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| 2 | How to proceed? | iwantyourboobgifs | /r/seduction | 16/06/18 01:54 AM |
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| 3 | Figure Out What Kind Of Person You Are And Then Look For Women In Places That Find Your Type Attractive.Knitting groups | /r/seduction | 11/04/23 08:59 PM |
| 8 | Do women who smile at you want you to approach them?Maybe, never know if they were recently widowed. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Getting my confidence back?Yeah, we need more advice like this. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 01:10 AM |
| 8 | Getting my confidence back?Fuck, I thought comments were gonna be "find someone else to fuck". Pleasantly surprised | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 12:52 AM |
| 1 | UBER Driver here, any tips on how to get laid/get girls interested?You absolutely will get fired for this. Do not under any circumstance make a move | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 04:58 AM |
| 3 | What does it feel like to be attractive?Yeah for sure, just seems like you should have a higher percentage. I don't know my actual stats for matches and dates, but I don't think I'd have even close to 300 matches over the years. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 03:29 AM |
| 4 | What does it feel like to be attractive?Only a 20+ body count off 1000 matches? My matches would be way lower than that, and I'd be at probably 10 body count off apps. Not all were of great quality tho. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 02:55 AM |
| 14 | Sleeping with lots of average girls to gain confidence?Yeah it's kinda weird. There has to be attraction, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with average looking girls. A "hot" girl can have a shit personality, and an average or below average can blow your mind. | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 05:17 AM |
| 3 | getting a girl vs being attractiveI needed this. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 02:51 AM |
| 7 | I was told by two girls that I give off "vanilla vibes", what should I do about this?Nothing wrong with that in the bedroom... Honestly can still be pretty tame. Choking doesn't mean choke them completely out, some just like a hand on the neck, a light squeeze. Same with slapping, it doesn't have to leave marks lol. Spit is spit, who cares, there's a lot of other fluids exchanged. | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 03:44 PM |
| 4 | To all the homies that think they can’t pull coming from a homie who once though the same. Never forget the following:Fuck I hope so | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 07:46 AM |
| 0 | How would you compliment an older woman?"With genes like that, I bet your daughters an absolute smoke show" Works every time. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 03:50 AM |
| 2 | What’s the fastest way to loose your virginityKnow "lose" vs "loose" And your vs you're, or there, their, and they're. Panty droppers! | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 05:46 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Don't go average, go old! They'll show you a thing or two! | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 03:23 AM |
| 5 | Alpha Vs. Beta: The Fight for ControlTo back this up: I went out this past weekend with someone I don't see very often. I don't know her well, but I decided to grab a beer with her and her friends. All nice on their own. The girl is a fairly large girl, but really social, and that helps me socialize in an environment that I'm out of my element in(beta). For a girl, I would probably describe her as more alpha, go getter, doesn't care what people think. Gets what she wants. Here's the kicker. Total piece of shit. Uses everybody to tr… | /r/seduction | 26/12/18 07:39 PM |
| 1 | 21 year old kissless Virgin, idk how to change this.I'm surprised that it hasn't been asked yet, but are you opposed to showing a pic of yourself so that we can tell you if you are as bad as you say you are (you probably aren't), and then we can tell you what to change in your appearance to help you out? | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 04:21 AM |
| 0 | 5'3 guy on Tinder.I was gonna jokingly tell you that you should say you're a tripod... | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Study: Women peak at 18 on dating apps. Men peak at 50.That makes sense! | /r/seduction | 16/08/18 04:21 PM |
| 15 | Study: Women peak at 18 on dating apps. Men peak at 50.This seems off, but I see it as possible. Remember as people age, they are dating/getting married/possibly having kids whether or not they in a relationship. If they were in a relationship, that could end bad and could be single moms. But generally the pool is getting smaller the more we age. 18 yo's are probably the most available. If you are a guy 18 to early 20s, you are probably going to swipe people same age or younger. If you are mid 20s, same thing. Late 20's, probably swipe around same a… | /r/seduction | 16/08/18 02:03 AM |
| 3 | An Unexpected Adventure With a German Girl – August 12, 2018Good read! I like how you handled her small rejections. I think this is a great example for people. | /r/seduction | 15/08/18 06:03 AM |
| 3 | RSD World Summit Review/Rant (Las Vegas: August 5th-11th, 2018).Maybe I saw one of the guys from the sessions. Seen some guy jump in front of 2 chicks around 3 am Friday night/Saturday morning. They continued with him. They were talking maybe 2 min before they left together. Had no idea that RSD was going at the same time I was there, but when I watched the guy, I knew he was familiar with pickup. | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 10:06 PM |
