iwftmir Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Field Reports		iwftmir	/r/seduction	28/07/21 07:06 PM

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1	Approached a lot of girls in the club this weekend just sounds like Hungary approach was on a girl who wasn't attracted to him and so he was kind of wasting his time trying to game her as of course it was never going to make her attracted. But with the other girl, she was clearly very attracted to him, likely before he'd even opened, and so his game worked	/r/seduction	31/08/22 12:30 PM
1	Why pickup community is dying ? another fucking dreamer! lmao. 85%!! https://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/p6vzx2/is_rejection_still_normal_even_if_you_do/h9g2eiz/	/r/seduction	18/08/21 08:21 PM
–	Why pickup community is dying ? Bingo. I cringe so hard that some people buy into this idea that girls are basically blind, don't know when a guy is good looking and don't care either way. It's like saying 'girls don't care about how food tastes, bro. They aren't like us!!' when you see girls spitting out food that doesn't taste nice haha	/r/seduction	17/08/21 09:31 PM
–	Why pickup community is dying ? Around 60 from cold approach. Maybe 3 from 'other' Yes I'm sure you and everyone else on seddit has a 1000 slaycount, but I know it's pretty 'decent'. Paul Janka for example says he has a 4% hit rate. He approaches 100 girls and sleeps with 4 (if you believe him) And that's with his 'advanced skills'. It really is just a numbers game. And one that I love. But you really can't force sexual attraction in a girl. A pushpull line is no match for genuine physical attraction	/r/seduction	17/08/21 06:08 PM
–	Why pickup community is dying ? Let me guess! Incel? lol nope. Actually a fairly decent lay count. I approach a lot! Unlike men, women don't perceive us through their eyes but rather through the emotions they feel Compete bullshit. You should get a good looking friend and hit the bars with him lol. But you wouldn't even need to do that if you group up with sisters!	/r/seduction	17/08/21 05:52 PM
–	Why pickup community is dying ? pushpull doesn't work tbh. Like, if a girl isn't attracted/thinks you're ugly or whatever, using a pushpull line on her is obviously not gonna do a damn thing haha	/r/seduction	17/08/21 05:33 PM
1	John Anthony Lifestyle’s 8 week mentorship course john anthony doesn't have game. He's kind of the laughing stock out of the dating coaches from what I hear And his ex business partner exposed him to be using sugar babies and paying them, HIs lay count (obvoiusly made up btw lol) is mostly paid for/sugar babies	/r/seduction	09/08/21 10:04 AM
–	How many do I need out of the four looks, money, status and personality/game do I need? from what i've seen over the years, money is meaningless if you're just talking about hooking up. Money is only really an issue in relationships with older women. If you wanna bang hot 18 year olds, you could be bordeline homeless and it doesn't matter Status - kind of similar. I mean, if you are famous, that is amazing and a HUGE help, but what are the odds. Not something to worry about That leaves looks and personality. Looks are kind of the most important, beacuse if she DOESN'T think you are…	/r/seduction	01/08/21 05:53 PM
1	Ladies, how do you signal that you are open to being approached? I do'nt wait for choosing signals either, although it's probably not a bad idea. If you approach a girl who isn't attracted to you (which will be a hge majority if you're not very good looking) then no amount of game ever actually helps. Mystery method with negs and DHV stories about pre selection, or Todd V style verbals etc. I've tried it all hahaha. Girls who aren't into you don't wanna hear it. They just wanna get away. But i've managed to bang a shit tonne of girls due to having no approach…	/r/seduction	01/08/21 05:06 PM
–	What exactly are we losing when we get rejected? you're clueless lol	/r/seduction	31/07/21 10:25 PM
8	Life is so unfair this is as surprising as a girl saying 'It's not fair. I went too a bar and all of the gorgeous slim 18 year old girls with big boobs and pretty faces with blue eyes were getting all the attention'' It's like 'no sh1t!!'' haha I mean, I think its' SO WEIRD that some in the PUA community have been so brainwashed about this stuff because some PUA coach told them 'girls don't care about looks' lmao. Nobody else would be surprised that good looking guys have girls chasing them. Good looks is literal…	/r/seduction	31/07/21 08:44 AM
–	What exactly are we losing when we get rejected? technique only matters a little bit IF you are her type and she's attracted. And at that point it's pretty hard to mess up anyway, so not that important	/r/seduction	31/07/21 08:33 AM
1	Why these guys suck at game https://i.redd.it/vzxdh0bm9d401.jpg	/r/seduction	30/07/21 08:05 PM
15	What exactly are we losing when we get rejected? i think guys give themselves a hard time sometimes as they wrongly believe that there's something they could have said to make her not reject him	/r/seduction	30/07/21 10:25 AM
2	Are most interactions out of your control? his method from his other post is: Opener - DHV story - False time constraint - Propose the date - Figure out what day she's available - set the date, (time if possible) and activity you'll be doing - get the number - bounce	/r/seduction	29/07/21 08:12 PM
–	Are most interactions out of your control? that's what game is though, tbh (negs, cold reads, etc) - attraction material. Otherwise you are just 'talking too a girl' and not 'running game' His method is fine. The problem is he approached a girl who wasn't attracted. Just gotta move on to the next	/r/seduction	29/07/21 07:30 PM
–	Cold approach stats in London, UK UK girls are tough as they think it's weird to be approached, but apparently if you read mysterymethod you can bang 5/5	/r/seduction	29/07/21 06:33 PM
5	HELP: I’m absolutely terrible with women, it’s almost hysterical. doesn't even seem like a 'game' issue or that you're 'terrible' with women Like, hot girls are throwing themselves at you despite your lack of game All you need to do is go along with it! (like when the girl invited you back, you sy 'ok!' and go with her lol. Then back at her house, just kiss her) Some sort of therapy maybe I guess	/r/seduction	29/07/21 06:56 AM
–	+250 Cold approaches and I am still struggling with conversations within the first 2-3 minutes So i've been at this a few years and I still the exact same issue as you (albeit I do nightgame as opposed to daygame) If you research this and read books (or even ask the people here like you have done) the answer that receive will always be 'Make assumptions'/cold reads ''So, you look like you do something creative for a job'' etc (idea is that questions are bad and this is not only somehow superior, but also falls under teh umbrella of 'attraction material!) Still not sure i believe that, but…	/r/seduction	27/07/21 07:03 PM
1	Hundreds of first dates, here are my tips give more advice about actual conversation. I don't get how it would work. It would seem odd to not ask her what she does and stuff wouldn't it? I always hear this 'never ask a girl questions, especially about her job or hobbies or age or whatever' and always think 'well what CAN I ask her?!!!'' lol People always say 'talk to her like you talk to your friends', but with friends we have lots of mutual memories and friends and stuff, and that tends to take up lots of our convos. ''You seen Andy mu…	/r/seduction	21/06/21 09:33 PM
1	Things I learned as someone mildly autistic to have successful dates Don’t ask the same old boring crap like ‘what do you do?’, ‘do you like xyz?’ or so many overused pick-up lines… People get asked these questions so many times and it feels like an interview and will not stand out So what should we ask?	/r/seduction	28/05/21 11:51 PM