimEnTs”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/21 05:52 PM
11	How do you establish financial independence? I get paid basically nothing. I’m a PhD student on a living stipend. I went straight into academia, so I never had an actual paying job. I’m still financially independent. I just live within my means. I take advantage of any and all social benefits that I qualify for. I buy fewer but higher quality things. My entertainment budget is tiny because I study all the time. The kicker? I’m even a single mom. Honestly, I think there’s no excuse for staying in a relationship for financial reasons. You’re…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/21 01:27 AM
100	[deleted by user] Girl, you’ve got a soon-to-be trophy husband, and I’m here for it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/21 01:21 AM
39	Dating outside of your race You forgot if they watch anime.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/21 06:59 PM
3	Straight from the horse’s mouth: men who ask you to hook up with them literally only want you for sex. These comments were in response to a woman who was complaining about the audacity men on Tinder have in asking her if she “wants to fuck” I absolutely abhor the phrase “shoot your shot.” No, you should definitely feel out whether or not the other person is actually interested or if “your shot” is going to make them uncomfortable. All this phrase does is justify not giving a fuck about what the other person wants from the very beginning.”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/21 05:37 PM
42	I found FDS this month, and I have a new outlook on men and dating! I appreciate this post. It’s simultaneously obvious and amazing how FDS works across cultures and spans geographically. Scrotes can suck it, FDS is just knowing and standing by our worth. “Traditional” women are and always have been a myth.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/21 09:12 PM
28	“Under the patriarchal rules they ascribe to, providing financial support should come with the promise of control.” I wish. My ex is filing for primary physical custody. He’s delusional if he thinks he’s been doing more of the childcare than me (he’s taking 5 classes and working meanwhile I’ve been working from home). I wonder what kind of lies or dirt he’s going to dig up on me for court. Im scared.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/21 10:50 PM
122	“Under the patriarchal rules they ascribe to, providing financial support should come with the promise of control.” Consider it a blessing when they do abandon them. 50/50 standard is a huge scam that reenforces patriarchal supremacy under the guise of “equality”. It’s actually an extension of the legal history of viewing children as property. Not only do abusive and low value men weaponize custody as a means of torturing women, but also 50/50 shouldn’t be standard in court until it’s standard in reality. Men that actually perform 50% of childcare are unicorns, so the courts are really just forcing the child …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/21 08:57 PM
24	Invalidation in Friendships Wow you are an excellent writer.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/21 06:52 AM