| 2 | I tried to remember every single girl that rejected me in my life and realized they're actually not that much. I actually had to make an effort to remember more than 4First line should have read "there were many more, but I only remember 4" | /r/seduction | 19/07/18 03:11 PM |
| 1 | What's going on here?Only thing I see wrong here, is you didn't kiss her. From a not as experienced guy. I think the rest of it sounded really good, slowly escalated, pulled back if she wasn't comfortable. The only thing I'm more worried about is the time apart. But if she's really into you, it probably won't matter. | /r/seduction | 19/07/18 03:07 PM |
| 4 | Feeling pretty great right now!Great advice man, I really needed to hear that again today! I always tend to lean towards scarcity. It's hard to change that mindset that there's more out there that could be better. But even if there's not, having an abundance attitude will help you not chase away the interests you do have. Thank you again! | /r/seduction | 09/07/18 10:27 PM |
| 4 | Language barrier🧒👈👉👩 👉👌👉👌👉👌👩❤️👨 | /r/seduction | 09/07/18 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Men 35-45, how do you meet women?I personally use dating apps a fair chunk, of course you don't meet a lot of people off them, and if you do, most have been flakey. I'm almost at the point of getting rid of them all together. About 6 months ago, I was hanging out with my buddy at a pub. He bumped into a girl he knew. Not attractive, but super social. I attached myself to her, as I'm generally shy to start, but am more extroverted. I would meet her for a drink at karaoke night, and usually not the type of people I like there. Bu… | /r/seduction | 09/07/18 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Why having the wrong friends will destroy your success with womenYes, it can be easy to do that. It's hard to take things as they are meant, especially if something is going on in our lives, where it hits home a little more, or it makes us feel like we aren't in control. I catch myself taking offense to other things until I step back and force myself to look at it from a different perspective. And it's really hard, especially if I'm the one to blame! Then I have to adjust my mindset, and it's not always easy. | /r/seduction | 28/06/18 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Sexually pleasing womanYeah, I'm pretty sure she is. One day she just went quiet. Not typical. Then told me what happened, slept with a guy she knew previously. Pretty quiet until today where I got a phone call and explanation of what happened. There's a chunk to it, but she didn't want to say to much cause she didn't know what was going on for sure either, but they just decided. Not that they are officially bf/gf, but just in that they are exclusive sexually because they don't want multiple partners. So no, not super… | /r/seduction | 28/06/18 02:26 AM |
| 5 | Sexually pleasing womanHahaha yeah, hooking up with this chick was probably 80% eating her out. She couldn't get enough. And I loved it. Some of the best pussy I've had. Eat her out, fuck her, then she wanted me to eat her out again. Used condom, so wasn't eating my kids. Never ate out after plowing before, but didn't change much. Barely smelt/tasted the rubber. I told her joking/not joking when she's done with this guy she's coming back, and she admitted it's very likely in that event. | /r/seduction | 28/06/18 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Sexually pleasing womanYeah, this is just some random chicks opinion/write up. It's a starting point. I probably really sucked at eating pussy when I started too. But as someone does it more, they can see what makes a girl flail or makes them bored. And yeah, that is if a person wants to go down. I don't go down on every chick, but if you do, you can make them come back for more. My previous fwb I mentioned was is now kinda seeing someone, but HATES the sex. Easily bored, doesn't know how to eat her out. In the end, i… | /r/seduction | 28/06/18 12:53 AM |
| 3 | Sexually pleasing womanhttps://imgur.com/9P5ou5U This is a write up from a chick I found way back. Some good advice. Teasing I believe is very important and it breaks it down here. By chance I was just talking to a previous fwb about an hour ago. She was telling me how nobody has eaten her out nearly as good. I was dumbfounded. I didn't think it was hard. Don't think I'm anything special. So I asked what the difference was. Apparently too many guys just give them a little rub and jam their cock in (heard this a couple… | /r/seduction | 28/06/18 12:03 AM |
| 3 | Sexually pleasing womanhttps://imgur.com/9P5ou5U This is a write up from a chick I found way back. Some good advice. Teasing I believe is very important and it breaks it down here. By chance I was just talking to a previous fwb about an hour ago. She was telling me how nobody has eaten her out nearly as good. I was dumbfounded. I didn't think it was hard. Don't think I'm anything special. So I asked what the difference was. Apparently too many guys just give them a little rub and jam their cock in (heard this a couple… | /r/seduction | 28/06/18 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Researchers have compared different cognitive strategies for falling out of love - "Negative reappraisal" which involved reminding themselves of the negative qualities of their ex partners, had the greatest effect on helping people get over a romantic break-upI'm no guru, but it's what I did after my first relationship, which lasted 10 years. Don't think we need an article or a study on it. | /r/seduction | 27/06/18 07:20 AM |
| 6 | Why having the wrong friends will destroy your success with womenThat's not really what he's saying. I'm familiar with this train of thought in business. We still love our friends and family, but if they do not share the same goals, they don't encourage you to be better. They will say things like "you work too hard/workaholic, money isn't important... etc, etc. But those who are working on being better will encourage their friends, but it's up to the individual if they want to or they possibly will try to hold someone back. Think of it this way. Let's say we … | /r/seduction | 27/06/18 05:52 AM |
| 1 | How to proceed?Good point. Never really thought about that. | /r/seduction | 16/06/18 03:46 AM |
| 1 | How to proceed?Oh yeah, I definitely understand. And yes, it's as tho she is threatening it may not work out. One of her texts read "still not sure what to do with you😂". She refers that she wants to continue multiple times, but is also "weirded out" but then says "Hahaha idk, I can't unsee it but give me time". So it appears she realizes it's trivial in the grand scheme, because I have proven myself and passed all her tests. In the end, I will probably have to make the power move, and force her on a decision.… | /r/seduction | 16/06/18 03:29 AM |
| 1 | How to proceed?Yeah, first time she mentioned it, I didn't think anything of it. But she called me and brought it up last night, saying "my day was good until my friend said...", and also brings it up again today. Trying to be firm at times, and laughing it off at others. Told her I have no resemblance to him (which I kinda do). Bugged her that her friend was just being a twat swatter. While still teasing, told her to tell her friend she looks like a gremlin for me. Trying to laugh it off and make her think it… | /r/seduction | 16/06/18 03:11 AM |
| 1 | How to proceed?That helps me a bit. Because really, after she has said her friend pointed it out, she still wants us to try, joked about being blindfolded in bed. And she still reaches out. I understand if she can't unsee that image, it could be a deal breaker, but we barely look alike, so potentially could be something else, and it is a pretty petty issue. I basically don't want to come across as someone needy and desperate, and also not like the attention she normally gets, which is a bunch of dumb fuck boys… | /r/seduction | 16/06/18 03:01 AM |
| 1 | WTF do you open/converse with Tinder women ?I just use a weird fact as an opener. Some respond, some don't. | /r/seduction | 29/04/18 05:20 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Day 2 and a 'Boop' CloseHahaha, well, seeing she wasn't letting you kiss her, the boop is fucking hilarious. It says you don't care, you will respect her decision or level of comfort, but you are still having fun. I probably wouldn't recommend it for every girl, but I'm glad it worked out well. | /r/seduction | 27/04/18 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible that my ex wants me to learn my lesson of what happened even it costs us to break apart?Good man. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible that my ex wants me to learn my lesson of what happened even it costs us to break apart?100% move on. She doesn't have the right to have some other guy and block you from being with someone and is "trying to teach you a lesson". Lesson is to not be around that type of person. I have an ex, if I made an honest mistake, she would threaten "getting even" or do something to intentionally hurt me. That is not the type of person that you should be with. Even if she says she loves you. She's playing you. You don't deserve that. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible that my ex wants me to learn my lesson of what happened even it costs us to break apart?My personal opinion: 1) Stop talking to your ex! 2) Don't show pictures to her of your rebound. 3) Who cares if she's "testing" you? You aren't together, it sounds like you probably never should have been. If a chick is doing all that, I find her toxic and distance myself. Do not give her ANY information. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Stds and virginsIf either of you have cold sores (herpes type 1), it is a possibility to transfer it to the partners genitals. To my understanding, it remains as type 1, so recurrence on the genitals may or may not happen, seems more likely they will develop cold sores if they haven't had any previously. | /r/seduction | 22/04/18 07:54 PM |
| 1 | I have inner game, highly developed inner game, but why do I not get results?Oh my God, this is hilarious. You're saying you are super confident and awesome, yet I go into your other posts and you're all like "I need confidence". From 1 day ago! I do not believe a word you say. All I see is a total douche canoe. Quite frankly I think you are a child, possibly quite literally, but at least mentally. If you are 18 or older, I feel sorry for your level of idiocy. Drop the ego. Everyone is trying to help you, then you refuse it. Take it or stfu. | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 05:15 PM |
| 1 | 6th date/hangout still no sexI think this was a good way to put it. Right now with my schedule I only get to meet chicks off dating apps. Not my preferred way. But when I visit them and they tell me the shit they go through, it's like holy shit, guys don't know wtf they are doing. And it makes it harder for the rest of us. And I don't think I know what I'm doing! Hell, I got laid just because I didn't try having sex with a girl I met out partying. She saw I respected that she had a bf, ended up breaking up with him 2 days l… | /r/seduction | 29/03/18 07:22 PM |
| 19 | 6th date/hangout still no sexWhy isn't it normal? She doesn't want to just fuck people who are going to disappear on her. If you don't want to commit to a relationship, don't, keep her as a friend. She owes you shit at this point. You aren't entitled to sex because you "hung out with her". Go find someone else, who does want fwb or one night stands. This is the problem with 99% of guys right here. It's ridiculous to me how women get treated by guys just out to fuck. | /r/seduction | 29/03/18 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Who else doesn't believe in horoscopes? Need some advice..OP, you are putting way too much value on her opinion, which doesn't have any merit. The day you were born means fuck all, and honestly, if she believes in astrology, she means fuck all too. It's obvious from the post, nothing will happen, if it does, it's doomed. | /r/seduction | 13/03/18 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Who else doesn't believe in horoscopes? Need some advice..Agreed, if they are into horoscopes, I would get the fuck out. They aren't living in reality. | /r/seduction | 13/03/18 06:40 AM |
| 4 | This is one thing that annoys me and it's advised on Seddit all of the time: behaviourI taught a girl cribbage then railed her | /r/seduction | 13/03/18 12:58 AM |
| 3 | I have a hard time being flirty. What are some good general flirty lines I can use to show interest? (Not pick up lines)To me that doesn't seem like a question we can answer. Flirting is being playful with the conversation, based on what is said, you can twist it on her and tease her. To give you a "line" isn't really going to benefit you in this situation. | /r/seduction | 17/02/18 03:07 PM |
| 3 | F how to ask ex Bf if keen for friends with benefitsAs a guy, just ask. Be straight up. If he thinks there will be issues, he will let you know. But he probably would be down, depending on circumstances. Probably depends on if it was a mutual break. Or how he feels if there's other guys in the picture. Maybe other guys more experienced in this reddit will have a different opinion. | /r/seduction | 17/02/18 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Would you stay friends with a girl you want to hook up with?Side note, she also wants me to come on a hot holiday with her and her friend from overseas, so I can "suck on her friends tits", as she put it. A platonic female friend who still likes you can still help you! | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Would you stay friends with a girl you want to hook up with?Well, I wasn't ok with it at first. On new years I found out she has a fuck buddy, and I was trying to fill that position originally, as both myself and her were both out of a relationship and not looking for anything crazy. And I have slept with her, and she gave the impression it would happen more, and also sent mixed signals. I realized it probably won't happen again before I knew of her fuck buddy. Killed me inside for a bit. But then I realized it's ok for her to not be interested, just as … | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 09:34 PM |
| 1 | What is an absolute deal-breaker in the women you date?Religious | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Would you stay friends with a girl you want to hook up with?I was in the same spot as well, best thing is a bit of space. And don't think that you don't want or don't have time for more friends. Get over her, then friend her. Who's to say she won't introduce you to someone else in the future? | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 08:33 PM |
| 3 | When is too soon to date exclusively?Just wondering, do you think girls don't test and make you prove you are worth their time? It sounds like you are basically saying women can test us to the ends of the earth, but we have to settle for what we can get. It's a 2 way street. I want to make sure who I find is worth dating. I don't want to ask someone to be exclusive just to break up 2 weeks later. You need to qualify someone before you become exclusive. And probably over a little more time. Probably a couple of months. As well, peop… | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 06:25 PM |
| 49 | What does a typical day with your girlfriend or fwb look like?I think I know why you are fighting with your gf | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Is getting into a relationship/sex all it's cracked up to be?Hey no problem. If it can benefit 1 person, I'm happy. | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Is getting into a relationship/sex all it's cracked up to be?Trial and error friend. Look up coach Corey Wayne. Understandingrelationships.com. Solid advice in there. Not typical pickup, just out to get laid at the bar stuff. It's stuff that has helped me. Personally I'm in the same boat, new city, don't know anyone. Cold approach I haven't done nearly enough of. I've used tinder and bumble. As an average at best guy in my 30s, matches are limited, but it gets me in front girls. Get practice, get confidence. | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 10:33 PM |
| 5 | Is getting into a relationship/sex all it's cracked up to be?Yes and no. Relationships have their benefits, but don't rush into them. Source: I'm just out of a 10 year relationship. It's important to remember that you need to date or just hang out with different girls to find what you like and don't like. Don't try for a relationship because you think they are supposed to be great and your friends "look happy". There is a lot that happens behind closed doors. You need to find what makes you happy, and it could very well be a relationship, and for most peo… | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 09:49 PM |
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